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6The Barrie Examiner Monday October 18 I976 OPTIMRS EX ECUIIVF Inn The members are seat ed from left Marin Jenn ings vicepresident and Brenda Harper president The ptiMrs Club of Barrie installed its new executive Friday night during dinner and dance at the Continental Millet Donna Rx Standinu Anita secretary and Hrockiiian treasurer aminer ihotov MELLO BLENDS DRAW WINNER Irma Drummond president with $500 cher ue prize of the Mello Blends Chapter from third annua draw at of Harmony Inc presents Oakley Park School Pro draw wmner Shirley Priest ANMJANDERS Repeated injuries are no accident Dear Ann Landers have problem dont know how to deal with It seems every time Im with my No boyfriend get in jured mean physically Its never anything serious but bad enough so Im concerned So far Ive been hit in the head with frisbee twicei had car trunk slammed on my shoulder been burned by his cigaret te and knocked out of swingin hammock cant count the number of times Ive been clipp by an elbow or stepped on My guy enjoys beer but he never seems to be drunk or out of control Somehow feel his beer drinking might have something to do with these accdents What do you think Ann Duchiiig But Not Grouching Dear Ouch Freud says There are no accidents Take it from there Dear Ann Landcrs Please do me great big favor and reprint the article Is It Love Or Infatuation need it now You guessed it amr Testing Dear Happy to oblige LOVE OR INFATUATION Infatuation leaps into bloom Love usually takes root and grows one day at time Infatuation is accompanied by sense of uncertainty You are stimulated and thrilled but not really happy You are miserable when he is absent You cant wait un til you see him again Love begins with feeling of security You are warm with sense of his nearness even when he is away Miles do not separate you You want him near But near or far you know hes yours and you can wait lnfatuation says We must get married right away cant risk losing him Love says Dont rush into anything You are sure of one another You can plan your future with confidence Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement If you are honest you will discover it is difficult to enjoy one another unless you know it will end in intimacy Love is the maturation of friendship You must befriends before you can be lovers Infatuation lacks confidence When hes away you wonder if hes with another irl Sometimes you even check Love means trust You may fa into infatuation but you never fall in love Infatuation might lead ou to do things for which you might be sorry but love never wi Love lifts you up It makes you look up It makes you think up It makes you better person than you were before eeeds go to the Mello lllcnds to further their work in the community Examiner Phliliii tit lord ltoach was one of the models to show mens fashions from his own shop during fashion show din ner and dance held at the Barrie Country Club Friday EFFECTIVE PARENTING quickn easy rec1pe for raising children By ROSEANNE McCABE Examiner Staff Writer Households have everything from instant oatmeal to instant shampoo but there is still no quickn easy recipe for raising kids Effective parenting takes little longer than overnight to gel Who in Grandmas day would have thought parents would take lessons on how to get along with their children Its happening ask Shelagh Blenkarn Mrs Blenkarn is instructor of an effective arenting course Thursday nig ts at Georgian College There are courses everywhere and there is real need for them said the wife and mother of two children Remember the generation gap Now its the com munication gap which is the inability to express needs This creates problems in families she said The course is based on the principle that we all have needs the child and the parent said Mrs Blenkarn believe that if you are open about how you really feel child will learn to say how he feels That is how rapport is established lTSOlT Momisni and dadism or the traditional idea that parents Needlepoint instructors Hy EDNAALDWELL ltTIlRIE training school for needlepoint in structors will be held Nov 24 and 23 in luthrie community hall Luca teaching classes will be set up later Dorothy Campbell and Mildred Jones from the Guthrie Womens Institute will attend and they can be reached for more information The Oct 13 meeting of the Womens Institute was held at the home of Laura Coates pewter bowl gift from aledon WI in return for pleasant August gettogether at Springwater Park was used for the first time to gather Pennies for Friendship Members travelled in five cars to see the McMichael Canadian collection at Klein burg ur sponsorship of our adopted child Tin Oi Fong of Macau was renewed for another year through the anadian Save the Children Fund lNSllllTlI DAY Monday Oct 18 at pm is the start of Womens Institute Day at the Simcoc County Museum in Midhurst ome and see the displays including one prepared by the Keinr penfelt District The Simcoc area convention will be held at St Pauls Chur ch rillia on Nov and Special guests will be Mrs Iler bert Maluskc president of the Federated Womens Institutes of Ontario and the Lieutenant Governor of Ontario Pauline Mctlibbon ltlIMlIMltltANClI The annual Remembrance Day service will be held Sun day Nov at It pm in Oro township hall The Institute members discussed good ltlltlISllltL with Vilda Campbell as convener The group also debated the idea that fathers should do their share of household chores and child care FALI rAsnioN sno evening Mens and Womens fall and winter clothes were resented from The Town hop Gord