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WaV Everybodys con artist The art of oonnin is ro babiy as old as original simgnd according to Dr Ralph Dent behaVioral psychologist every one does it The baby learns crying brings mother The child who misbehaves gets attention As parents we have to know how to get the behavior we want and its easy if we know what the hell we are doing she said Dr Dent spoke Saturday to about 350 delegates who at tended the Canadian con ference of Parents Without Partners held at the Continen tal Inn The Barrie Chapter was host professor at the University of Toronto Dr Dent has worked with prisoner rehabilitation and is ex perienced in industrial gsychology and research He as taught at Canadian univer sities for 19 years He has also worked with innovation pro grams for Latin American countries and has published more than 30 programmed lear ning courses in communication chemistry and basic sociology Dr Dent also took part in the television series The Human Journey sponsored by London Life Dr Dent who studied under Skinner at Harvard University believes behavioral psychology can be applied in every situation The trouble is we have to be aware of who is shaping whom he said When mother continues to ick the baby up when he cries is teaching mother to come when he cries The key word is reward How do you stop the baby from cry ins You simply stop rewarding him he said RECOGNIZE WANTS Dr Dent said parent should recognize the childs wants and save it for when the child is ac ting favorably can remember mother who was concerned because her little girl kept stickin her tongue in ii ht soc ets Everytime she id her mother screamed at her Dr Dent said That was her reward Remember negative attention is often better than no atten tion Then there was the girl who weighed 47 pounds because she refused to eat We found out that when she was at home her sister always prodded her when she wouldnt eat We took her to the hospital and isolated her Whenever she psychologist tells meeting ate we switched on her favorite music But when she laid the fork down the music was turned off In time she gained more weight Dr Dent said You have to define reward in terms of the child he said You talk to the child when he is sitting téléletly on the floor with his bear You dont give him attention if he misbehaves he said Other situations wife who puts up with her husbands roughness teaches him to be wifebeater rson who lis tens to dirty jo es is is rewar ding the other by listening Look at me Im ham en joy talking to you because you reward me with your attention It wouldnt be as enjoyable talking to tape recorder He told of convict who con ned his way out of prison He hated prople But he figured if he was nice to the guard and the wardens it could only bring good results He thought he was conning them because they thought his at titudeshadc an ed But now he igures he was conned He received his parole and is working man and husband and he likes people now His attitudes had changed Panel of clergy give answers to single parents questions It was verbal pingpong Saturday when an audience of single parents fired questions at three clergymen regarding the church and single parent And the clergy didnt miss many shots The discussion was workship at the threeday na tional conference of Parents Without Partners held this weekend at the Continental Inn Panelists were Rev Leonard OMalley pastor of St Marys Roman Catholic Church Rev Ray Waldock pastor of First Baptist Church and Rev Ken Purdon former pastor of Bur ton Avenue United Church Most questioners were con cerned with the clergymens opinions regarding re marriage All three agreed the church is more lenient today and that there is real effort to em pathize with troubled couple While there was once tenden cy to look upon divorced people as failures this is changing they said AGREE 0N MISTAKE They agreed there is also mistake made by couples who dont go to their church for help yet complain because their clergyman Wont come to their aid Three hundred and forty delegates from chapters across Canada and the United States attended RegistratiOns were held Friday evening followed by getacquainted dance general assembly was held Saturday morning Nora Rosso conference chairman and Bar rie club president Mary Burden welcomed delegates Mayor Dorian Parker pre sented gift from the city to members of the international board of directors including Helen Corbett zone ad ministrator and local club member Also on Saturday Susan Mar tin activities director for Parkview Centre for Senior Citizens held workshop on family activities such as cam pingandartsandcrafts Behavioral psychologist Dr Ralph Dent sp0ke in the after noon The Barrie chapter received an