PRESIDENT AND HIS the dialect lfuntor retiring pre aidcnt of the Barrie Chamber of Commerce and his wife Josie perform on tho dance floor after the business see tlon of the Chamber of Com mcm annual meeting was over Examiner Photon Tctkre Stock Family Relationships ay annoy MYERS run Around the iilst of the year thc merchant enumeratcs ex amines and evaluates his stock of merchandise on hand Let us imagine we are family of two parents and three children from to 14 Let ust ry to take stock of all the items of relationship emotions and communication on that make up the family at rinosphcre for day Suppose this is done by one of us prohn bly at the end of today cover ing the time since we got up in the morning How many times did we parents feel inked even little at each othcrijlow did we express this vexatlon Was it by the voice Was it by some angry or whining words Did we talk too loudly or too quietly to be easily heard Was our voice often pitched ton highf Was it by gestures by the way we walked or used our hands and feet was it by the way we breathed Was it by the SilEill expression on our faces the use or disuse of our eyes Was it by our frowns or our cheerful smiles when we talked to each other about persons outside the fam ily did we dwell on their faulm and frailties Were there any tnnes or words of hate about them Or did we usually talk at itheir good traits and achieve meals Did we parenk toward each other today feel more re ilaxed and comfortable and worthwhile when in the pres ence of each other or more stense and uncomfortable During the times today when our children saw and heard us with each other and with them they may not have noticed any thing about us whim they might write in diary or write in letter to friend or wieh they might remember and tell their children or grandchildren about years hence Yet our children were affected by all they saw and heard in us and by the way vo felt and acted toward each other They breathed the atmos phere we helped to create fancy that our voices were lore ï¬nest in causing what they heard and felt Moreover during today all days indeed our children have sensed and felt the way we par ents acted toward them have seen and felt discomfort when we were vexed at them sails faction when we treated them with tenderness and endear mcnt Our voices most often were thoayrnb0ls with which they measured how we felt to ward them Most of the time today these children in our presence may have had feel ing that all is well sometimes feeling so satisfying they nerev feeling so satisfying they never could describe it ihisfeeling may notjust be the absence of tension distress anxiety or worry but positive feeling full of satisfaction which neither they nor anybody else could ex plain Either parent or arwof the children musing while alone over pleasant memories may also have this aura of precious feeling nay parent seriously taking such an inventory as have suggested may not find it very profitable flu or she may in cline to dwell onunhappy mem ories and pile up monnd of guilty feelings oven bemvcr vhelrncd with his or her sup posed frailties and failures li wutry this yourself make up your mind to pick out the many precious memories you have of the day So many of them then may crowd in on your mind and heart thatlcss satisfying ones moyshrlnk and almost disappear The chief thing hav mind today is to remind youandmy self that precious relationships in the family cxpresscdmost often by our mice are worthy of our first consideration wish had hire words to drscrihe the feelings you or or child may havcsuch as the youngster two years old expressed when sit ting by his mother Mummy thV you Wider Grounds For Divorce Help Bury De EDMONTON CF Divorce applications in Edmonton and Calgary more than doubled in the six months alter federal leg islation widened grounds for di voree lhis does not mean rise in ï¬le divorce rate only that lot of dead marriages are finally being burl says Edmonton lawyer Gordon Wright Before it didnt matter how unreasonable partner was iou couldnt obtain adivoree unless you found your partner in bed with someone else The Edmonton divorce oomt receives so applications melt compared with 20 before the new act fn Calgary 77 cases were heard in recent twoday period Under the old law about to cases week were heard When couple have been se parated for many years it sometimes takes only three minutes dialogue between law yer and judge to snip the bond in desertion case it is not ad Marriages necessary to find the deserter Its possible for person to see lawyer hava final di vorce the same day and be re married in Saskatchewan or Montana thatnight said Doug Fitch vicecnairman ofthe Ca nadian Bar Associations law section This is theorclieally passiqu If both persons want divorce both have solicitors and they can find judge its getting to court that usuallyltakes time making the necessary arrange ments for the children deciding who gets the use and so forth The new act passed last