Roach Mens Shop and Simmons and Co Examiner Photo SIIELAGH BLENKARN forsake all for their children is out she said People can slip into the habit of doing everything for the children Personal sacrifice can row into type of slavery whic can range rom parents denying themselves well deserved weekend away from the kids to simply letting the kids watch what they want on television You arent doing them any favor by letting them have their own way you only make them more selfish she said But shes dead against authoritarian parenting Children have to be en couraged early to make decisions and to be responsible An authoritarian approach only causes rebellion and resent ment For example demanding Mn lt1 MRS Ferguson Mitchell Square Baptist Church Oro was the scene Sept II when Elaine Audrey Perkin of Shanty Bay and Frederick John Ferguson of Elnivale were married Rev Mitchell of ficiatcd Soloist was Mrs lerry Shclswcll of llawkestone ac companied by Mrs Jim Mercer at the piano The bride is the daughter of Mr and Mrs Alfred Perkin of RR Shanty Bay and the groom the son of Mr and Mrs John Ferguson of Elinvale The bride wore gown of white satin with lace yoke and bertha collar The waistline and long sleeves were decor ated with lace flowers The line skirt fell to chapel train with lace flowers at the liciiiliiic and on the train She wore lace embroidered headdress with seed pearls and waist length veil of bridal il lusion trimmed with lace She carried bouquet of white or chids with pink roses whitc ERMA BOMBECK CB may be answer for starving mom Hy ICRMA IlOMISIIt There has to be some future for ll radios other than flush ing out the hiding places of Smokey the policci and broad casting to breathless audien ce that youre on the way to Grandmas for pork chops As usual Ive thought deeply about the possibilities and it oc curs to me CB conversations could be an absolute godsend for families tra pcd in car with driver to says Tell me when you see place to stop and cat Some men are wonderful about pulling off the road every three or four hours but some of us are married to robots They require no food No liquids No brcatlicrs Thcir stomachs never bloat Their vision never becomes blurred from hunger Their legs never cramp They consider key in gas station as wall accessory CB radio communication might just be the answer if women all over the country would seize control of the speakers This is Famine calling anyone Famine calling anv lIIII iiainc your sevenyearold son to cleanuphisroomorelse tells him you may be boss but that doesnt make you right As result hell do it but not if he can get away with it HONESTY It might work better if ou tell him it really bugs you en his room is mess Kids respond to honesty she said lot of discipline problems simply disappear when the resentment goes But what about that in corrigible tyke no one can han dle It takes time believe peo Ie are basically good Chi dren especially want to please Mrs Blenkarn became in terested in parent effectiveness training at an appropriate time when she ecame mother Before that she was home economist She taught high school in Hamilton and Toron to where she also did guidance counselling Aside from her own reading she has taken various courses in effectiveparenting PATIENCE The main steps toward im proving communication with the child include recognizing he is an individual developing rapport through self expression and being an active listener she said It takes time and patience person senses when you accept him as he is and responds to it child is even more honest than adults for the most part she said But as parents we have to let them see our failures and successes It is very important that children see their parean as human beings if lllN llIltllS Siringard Studio lhotu Perkin pinnochia mums and ivy Maidofhonor was Sandra Stoddart of Shanty Hay Bridesmaids were Mary Fcr guson sister of the groom of Elmvale and lloria lreavcs sister of the bride of Midhurst Flower girl was Andria lreaves niece of the bride It ing bearer was raig Whethain of Aurora nephew of the groom Best man was Hot Spring of Elmvale Ushers were raig Ilcacock of Elinvale and Craig Shelswell of Ilawkestonc The brides mother and the grooms mother received guests at the reception at the Driftwood llawkestone utoLtown guests attended from Peterborough Aurora Hamilton Fort Erie and Toron to The bride wore beige suedc jumpsuit with brown and rust color accessories and white corsagc for the couples honey moon to the United States and the east coast onc oiiicinanyone Mavliavl MavDavt Ilrcak Famine this is ac tus latcli llioenixi What seems to be the problem You tiecd Tijuana taxi wre ckcr Negative actus Patch lot crazy buffalo husband at the wheel who wont go to 100 restroom slop stop to get gror cerics eat or for that matter make pit stop gas roeeandBEDSPBEADS Studio The new executive for the Barrie Civinette Club was in stalled at the inaugural ball held at the Shriners Hall on John Street From Left Karen Tomlinson president Joan McAuley past presi dent Ann Marie Rutherford vicepresident Francis CIVINEIIE EXECUTI VE Goedemondt director and Rose Marie Richardson who gave the creeds Examiner Photo Seven new members join May Court Club of Barrie Seven new members were welcomed to the May Court Club at the groups recent meeting in the lounge of Grove Park Home President Peggy Harris in troduced Elizabeth Voight Kathy Leslie Pat Stinson Gail Ilarley Anne Thurgar Lor raine Adams and Barb Tiffen Members volunteered to price items donated to the Gingham Door Nearly New Shop Shop convener Joyce Forster said there has been