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In the . upper picture are Grand Knight NCE AT KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS POLISH NIGHT Joseph Peters, left, and dance chairman, Joseph Czajkowski, with dancers Zenia Gasiorek, 15; Bar- bara Raciborski, 16, and Chrystyna Kurzac, 15, left Wemen THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesdey, November 21, 1967 11 Russian Family By PETER BUCKLEY MOSCOW (CP)--Long before North American par- ents discovered Dr. Spock, Soviet parents had found Makarenko, Benjamin Spock's advice is still absorbed by almost every new mother in Canada and the United States, 22 years after his book, Baby and Child Care, first appeared. In the Soviet Union, the same fidelity is to right, members of the "White Eagles" who are seen in the lower picture performing .a_ traditional folk dance. --Oshawa Times Photos Travellers In Southern Asia Find Many Oshawa Connections Former Oshawa residents with whom Pastor and Mrs. J. W. Bothe of Grandview Avenue had visits during their recent seven-week tour of Southern Asia countries included H. W. Bedwell of Singapore, a former Kingsway College staff mem- ber, and now executive secre- tary of the Far Eastern Division of Seventh-day Adventists. In Taiwan they visited Mr. and Mrs. Robert Burgess, both College. He is now administra- 'geganrenanes - PASTOR AND Mrs. J. W. Bothe show their son Larry wome of the things they tor of the Waiwan Sanitarium and Hospital, an@ she is a sis- ter of Mrs. Alex Hoy, Athabasca Street. | Wilfred Hillock, formerly of the Maracle Press, is now treas- urer of the Western India Union of Seventh-day Adventists, with headquarters offices at Bom- bay, India, and he acted as the Bothes' guide and companion was formerly secretary - treas- urer of the Seventh-day Adven- tist Church of Ontario and Que- bec, with headquarters -offices at 1110 King Street East, and is now treasurer of the Southern Asia Division of Seventh-day Adventists. Also and brother of Mrs. Whitby. He is for several. days while they were in Bombay. | In Poona, India they saw Pas-|graduate of Kingsway College, tor and Mrs. B. A. Stickle. Helis now stationed in Bangalore Publishing House at Poona. Although Ronald Watts, brought back from the Southern Asia countries. Larry holds a set of carved 4 elephants from India; his father a replica of the Taj Mahal, and Mrs. Bothe is wearing an Indian shawl, in Poona' were Pastor and Mrs. T. A. Davis. He was a former student at Kingsway, and is a brother of Kenneth and Ed- ward Davis of Oshawa, and son John G. Davis and Mrs. George Town of now editor-in- chief at the Oriental Watchman ministerial and temperance director for the Adventist Church of South India, the Bothes saw him in Madras where he was conduct- ing the same Five-day Plan to Stop Smoking as was held in Oshawa recently. They went to some length to} contact Louise Christo, a former student here from India, and a graduate and the valedictorian of the Branson School of Nurs- ing in Willowdale two years ago. Louise is now operating a medical dispensary in India. In Ceylon they saw Pastor and Mrs. Lawton Lowe and family, where he is | Communist | and father-confessor shown to Anton §,-Makarenko even though it is 30 years since A Book for Parents went into its first printing. Makarenko's work has been through dozens of editions in Russian and been» translated into several foreign lan- guages, particularly for other countries. An English translation produced | in Moscow in 1956 has recent- ly been distributed in North America as a paperback called The Collective Family (Doubleday). As a practical guide to han- dling children and meeting everyday family crises, Mak- arenko's book doesn't com- pare with Spock's. When little Vanya wakes up crying in the middle of the night, his mother doesn't take Makarenko from the shelf to | find out what's wrong. It's <|-not-that--kind- of book. But | when Vanya throws temper tantrums as a regular rou- tine, his parents are certain to find explanations and advice in A Book for Parents, NO EASY TRICKS As a source of insight into family life in the Soviet Union, A Book for Parents has to be awarded a special place if only because it remains the most widely con- sulted and widely quoted work dealing