July includes higamy homosexuali ty sodomy bestiality and se vero physical or mental cruelty as grounds for divorce further ground is arringa breakde caused by alcohol ism drug addiction lengthy im prisonment descriiondor three years or more or refusal to can summaie the marriage for at leastvayear SPEAKING OF PEOPLE AND PLACES CARth ponrcsrmr Miss Peggy Zlnn lld Nova RR Barrie is collim ant to theltinter Carnival Queen Gonttst sponsored by the Barrie occurs fills Zine an employee of Tampa Corp es encoreaged to enter the icontest by hernssodaie em ployees and by Lloyd Gabriel of the Northern Dancing school sensor DANCE Due to cancellation of last icvcelngs square dance region at illellayleft St Vincent St the Wednesday Nightcrs the intermediate group of Hay loft Squares will be dancing on Saturday evening from until trims oclock Preceding the square dancing there will be Round Dance session from un til pm Visiting square danc era are welcome to attend ltUMlllAGE SALE The Soroptimlst Club of Bar rierhnve arranged rummage sale to take plat of 43 Don lop St on Saturday mom ing The solo will open at to the clubs service work FIGURE SKATING in the Barrlelnrena on Sunday Kcennesr of competition wa spectators for the individual events The results were as fol lows Seniorr Girls Girarnplon sh Monica llille Runner Up Cyndea Gutdolln Special Interpretation Debbie Gutdolln intermediate Mens hampion Patricia Dukcr Junior Champ ionship Vexm ifagnn Runner Up fayn Richardson Novice mamlonshlp Andrea Sildk Netiona1 Gallery Closes Monday The National Gallery of Can ads is closing Mondays effec tive February 1969 but will reopen Mondays from May until 29 September inclusive The Gallery will close Mona days during the times speciï¬ed for budgetary reasons only said Miss Jean Sulherland liogga director Rising costs coupled have made this move neces sary she explained in the past the Gallery has been closed only one day year Ciuistmas Day My IDA JEAN KAIN Theres an ionic to compare with exercise eting to slim down one dress to smaller can help you look like an new Woman Exercising can help you feel like younger woman With small amount of regular exercise you can become mea surably slimmer and feel im measurably exhlilarated The aim ls to restore live tons to tho figurecontrolling mus cles Toned muscles have more elasticity and hold the figure to slimmer trimmer lines Tone and elasticity are synonymous lts such mistake for die ten to shun exercise Not only is it more difficult to reduce but you so your feeling ofwell being Furthermore you wind up with the same figure faults on smaller scale So now to exercise good place to start is with Si bend ing sons to increase flexibility Keep flexible to keepyoung Positi Standing feet apart arms gt up right hand clasplng left wrist Action Bend slowly toward right side centering the pull through the middle measure ment At the height of the stretchhend hold Make this sixword cunt sllm liven upyour 160m by If your oclock and proceeds are for Social not Ire intended to cover tir unrnl rodr life of the city District weddings parties travellers and vtrlton are all Items of Interest to render of this page Your help In supplying thin will be greatly appreciated Pielo about The Barrie Ex aminer W517 and we for Andrey CoalIon or Elhyl Ro berts at the Womens Depart ment muellcr Runner Up Mary n3n ana on ï¬gure Skating Association Tests will be held no lBth Fdamnry 1969 Warm up starts promptly at 630 prn All registrations and test fees be in by 9th February 0R0 HDRTICVLTUTLAL The public are invited to The Barrie Figure Skatingr Club Championships won heldi evident in the enthusiasm and interest of both competitors nndi ship Voila Owen Runner Up MRS NElflE DRUMMOND Mrs Nettie of Barrie has retired from her position as switchboard operat or at Base Borden after in years of service Base 07m manrior Ocltmdenpmg rented Mrs Drummond with scroll to recognition of her ex cellent record On her last day of service she was guest of honor at farewell tea given by her fellow open store Mrs Drummond was aho unlt icrtalned at birthday and is tiramoat party held by her from ily in Continental Inn She was presented with set of match ing luggaga later in the evening at the home of her eldest son KEEP IN THE TRIM Daily Exercise Is Tonic To Help You Look Feel Young lithe lissomewiilowy trim and streamlined Back to position bend toward the other side and again chant your word picture The word picture helps you to visualize your slimming down in the right spots Think sllm wing your words to reach the target Three times on each side will be ample dont overdo Side bonding literally pulls off the bulges By holding the eontrac tlon the isometric principle is brought into play and the toning effect is enhanced And new to roll off the bulges You will enjoy the following ex ercise Its so rhythmic the mo mentum carries you along ef fortiessly Positio Sit on floor leaning slightly back to bring weight to bear on bulge arms at sides