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18 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesdey, December 26, 1967 Exchanging Clothes Can Ruin A Friendship Dear Ann Landers: My girljcard players who hum, whistle, friend Alma and I were like sis-| grind their teeth, drum. their t We have known each other fingers, flick the ends of the Si grade school. Now we are cards with their fingernails sophomores in high school. make small clicking noises with Last week Alma and I ex- their lips, crack their knuckles, changed sweaters, not for (one woman in the game cracks keeps, just to wear. off Alma's beige sweater I was shocked to discov- er it had turned orange under habits could drive a person up the arms. When I returned it,'the wall? -- Ready To Scream Alma got very upset and said, pear Ready: Yes, I can, espe- "Why didn't you tell me you cially when the person is losing sweat like a horse?" I thought y+'; amazing how much people this was a very uncalied-for re- oan stand when the cards are mark and said so. She then told' of, me that the sweater was com- pletely ruined and I owed her pear Ann Landers: I disagree $8 with your advice to the woman The sweater has a slight rip whose mother-in-law comes under one sleeve and the collar over and cleans her house every is shot. I would not exactly call week. You said she should be it a rag, but it's not new either. tickled pink and to keep quiet I am not so rich that I can. Have you ever had anyone hand over $8 for an old sweater,|take a broom out of your hand but I don't want to lose Alma's and say, "I'll do this--you make friendship. What do you sug-'the beds?" Has anyone ever gest? -- Willing To Settle come into your home and put Dear Willing: One of the away things in places where quickest ways to wreck a you can never find them? | friendship is to exchange have, and it's enough to give a clothes. Somebody is sure to Person migraine headaches end up mad. Pay Alma the $8 The surest way to get some and consider this the price of one to hate you is to "'help' the lesson. colored cluck" with the tongue. "gratitude" can be awfully Dear Ann Landers: I play|heavy. It can rob a person of cards about four times a week. his dignity. Don't tell me it's too much. I) Beloved is the mother-in-law. am not asking you that. who can sense when her help is What I want you to do is write/needed, and offer it unobtru- something in your column about'sively. And a dozen orchids to When I took her jaws) or go "cluck cluck g Can you see how these little t | CHILD GUIDANCE ANN LANDERS Spoiling Children Unlikely To Earn Their Gratitude By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Rec wider prevalence of a lack of respect by youth and of feeling of obligation and gratitude to parents. We saw the futility of exhorting teen-agers to feel more grateful and responsible to their parents We saw some hope in the ba- bies now in, the crib when they become teen-agers, if they are iided in their earlier years with not too much done for em, or given to them, but with. more training of them in} responsibility in a family atmos phere of adequ n itations a Beginning wit! r, we parents should aim to draw the line between what the child wants and what he needs for his best physical and moral devel- opment. Just to let him always have what he wants when he wants it- only means that his wants increase. The more we parents deny ourselves and sac- rifice for his passing pleasure the more he expects of us and the less he appreciates what we do for him Who are thé youths most un the mother-in-law who can come into her son's home and not say one word about the dust and > disorder. I hope I live long them too much. The burden of Cnough to be the kind of moth- er-in-law I never had. -- Been Thru It Dear Been: You have a point and I would not deny Thanks for letting us see how it looks from the other side of the tran- som ard ¥ az SPORTSWEAR LET Sa fda aid aaa dl al 4a) 4) 41 -4ar did OF reay-4)-4) Eal-aleas = Ran or States arp oor "A Sy i us SPECIAL SHIPMENT iy E OF CALIFORNIA iy Swimwear og ag JUST ARRIVED ag ; ig FOR AT HOME OR YOUR iy SOUTHERN HOLIDAY... 2 The Prices Are Most Attractive 8% / OPEN WEDNESDAY, THURSDAY & of FRIDAY UNTIL 9 P.M. ag OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE FOR THOSE SPECIAL HOLIDAY PARTIES ESPECIALLY NEW YEAR'S GLITTERING EVENING ELEGANCE In Dresses, Short and Long Skirts with gorgeous Evening Tops. OUR SPECIAL HOLIDAY DISCOUNT SEIGNEUR Lid. YOURSELF "EERE NEVES MAUVE EVENS VV EN LVS ENVY LEVEE EV ENE VENETYEVE UEUEED EVE Pa sa # aig » § ? ag OSHAWA Fd SHOPPING iy CENTRE i] iy nily we discussed the) {grateful to their parents? Those whose parents have sacrificed ; most in order to gratify whims and wishes of their chil- What dren, For example--going with- . out dessert so the tot may have a second, walking to work so the youth may drive the family "household work may have nothing to do. the so the child/meal. | j--to make him self-reliant. As|well these youths shoulder such|home has no chores to be done|attracti he grows able, we need to re-|responsibilities. We can have no as in former days. You could foolish jquire him to share in the