award for community ser vices at the awards luncheon worbshop service was held Sunday prepared by members of the Barrie chapter and their children One hundred dollars was collected for the Retarded Workshop Conference committee mem bers included Nora Ross chairman Mary Burden co chairman Mary Exell publici ty Lina Hunter dinner Norah Brownrigg dance Eileen Adamson family director Blane Tillbert ways and means Lydia Hays treasurer Mildred Alderson registration and Norm Bedard photo graphy WORK AT RI lMMAGE SALE Mary Latornell Betty McLellan and Betty Crease worked at the rumma sale Friday night put on St Giles Anglican Church women at the church Mrs Latornell is president of ACW and Mrs Crease and Mrs McLelland were con veners Examiner Photo TODAYS RECIPES TOMATO JUICE PICKMEUP This is tremendous drink for housewives who are running low on energy and dont take time to eat properly cups tomato juice tbsp lemon juice tsp horseradish tsp Worcestershire sacue Dash garlic salt Dash Tobasco thin slice onion slice green pe per small stalk ce ery cut in pieces small carrot cut in pcs ice cubes Put all except ice cubes into blender Cover Blend at No speed until smooth Add ice cubes and blend at slow speed until smooth Refrigerate until serving Serves 46 POTATOES SUPREME Cook potatoes the night before med potatoes peeled salt 175 cup butter melted cups shredded Cheddar cheese 13 cu chopped greenonions airysourcream V4 aspoon pepper Cook tatoes in small amount salt boiling water till tender drain and refrigerate over night Next day grate potatoes coarsely Mix with remaining ingredients and 12 tsp salt Bake in shallow baking dish at 350 about 35 minutes Serves PS good way to use up lef tover baked potatoes too hrmlwsaanv LOAF cup butter 112 cup sugar teaspoon lemon extract eggs cups flour V2 teaspoon salt teaspoon cream of tartar V2 teaspoon soda cup chopped pecans Cream shortening sugar and flavourings together Add eggs one at time beating well after each addition Sift together flour salt cream of tartar and soda Combine jam with sour creamand add alternately with dryingredien is to the creamed mixture Beat weii Stir in nuts if Forty preserves OI NEW MEMBERS JOIN KIWANIS CLUB Three new members were in ducted recently at the presidents night held by the Kiwanis Club of Barrie at the Holiday Inn From left are incoming president John Day new members Murray Graham Frank Kucman and Sidney Dickinson and in coming vicepresident Ralph McCartney who was chair man of the meeting Ex aminer Photo Living long life topic of speech by physical education Living long life will be the topic of speech Oct at 630 pm when John Talbot Powell man with extensive degrees and experience in physical education will speak at the Barrie Horticultural Society annual banquet at Central United Church Dr Powell is Canadian born in England with degrees in physical education science and philosophy He was geeral staff officer in physical and recrea tional training for Rhine Army and later chief officer instruc tor in physical training 194546 He was director of physical education at Watford Grammar School England in 1946 lec turer in physed at Rhodes University South Africa and was assistant professor at the College of Physical Education at the University of Illinois in the late 19405 and 505 He also was professor of human kinetics at the Universi ty of Guelph in 1975 COACHING EXPERIENCE His coaching experience in cludes teaching at such univer sities as Cambrid Universi ty England Rh es Universi ty University of lllionis and the Canadian National Track and Field Coaches Clinic He also taught at Sports In ternational Courses USA the first and fifth National In stitutes for Girls Sports and the Peace Corps Hawaii He also tau the US Army Track and Fied techniques to Mex ican officers last year He was elected to the Na tional Leader in Recreation England in 1939 and became life member of British Olym ic Associations in 1945 He is member of the British Association of Physical Train ing and the American College of Sports Medicine Dr Powell has received many awards including one from the National Council for Social Research of South Africa an Staley award for academic excellence merit award from the Univeris ty of Illinois Alumni Associa tion for outstanding contribu tion to the field of physical education Last year he received cita tion from the United States Presidents Fitness Council for outstanding personal committ ment to ph sical education Dr Tal ts has published several works including two books Track and Field Fun damental for Teacher and Coach and Inside Rugby The Team Game He has completed nine major research projects over 20year period He is listed in Whos Who In the East 1976 and 1976 Men of Achievement 1975 Dictionary of