Museum prepares for spring festival local groups to decorate entertain the examiner Friday May 1979 fes Editor Claudia Krause7266537 Simcoe County reports that horticultural societies in the county will again be donating floral ar rangements to decorate the Museum museum for its annual spring festival May 27 Barrie Concert Band will entertain with light semi classical music in the museum grounds Barrie Boys Choir and Park Street Collegiate Choir from Orillia will sing popularsongs For young children Marion Home Ownership can made easier with deductible mortgage interest Ron Stewart cares Authorized by the official District Choose from our large selection of Potted Plants Floral Arrangements Hanging Baskets Rose Bushes SilkPolyester Arrangements Wicker Furniture Gift Certificates Available Or from our OUTDOOR CENTRE Rose Bushes or Trees or Box Plants for the Garden Free Delivery to Barrie lnnisfil Twp EREDS FLOWERS Ciwmcx llwy II Stroud Open cm9 pm days week CANADA nounmv um Iona mm LTD ORILLIA amiBARRIE have lowered the And lowered prices on Unmistakably the most comfortable Re shoes that have ever gone on feet gavzcsiï¬ioo In tan pair reg price navy white Narrow and medium WldlllS Ladies ZEyelet Tie adies ForL Reg $5000 Tan blown Sand suede Beige mile Brown suede White leather NMdtu flee Brown leather Navy Medium nuillis 00 Blue suede Brown leather $39 on Medlum WIdths Brown Suede itll Llllszalhelp people who are on tho thIOASdXI For short time maxim mm Only Fora short time only 15 Mississaga St West Downtown Oriliia Drilln Sonare Mall Hayï¬eld Mall Barrie short time only 00K LTD Prices will probably never ever be this low again Hislop of Scarborough known as the Doll Lady will use her collection of handmade dolls as props to illustrate stories of pioneer days and the art of be ing good neighbor Mrs Hislop dressed in pioneer costume will present her show for children in the museums cultural wing during the afternoon During May in the cultural wing oil paintings by pupils of Nanci McLelland of Painswick former coordinator for the countys recreation depart ment will be on display Ms McLelland is wellknown for her enthusiastic approach to craft development and teaching skills in both art and craft says the museum newsletter The 35 paintings now ex hibited are the work of her beginners and intermediate adult classes Included in the show is collection of Ms McLellands own apple head dolls needlepoint and finely crafted miniature furniture by her husband Duncan By CLAUDIA KRAUSE Of The Examiner Its the feedback from people that keeps Suzanne Benbow go ing She says she sees and feels results in people who attend her seminars Theres an energy They leave smiling and the next week they come in smiling Mrs Benbow who lives near New Lowell has taught night school courses in Collingwood for the Simcoe County Board of Education On Saturday shell hold daylong session at Georgian College Barrie She believes in and teaches positive thinking Typically shell try tests on students such as asking one to turn to the next and list that persons pluses Without preparation anothers scrutiny could make you feel uncomfor table but long before Mrs Benbow builds up interpersonal trust and honestya Know yourself she says She claims her programs can help people develop positive inner resources and attitudes Students of all ages will learn Mme Positive thinking helps they have intuitive abilities with which they can explore their potential SUZANNE BENBOW gets feedback Ambulance ready to go Mabel Ware of Alliston commercial palnter adds lettering to new $8000 ambulance donated to the Barrie branch the Rotary Club of Barrie St John Ambulance by while Phyllis Moody of the local St John Am bulance brigade admires her steady hand Examiner Photo Admission through Concert Series Ticket or at Door Barrie Collegiate Band Concert WED MAY 16 RM Central Collegiate Auditorium Featuring Internationally Famous Saxaphonist PA UL BR 0D Reserved seats Phone 7374240 Adult 500 Student 31 WAN EDKOFF presented by Gryphon Theatre Foundation FRIDAY JUNE 11979 830 pm Georgian College Theatre Hwy 400 at Duckworth St Barrie RESERVED SEATS $950 and $7 50 available at Foundation Ofï¬ce 103 Dunlap St Same PHONE 7284613 Hare you bouglll your rvplion Theatre subscription yet GREAT SHOWS for its little its $2 Although meditation is an im portant part of her course Mrs Benbow says some people have problems with the word meditation suggest relaxation periods You can control lot of imbalances by controlling your thoughts and slowing down Find set time every day quiet place to be for five or 10 minutes to start Tune out everything and go within your depths Use an inspirational saying to help you block out the ouLside debris What you say is op tional she says Theres power in constructive thought she says Positive thinking can be used to help people diet improve themselves and their relations with others Mrs Benbow notices some who attend her course start to look at themselves for the first time in their lives then learn to enjoy others