cares'doubts that such was excellentiname scores of them in your most chor and drudgeries of the home. -In training in responsibility, But in home. Who usually does them? Let us be |distribution of home duties andjthe- first place, such opportuni- One or both the parents. Injand make sure our \of expenditures of the family in- ties of relative glamour are lim- spite of all the gadgets that re- cant escap lduce drudgery, someone must responsibilities. jcome, we need to make sure no ited in number. child receives an undue portion thereof what | Now and then a group of high In the second place, many ajput the dishes into the dishwash- jchild who measures up well iner and take them out. As a rule, the concept of culti-,Such projects may lag in doing. The chief reason that children' Q. Our daughter, 8, vating responsibility in children|at his homework faithfully, in\growing up in the home don't own accord, has been teaching ake responsibility for her little brother, 5, to read. shovel. is solely around their doing Sharing in the daily humdrum)|jearn t they would like to do,/drudgeries--making beds and ti-\such esstntial matters is the Should I let her? they most like to do has\dying up rooms, even his OwNisilly notion, aided and abetted usually been done by older and ed and room; helping prepare'hy some parent counselors, that o, jikes it more mature persons--presid-and serve the family meals and we parents should not require perce ing at a school assembly, plan| tidying Rod ---- afterward: 'children to do anything they : and put on a public program, or Taking leaves when there are "t feel li sho car to school, doing all the preparing Bel ps sir family leaves to rake and shoveling age pe Reglag ng. Feo = snow when there is snow to thing we want them to do so ap-| |pealing to them that they just jean't keep from doing them. In the first place, we parents school youngsters take over the FACE REALITY need to let the young child do)management of a town or city Let us qui t making the silly This notion doesn't face reality. ; : Let us not cease to try to for himself what he is able to do. for a day. We marvel at howjstatement that the modern,make doing jobs about the home ve but, let us not be so} as to suppose all or even es can be appealing sensible and p ANSWERING QUESTIONS A. Yes, so long as baby broth- ractical childre ACTRESS SIGNED Joan Caulfield has been signed by producer A. C, Lyles n for a co-starring role in Para. 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Mr. and Mrs. Russell H phreys, Alexandra Street, entertaining their immed family, including son daughter-in-law, Mr. and ! J. D. Humphreys, Oshawa Mr. and Mrs. W. F. Mer and Mrs. G. L. Nolan, R mond Street East, are holiday guests of Mr. and } J. A. McDougall, Scarboro Ontario. Mi. and Mrs. C. Mervin Lean, Hortop Street, are guests of Dr. and Mrs. Edv McLean, North Bay, over yuletide season. Ramnnne Miss Margaret Rice, K ston, Ontario, is spendi Christmas with her pare Mr. and Mrs. Donald Rice, | croft Street. Guests from out-of-town ' Mr. and Mrs. Keith Ross, ' denia Court, are Mr. Mrs. David Wilson and fan Agincourt; and Mrs. B. Sm Toronto, Ontario. PRORNONG Christmas guests at the hi of Mr. and Mrs. Wilfred ley Jarvis Street, are and Mrs. B. J. Hamm Cayuga, Ontario; and } David Garson, Hamilton, tario. PORKNKLEG Christmas guests at the h of Mr. and Mrs. Elgin Mun Glenciarn Street, are t son, Lieutenant Robert Mun Halifax, Nova Scotia; and } Joan Gregory, Halifax, N Scotia. Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Pe Switzer Drive, have their holiday guests, Miss M ellen Petre, Toronto; Mr. Mrs. Donald Petre and Ct topher, Ste. Therese, Quebec DRE LORE Mr. and Mrs. Harold Wri Wood Street, have as t Christmas guests, Mr. and ! Edward Read and fan Brampton, Ontario. Ree EU Miss Pamela Vipond, Mc University, Montreal; and } Dorothy Vipond, Queen's versity, Kingston, are b'< spending the holidays with t parents, Dr. and Mrs. Cle H. Vipond, Brookside Drive Ree The Reverend and Alfred Woolcock, Beurling . nue, have as their yulet! guests, Miss Nina M. Henry, ronto; and Mr. and Mrs. J Brownlie, St. Catharines, tario. a | Stewart Storie, Queen's versity, Kingston, is spen the holidays with his pare Mr. and Mrs. Donald St Alexandra Street. MEER Holiday guests at the hom Dr. and Mrs. J, E. Watt, top Street, are Mr. and C. Reiger and sons, Toronto. MESS Miss Judith Walker, Joseph's School of Nursing Joseph's Hospital, Tore is home for Christmas her parents, Mr. and Albert V. Walker, Northr Street. RRBRALKS Mr. and Mrs. Ross Gle Grierson Street, are the Ct mas guests of Mr. ter Glover, Stratford, Ontar Christmas 1967 visitors the home of Mr. and B. A. Tunnicliffe, Brock S West, are Mr. and P. W. Hurlock, London, tario, formerly of Baltin Maryland, aiid children: C Janet, Grant, and John; and Mrs. G. B. Tunnic London, Ontario; Mr. and B. W. Tunnicliffe and | Dawn, Toronto; Allan B. nicliffe from the Universit Waterloo. Bernard Muzeen, former! Oshawa, now of Calgary, berta, where he is a volu with the Company of Y Canadians, is spending Christmas weekend as the } of Mr. and Mrs. Glenn Sh Garrard Road. Mr. Muzeen be returning to Calgary cember 28.