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Teen drinker expelled student Dear Ann Lenders am writing this letter in the hope that pantipotential teenage alcoholic will see the light before it is too Two years ago was carefree intelligent high school stu dent As matter of fact was near the top of my class Then one day close friend introduced me to beer thought it was great After three beers was high as kite few months later three beers wasnt enough tumed to bigger and better things First it was Harvey Wallbangers and Navy Grog Then turned to straight vodka and rum Before long was sneaking liquor from my parents cabinet Now Im 19 years old and sitting in my college dorm room wrth bottle of gin just found out am being expelled because of alittle hellraising did last weekend when was bombed Ruined some school property and totalled friends car hope few teenagers who read this will realize that drink ing is dumb Quit NOWMessed Up Dear Friend So you blew it But youre only 19 and theres agiliqftetime ahead if you really want to straighten up and fly ri Look in the phone book under Alcoholics Anonymous Give them call and theyll send someone your age to talk to you about your problem The person they send was probably in your shoes few months ago It could be the most important phone call you will ever make in your entire life Do it today Dear Ann You can see by the stationery that this letter is for real Maybe the problem should be brought to the attention of the president of the bank but as lowly employee havent got the guts Will you speak for us Im sitting here with miserable headache Why Because of the pipedin music that plays eight hours day love my job but this continuous racket gets on my nerves Ive discussed this with several employees Everyone hates it But the man in charge of our department likes the music and thats that Im not old or sick or nervousbut WILL be before long Any ideasHead Busting Dear Head How many signatures can you get from fellow employees who want the music stopped It you can gather large number present them to the vice president in charge of personnel Ill bet youll get peace and quiet before long Dear Ann My husband and have saved for six years to take this cruise We dont want to look like yokels Can you give us some suggestions on how to tipand whom Is it polite to talk to strangers Is it OK to Wear sport shirt ino tie to din ner We dont want to look like weve never been on cruise before Help And It Dear And The travel bureau or ticket office that sold you the transportation has loads of leaflets with answers to all your questions If you should encounter situation not covered in the leaflets remember common sense and consideration for others are always in good taste And dont worry about this being your fir st cruise It will probably be the first one for 90 per cent of the people aboard the ship Ron voyage Girls need help to express interests WINDSOR Urit Girls should never be told Thats not for girls or dont do thatwgirls dont do that says Dr Robert Mason chief psychiatrist at Windsor Western Hospital Lentre Dr Mason is leliever in the blurring of roles That is he feels girl shorld be encour aged to express her interests no matter what hey are Ensure all children in the family take turn at doing each and elery household chore be sad in an interview Impress iiton father that he has very important role to play partcularly during daughtersteen years and al low her to see firsthand an open communication and relationship of equals between her parents Dr Mason said that if girl wants to take ballet lessons that is fine but that she shouldnt be discouraged rom karate judo or hockey SHOITIJ NOT FOIttE He said it is important not to force girl into tight role and narrow her Vistas Dr Masm said fathers should make certain they give their daughters enough aflt fection and attention father should respond to his daughter he said They like to be admired from wee tots Affection helps them to de velop their own identity al ways made sure com plimented my daughters when praise was deserved Dr Mason is the father of three girls The doctor said lack of atten tion from father is factor in neurosis and emotional prob Iemsin girls In virtually every case where there is neurosis or an emotional pmblem in woman there has been lack of affec tion from father during the for mativeyears Dr Mason said it is also aw fully important for parents to council children regarding changes in the body He acknowledged that in the case of girl the mother has the largest role to play in in forming of impending maturity and said she should not shirk the responsibility SHOULD EXPLAIN He said mother should sit itPi TRAVEL SERVICE 778 4700 down with the girl and explain with tenderness and sensitivity such changes as development of the breasts and men struation So often poor selfimage and anger is created in girl because mother didnt take her shopping but instead gave her some old bra that was three sizes too large Dr Susan London psylt chologist said parents who have high ambitions for their daugh ters should introduce them to women professionals The should take their daugh ters or example to woman doctor or introduce them to women in key industry jobs Making their daughters aware of famous women also helps Dr London said parents MR AND MRS ll IN AltlS ARTSHASTINGS Guthrie United liurch was the scene when Kimberly Ann Hastings and John Martin Arts were married Rev George Davison officiated Soloist was Stephanie Mayor oi Barrie accompanied by Mrs Howard Campbell organist