International Biography 1975 and 1976 and Leaders in Education 1975 Craft sales featured at October Gift Fair Handmade crafts by mem bers of the Simcoe County Arts and Crafts Association will be featured at Gift Fair Oct 10 and 11 at the cultural wing of the Simcoe County Museum Midhurst From 10 am to pm each day the fair will feature arts candles ceramics hooking and needlework jewelry metalwork leathercraft pot tery rope arts spinning weav ing toys dolls and boutiques There will also be craft books for sale The idea of Gift Fair stem med from the successful Quilt and Rug Fair last year More than 7000 visitors attended The primary goal of SCACA has been to promote arts and crafts in Simcoe County to preserve the pioneer crafts and to encourage new forms of arts and crafts The emphasis has always been on design and workman ship Free parking is available at the museum and at the Simcoe County Administration Centre Thanksgiving dinner will be served in the cafeteria in the centre Snacks will be served at stand in the museum Gift Fair oonveners include Eleanor Anderson chairman and Fran Shortt artistic con sultant Ron Belanger is in charge of art Cheryl Lackie displays arv ticles Violet Brown boutique Kae Price candles Irene McNabb ceramics Joan Ashton hook and needle arts Mary Milne jewelry and metalwork Clara Cavanagh ieatherwork Nanci McLelland pottery Erika Szymanis rope arts David Dusome thread arts and Carol Crewe toys There will be draw for leather jewel box made by Clara Cavanagh sterling silver necklace by Mary Milne and needlesculptured doll Renate Weitzenbauer of Mi land Tickets will be sold at the fair Draws will be made on the last day of the fair Chicken settlers were prejudiced By DONNA KING The Canadian Press An adventure hounds delight Tisha The Story of Young Teacher in the Alaska wilderness is captured by RobertSpecht While book publishing firms editor in Los Angeles Specht met the heroine of his book years after she taught in Mile Country of desired Divide into greased Alaska and floured loaf pans Cool 10 minutes before removing from pan Timothy Home and School EISSES cup Strawberry Preserves V2 cup sour cream HEEICHIRS Romovoblo log roots cotton 12 aluminium cuohlonod upholstery $199 Removable ormrooto S284 Lokomatlc poworcholrn $025 anoolctlnin Whool CitIn ldmtic Donor Penetan St PHA HARPERS RMACY Although fascinated by her story it wasnt until he became freelance writer that he could devote his full energies to writingit When only 19 years old in 1927 Coloradoborn Anne Hob bs travelled to the remote gold mining town of Chicken Not even the oldtimers could agree on the ori in of that name Ladies Wear 125 Dunlop St Anne learned the seriousness of prejudice displayed by Chicken settlers after her un concealed love for young half Eskimo and her adoption of two Indian children The settlers viewed these out rageous actions as that of chechako an innocent green horn At the same time the In dians grew to love and respect her and affectionately called her Tisha TESTED BY ELEMENTS Along with battling the nar rowmindedness of some Chicken residents Anne chal lenged the elements of the cold north Tisha The Story of Young Teacher In the Alaska Wilder ness as told to Robert Specht 358 pages $1075 MacMIllan of Xpe ct JOHN POWELL Two fly from Calgary for nurses reunion Ruth Russell and Laura Graham of Calgary flew from there to be with the fellow graduates of the Royal Victoria Hospital School of Nursing They were two of about 80 who Saturday attended the nurses alumnae reunion at the Continental Inn Miss Russell graduate of St Andrews Hospital Mid land came to Barrie and to Royal Victoria Hospital in 1926 She moved to Calgary in 1949 She is still working as private duty nurse there She is an associate member of the alum nae Miss Graham born in Shanty Bay raduated from RVH in 1925 he was member of Col lier Street United Church She has three neices Mrs Doug Pickering and Mrs Garfiled Burton and Mrs Carl Gilchrist of Oro Station Miss Graham also moved to Calgary in 1949 Peg Brooks and Jackie Pinder were coconveners Doris Gavin handled publicity Carol Hand president Lois McCloskey vicepresident and Pauline Bebb treasurer also assisted The classes of 1941 and 1961 celberated anniversaries at the reunion Graduates attended from Toronto London Lakefield Midland Alliston Penetang Kirkland Lake and Oshawa The reunion of the alumnae which was formed in the early 19005 is held every two years 200 attend reception Thornton couple celebrated their 40th anniversary on Sun day Sept 12th at reception attended more than 200 nelatives an friends Torrance and Jean Black were married in Trinity Unity Church Sept 12 1936 They farmed south of Thornton for 36 years before moving to Thorn ton in