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16 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Fridey, Novempar\17, 1967 No Basis For Fact In Friend's Story 'ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: A dear triend of mine had a horrible experience recently and | would like your opinion' on what should be done about it. Emily (not her real name) noticed a lump in her breast. She went to a 7 cian and was told to check into the hospital for surgery that evening. The operation was per- formed within 48 hours of the time she had seen the physi- cian. ° When Emily awoke from the anesthetic she learned that her breast had been removed. She went into a deep depression (which I _understand is not usual) but she began to cheer up on the fourth day. On the fifth day, however, it leaked out that the biopsy report on the breast which had been removed was negative. This made the poor woman so furious that she just about tore the hospital apart. What can be done to prev such catastrophes in the future? Don't suggest that Emily the doctor. Everyone knows the medical profession is a tightly knit little gre ridiculous to try to I'd like your views.--C alif rnia Yell for Help Dear California: Lik second-hand reports y contains some serious No reputable disease. have been removed. Years ago} a surgeon could remove just about anything and not have to answer to. anyone. Today, he would not be allowed to operate if he had a record for taking out organs which showed no sign of So, don't believe everything you hear, Dearie. Dear Ann Landers: I couldn't resist writing to express my } athy for the woman who signed herself 'Married To A Nut." She asked you to arrange passage for him to the moon be- cause he couldn't get along with a single person here on earth. There is at least one more like him. My husband. He also has some pet theories about life and people and will happily deliver a 40-minute speech on! any topic, with or without en- couragement. My husband is certain that novody in this world succeeds unless he is crooked, dishonest, immoral or related. This goes for the top people in politics, business, reli-; gion, education and the arts. | I have a suggestion for "Mar- d To A Nut." Let's you and I} t together and introduce our) pands. Maybe they can find! iness together knocking ev-! ody on earth. Then we s can take the first rocket| e moon and look for some ce little outer-space men who well-balanced ame and ad- es dress.--Also Married To A Nut dure is standa eliminates the moving & heal Furtherr Dear Also: Here's your let 're. ter but I-wouldn't-think of print-| yo ur name and--address.; e besieged with es who woul re Ze LANGUAGE OF LOVE THERE seems to be a little difference of opinion or preference if you will on which anniversary -- the thirtieth or the twelfth -- pearls are given as gifts. Traditionalists still adhere to the thirtieth but young moderns prefer the twelfth. Whichever -- pearls are a charming gift for. Mother even-when-no anniversary is letters serum" does not always pro- ienced being celebrated. Sarah Coventry created these pearls with a classic look and a sterling silver clasp for just such occasions. Also as an extra there are matching pearl dropé ear- rings, which have been coy- ly named 'Fashion Flirt" --by Tracy Adrian Pie: Shope HOME MADE CHILD GUIDANCE Older Children Learn By Tutoring Beginners By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD' |tice may have more possibilities In the last few years you have|for helping a poor reader than been hearing and reading about|the teaching of him by an ex- children, especially in high pert. But in any classroom where children are at the same grade level there is an obvious haiman difficulty. When a third grade child, for example, tries: to lteach a third grade classmate, the latter may feel inferior to the teaching child. But when a child is taught by a much older child, he can feel comfortyable. |He expects this older child o do |much better than he himself be worn with gshort purple pants POLKA DOTS IN There also was a polka dot Head To Foot dress in pink and white with » Spring Forecast cowl-necked scarf in a smaller MONTREAL (CP) -- Mont-!dot print which did not match, real designer Vali says the) One slack suit showed the trend' in women's fashions is to} model's naked belly and consist. the "total look," with women/€d of a short bolero top with hip wearing a planned wardrobe hugging slacks whose top was Ensemble Look school and college, who are| As you can see, when an older} , chi trained and supervised to be tu-|Child reads to a much younger otha ie - eon gong tors of young children, Some)Child he is not reading to help/qent than the average oft his n.onths ago I reported about ajhimself, though he really is; he] eoular class, he does best when tutoring program in New York|is reading to amuse the appre-|,. ic several years the senigr of City in which poor readers: in/ciative younger child. Naturally|ipe child he teaches high school were assigned as tu-|he selects for reading, materials! 