14 vi qI SPRING FLOWER SHOW Mac Perrin retired florist from Midland judges ex hibits at the Spring flower show held Monday night by Vespra Township Horti cultural Society at Mines ANN LANDERS Shes grateful she kept living Dear Ann Landers My heart has been heavy since yesterday when heard that the lovely 21yearold daughter friend committed suicide recalled vividly the night before my own let birthday when sat with bottle of poison in front of me as wrote farewell note to my parents When finished the note was dissatisfied with the wor ding and decided to wait another day and write better one The following morning decided couldnt be quitter even though was involved in sordid affair with married man failing in college and didnt think life was worth liv ing Next week have another birthday comin upmy 66th When think of what would have miSS these last 45 years shudder gave up my love affair finished school and became aiccessful teacher married fine man and we raised four lovely daughters My advice to anyone contemplating saicide is this Dont be in hurry Suicide is so final Wait just one more day and things may look different If you dont wait youll never knowGlad Did Dear Glad So am When you were 21 they didnt have surcide prevention centres Crisis Intervention or any of the other wonderful organizations that stand ready to help Dear Ann Landers What is the correct thing to do when you are guest in home and the food is just terrible The main course didnt smell right and was unable to eat much of it The vegetables were boiled to deathmushy and tastelessthe potatoes burned hoped the dessert would be edible but it wasnt Another giest and myself discussed this on the way home when we stopped for snack Neither of us knew Of solution D0 youDidntWantTo Be Rude Dear Didnt Never eat food anyplace if it doesnt smell right Especially fish God put your nose directly above your mouth for reason When you encounter inedible food at dinner party rear range it on your plate and disguise the problem as best you can Dear Ann Lenders That letter signed Blabbermouth shook loose some memories When was young thought it was smart to tell secrets even named the people who had confided in me In later years stopped revealing names but still blabbed alot As time went on studied my friends who were popular and soon figured out that they were the ones who kept their mouths shut began working on my loose lip and discovered the less blabbed the better liked myself noticed that others liked me better too also discovered the same about peo le who are extreme ly critical which was Nobody Ii es to be picked to tieces Teller Of Secrets was only 12 according to her letter If she starts now by the time shes 15 she wil tw0 of lifes greatest handicapsblabbing and have con uered ein critical Sign meThe Voice Of Experience Dear Voice Your letter is short course on how to pro mote good human relations Thank you for writing ing Station Community Centre good crowd viewed the exhibits and en ERMA BOMBECK closetfull of antiques By RMA ROM BECK wanted to switch the ward robe in my husbands closet from winter to summer last week but he was wearing it To look in his closet youd think he had change for all seasons But as the kids said are day You are now landing in Daddys closet Please turn your watches back 20 years As picked my way through the rack of clothes had to ad mit it was like Bicentennial salute to the history of mens clothes He had necktie that dated back to the Hoover ad ministration There was one suit that had come in style gone out again and was coming in again Then did thing had not done in our entire married life cleaned out his closet Out went the Hans Brinker pants that remained standing when he sat down Out went the gold coat sweat her that he held together by booking moth hole over the button Out went the anklelength winter coat that made him look like rabbi out of Fiddler on the Roof Out went the belt that fit him when he and his waist were both 28 Ex joyed refreshments aminer Photo ut went the xrated bathing suit that used to he PG ut went the sports coat with the Ruptured Duck Discharge pin still on the lapel ut went the loafers with the original pennies on them ut went the sweatshirt that read KILROY WAS HERE ut went the seersucker bath mbe with copy of Boys Life in thc pockct ut went the wading boots with the hole in the too Out went the undergraduate Willlllrllp jacket that no longer fit over the postgraduate stom ach knew he had discovered my surprise when he raged into the kitchen shouting What happened to all my clothes Ihercs nothing in my closet ex cept two shirts card table and carton of cancelled cheques What did you do with them They are in big truck on their way to the Salvation Ar my Well thats just great dont go on your side of the doset and clean house From here on in STAY OUT OF MY IlllE Such big deal over nothing Today the truck brought his dothes back figured they would Canadians disapprove of extra marital sex LEIHBRIDGE Alta fPi Canadians in general have permissive attitude toward pre marital sex but disapprove of homosexual and extramarital sexual relationships study conducted by sociologist at the University of Lethhridge has found Dr Reginald Bibby said his survey conducted between May and November 1975 is the most comprehensive study of Ginadian sexual attitudes ever made The 2000 respondents across Bosss sexual advances taken to commission TORONTO CP An in creasing number of women who are punished on the job for say ing no to sexual advances from wperiors are taking their cases to the Ontario Human Rights Commission says its assistant director George Brown He said in an interview that women are complaining they feel forced to quit their jobs be cause of the ardent nature of their bosses pursuit In one case 28yearold woman who refused advances from factory foreman was re PEOPLE PLACES WCIU ENGAGEMENT BARBIE Mr and Mrs John Jorgensen of Hunt Club Chase Ottawa announce the aigagement of their daughter Susan Louise to Brian William Ross son of Mr and Mrs Fred Ross of Orillia The marriage will take place Sept 18 at Angus United Church FLOWER SIIOW BARBIE Wendy Graungaard and Clara Ore mck took second and third most points in show recently at the annual sprin flower show sponsored by the Barrie Horticultural Society at Sun nidale Community Centre peatedly threatened with dis missal and given unpleasant tasks to dt Mr Brown said Commission representatives met with the foreman and his supervisor and received