10 the examiner Monday July 23 1979 wedding album MacNairHutchinson lune Hutchinson and ine MacNair were marr iied June 22 ma ceremony at St larys Anglican hurch in llalhousie NB The bride is the daughter of Mr and Mrs Ross Hut chinson of Barrie and the groom is the son of Mr and Mrs sborne MacNair of llalhousie NB They exchanged vows and rings before ltev ili ally iory and liev Murray Graham Following the reception at St Johns Presbyterian hurch the couple left for wedding trip to tntario and Quebec They now live on fi haleur Bay at iharlo NB lie is employed by the New Brunswick International Paper of Tanada and she is ati xltray technologist at St Josephs Hospital in llalhousic NB Secretarial program graduates Lonelyheart ads popular feature in Soviet magazine MUSFUW Alt your usual Soviet item Man tt years old height feet inches with higher edu cation wishes to get acquainted with girl or woman not older than Slit7H She may be di vorced without children or one child If this appeared in Western paper readers would hardly give it second glance Though late Ill coming Love Ads for the lonelyhearted now haVe crossed the Iron turtain Several Soviet journals wor ried about the plight of their countrys growing singles popu lation toyed With the idea of placing personal classifieds in their pages then rejected ll Now the Lithuanian maganne Family publishes personal ads every month at the equivalent of US each MAYHEM FROM SIAlil From the start its matchmaking mayhem am 30 average height slender figure blondc said one womans ad divorced six years ago but it wasnt my fault live rather well but miss human warmth and fam ily would like to haVe man whom can lean on like to love and be loved dream of single person widowed or ii oreed between 40 and 50 years old am not interested in his appearance education or mate rial llrlllll seek kind honest principled responsive man who likes order and cleanliness Familys editorial board guarantees the privacy of everyone who submits an ad No names or addresses are published and potential mates can write in care of box number Readers are something about themselves their age profession mlucation as fll as their likes and dislikes physical and spiritual attribtites and the It was not magazine been urged to tell important features of the person they would like to meet The editorial board however reserves the right to correct stylistic errors and delete items that offend human digr nity There were some bugs that needed ironing out The first month this ad appeared and prompted huge response am widow am 48 am of average height and have raised two sons ne of them is married and the other is finish ing school live in fourroom apartment have Zhiguli car and brick garage So seek friend for life Ma ny men saw that wealthy widow was up for grabs tn the Soviet Union saying you own car large apartment and even better garage puts you itito the count rys elite The poor woman got so many answers that soon she told the magazine to stop giving out her address She couldnt sort out which respondents were inter ested in her and which in her possessions As result the magazine de cided not to publish any more Love Ads containing such at tractive bait SOON SNflBllEl What started as an iii teresting experiment soon snowballed into huge success striking chord in the hearts of Russian singles who often are neglected in socialist society But the editorial board was not prepared for the flood of mail that descended on their cramped tworoom offices During ninemonth period Family received 680 ads that were paid for and many more that were not The magazine can only pub lish between 10 and 20 in each issue so only 139 personals have appeared so far and the waitinglist isa yearlong Answers have been pouring in 1400 to be exact which means each ad is generating Graduates of secretarial programs at Georgian College in Barrie recently received certificates from Joe Leech at centre assistant director of adult training At left Linda Stewart and Karen Parr completed the dicta typist program while at right Diane Boylan and Linda Paterson completed the bookkeeping clerk program The secretarial programs including accounting clerk and clerk typist programs are operated by the colleges adult training division with assistance from Canada Employment Centres Students have up to 40weeks to complete their courses some 10 anxious replies Most of the personals are sub mitted by women which is not surprising since the 1970 popuv lation census showed that there were 170 single Russian women for eVery 100 single men Only 23 of the 139 published ads were from men who on the whole were very demanding about their mates One even dictated that his sweetheart must wear her hair in braid But women eagerly replied to this ad am 30 welleducafed know two foreign languages like literature travelling and chess have calm nature and dont drink or smoke would like to get acquainted With girl who has romantic mood and humanitarian education would be glad if she plays chess anti is not taller than feet inches since am short dont care how old she is where she lives and what her financial condition may The newspaper Literatur naya tlaxeta which reported on the Lithuanian liove Ads claimed that classified were piling up not just by days but by hours and that residents of other Soviet republics also were submitting personals The journal now is preparing questionnaire for Singles whose ads are published to see if they successfully met mate Georgian College secretarial program certificates were presented recently to front row left to right Louis White Pat Dimitrick Wondy Grey Susan Manitoba obstetrician says Complete attitude change needed before Canadians accept role of midwives WINNIIEG li Medical personnel trained in Britain aii Ireland say midwives could perform useful service in Manitoba But the acCeptance of mid Toronto man donates kidney to save his sons life ltle iNltt 1lt Peter Alley gave tip healthy kidney lucsday to save the life of his 20 ycarrold soti Toni In moment surgeons describe as thrilling Icter Allcys kidney joinuf io loins inain blood vessels but still resting on the youths body before final attachment to his bladder began to function if place of Toms two diseased kidneys