when the right boy neets the right girl miles do not a barrier make even miles of ocean it was during a visit with relatives in ontario that pretty jane- carter of z newbom england met ft robert bellamy son of stuart and june bellamy rupert avenue stouffville although the holiday here soon ended the relationship continued resulting in their marriage july 18 1980 at st mat thews church worthington england with rev david v osborne officiating i the bride and bridegroom travelled to the church in a 1923 primrose yellow rolls- royce accompanied by relatives and friends martin kamps roberts close friend and best man travelled to england especially for the ceremony as did roberts parents- jane is the daughter of mrs joan carter and the late ronald carter 11 school lane newbold england her at tendants were janet cooper a cousin jane dawes claire richards and hannah jenkins the bride was lovely in an ed wardianstyled full- length white nylon dress with an em broidered silk yoke she carried a bouquet of gold roses cream freesias stephanotis and lilyofthevalley her bridesmaids wore green and white floral dresses- with white floral headdresses following the wedding reception was held at the- harding arms kings newton england the happy couple left on a- robert bellamy jane carter spans an ocean the trlbune sept4lw t what do we mean by the phrase the extended family it is certainly one we have beard maav times it means first of all people caring people children parents grandparents aunts uncles cousins friends it means that parents no longer have to go it alone it means that children can have more than one or two adults on which to depend for the parents it means there is help available after all parents are people with needs too they need time to be alone separately and together time to be persons as well as parents too many parents feel they should make their children their reason for living only to find that when they grow up and leave home to make their own lives they the -parents- have nothing left that is too heavy a responsibility for a child to bear the extended family can solve the dilemma of finding enough time and energy for both children and parents wouldnt it be nice- to nave someone take over for a little while before the situation overtakes you as part of an ex tended family a child will develop and learn in a varied environment rather than in one restricted to a very limited ouuooksbe wfll learn that love and af fection need not be confined to a special few but can be shared among many new experiences and different lifestyles will help to broaden his her understanding of the world sbe will discover too that hisher needs do not have to either be met by one person nor go un satisfied this promotes a healthy attitude toward relationships later in life when essential emotional needs are satisfied in childhood the adult wol not still be searching for someone friend or mate to meet those needs nor will sbe expect that one person to be able to meet adult needs it is our belief that a healthier more depen dent child will be the result of living within the care of a responsible extended family and that the members of that family will find more joy than responsibility prepared by the children marketplace sell plates for souvenirs atmarkliam flower show stouffville participants in the august flower show sponsored by the markbam horticultural society enjoyed excellent success in the invitational class for area residents lillian carr placed 1st- alice vague second and delia paisley third there were 185 entries in total in cluding 137 in the specimen category 21 each in the decorative and junior divisions and six in invitational elaine hutcheson collected the largest number of points 1 other winners follow decorative judges choice pam wright specimen best in show lylia jones juniors highest points joanne wright 1st sheryl wright 2nd debbie offord 3rd in the category for district 5 the stouffville horticultural society placed first w wvmwmw as church services stouffville in december whitchurch- stouffvilles allstar midget hockey team will leave for haninge sweden completing an intercontinent exchange that had the haninge club as our guests in december 1979 the cost of such a venture is considerable to help offset this ex pense the committee is selling souvenir plates a third in a series that commenced with sum- mitview school and the cnr station back in 1977 these plates contain a sketch of the stouffville arena a window display has been set up at hudson florists and the plates may be purchased there thursday today and friday sept 4 and 5 the price is five dollars five hundred are being made available to the general public for more in formation the contact person is cathy sutherland 6403862 robert bellamy rupert avenue stouffville and jane carter of newbold england were married july 18 in st mathews church worthington england honeymoon trip to the now residing in moselle valley in thongsbridge eng- germany they are land the bride is the daughter of mrs joan carter and the late ronald carter newbold england the groom is the son of mr and mrs stuart bellamy stouffville pleased to be in attendance as guests at the ceremony were marguerite and noreen burkholder of stouffville canadas employment tax credit program has been extended ou can its simple how would you like to deduct as much as 3120pr morefrom your federal income taxes its simple expand your work force by creatins new jobs and you can also create a tax break for yourself up to 3120 for each new employee hired providins that the job is created as a direct result of the employment tax credit prbsram and its simple to do you just fill out one sinslepase form full details are available at your local canada employment- centre employment and immigration canada lloyd axworthy minister emploi et immigration canada ltoyd axworthy mmistre canada gormley missionary church sunday sept 7 1980 950 am family sun day school n 11 am the goal of my ministry 730 pm can you do anything god wed- 8 pm adult prayer service st marks catholic church stouffville pastor rev j adams 6406665 sunday mass schedule saturday evening 5 pm sunday 1030 am held in st marks school elm road ih memorial christian church revjsmall malnstouffer sept 7 1980 io am sunday school 11 am worship 7 pm fellowship information 6103257 stouffville missionary church 159 main street west 6403911 rev j hamilton n minister 4166402413 mrjclubine associate minister sunday september 7 1980 945 am sunday school for all ages bus service available 1100 am gods or ders for the stouffville missionary church 700 pm knowing the will of god special music by soloist sandra grant wed 1000 am ladies bible study 700 pm christian service brigade ages 8- 15 pioneer girls ages 7- 14 730 pm adult youth bible study hour fri 730 pm youth night youre always welcome at the missionary church stouffville fellowship baptist mainobrien rev dc payne pastor 6493156 11 am worship a rejected man 1200- communion- service 7 pm hour of praise a secret of happiness wed 8 pm prayers bible study fri youth night phone for information all welcome christ church v anglican- rev philip poole 6401461 sunday sept 7 1980 trinity xiv 930 am holy com munion v summer sunday school programme nursery services provided youth bible study following service thurs 8 pm adult bible study tues sept 9 advisory board 8 pm sunday school classes begin september 14 christ is risen stouffville united church 34 church st n 11 am service speakers mrs joyce lockhart chaplain at- sunnybrooke hospital you will be welcome bloomington christian gospel church revcwsorley pastor 945 am sunday school 1100 am devotional service 700 pm gospel service wed 8- pm prayer meeting fri 730 pm young peoples springvale baptist church gormleystouffvillerd at 6th cone kennedy rd rev tom hamilton sunday sept 7th 945 am sunday school 11 am the vines the branches 7 pm keys that conquer habits wed 730 pm- family prayer meeting st james presbyterian church 101 main st east 6401195 rev tedcreen you are invited to an important series of messages for today questions of value sept 7 right or wrong how do i know sept 14 values for todays children and tomorrows sept 21 is censorship the apswer- sept 28 whatever happened to honesty services at 10 am full nursery facilities special service wed- sept 10 at 730 pm with lillian dickson of the mustard seed mission a friendly family church vlvlwi rd mccormack memorial church pastor rev wgawa 945 am- sunday school mr parlane chalk artist 1100 am the grace of god mr mrs paul vannottosim special music mrs ann rose nursery supervision and junior church provided i billwttrai no 48 no 401 730pm f september 7th sun 945 am sunday school a class for every age 1045 am worship service 600 pm evangelisticservice stouffville pentecostal pastor murray steacy chueh 460 main st stouffville 6405656 rt