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Director of Womens Programs and Af firmative Action at Humber College Toronto and former director of Humbers Centre for Women You havea lot more options available to you when you are assertive You have choice of how to react and this may in clude not being assertive its up to you Mrs Krakauer said It is good to be in group of people you know when first try ing to be assertive The feedback from those who know you can be most helpful Assertiveness is defined as saying and hopefully getting what you want without interfering with the rights of others The difference between assertive and aggressive is that one does not interfere with others There is no trampling or infringing on others she said Being assertive is often mistaken for being aggressive which is particular fear for women Krakauer said Women have been taught that aggression is dirty word She said being assertive will help an individual feel they have certain amount of control over their lives feeling of not be ing manipulated Being able to express emotions has traditionally been left up to the women with the strongsilent male still being the epitemy of society They say women dont have any problem expressing their emotions but which emotions are they talking about Women are taught to express gentle nuturing feelings and its OK if they say they are happy anxious or depressed but being angry is not acceptable ROLE PLAYING Laurie Jones Georgians Womens Advisor assisted Krakauer in three role playing skits demonstrating the non assertive or passive the assertive and the aggressive roles played by people The theme of skit was an aggressive boss who demanded that his secretary bring him coffee The group was shown that the secretary had several ways to react the most constructive being the assertive role The audience was asked to watch for clues such as voice tone and strength body position hostility and frustration The secretary who was passive was inwardly angry hostile and very little communication took place between her and her boss because she kept what she was feeling inside Being able to speak what is on ones mind without losing ones cool is one of the benefits of the art of assertiveness People who cant express themselves often take their frustrations out on people who have nothing to do with the way they are feeling such as marriage partners and children People arent generally aggressive or unassertive Its very important to be able to recognize situation which brings out either in yourself In being assertive physical posture facial expression and voice tone are important Ninetenths of how you say something shows your asser tiveness Try to stick to statements and stay away from You statements The latter just serves to make the other person angry defensive and less acceptable to your point She said always being nice and always smiling gives people wrinkles and told of an incident where an assertiveness instruc tor was demonstrating how to be assertive with waiter She spoke very well and handled the situation in an even ag gressive manner But she smiled through the whole thing and the waiter paid no attentionto her at all Sometimes when you smile and be polite people dont think you are serious FOGGING Mrs Krakauer said useful technique in being assertive is fogging and the broken record The fogging method is Yes understand your problem but nevertheless want this The broken record method is useful way of handling per son who is hard to persuade Just keep repeating what you are trying to point out until the other person gives in out of sheer frustration but strai Renate Krakauer Director of Womens Programs and Af firmative Action at llumher College spoke to noonhour gathering Tuesday at Georgian ollege on Assertiveness What is it Knowing how and when to be assertive can be valuable life tool one which can make difficult situations easier to handle she said Examiner Photo Assertiveness teaches you not to need to be manipulative ght Its an interaction between two equals She listed several books including Your Perfect Right by Dear No Smiles Im glad you chose me Its amazing how many people can give graciously but have no concept of how to receive Thanks for providing the perfect example Dear Ann Landers know you newspaper people usually stick together but would like to know if you Will venture an opinion on something find appalling If am overreacting please tell me newspaper publisher in Virginia has announced he is going to print the names ages and addresses of rape yictims in his paper He claims the custom of protecting the anonymity of rape victims does not serve the cause of jistice and that both the victim and the accused should be identified because anything less results in uneven coverage Where do you standModesto Bee Stinger Dear Stinger disagee with the publisher woman who has been raped suffers enough without having to carry the added stigma of publicity Its bad enough that those close to her know To have it announced in the press would be extremely humiliating And what for hope that publisher thinks it over and changes his mind Dear Ann Landers This is in response to Phoenix Phan who says that statistically Sioux Falls SD is the safest city to drive in Ill bet hes never been there have and can tell youa maniac lurks behind the wheel of every third car One reason for the problem is that South