Its not such great thing to decide to give kidney to voiir own son Alley said before the operation When else do we get chance to really do something for someone else What else cati we ever give that really need Hi loui Alleys three year strug gle with kidney disease left the lnivirsity of Toronto student unable to pass poison wastes from his body without the help of an artificuil klltlil machine he had titct using for the Iail tight tiiotitti llt herald ook itrologrt and tiritrjilatil surgeon at toronto Western Hospital estimated Iom could survive on the dialysis machine for only about 10 years Mliilllllllllli LIFE His fathers gift could give Tom at least twice as long life ook said For leter Alley professor of administrative studies at York iiiversity lll loronto and head of his own management tillslll laiit tiriii surgery still carried some risk The normal risk of death from an operation Is one in 2000 Peter Alley left and son Tom 20 relax in Toronto hospital Thursday before an operation to transplant the fathers healthy kidney into his son Peters kidney will replace Toms two diseased organs and allow him to live twice as long as doctors predicted he would survive on kidney dialysis machine CP Photo patients Cook estimates He said Alley will hurt while recovering from the operation and it will take three months before he can return to work You cant ask anyone to do this Alley said They have to offer themselves But kidney from relative has the best chance of taking The only difficult thing is dwtding when to take three months out of your life Its lflllllliitlll loss of income li ill The younger Alley suffers rare but hereditary kidney coir ditioii called Alports Syn drome lts connected Willi hearing loss which afflicted llllll when he was eight He wears hearing aids in botti cats His kidiicvs Werent affected until he was 17 He was jogging miles day He bent down to take off his sneakers at the end of run and totiiid his ankles liaillv swollen He has jogged since linonto Westiiti is among ltixlltillil of hospitals ill the couii ti that gtpttlalIA in livuig doiiot kidney tiausplaiits lfiere so much more risk took said Its so much worse for both the donor and his relatiue it the kidney is re Jitltil SAFIEI til MUNIIIS WASllthllth iAli Fewer accidental deaths occur in liebruary tliaii lll any other month of the year says the American ouncil of late lnsur ance It says latest gowriinicnt statistics show that February usually records about 7400 accidental deaths in the it white July records more than 10000 annually the highest of any month Wives would requue com plete change in attitude on the part of patients and doctors says Dr Robert McMillen an obstetrician and gynecologist at the Winnipeg Health Sciences Cent re At home the system is such that midwives function very well in taking care of normal deliveries he says People here are more accustomed to havingdoctorsatbirths At two Belfast maternity hos pitals where he was an intern 50 to 60 per cent of deliveries were performed by midwives Dr McMillen says In Manitoba the provincial medical act states that only doctor is entitled to act as midwne even in the noth where doctors are scarce Only in an emergency are other people trained or un trained allowed to presideat the birth of child Alicia Read former British midwife who works in the ma ternity ward at St Boniface General Hospital in Winnipeg says women should be allowed to have midwife if they want one But she adds Im not sure the women of Manitoba are ready for it There seems to be more complications as if the women here arent as fit as those in England MONTREAL itlt group of toiicordia University re searchers has found drug to make rats kick the drinking habit The researchers intend to test the drug on humans early next year hopeful that it will cure alcoholism effortlessly and even allow rehabilitated alcoholics to become social drinkers llr Zahuaii Amit head of the research team says the group has had fabulous success using the drug on laboratory rats iiiaili physically dependent on alcohol tiit four month pi Zoltan and back row Lynda Fletcher Georgia Kelly Cathy Hemphill and Sally Sternberg all of Barrie Executive members have been elected for the newly formed Essa Township Historical Society reports the Simcoc County Historical Association Helen Wanless was named president at the societys in augural meeting at Woods School Other executive members are Eugene Smith first vice engag ew executive president Norma Hammond second vicepresident Edward Banting treasurer and Noram Currie recording secretary Among the audience at the meeting was Neil McBride who as boy attended school in the same building Brian Baker an Examiner corresondcnt exhibited col lection of photographs of Essa Township ement EckhardtMinshall Mr and Mrs Rolf Eckhardt of Midhurst announce the engagement of their daughter Reglindis to David William Minshall son of Mr and Mrs Lloyd Minshall of Lakefield The wedding is to take place Aug i8 at 330 pm at the Lutheran Church of the Good Shepherd in Barrie Drug helps rats kick habit Cure for alcoholism riod length of time cqtuvalent to 15 years in human terms The drug called FLA57 in terferes with the chemical reaction liquor triggers in the brain and eliminates the high or feeling of euphoria drinker normally enjoys Amif says When the ding was adminisr tercd daily to the rats they lost interest in alcohol If the same affect could be produced in hu mans alcoholism could be cured Amit says All treatment procedures to date have been inadequate said Amit who has worked for it years on why some drinkers become alcoholics and on how to combat the problem Music anthology Six actors from Erindale Col Tege in Toronto return this sum mer to Barries Grove Park Hometo present The Almanac an anthology of the last 60 years in song dance and drama The performance begins at pm on Tuesday Admission is $1 for seniors For tickets and information phone Joan Walker at 7261003 Ann Landers Many females overexposed Dear Ann Landers If you agree with me please print this and if you dont just skip it because the last thing want is to be bad influence on my child or anyone elses am getting lot of flak from my college freshman daughter in regard to whether or