promise that it would not hap pen again Many women are not as brave as that factory worker he said and some feel they are somehow guilty of enticing the boss possibly by the way they dress spokesman for the womens bureau at the provincial minis try of labor agreed saying the woman may become the sus pect and then be reluctant to complain MORE COME FORWARD However she said she be lieves Women sexually harassed on the job are coming wt of the closet Weve also noticed that the lower the woman is on the to tem pole the more likely she is to be exploited Mr Brown said the problem is particularly serious in situ ations where the womans job is vital to her and she feels defen oelss for example if she is an immigrant or an unskilled worker He sai there is nothing in the WATER DROPPED Dropping water from aircraft was first tried for forest fire control in 1945 and today this method is widely used in Canada Human Rights lode thao specifically covers harassment but one section bars discrimination on the basis of 52x We have to determini Whether denial of equal op porIUnity or employment or ad vancement took place on that basis he said Penalties include financial compensation to the victim statements of apology and promises from employers that obligations will be fulfilled In the future Mr Brown said the majority of sexual harassment cases do mt seem to be denials of oppor tunity and that the commission cannot become involved But extreme harassment might be covered by the Criminal Code and he Sometimes tells women to call the police and installation as requrred le rec sifdio Total Decorator and Coordinating Services Choose from an outstanding selection of excellent quality materials and patterns from Canadas finest suppliers Personal service on large or small enquiries Tracking Phone tors ROBERISON or drop In to the Studio RR1 Hwy 93 at Crown Hill Only Miles North of Barrio the country were askml to cato gorile premarital ex tramarital and homosexual relationships as always wrong almost always wrong sometimes wrong or not wrong atall Only 20 per cent of those sur veyed said premarital sexual relations were always wrong mmpared with 51 per cent for Dtllilmilrltéll and il per cent for IllllltSClIXZiI involvements Dr Bibby said 39 per cent main tained premarital relations were not wrong at all com pared with five per cent for ex tramarital and 16 per cent for homosexual relationships Ninelylwo per cent of those surveyed agreed birth control information should be freely available to tecnagers Greatest ambivalence was found in attitudes toward extra marital sexual relations Dr Bibby found men were more likely to approve of extra marital scx while women were more tolerant of homoseuxal behavior young married Edmonton man commented in the survey that if someone gets hurt it extramarital sex is wrong if no one gets hurt theres no problem married male Charlotte town construction supervisor said extramarital sex is al ways wrong for the married woman and not wrong at all for the married man Dr Bibby found attitudes to ward sex varied with age The survey indicated condemnation of premarital and homosexual activity increased with age while the most liberal attitudes were found among people in the IllItQyearold age group CUSTOM MADE IIIIAPEIIIES and BEDSPBEAIIS none Marcu and Leslee Fay are degree as soon as fiveyear two neighbors who share quite Elizabeth joins Terry bit job paycheque their children The two friends each recen tly separated from her lusband split secretarys job at Chatham Colle One works while the other he ysits The arrangement solves sev eral problems each has job she needs each saves money that would go for babysitters and leaves her children with someone she trusts and each has time with her children The concept of jobsharing has spread in recent years par ticularly among women with small children who can only work parttime With my skills the highest salary could get was about $450 to $500 month said Ms Fay 33yearold mother of two babysitter Would take about half that so it wasnt wor th Working five days week NEEDED INCOME But she needed the income and selfesteem of job and Ms Marcu who like her neigh bor of 10 years prefers the fe minist title was advised by pediatrician to get job to make threeyearold Amanda less dependent on her And Chatham womens school agreed to provide each of them with half of the samejob Paid on an hourly pasts each woman works three days one week and two days the next Each earns about $150$200 monthly depending on what hours and overtime they work The offduty secretary is the on dity mother of two preschoo lers and secondgrader Its much better than leav ing them with an older woman Who watches the Soap operas and makes them sit on the couch and watch too said Ms Fay Lori and take them places and do things and we dont mind because we are spending lesstimcwith them LIKED SETUP Chatham officials also like the setup We dont always know which one will be on the job said Peggy Donaldson me of their bosses They set up the schedule between theme selves But we always know one will be there Once Ms Fays son Terry got sick she Worked while Ms Marcu took Amanda to Terrys inuse just up the street to care for him If one is sick child is sick or car breaks down the other shows up said Ms Donaldson Thats not the case when one person holds job Both women say the new rou tine which started Jan 12 ins made the time they spend with their children more meaningful And the children get along like siblings IIAS MORE IAIIIINtII Amanda has started to call Elizabeth Sis said Ms Mar cu have more patience with her now and shes happier to see me Both say the arrangement may not last forever Ms Fay Offers Discou drapery heading patterns seam old in children go to school we will Fabricland The Barrie Examiner Wednesday June 19767 TWO friends pool job for children PITTSBURGH AP Lo lopes to complete her college school As time goes by and the said the28yearoldMsMarcu JACK FRASER BAYFIELI MALL BARRIE 7263521 trobably alter our schedule For the moment however We offer for days only an exceptional Knit Sport Shirt fashion value One of the nice things about this sale apart from the value is the depth of style and color selection by prominent Canadian leisure shirt makers in machine washable blended yarns that feel comfortable that look good The print knits run the gamut from abstracts to neat and geometric designs The fashion knits many fully fashioned include 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