slightly back Acth Roll rhythmically across hip spread pushing with one hand bracing with the other Roll 25 counts slowly and heavily Later increase to 50 counts Easy does it Join dancing class bowl or ex orcise in any way that gives you the most pleasure With regular exercise your streamlining can match your ra duoing progres Happy dayi cord or decorative bracketh brightly painting or papenng bookoase backs cabtnets or alcove walls and then add matching throw pillows or gay new area rug dmngloal way to transform any setting pertaking involves professional help ask special evening annexed by the are Township fiorttcultrusl Soc lely on Monday beginning It ï¬ts in Oro Meship lfnll con cession Cattleer 0t ilha enanoer naturalist Will present inflated min lib lures selected from his film ur ies The films are What We Hear and Son in Nature and For Naturalists Only Mr Cat Iley is memborof the Cana dian Aniline Sodoty the Federation of Ontario Natur tats and august president of Brenton It at Pmasauno St has retronod tober hams after vacation St Peterdxng Florida acct Plans Special Events llle legals motor of bio Barrie Centre Royal tauntn College of Organist wlr held Feb It the borne of Mn Arcer Coldweli Mrs June Meicetnoher their man reported on two now own inations to be offend by the col liege cholnnuterr diploma and certificate rumination in organ andchurdr music The annual ongaulst bhnqrft islll be held Mardr 10 at revrslre37ytodan ariam Binds when if Cabana of lbndon National President of R000 will be the guest speaker Marlboro of the Griffin Centre M00 and their clergy will be guests at the dire Her The Barrio Centre will present Alec Wyton organist of St John the Divine Cathedral New York my and National Presi dent of the American Guild of Organists in reellal at St An drews Grurcb Barrie on April As well as organ music Mr Wyton will perform two short masses one traditional and one modern assisted by Trinity An gllcan Chumb dioir Lloyd lrftord gave drort talk on organs and ohnrdres in Europe and England well illus trated by slides takenonnts trips abroad The next meeting of the centre will be doors workshop on Feb 22 Hamburg Patties With Added Flavor Froren hamburgis satis fying combinationmtlow cost good flavor and convenience The following recipe for dell oious patties comes from the Home Economists at Maodon ald institute University of Guelph Thawvpattles It least two hours at room lemperatuxer ilhey may bogcooloed honen but this means nlonger cooldng period Sprinkle the patties with pepper and salt Cook until well brwnad on oneslde tum and cook on the oflrarslde This will take to lorninutes New on each pa Ly place teaspoons butter few of Worcestershire sauce and few drops of larncn juice Cook irst fow minutes long with parsley sumum Citrb Mrs John Drake at Pan withfrlondan clergy Carolyn Paradise of Sani lord 51 will be one of the content in Satiirdayl Carnival Queen indent tri the contest will be WOULDéBEoorrn taken no mtil nine oclock Friday high by Mrs Symon of 212 Ganford St The contest is Wred by tho Jayerites of Barrie Book Enégéndérsif NaSty Letters UllAWA CPD Clatra Mar tin who has gained reputation among French readers for her five books it cheerful witty woman Winner of GovernorGen erals Award for her autobiogra phy in An iron Glove Miss Martin in private llfeMrr lio lnnd Faucharof Ottawai raid in an interview that the book has eng dered aroma nasty let ters But it had alsobrought letters of praise from people in and out bf the Roman Catholic Church have had gfnteful letters from priests and nuns she said The autobiographytnow avail able in English tells of her ty rannical father and her educa tion in bleak and repressive conventshut it is all told with an objective eye and heart that is not bitter My parents are dead Miss Martin said An elderly aunt was slightly upset by iron Glove or to develop good flavor bu Place on platter and genital Th my sisters and brother liked ere is something ridiculous about tyrants Claire Martin war the mlddln child ofsevenin welllode family Her mother who died when Miss Martin was 12 was often iii an Miss Marlin on much time with her srau par enls 5h speaks of them with warm affection My Xiandia thar war the kind of man who put little present by my plate every morning Miss Martin started to scrib ble bits and pieces in her eons vent schools but they were the sort of mercurial things the nuns destroy Despite her fathers disap proval of women working lfisr Martin went to work for the CBC as radio announcer first in Quebec Cityand then ire Montreal in 1945 she married chemist Roland Fnueher and they moved to Ottawa GAVE HER COURAGE Miss Martins first book of short stories published in was gave her courage to caution writing iioolwmt also ANNIVERSARY recipes Only the finest eTHIs All our bakery praduetsare prepared fresh daily in our modern bake shops according to our laboratory tested quality ingredients are used WEEK 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