not girl who wears bikini is an innocent little thing or smart little teaser dont buy the line Dirty thoughts are in the mind of the beholder am fed up with this wornout excuse for all sorts of exhibitionism Isnt it about time we woke up to the fact that girl in bikini is sexually stimulating My daughter says Only to men with evil minds What do you say Ann Concerned Parent Dear CP Im with you especially when it comes to those generously endowed dames with wear postagestamp bottoms with spaghettistring bras When she bought the bikini she knew how much of her would be on display Too bad these overexposed females dont know that womans greatest asset is mans imagination Dear Ann Landers This may sound ridiculous coming from fullgrown woman but in the last few years have built up terrible fear of anything which might cause me harm never used to be afraid of anything but now at 32 have had four major operations six broken bones and have been in to auto accidents always passenger Last year was disabled in bad fall which left me with parttime game leg and bum back live in constant fear that something terrible will happen to me or to one of my children cant afford shrink and free doctors already have an overload so new patients dont stand very good chance of getting an appointment Ive tried selfhypnosis and prayer but still have so many fears think Im going crazy even tried talking to friend but she laughed and said Nonsense Youre one of the strongest people know My husband thinks Im terrific He calls me The Rock for Gibraltar Can you give me any advice Im to the point of becoming recluse Scared Stiff In Califomla Dear Scared Stiff You live in Los Angeles There are several chapters of Recovery Inc in your city Call 213651 2170 Tell the party on the line where you live and ask when the next meeting nearest yéur home will be held and where Then G0 Recovery Inc is free This organization has been god send to thousands of people who fit your description It operates on the same principle as Alcoholics Anonymous people helping people with similar problems There are over 1000 chapters in the US Help is as close as your phone book Dear Ann Lenders friend has bet me $20 that prostitution is illegal in the United States Im sure read somewhere that it is legal in Nevada My friend is 21 attractive well stacked tired of slinging hash and says if Im right shes moving to Las Vegas Please check this out and give us the straight dope RRl Dear RRR Prostitution is legal in some counties in Nevada but not in Clark County where Las Vegas is located If your friend is serious about going into the oldest profession hope she will consider all the pros and cons According to those who know there are lot more cons than pros hum New factions everywhere At party the othernight the smokers and the non smokers parted and lined up on either side of the room Splintering off these two groups were those who believed there was truly gas shortage and those who didnt buy any of it Dividing again were those who didnt want to bring children into world without Salt agreement and those who were willing to take the chance figured had pretty good evening with nonsmoking woman who belonged to grocery car pool and was preg nant was wrong She turned out to be tub freak am an orthodox shower person had never actually talked to any length with tub person before but knew all about them They were the classic stereotypes Without asking knew she drank Perrier had knots between each of her pearls still used bath powder watched Dick avett read Willa Cather grew her own dill and had doll lamp by her bed told her couldnt work up enthusiasm for the soakingin ahottubjumpinthejacuzzilastoneintothefamilytu hastostand syndrome had tried it couple of times and pretended to have good time but the truth is never know what to do with my hands Also my body does not have the insulation to walk into tub of boiling water without bloodcurdling cry coming from my lips She said she knew was shower person by looking at me The type who couldnt stand to have phone ring without answering it used the same towel to dry my hair and body slept with her watch on put onions in every salad collected swizzle sticks and threw change in the bottom of her hand bag She said showers were fine if you were washing sand off at the beach but frankly considered them the turning point of decadence in the 20th century Whatever turns you on she said and wandered off to an other group May the phone ring the next time she has jet spray in just the right place Pollys Pointers Precaution important POLLYS PROBLEM DEAR POLLY work at small restaurant and we disagree over what foods should be refrigerated The type of mayonnaise we use says nothing about refrigeration and we also wonder about ketchup and mustard think they should all be refrigerated after opening CAW DEAR CAW There is no question about mayonnaise It is big source of food poisoning and should only be taken from the refrigerator when being used This pertains to all foods made with eggs and dairy products As to the mustard and ketchup discussed this with home economist who took it up with still higher authority Their opinion was that ii the mustard and ketchup are kept out on the tables during the day it would be best to leave them out at night rather than run the chance of temperature change They should be reasonably safe ii used up in short period of time such as week or two POLLY DEAR POLLY want to tell Mrs RR that those large mesh bags fruit and onions come in are ideal for moving yard plantsThe large clump of home soil around the plant can be easily moved and relocated by replanting with the mesh bag intact NORMA DEAR POLLY Have you ever baked in frozen store bought pie and found the crust edges burned before the center was brown solved that problem by making collar out of the rim of pie tin Now when the crust edges are as brown as like lay the collar over the edges and let the center brown more always have beautiful pie Ind save the collar to use over and over HH DEAR POLLY have pair of light suede shoes that could not get clean until my shoemaker told me to rub them with sandpaper It worked just great MRSNIJL Pollys note Try Imnll place first and be sure the sandpaper is not too coarse