with parenthood in the U.S.S.R. Full of rambling anecdotes advice, it may seem to westerners like a well-meaning but irre- levant compilation of decided- ly old-fashioned stuff. However, even Soviet par- ents who know about all the up-to-date theories on child- rearing still prefer Makaren- ko in moments of doubt. He seems to ring a responsive chord in the Soviet soul. Makarenko has no time for short-cuts in family relations. "No easy tricks can help you out here," he warns par- ents faced with difficulties. And his main advice is summed up in these para- graphs: "The process of upbringing is a constant process. Its sep- arate details find their solu- tion in the general tone of the family, and general tone can- not be invented and _ artifi- cially maintained. "General tone, dear par- ents, is created by your own lives and your own conduct. The most correct, reasonable, well-thought-out methods of upbringing will be of no use if the general tone of your life who lived in Oshawa for several years while he attended Kings-| way, and later was a minister! in Toronto and London, oor the He is now president of the Seventh-day Church of Ceylon and Maldive Islands. Pastor and Mrs. Hillock were in Poona Adventist the Emmerson| here he, a former student ,atKings- way, is now directof of youth activities for the{ churches of the Southern Asia Division of the Church. In Hong Kong they visited with Dr. and Mrs. Arthur Moores. They were not former residents here, but Dr. Moores| is the brother of Pastor ena Moores of King Street East, and) is now chief-of-staff at the Ad-; ventist Sanitarium and Hospital in Hong Kong. In Manila they. visited the! parents of Lily Pan, a member of the teaching staff of the! music department of Kingsway| last year, and conductor of the King's Daughters triple trio heard in various places through- out Oshawa. Mr. Pan is vice- president of the China Bank in Manila. | New Machine Notes) Heartbeat of Unborn| MONTREAL (CP) -- Dr | Morrie Gelfand, chief of obste- trics and gynecology at Mont- real's Jewish General Hospital, has high praise for a new ma- chine installed in the' delivery room to record the heart beat of unborn babies and warn doctors of last-minute complications in their delivery. The machine, called a fetal monitor, costs $3,500. "It is of value to save the lives of infants who would other- wise die during labor," says Dr. Gelfand. "This may .be only one or two babies a year, but it's enough to justify the cost of the| machine as far as I'm con-) cerned." In an item Oct. 29, The Cana- dian Press erroneously quoted Dr. Gelfand as saying the fetal machine saves about two babies a year, but it isn't enough to | environment, is bad." FAITH IN COMMUNISM An integral part of this "general tone' seems to be faith in communism, Makarenko isn't tiresome about it. But the theme is there in no uncertain terms, as in this statement: 'The family is a natural collective body, and like everything nat- ural, healthy and normal, it can only blossom forth in socialist society, freed of those very curses from which both mankind as a whole and the individual are indeed freeing themselves." : Parents, whose authority comes from the state, are regarded primarily as pro- ducers of new citizens, and "it is not at all a matter of indifference to society what kind of people they will be." "If you wish to give birth to a citizen and do so without | parental love, then be so kind as to warn society that you wish to play such an under- handed trick."* Besides maintaining a cor- rect "tone" in the family Makarenko urges parents to adopt a dou- SOCIAL NOTICE OPE*) HOUSE Mr. and Mrs, Peter Gannon, 532 Cromwell Avenue, will be pleased to welcome their rela- tives, friends and neighbors at their home on Saturday, Novem- ber, from 2:00 p.m. -. 9:00 p.m. on the occasion of their 50th wedding anniversary. RIE CAREER SCHOOL OF HAIRDRESSING Are pleased to onnounce the opening of a New Branch in OSHAWA. Day and Evening Classes are now taking appointments, Models are welcome. 