more US CERTIFICATE Mrs Benbows background in positive thinking includes counsellors certificate from Ford College of Parap sychology in Harrisburg Pa and individual counselling work She noticed people were say ing the same things had similar needs and problems and could probably learn from each other Since then she has been leading groups and developing her own credentials She says she has learned much through contact with people who attend her courses Shes against expounding in tellectual theories on powers of the mind if you intellec tualize you lose the essence of the feeling Attempts to overcome her own shyness helped spark Mrs Benbows initial interests in positive thinking Back in the 1960s living in Toronto she found people cold Now people are her main in terest and she believes every person needs to be reminded of his or her importance PARTTIME EM PLOYMENT Courses she leads are her parttime employment love my home life which includes her husband an English teacher three dogs two horses four cats one pet duck and planned additions for en arfutureshc says Fomore information on rs chnbows daylong Know Yourself seminar call Georgian College at 7281951 The seminar begins with lecture on the intuitive nature of man backed by current research Cost is $8 Experiments stimulating discussion dialogue and shar ing will provide new op portunitics for selfexpression in every facet of life people EIplaoes Spring tea Parkview Centre 189 Blake St Barrie will hold spring tea and bake sale on Saturday to pm Amission is 75 cents Member are asked to bring donations of baked goods on Friday or Saturday morning Field trip Saturday Brereton Field Naturalists club will meet at Centennial Park Barrie at 730 am on Saturay for field trip to Coll ingwood and Tiny Marsh Anyone interested is invited to come along Hike leader is Vi Broderick For more information call Anne Hughes field trip convener at 7284653 Planting trees Rotary Club of Barrie members and helpers will be planting trees on the shore of Kempenfelt Bay Saturday beginningatQam Members are asked to bring their own wheelbarrows shovels and picks and meet at the old locomotive Bill Clark is heading the project Flea market Painswick Horticultural Society will hold plant sale and flea market on Saturday at De Jongs Garage in St Pauls Garage sale The SnoVoyageurs will hold garage sale on Saturday from am to pm at 98 Marshall St Barrie Anyone wanting items for the sale picked up can contact Bill Wilson at 7263786 Plants craft sale Zeta Lambda chapter of Beta Sigma Phi sorority will hold garage plant and craft sale on Saturday am to pm and Sunday Proceeds go to charity work in Barrie The sale will be held at 46 Peacock Lane Barrie Items available will include refrigerators stoves cribs table and chairs tires carpet sweeper afghans games dishes books and more DANCE OF THE ORIENT BAZAAR lMPORTED METALLIC FABRICS RECOROS E1 BOOKS MAGAZINE SUBSCRIPTIONS lMPORTED FINGER CYMBALS JEWELLERY COSTUME IDEAS Belly Danccrs Dream All Studen ts of Oriental Dance Groups Ilelcome BAZAAR HELD MONDAY MAY Nth EVENING PHONE IRISHA ommi om normioiiit Ar 120651 AFTER PIA FOR DETAILS Sews own brassieres Dear Ann Landers cant believe Comfy the big busted gal who goes bralessl is actually comfortable used to wear 38D it should have been 38E but there is no such size Ive never gone braless even in swimsuit since was fully developed at age 16 Those pounds of flesh are too heavy and painful to hold up without help even if the help is made entirely of nylon and spandex engineered like corset designed by Torquemada few years ago on day when the temperature was in the 905 just thinking about synthetic fibres gave me rash remembered the breastbinders for nursing mothers made of straight strip of fabric wito added shoulder straps rein forced with pins So tried it making buttons and button holes because sugar sacks are no longer to be had and sheet ing is too tight to pin it was relief but it cut across my shoulders so cut the straight line into curve Six bras later had design that suited me very well and Ive been wearing it ever since The blamed thing has 18 darts and three separate pieces of tunnelled elastic but its sure worth it JB Dear JB if your handmade bras have solved the problem fine but for heavybreasted women who cant sew Im sure welldesigned bras are available in lingerie shops and department stores In extreme cases breastreduction surgery can be performed Your family physician should be able to recommend plastic surgeon who does this procedure Please dont ask me for names Dear Ann Landers In December of 1978 you printed letter from man whose wife had three affairs in eight years He said she had an insatiable desire for sex and needed to be adored 24 hours day He understood and forgave her You called him candidate for sainthood Shortly after another letter appeared from man who de scribed his wife as dead in bed It seems her selfimage was greatly enhanced when she had an affair with another man who proved she was very much alive in bed She at tempted