1, the home, older chikiren tors of slow learners in the|Which are easy to read, the/.2n be Pood tutors of much grades. The assumption was|Very kind from which he can|vounser brothers and sisders, that the tutoring children learn|gain most himself. from Prac-|though they may be less paitient better as thev help younger chil-/tce. than strangers are. But {if a dren to learn, especially tort STARTED IN IRELAND jsmart younger child tries to read. From the time I was a| Back in the early 1800's there|help an older brother or sisiter, boy I can remember hearing| developed in Ireland a teaching|the latter will feel resen#ful. best while they teach. It was applied with considerable|child at home, having a youyiger Over the years I have urgedjenthusiasm in our country- for alchild present may prove harm- teachers and parents to naveiwhile but finally died out. A few ful. i slow learners read to younger|most apt students in a class-| Also I have pointed out thyat a children who could not read/room were taught by the regu-|child, to respond well to a tutor, in orange cotton outlined by a Scallop design. from head to toe. There were a scries of Suits which had short straight skirts and slightly fitted jackets worn jwith ruffled long-sleeved blouses. One item for wear on patios consisted of cotton Pyjamas |with large circles of red, yellow jorange on a black background, The collar was in the high. necked Chinese style. ug Most acceptable silhouettes this season were the fit and collection shown this week in- cluded modified tents, mini-skirted shirt dresses, patio pyjamas, jump suits and host- ess gowns. The show was kicked off by a parade of swim-suited models. They wore hooded mini-coats tricot over bikinis. In the same material persons say they really learn|nlan called the tutorial system.|Even while you are helping ajthere was a turtle halter shift for beach wear and 3 ni-dress cut like a shirt. Among garish color clashes) she had white shirt over-blouse | with scattered flower. designs to well. The chief purpose was tojlar teacher and these children,|must like him or her as a 'per- cause the helping child to im-in turn, taught the rest of the}son. This may be a bigger fac- prove class. The method. had morejtor than the tutor's skill. Inéleed Repeatedly | have said that merit than it could have now asjyou and I have seen an occasion- one of the best ways to help ajmany schools then, the worldjal adult or teen-age neig:her child at home is to cause him tolover, were ungraded one-room|with very limited educagtion read to a much younger child.|schools. Then the children-|prove a very. good tutor. preferably to one under schooljteachers could often be older|Parents' Questions | pletely ignores requests of ei- ther parent until he. feels it will) mean physical punishment. A.--Aim to make no requests | unless you mean to let him) choose whether or not to accede) age. I have even said this prac-'children of the classroom. to it. Don't treat any request as) Q.--Our 6-year-old son dom-'if it were a command. proved b) tal Associat committees portion of all want t0/duce the truth. An ex ] you liar or a person who actually Confidential to Deep Trouble: | believes the lie he is telling can 't count on it. '"Truth| come out looking very truthful. PIES & PASTRY mises Baked On Pre 153 SIMCOE SOUTH fabulous fashions for | RETAILERS TO THRIFTY CANADL Open Daily 9:30 A.M. to 6:00 P.M. Thursday and Fridey to 9 P.M. 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Mc Oshawa, became the | James Irvin Dowson, Mr. and Mrs. Joseph son of Port Perry, las day afternoon in Simco United Church. The Reverend John Morris of St. Andrew's Church performed _ the mony and the weddin; was played by R. G organist. The bride's "father g in marriage. She wore length, sleeveless sheal of rose-patterned, white vet with empire wai rounded neckline, topp a matching full-lengt which flowed into a sho The French sleeves w cented by a flat bow ' Quenne In St. Philip's Rome olic Church last Saturd: noon, Anna Marie Haze came the bride of Roland Guy Quennevil bride is the daughter Kenneth Delves and Norman Hazelton ai bridegroom is the son and Mrs. Leo Quenne' of Oshawa. The Reverend Rege Forges officiated and G. Kinsman sang acco by Mrs. Philip Lesley. Given in marriage Kenneth Delves, the bi attired in a formal | white organza over « peau de soie, accentec empire waistline anc sleeves with appliques | tilly lace, encrusted w pearls, A cathedral trai ganza, similarly trimn softly: from the shoul double crown of pea crystals held her s length veil of scalloped tulle and she carried a of white and Talisma For 'something old" : ried her grandmothe: handkerchief. Miss Carol McMaster maid of honor and the | tendants were Mrs. Bylsma and Miss Quenneville, all of Osha Albert Quenneville brother's best man an ing were Robert Que and Richard Mosier, ¢ Following a receptio John's Hall, Whitby, th Regular Brus! Success Story For Long Tre: Hair has regained its ing glory' status ni "long and straight" is style. But to live up honor, it needs conside: keep. Curlers can't be ed, for example. The: needed, the big jumbo for successful flipups o1 They'll give hair that of body and bounce a slick look and add body lank locks. 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