145 KING ST. WEST justify the $3,500 price tag. ' 576-3558 'A Book For Parents' Guides Life For 30 Years _ ble-edged plan for their chil- | 7 dren, On the one hand the children must be enlisted into useful collective work and given definite responsibilities, while on the other hand they should be treated with trust and respect. Anton Makarenko was no ivory-tower theorist. He had plenty of experience in han- dling children, particularly the tough cases. HELPED HOODLUMS A native of the Ukraine, he was born in 1888 and com- bined © youthful revolutionary activity with studies in peda- gogy. The young Bolshevik state enlisted his help in 1920 to establish a colony for the "bezprizorniye'--the hom e- less kids who ran wild in the post-revolutionary chaos, stealing and begging and assaulting as a livelihood. The Gorki Colony which he founded was the making of Makarenko's although it had to weather some rough times from the | regime. The ruthless little | vandals were frequently transformed under Makaren- ko and several went on to prominent roles in Soviet life. Makarenko's reputation, jar work at a penal commune for young offenders under the NKVD, Stalin's secret police. In 1937, with the help of his wife, he wrote A Book for Parents, outlining his theories on the family life. He died two years later. The book has not been altered since. Even the occa- sional bows to Stalin--manda- tory in any published work when A Book for Parents was written--have remained in the most recent reprints, although Stalin's name has been expunged from most other writings. SEX IS TABOO Anyone used to Dr. Spock and similar writers on par- enthood would have trouble finding much they can grasp in Makarenko beyond gen- eral, earnest counsel. Nowhere is this more apparent than in the section dealing with sex education. Whereas in Canada the question seems generally to have shaken down to a "how" or a "when", in Makarenko it's still a "whether". His answer is an unshakable "no", "No talks with children about the 'sex' problem can add anything to the knowl- edge that will come of itself in good time," he writes. "But they do cheapen the problem of love, they rob it of | that restraint without which | love is called licence." Western observers are | almost invariably struck by the strictly puritan atmos- reputation, | § Right shoulder or left? This question is being de- bated by three women pre- paring for the St. Andrew's Ball which will be held on Friday evening in the Kins- men Community Centre. Mrs. Robert Gowans (centre) has decided the left is right and Mrs. Rob- ert Meldrum (left) and Mrs. Alaistair Fulton (right) help with the finishing touches. The sash is a_ traditional part of the dress for a Scot- tish woman attending the St. Andrew's ball. Mrs. Gowans is wearing the Dress Gordon tartan, and Mrs, Fulton is adjusting the cairngorm brooch which is mandatory: with the sash. The Dress Gordon is dark green and white with yellow and black overchecks. Mrs. Gowans' husband is the president of the St. An- drew's Society and the other women's husbands are members. Mrs. Meldrum makes kilts, the traditional Scottish attire. Many men at the dance will be wear- ing them. Mrs, Fulton teaches Scottish dancing. Some of the Scottish folk dances featured at the ball will be "Strip the Willow' and the "Eightsome Reel." The bagpipe lilt for the grand march at 9:00 p.m. SCOTS WAE HAE ST. ANDRE will be supplied by pipers from the General Motors Pipe Band and the dance music will be played by Ed Brydie's Scottish Ramblers. NEVER PICK-UP A phere in today's Soviet Rus- sia, Sex almost literally does not exist. j From time to time, a Soviet | child psychologist or educa- | tionist will plead for a change | in the attitude or for. the introduction of more thorough | sex education in the home | and school. But Makarenko's advice still seems to set the tone, "The revealing of the secret, even when done in the wisest fashion, intensifies the physiological side of love and encourages not sexual feeling | but sexual curiosity, making | it simple and accessible," he wrote. Given his widespread and continuing influence, it's not | surprising that the whole sub- | ject is taboo in most families, | | GIVE FREE TICKETS | WINNIPEG (CP) -- The Cur-| tain Raisers, an auxiliary to the| Manitoba Theatre Centre, have! used proceeds from a ball to! distribute free tickets to allow! Grade 3, 4, and 5 students from Winnipeg schools to attend per- formances of the Children' Theatre. 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