The bride is the daughter of Mr and Mrs Charles Melville Hastings of RR Shanty Bay and the groom the son of John Arts 56 William St Barrie The bride wore simple or line dress with high neck and standup collar with iriariboii around the culls She Wolt fulllength cape with small train and hood The gown was trimmed with rnnriboii down the front The bride irradi lltl wedding gown She carried bouquet of red sweetheart roses babys breath white porripori mums and vines Maidof honor was athy Hunter of Shanty Hay Bridesmaids were Karrie Lei Hastings of Shanty Bay sister of the hirde and Shelley Lynn Anderson cousin ot the bride of Barrie Flower girl was lristizi Hastings cousin of the lilltlt ol Shanty Bay Best man was Ronald iss of Barrie Ushers were Michael Arts brother ot the groom of Home and Rust Hastings should also warn their daiigir ters about the techniques of propaganda She said that during the Set ond World War when Ullllfll were needed in industry tiii were depicted in the media workers Pictures of WilllitII poring over machines were in miliar WANT ADS PHONE 72824 Giant Smorgosbord Bovorogo included 50 Per Couple for reservations call 7281312 at EREDS FLOWERS Youll find many ideas and large selection of Christmas plants POINSETTIAS OCYCLAMINE OAZALIAS MIXED POTS TROPICAL PLANTS HANGING PLANTS FREE DELIVERY IN BARRIE Imported and Canadian Gifts floral arrangements for all oc casions largo selection of Christmas trees and gift certificates are available EREDS FLOWERS IIVIy II Stroud 4364021 Open 99 now tlll Christmas Cloud Christmas boy brother ol the bride of Shanty Hay Reception was lltlti it the Guthrie community hall For ii honeyniixiii the bride wore light brown lWinIttt suit lll dark lIlgtll ill cessories and illim iairia Itoriioisligi The newly weds lll lii iii Shani tin tliil illllHSll guests attendsd from Burlington loiorito Weston litobiiiilri Ulllllil lorl lti illltl lIdgnr The brides grind grand mother Mrs livssic liiducli of lliliniilsnrittirrided Adoptees seeking parents LONDON Reuter Adop ted persons in Britain who have never been told either the iden tity or the whereabouts of their natural parents will soon be able to get this information by law The law taking effect at the end of November is seen by some adoption agencies as po tential cause of distress to natu ral parents who have assumed that the past would be kept se cret Social workers point out that Dr Ferree who described the findings in Psychology Today found that almost twice as many housewives as em ployed wives reported that they were dissatisfied with their lives and believed their hus bands work was more in teresting than theirs Only about 25 per cent felt happy with their lives and that their accomplishments were recog nized More housewrves claimed they had not had fair oppor tunity in life and wanted their daughters to be niostly differ crit trom themselves she noted iine working wrie told the re sczirclier have to work If Im at borne go crazy hit the children When work Im Although some women ac tually enjoy the role of trouse wito because of the social sup port it provrdcs lr Ferree said that in the present coridi tion of our society fulltime housewurk is becoming job that is fllllllllil tocnjoy natural mother who may have married without telling her husband that she had child in the past is faced with the possibility of the child turn ing up on the doorstep This the say could ruin marriage an prove upsetting for both parties Previously if the adopted person had not been told the name of his or her parents original birth certificates and details of natural parents were withheld by authorities Fulltime housework hard to enjoy STORRS Conn AP Working wives are happier than housewives according to recent study by University of Connecticut social psychologist Dr Myra Marx Ferree as sistant professor of sociology based her study on the respon ses of 135 mothers of schoolage children living in working class community near Boston BREAST FORMS AND SURGICAL BRAS YEARS FITTING EXPERIENCE 0STOMY SUPPLIES llflilfllilllllllllIllllllllllllllllllllllllllll HARPERS PHARMACY GARMENTS LTD MUST BE OVER 18 But under the new law ado ted persons over 18 may app for access to the ori inal recor ds of their birth and given an address for their natural paren ts Jean Baker social worker for the National Adoption Society said facetoface meeting between natural par ents and an extramarital child who had been adopted could be extremely disturbing for both parties Mrs Margaret Mawer assistant director of the Association of British Adoption and Fostering Agencies an um brella group for the countrys adoption agencies said many adopted adolescents have fan tasies about their natural parents This often gives rise to desperate hunts for mothers and fathers whom they think rejected them Teenage adoptees also go through persnality crisis and often feel that knowing who their natural parents will help them solve their identity prob lems she said Mrs Mawer said however that the associations member agencies welcomed the new law because they felt the truth SURGICAL lllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllIIIIIIlllll Penetong St at St Vincent Barrie Ont 7285407 iIIIIlIIIIllIIIIIllIllllllllllllIIllIIIIllIlIIIIIIIlllIlIIIIIIllIIlIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIi The Barrie Examiner Saturday December 18 1978 should be available Dr Nancy Bywaters chief medical officer for the Dr Bar nardos Organization which runs major adoption 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