large amount of donations and pricers are needed Hours for the Gingham Door are Tuesday Wednesday and Friday from to pm Thursday from 10 am to pm Saturday from 1030 am to pm Peggy Geddes club treasurer and Gladys Jansen shop treasurer have financial reports Erica Curtis corresponding secretary read letter from the Childrens Aid Scoiety concern ST JOES NEWS Volleyball team wins midget title By MAIN SllAlthESSY More news from St Joes am happy to tell you that our boys volleyball team won the midget title with come frombehind victory over team from Central olccgiate at the annual Central Redskin volleyball tournament held Oct ongratulat ions guys The teams for clan sports have been picked and games are being held in the gym every noonhour On Oct we had Mass followed by an assembly Our guest speaker Mr Hopper talked to us about the goals of the United Appeal Friday afternoon there were various activities taking place throughout the school and the money raised will go to United Appeal Many clubs are now under way and will be reporting on their activities as they come up hope that each club ac complishes what it sets out to do So long till next time Julia Lawrence is railroader TORONTO CP Julia Lawrence is railroader with difference Miss Lawrence 21 is one of few women who have recently been taken on railway yard helpers and train brakemen in once allmale preserve Miss Lawrence was one of the first women to complete Cana dian National Railways three week course on braking and yard working The lure of travelling beyond the city caused her to become brakeman she says Herjob in volves working on passenger or freight trains on their way to Montreal Windsor or even Win nipeg was the first woman on the main line Miss Lawrence says with pride She says it does not really matter to her whether shes helping to take diesel out of the shop for passenger or freight run 0n the freights can ride in the engine like it better there can see where am going ABOOSE IS BORING Riding back in the van the modern name for caboose is boring she says because it is like riding in the back of the bus you cant see anything Miss Lawrence and other women working on the trains and in the freight yards of Met ropolitan Toronto have some veteran railroaders shaking their heads in wonder They could not have done it 20 years ago walking the box cars narrow running boards the narrow walkway down the tops of oldfashioned freight cars orjust taking the work said one oldtimer But the bosses an other yard helpers and brakemen feel the women have shown they can do the job and are treating them as equals Miss Lawrence who is believer in equal ay for equal work says she ell into rail roadiniby accident My rother Althinks anyone can do job if they want to and CUSTOM MADE DDAPEBIES Total Decorator and Coordinating Services Choose from an outstanding selection of excellent quality materials and patterns from Canadas finest suppliers Personal service on largo or small enquiries Tracking and instaliatlon as required Phone lOIS noarmsou or drop in to the Studio RR1 Hwy 93 at Crown Hlll Only Miles North of Barrie it does not matter if you are woman or man So he sug gested this MONEY IS GOOD The money on the rails is good She says yard helpers and brakemen can make anywhere from $400 to $1000 every two weeks de nding on what runs areavaila lc Grace Mills CN spokes man said hard worker may earn as much as $25000 year Miss Lawrence says the men never questioned whether she had the intelligence to do the job but only whether she was strong enough She says she still gets teased lot but her coworkers treat her well At first she was terrified of jumping on and off moving box cars thought would quit Those are giant moving machines and it can be very dangerous at times am careful always careful always watching But Miss Lawrence is not the only woman doing railwayjobs Susan Reidlinger is CN policewoman who patrols the yards and Union Station in Toronto Joanna Bartock is in training as railway policeman to be stationedin Hamilton ing the group therapy program for teenagers The May Court Club has contributed funds to this project The Grove Park Home pro ject is convened this year by vicepresident Diane Henning Corsages were presented to six residents of the home for their birthdays at an afternoon par ty Kempenfelt Choir of Senior Citizens entertained with Gladys Manning at the piano May Court members served tea at the party The staff of the home made large birthday cake Upcoming events include an afternoon drive to see the fall leaves with tea following at the Berkeley House the Oc tober birthday party with Rosemary Quinn May Court member as soloist accom panied by pianist Muriel Hodgins the May Court Hallo ween party for residents of Grove Park Home Oct 26 con vened by Irene Jefferson and JoyceSeagram Joyce James will teach yoga to residents one morning week Nancy Douglas said the garage sale Oct was suc cessful She thanked Reta Davies Olive Bell Jane Thomp son and Barb Graham for co operation Mrs Harris reported on the regional conference of the Association of May Court Clubs of Canada held last week in Toronto Barrie delegates were Peggy Harris and Dianne Hen ning JUST MOVED What you need right now is helping hand lie sure to get in touch with the Velcome Wagon hostess She can help you get to know your new com munity as quickly as pos sible 7261454 or Phone 7286331 Sears Hair Bazaar is pleased to announce that Mrs Janice Cox has ioined our staff of hair stylists She welcomes new cllents and old at her new location Call 7264451 Ext 221 for appointment Soars Barrio Georgian Mall 509 onflold St