10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, July 31, 1967 B ANN LANDERS Their Letters Reveal Girls' High Ideals Dear Readers: Several weeks,pointed out that most of the ago I invited letters from girls|unwed mothers who were who are holding out instead of brought to him by welfare putting out. This invitation wasjagencies were ignorant little prompted by. a father who| girls--some of them 14 and 15 asked if there are any girls left| years old. These girls were lone- who consider themselves real/ly and they felt unloved. They people rather than playthings mistakenly believed that an in- or sex objects. vitation to sex meant someone I promised to print the best eared about them and wanted letter but, alas, there were so|them. He also'pointed out that many superb responses that I/the boys who got these girls have decided to publish three.|into trouble were usually igno- Here they are: rant and irresponsible kids--or ee ne tant : married ean ing a is r in nders: accept for anything from anybody. your invitation to speak for the) To my. way of thinking, hold- "Hold-Outs" against the "'Putiing out has never meant the Outs." Being a 2l-year-old col-/gifference between being a lege student, I have been eX-'good girl or a bad girl. It has| posed to every type of male--'meant the choice between being] from the mama's boy wh0jsensible and disciplined or fool-| wouldn't dream of touching alich and weak. While I am. girl to the sex maniac wh0/pjeased with my choice, it is views every date as a challenge|my parents who deserve the -- the lady to the floor-|credit. --One of Many. I decided when I started to| Dear Ann Landers: Count me date that any girl who would/@S One who considers herself a trade her virginity for a dinner|T@al person and not a plaything) and a movie is a nitwit, Fur-/0F 2 Sex object. It is not easy to thermore, I reasoned, any boy/Changing values. The old con- -who would ask for such a trade|CePts of morality are not as is a foolish, egotistical jackass|Universally accepted as they and should be treated like one./once were. Too often they fall --Intact in Ilinois. flat when challenged by space- D . ae s jage arguments for sexual in- ear Ann nders: am ajvolvement. Loft ideals are fine, high school senior who decided|but a girl needs something at age 12 that I would never|more tangible these days. Here buy a cheap package of kicks.jare the thoughts that have kept} id mers plenty of sales'me straight for 19 years. pitches. Some were smoother! o , than others, but they all added|man who will Pity bd Dials up to a shoddy proposition. I'm|me and respect me. I want to sure it was my parents, (espe-'he worthy of him. Maybe he'll| cially my father, who is an/be a free thinker and won't! obstetrician) who gave me my|care if I am a virgin or not. basic ideas about sex. I'll al-/But maybe he'll be an old-fash- ways be grateful that theylioned guy and he'll care a lot. never made us feel sex Was!No man would mind marrying dirty or wrong. ja virgin, but there are plenty of When Dad would tell us about}men to whom it would make a an unwed mother who had been|great deal of difference. in his office, he did so with|not taking any chances.--Texas| compassion, not disgust. He/Teen. | Seek To Avoid World Of Work --tewy'D. ciseonse. chancelor of the New School of Social R By ROBERTA ROESCH jbut one who maintains his ama-|search in New York City. We all need education when|teur standing by never having] we want to take advantage ofjearned a dollar, opportunities. ( i h But quite apart from this ob-\COlege degree, while his wife vious fact, there remains the|2es to work from nine till five indisputable truth that, in spite|* Dring home the family bacon, of education's role, we each| "But she doesn't mind," he reach a point in our lives when|Says. "She knows that when I'm) jt's time to move out of the|ready, the background I'm ac- Cc Soroptimists Learn/ite American, dream 1s, in constantly | '" y ; : Y| speaker Monday at the eighth| takes new courses to add to his! convention of Soroptimist Inter-| president, said there are 48,000} \national 1,500 delegates from 40 coun-jtions, the Americas, Europe and| tries are attending the six-day|Great Britain and Ireland. SURPRISE VOLUNTEER help riot victims. She is the wife of former Deputy Di- rector of Defense, now President Johnson's person- al representative in Detroit Mrs. Cyrus Vance sorts clothing at the Detroit Sal- vation Army relief center in Detroit where she is working as a volunteer to sense, For in our he is to overcome apathy an with lemon juice. When she arrived in the city, she