to pass along to her husband the techniques she had learned from her lover but he was not interested Your candidate for sainthood may well have had the same undesirable characteristics as the husband in the second letter uncaring inadequate selfish and ignorant of womans needs plus stubbom unwillingness to fulfil them If my husband had paid enough attention to me would not now be involved in an exciting whirlwind affair with an other man after seven years of marriage My husband is fine father and an excellent provider but he is lousy lover and deaf to my pleading for emotional stroking and physical tenderness Print this please ive got lots of company Its Me Talking Honey Dear You There is some validity to your complaint and Ive heard it before But perhaps your teaching approach was crude and damaging to his ego Be more subtle and seductive Keep trying Dont give up Erma Bombrfl Tribute to mothers My mom was visiting the other day and in anticipation of Mothers Day started to sing traditional song that has always given both of us lump in our throats is for the Cloupons in her cupboard is for the alf price sales she haunts is for her Einergysaving tactics is for her Amtiextravagancc is for her Piatiencein recycling means Yiears of saving foil and twine Put them all together they spell MOTHER but that is not the bottom line Mom has always been sensitive about my lack of thrift The day she saw me throw away zippered bag of plastic that had only held shredded lettuce she told everyone have no daughter She was lost in the war have to admit that perhaps thrift skips generation Somehow never shared my mothers zeal for con servation She invented knots in Shoelaces The first time saw whole pair of shoestrings thought there was something wrong with them She launders aluminum foil and dental floss and hangs them up to dry She cuts the bottoms of plastic tubes of hand lotion rinses out bottles of bleach and liquid soaps and saved every box she has ever received anything in She sin cerely believes that toothpicks were put on this earth to dig lipstick and chap creams out of the tube in all the years have known her have never known my mother to throw away rubber band Her gifts are in boxes that have been in reruns for as long as can remember No leftover is too small to save No remnant is too skimpy to hang onto No sample is sparse enough to pitch out Shes wonderful manager nononsense saver and credit to homemakers everywhere But when she is around me she drives me crazy trying to convert me to Savers Paradise see youre still throwing money down the drain she said plucking piece of chicken skin out of the sink When eat it it settles on my neck said As she shook her head started to sing is for the Cioupons in her cupboard is for the She got lump in her throat got mine elsewhere Pollys Pointers Offers tip to start pen DEAR PIlY Quite long time ago there was Pointer in the column telling how to get ballpotnt pens to start writing have forgotten what it was but now have several pens that will not write so would appreciate hearing this again Ms lS DEAR MRS LS Warm the end of the point with match or place on stove burner that has lighted pilot Be careful not to leave it too long or the plastic will start to melt When pen is warm it may not write immediately but keep at it for several strokes POLLY DEAR POLLY read the Pointer suggesting lacquering over chalk pictures to preserve them worked With the Girl luides here in Canada for several years and we used hair spray on our chalk pictures and find it works great and is less expensive DEBBIE DEAR lllY If you crochet and do not have case for your crochet hooks just tightly crochet piece about by7 inches and then push your hooks through some of the upper loops If the piece is crocheted tightly enough the needles do not pick any work in progress that may be in your work bag if PATTI DEAR PULLY When storing opened boxes on shelf always put the open end away from the edge factng backwards so if it is accidentally knocked over the contents do not spill directly on the floor FRIEND DEAR POLLY instead of tackling all my spring cleaning at one time and lctting things pile up clean one room thoroughly each week and the others stay in better order too straighten drawars closet shelves etc on weekly basis Make list of the things to be done within specified time and as one is finished cross it off and you have more of feeling of accomplishment BEATRICE DEAR llllY Apples Will not crack while baking if you peel oneInch band around the middle of each of thun My lct lccvc is With the TV hostess who keeps yakking while guest cook is trying to demonstrate the procedure My question is what is newspaper coupon clipper MRS DEAR POLLY My beautiful hardwood dining table has several white rings on the top that were evidently caused by hot dishes have tried every thing including furniture polishes and toothpaste but nothing helps What can do CLARA DEAR CLARA paste made of cold cigarette ashes and butter and lots of elbow grease always solves this problem for me POLLY