Dakota was the last state in the union to issue drivers licences All you had to do was pay $2 Driving tests have been in existence only in recent years Another reason is that 14yearolds can get permits to drive in South Dakota If Sioux Falls is the safest city to drive in as that statisti cian claims the good Lord surely has way of looking after old ladies and foolsand we have plenty of both driving around our townNo Name Please Make Living Here Dear Friend wouldnt think of printing your name Youd have to move to Watertown Thanks for another point of view Erma Bombeck Car runs fine on television Boy television commercials are really something The other night watched car tear across rockstudded field forge river scale mountain speed through desert and pass five stranded autos in snowstorm to prove how puttogether it was have the same make and model in my driveway That car has battery in it that according to television can light up an entire air strip at 50 degrees below zero fahrenheit It has four tires on it that have been tested on fourinch spikes Its so airtight you could ride through war and not hear sound The suspension is so smooth you could cut diamond in the back seat heres enough trunk room to carry ivetiered wedding ca The brake system is so terrific anyone would be fool not to stand in front of it Theres only one problem The car doesnt start lot of things are like that Ive seen commercials where they glue two pieces of wood together and make diving board out of them and this guy springs from them into pool Ive used the same glue and cant get picture to stick in photo album bought sweeper once that when demonstrated sucked up pennies pins metal nails garbage and small dog that wasnt paying attention It wont pick up dust And watch that saw rescued from sandy beach after ASSORTED SNACKS Willikers Alberti and Emmons Self Assertion for Women by Pamela Butler and When say No Feel Guilty by Manuel Smith which she says she has found useful three years stopped running for me one night when spilled drink on it Maybe its me want to believe that kid can take ham mer to my kitchen floor and the shine wont crack Or that my perfume will drive men within radius of three miles right up the wall wanted to believe there was such thing as childproof toy so when saw an elephant stand on truck one day went right out and bought it the truck not the elephant Two hours later the truck was in heap on the floor Two kids were crying and once again my faith had been shat tered When they show me truck that can come in contact with brothers head and still remain intact Ill go back to believing She said fogging is way of difusing the other person it takes them back bit EVERLOFT PILLOW STUFFING IOO°o polyester Kin Rog Prico L99 HARD COVERED FICTION BOOKS ill1 Rog Price 99 Tater mart Rog Price 71 LOOK HOW YOU SAVE LOOK HOW YOU SAVE LOOK HOW YOU SAVE PoIIys pointers Water stain on tea pot DEAR POLLY To chop an onion without tears simply place large standup candle lighted of course near your cutting board Also would like to know how to remove hard water buildup from heat resistant glass tea pot BEVERLY DEAR BEVERLY Try diluted solution of household ammonia in your pot let it stand while and rinse out Wash thoroughly with soap suds and rinse again Or you might put tea leaves and vinegar In the pot and shake around until stains leave Wash and rinse POLLY DEAR POLLY One of the readers wanted to know whether or not she could dye her rubberbacked draperies dyed my cream colored ones royal blue and they are beautiful Even the backs took the dye EMOJEEN DEAR POLLY Instead of buying expensive bubble bath put bit of mild liquid dish detergent in the water in the tub It is gentle cleansing and leaves no tub ring Good for all ages My Pet Peeve is to have box of strong scented detergent or soap put in my bag of groceries right next to sugar bread or butter MRS VEE DEAR POLLY just read about Connie using plastic ice scraper to remove burnedon food front pots and pans Polly whenever have such burnedon food lightly scrape the food out and then pour vinegar into the pot put the lid on and let it stand overnight The next morning the pan is shiny clean OPAL DEAR POLLY When the light from your flashlight starts to be dim and you are ready to put in two new batteries try just one first Often one new battery with one of the old ones will give several more hours of light When buy new washcloths always stitch around each edge before they are used so they will not fray MFS DEAR POLLY When peeling cucumbers tor salad peel the whole cucumber and then take fork and go down all sides When it is sliced it looks so fancy When have guests they often ask how do this and are amazed when show them how simple it is MRS DF DEAR POLLY use strip from one of those sheets put in the dryer for static to clean the dust from Violets GLORIA my African GIRlS CAMPUS HOSE Assorted colors mart Reg Price 96 NOW ASSORTED CERAMIC lAMPS mart Rog Price to 3100 Store Hours My Mondayto Friday 10 am lOpm Saturday am l0 pm MART 2A First time at donor clinic For both twoyearold Darren Ferric 227 Rose St and his mother Carol it was their first time at blood donor clinic Mrs Ferric didnt seem to mind the whole experience too much but Darren was bit uncertain One hundred and sixtyone pints of blood were collected Tuesday at the clinic held at Georgian College Examiner Photo 465Bayfieid $t Barrie