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a8 tribune august 5 1987 lev wayne ree jt csuoi is in united chuicli rev wayne reed and wife marie formerly of whuchurchstpuffville returned home last week and took up residence in thenew stouffville united church manse at 50 linden lane kev and mrs reed are shown here with sons michael peter and philip at the conclusion of sundays service vii jim thomas by jim thomas h stouffyillerev wayne reed and family are home the new pastor to the cbngregationof stouffville united church with wife marie and sons michael 13 peter 9 and philip 6 have moved into their lovely gingerbread- styled residence atd linden lane rev reed conducted his first service sunday 5iplspl while the manse is hew to waynes marie and children the town is not at least nof to mom and dad roth were students enrolled at stouffvilledist secondary school marie pattenden graduated in 1969 wayne be- lohgsto the class of 170 both have universi ty degrees nowbegihning his eleventh year in the ministry rev reed was located in the town ofgaspe quebec when the call came through from stouffville difficult decision it was a difficult decision admits wayriebut my two years in gaspe were well spent the benefits seemed to tip the scales in favor t the mbve marie said they appreciate the closeness of toronto andthe accessibihty of such services as the royal ontario museum and the science centre also with eldest son michael about to enter high school the adjustment should be no more diffcult they feel sipfei they readoy accsp the challenge wayne and marie i appreciate the concern shown by thepastoral committee the mangj se marie says suits their needs perfectly wayne reflects otfhismvolvenienrwithy stouffville united church during his teen years he was then active in the hicunder the leadership of jim and mae richards and john and fran wylie sgfpi pastoral care important while he looked out from the pulpit bna number of strange faces sunday wayise says hes anxious to meet both established familiesahdnewcomers personaujihirf considers pastoral care a high priority wayne also wants to become invbfvtld with the ministerial association whei ings reconvene this fall hes aire several of the towns pastors rev jim bine of the missionary church was a class- mate at stouffville high wmm for wayne and marie extracurricular activities include crosscountry skiing and camping the boys join in too 7v0sm rev reed says hes looking forward tbh- several busy and rewarding years at stouff-v- ville united church if the conclusionfftpl comparable to the reception then theyears willbe well spent weve been warndyrei ceived he says wayne and marie are an xious to reciprocate i believe in an open- door policy rev reed conclude friendship required in marriage by margaret foth what was your first year of marriage like i asked on their anniversary better than i expected my buddies had said stuff like youll be sorry youre heading into trouble no more fun ahead i really didnt know what to think but our first year has been great its fun talking to dave and ellen about their first year of marriage because they both light up daves friends had painted such gloomy pictures for him that he had entered marriage a little like someone stepping into a house of horrors but after a year dave says what hes enjoyed most is being together and doing things together ellen says i like hav ing someone to do special things for and having someone do spe- cial things for me since i know this couple well i appreciate the fact theyre not talking about a year without real- life problems theyve had their share including taking on a new job and having a car smashed in an accident they must also cope with difficult schedules so fair queen pageant aug 28 the markham and east york agricultural society markham fair is holding its annual fair queen contest friday aug 28 location is the general ex hibits building at the fair grounds the 1986 reigning queen is lori thompson rupert avenue stouffville lori will participate in the ceremony and pass on the crown to her successor sponsoring firms are invited to pick up entry forms from either committee chairperson linda lewis 4791576 or secretary- manager tony arkell at the fair office g401576 to be eligible girls must be be tween the ages of 18 and 24 and reside north of steeles avenue and east of yonge street each sponsor must provide an identifying sash the gala event beginning with a social hour at 630 will include a chicken barbecue dinner at 7 and a dance at eight tickets are 12 per person ballantrae fun day aug 15 ballantrae the ballan trae and district lions club will host its annual beef roast sat aug 15 the event beginning at 2 pm will include hot air balloon rides helicopter rides hay rides and live entertainment roast beef dinners will be served from 5 to 7 pm the cost is 6 adults 4 for children the location is the ballantrae community centre aurora sideroad between hwy 48 and the ninth line were learning to make the most of our time together the say some see this time squeeze as a danger one woman now mar ried 30 years says heartfelt conversation simply cannot be squeezed into little snatches of time i think many young cou ples face this dilemma dale and jenny are another couple who have reflected on this time bind before marriage they spent great quantities of quality time together jenny recalls we were bestfriends and just preferred to be with each other id even push aside my college studies to make time to be with dale our relationship was more important to me than the differ ence between an a and a b however after they were mar ried jobs and outside activites be gan to take on more importance dale said our time together consisted of hurried meals be tween dashes to the grocery store and long office hours we werent pushing other things aside to en joy a bike ride or picnic in the park or a stroll through the neigh borhood after dinner a family counselor says that a good marriage involves having more fun with each other than with any other people its a rela tionship built on friendship he counsels couples to learn to enjoy each other by sharing the impor tant things in life feelings as well as tasks and fun jenny and dale looked for tasks they could do together they started a garden and found it was a fun way to relax enjoy each others company and work to wards a common goal any kind of work or play done together is good for a couple it doesnt matter what it is so long as there is a common effort and a common achievement its a big chance to begin think ing we instead of i thats one of the tasks of the first year of marriage but becoming as one does not mean dominance by either partner for two people with individual strengths to live together will mean compromises jenny and dale each have strong opinions and their share of disagreements their first conflict began so simply each one knew the right way to do dishes jenny rinsed the dishes in hot water dale used cold jenny wanted the dishes dried and put away after dinner dale thought letting them set to dripdry was just fine after all thats the way his mother al ways didit each difference seemed so im portant and the more one of them saw the other doing things the wrong way the more irritating it became when they could finally laugh about it they admitted that neith er was right- they were just used to different ways i just want him to meet me halfway jenny told her mother marriage is a 5050 proposition isnt it her mother disagreed in some areas you have to give 70 percent to get back 30 in other areas you may be able to give only 20 percent which means dale must supply eighty stop deman ding miracles one counselor calls this the bitter price of discovering each others uniqueness he says there is no road from the moun tain peak of courtship to the mountain peak of marriage rela tionship without going by way of the valley building a marriage is learning to work together holding com mon goals truly being for each other in this climate love grows developing roots as well as blos soms buy direct from the grower save box plants clearing 500 flowers vegetables your choice 10 boxes for hanging baskets buy 2 get 1 free of equal or lesser value shop rain or shine in our seven greenhouses 75000 boxes to choose from decoration sunday special mixed planter l allan uimderhill flowers greenhouses 220 main st n open ouir mondiy to tn s am k s pm uxbridge bbbb3bb uat 0 fm s pm bbbbb83 town of whitchurchstouffville 1987 final taxes 1st instalment due august 21st 1987 2nd instalment due october 23rd 1987 final tax bills have now been mailed ratepayers who have not received iheir bills should make immediate application to the municipal tax department supplementary tax bills under section 32 omitted 1986 and 1987 assessments and section 33 added assessment for 1987 have also be mailed these tax bills are payable in one instalment and due august 21st 1987 the penalty charged for non payment of 1987 taxes is one and onequarter 1 percent imposed on the first day of default and on the first day of each month thereafter failure to receive a tax bill does not eliminate the responsibility for payment of taxes nor the penalty charged for late payment office hours monday to friday 830 am to 430 pm 6401900 8952423 19 civic ave stouffville ontario box 419 l4a 7z6 after hours mail slot east side of building at planning dept entrance ee blackburn amct treasurer tax collector