October 1972 and it was at their farm home now the home of son Wallace and daughterinlaw Isabel that the reception was held Mr and Mrs Black also have daughter Marion Mrs Harris of Barrie and three andchildren Gordon and ndra Harris and Edward Black Pouring tea for the occasion was Mrs Helen Carr the brides sister and maid of honor sisterinlaw Mrs Lillian Black and cousin Mrs Helen Wallace Other members of the wed ding party in attendance were Arthur Black brother of the groom Neville Jamieson and Arthur Cooper ushers and Genevieve Jamieson the or anist uests attended from the local area as well as Ottawa Toronto and St Catharines family dinner and et together was held Satu ay evening when Wallace and Isabel Black entertained 28 relatives at their home GEORGIAN COLLEGE CONTINUING EDUCATION Got to know your Community College In 1976 Just two exam plos of the many courses being offered by the Continuing Education Division this Fall and Winter SHOITHAHD II ADVANCED Thin some dint of preparing students for odvnncod shorthand by thoroofll nylon of htonnodlnto shorthand with men on spud dovolop uont In lettion Ind Inscription It Includes lyltonlotic ruler of short form oontroctlonl pinning htomctlonr onll distinguishing outlnos oomlntod with grouon exptoil vooobutnry chordyo 100 9100 pln Sf Ootobor 76 PHYSICS 20 Wool loo $4500 force and voctom lino ntotloni Hortons lows of Motion projectiles Poltoil Motion work onorgy and pour hoot thornI proportlor of worldly hoot triofon unto motion round Illumination rofloctlon refraction Illasky 100 1000 Mn We October 1916 20 Huh Foo $4500 For information registration and brocburo call 705 7281951 Ext 317 or visit us at Goorgion Collogo vents 6The Barrie Examiner Tuesday Sept 28 1976 PEOPLE AND PLACES FALL RUMMAGE Barrie Central Collegiate Band Mothers will hold its an nual fall rummage sale Oct 15 from to pm at Barrie Cen tral Collegiate Cafeteria FAMILY LIFE Mrs Ann Barrett will speak on sex education for children Oct at 730 at Barrie Central Collegiate This will be the se cond in series of talks on family life and sexuality spon sored by the Barrie Family Life Association EUCHRE Progressive euchre is held Monday from 130 to pm the first Monday of every month at Parkview Centre for Senior Citizens ANAF The Army Navy and Air Force Club holds dances Friday and Saturday evenings from pm to am at the club RUMMAGE rummage sale will be held in the Order of the Eastern Star Room Oct from am to 12 noon The public is invited OPTIMRS The OptiMrs Club of Barrie is holding Harvest Moon Dance Oct 23 from pm to am at the Embassy Hall Music will be provided Jack Tiernay Tickets costing $15 per Couple are available at Cholkan and Co Insurance Of fice 10 Collier St Barrie or by calling 72a9921 QUOTA CLUB The Quota Club of Barrie is having bazaar Nov at pm at Trinity Anglican Church Hall Proceeds will go the Deaf and Hard of Hearing ARCADE St Marys Catholic Womens League is having its annual autumn arcade Oct 23 from 30 to pm at the church CWC FASHIONS Fashions by members of the Christian Womens Club of Bar rie will be featured at fashion show at the groups annual meeting Oct at 930 am at the Continental Inn OFFICIAL OPENING The Raggedy Ann Day Care Centre will have its official opening Oct at 1030 am at the Barrie campus of Georgian College tea will follow More than 50 attend party on anniversary More than 50 people came out Saturday for the 50th wedding anniversary party for Stanley and Lila Halbert of Barrie The party was held at the home of the couples daughter Gwen and Jack Lennox 205 Jean St Tollendal The couple were married Sept 29 1926 at the home of Mrs Halberts parents Mr and Mrs Barry Jebb of Cookstown Mr Halbert farmer all his life was born and raised in NewtonRobinson He is the son oer and Mrs John Halbert The couple moved to Barrie 25 years ago and are active members of the United Church Special Jewish holidays and the Jewish faith will be the topic of talk Oct at pm at Central United Church Joyce Rotman will speak to the United Church Women The UCW plans rummage sale for Saturday Oct 23 at am to pm at the church Donaters should bring good used winter clothing to the iZlfl OR INDIVIDUALS make Wonderful gifts NOW BEAUTIFUL BACKGROUNDS 8x10 CborItfrlir Christmas time or anytime of Canada Aside from Mrs Lennox the Couple has one son Wallace of Cookstown They have five grandchildren Mr Halberts brothers Gor don of NewtonRobinson and Grenville of Bradford and sister Stella Wiggins of Barrie attended the party Gladys Wilson sister of Mrs Halbert of Cookstown and brother Douglas Jebb of Cookstown also attended The couple received many cards and gifts including con gratulations from Prime Minister Trudeau 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