simply called the telep- phone number listed in a newspaper for and went right to work. volunteers HOUSEHOLD HINT novelty appeal, As a soup break between q|and the 'now' generation is dis-|gather, fill a punch bowl with . Professional Course-Takers rf sees An ae: today's| cr the cuality Bo aoa beef broth on the rocks flavored {half the criticism. Mr. -|are not litterburgs, but those, *|who are inclined to use our '|waterways as flowing garbage receptacles for sandwich wrap-|that first attracted. her to- the | |PLANES WATCH '\/sweep of waterways to reach -,|thousands of people on '|water and along the shore in a : |enthusiasts, serve "We have come to the point/soup in unconventional contain- I'm) Danger Of Apathy lof diminishing returns pate By ELEANOR ROSS Many Americans who derive the most pleasure from our lakes and streams are threat- ening their own future summer enjoyment by careless littering. We talked with Allen H. Seed Jr,, executive vice president of Keep America Beautiful, an in- corporated Organization dedi- cated to just that. The blame for water litter for the most part is placed equally on boatsmen, swimmers and anglers, but among those sin- gled out, it seems that those who take to the water in small and large craft rate more than Seed pointed out that most of these pings, cans or bottles, threaten the reputation of all boatsmen. In the upper Mississippi loudspeakers cover a 284-mil¢ the plea to curb littering. placed 'litter the various coves along the is- land's shoreline. The Salt vast reclamation undertaking, in Arizona, cleanup parti¢s on Saguaro and cleaned up a trash-ridden lake. GROUP CLEANED UP Keep America Beautiful, Inc., is convinced the problem can be i River Wildlife and Fish Refuge the final day of the associa- |area, planes equipped with 4 The management of popular 4 ; A : Catalina Island, a favorite ren- oe poor foot > : |dezvous for California's boating) foeis it is still a problem fae ' women in most countries, in- barges" at convenient points in! cluding England. x" ; close to the days when women River Project, &@/were struggling rights. They got the vote in staged volunteer! mngland in 1919. And I had a PRA Lake, While ln Minne head mistress rojec' Ss. n Minne! was by way of being a suffr: apolis, 200 volunteer skin divers aabae . ner sary step in improving the sta- In Mamaroneck, N.Y., 200|tus of women that men, women and children spent/ mentioned a récént Sunday sloshing along|bands. Her husband has no ob- P Wirept |river banks to rétrieve litter|jection to women working, but if a WAKEP BONO) Neha was cluttering the water.|she knows even want volunteer work, let alone hold- Litterbug Americans. Threaten! Own Fun By Polluting Waters try to keep it beautiful, free of marring, scarring litter whether on land or on the wa- ter--We were going to say "'and in the air" but air pollution js another problem that must be licked not only to Keep America Beautiful, but also to keep peo- ple living. English Solicitor Becomes President World Soroptimists TORONTO (CP) -- The new president of the Soroptimists International Association says it was the efforts of Soroptimists to improve the status of women group. Marion Stallard of Barn- stable, North Devon, England, will be installed as president for a two - year term Friday, tion's six - day convention, Mrs. Stallard is a_ solicitor who works in partnership with her husband, Geoffrey. She said in an interview she has not personally experienced "I'm old enough to be very to get basic in school who Mrs, Stallard said one neces- f is rarely is converting hus- mén who do not their wives doing THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA | FOR TUESDAY Monday's slightly adverse in- fluences lift now, and you should make good progress in all worthwhile endeavors, whether in the completion of outstanding matters or in the initiation of new enterprises. In the latter connection, how- ever, be sure that you under- stand all the angles. Don't zo out on a limb. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If Tuesday is your birthday, you may look ahead to a year which should bring satisfying recognition for past job efforts. Original and constructive ideas put into effect now will have a vital effect on future progress, but you will have to follow through if you would achieve the results possible. By mid-February, your occu- pational and financial affairs should be quite stable, and you can plan on expanding your in- terests néxt June, with gratify- ing results coming your way throughout next July and Au- gust. Be very careful to avoid speculation between now and December 20, however. Opportunities for travel seem slim during the balance of 1967, but highly propitious periods are indicated in 1968--notably in February and during the late-May-early September months. TRAVEL IS GOOD Any lengthy journey taken during the latter cycle could prove advantageous in making new contacts--both of a person- al and business nature. Best periods for romance and social interests: September, late De- cember (excellent days on all counts), April and May. Crea- tive workers will be the benefi- ciaries of fine inspiration--and profiable recognition --during the first six months of 1968. A child born on this day will be keenly perceptive and unu- sually shrewd in business mat- ters, Boy-Friend's Wig New 'Steady' Sign NEW YORK (AP) -- Teen- age steadies, who once ex- changed rings or class pins, are flipping their wigs this summer--matching His and Her wigs. "They're just like Twig- gy's,"' a blonde high school student said in a New York department store, where a salesgirl reports sales have been "just tremendous." The human hair wigs origi. nally were designed for women, but sat on the shelf because women sought long, bouffant hair. Then teen-age girls began showing up at the counters with their boy friends in tow. Some of the boys even ventured in alone. "They come in stuttering and stammering,"' said Larry Mathews, a New York hair _ stylist and wig-maker. 'Then they come back for seconds, for highlights or frosting or something." Mathews said he has sold 25,000 of the wigs this summer to 'department storés from Boston to Los Angeles at $29.95 apiece. Now he is ship- ping 500 a day, and has @ backlog of 1,500 orders. The first wigs were made in South Korea. Thén Ma- thews turned to plants in Hong Kong and Italy to help fill the demand, and tacked on $10 to the price. ng jobs. licked with a simple three-point attack that includes public ed- ucation, enactment and strict la responsibility to their coun- Service Committee, Ottawa. KEEPS MEMORY ALIVE EXPERT RE-FINISHING her menfolk that they haveloverseas through the Unitarian i exclusive pursuit of material ieee i enforcement of anti-litter laws,} A Brockville woman who lost TORONTO (CP) -- Western|values, and of ever increasing meals, ladle it into oversized! and provision for adequate dis-|her sister still r bers her "sGrah Aha) at Mili Posi | man is in need of a new dream|material standards. of living, jumbo cups. When teenagers|posal facilities. at birthdays and Christmas 0 hi ] h | te '. c We appeal to Mom to remind| with a gift to hungry children shawa Upnoistering Go. 725-0311 AND FINES] HEALTH He said academic courses are arry D. Gideonse, chancellor,over - specialized and rarely) i. relevant to the real, whole} world, and the main problem) with students is not revolt, but} keynote apathy. Doris Lewis, international SIA Dr. Gideonse was Association, About|Soroptimists in three federa-| onvention which closes Friday.| Delegates are holding busi- Dr. Gideonse said he agrees'ness sessions today. classroom into the world of\quiring will build the kind of jobs. big career that will reap Dene-| Unfortunately, though, there| {its for us both." are some truly professional) Because of my faith in peo- course-takers who never want|ple, I would like to believe in .to leave school, They sign up|these two. But in the years of for endless courses and won't|my own working life I have met settle down to jobs. And as|too many course - takers who they enroll in courses, they use|never reached any goal in life each additional one as a post-|because they kept signing up ement or a delay for prov-/for a course and shying away ing their mettle. from a job. And as they sus- One woman who exemplifies pended their future, they used this insists she is planning to|their enrollment in courses as write, But in the years that our excuses for not working at jobs. paths have crossed her only : move toward this has been to FAVORS EDUCATION fake wring courses and Put off Parsonaly lieve hat, going to work. most of us, : WILL BE PREPARED But when a life full of courses "When I feel that I'm ready continually delays a person I'm going to begin,' she tellsifrom taking a job, it is time me again and again, "and when/for professional course ~ takers| that happy day arrives I know|to see that there is a zero hour.} that I'll be well prepared to do The time has then arrived tol 'a significant job." take their noses out of the books A second course-taker, who is and apply the knowledge they also a pro at preparing himselflhave gained. 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