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1G THE OSHAWA TIMES, Soturdey, Mey 27, 1967 Self - Dear Ann Landers: What does a*woman do when she reaches hér 40th birthday and suddenly realizes she doesn't like her- self? I don't like working so hard to be cordial to friends when deep down I resent them for reasons which don't make sense. I:don't like the way I have ed others for my failures. Ijdon't like the casual manner in which I have passed on petty sip that should have stopped me. 'Is it possible to make one's self over? Could I change? What you say, Ann Landers?--Too Well Knows To Sign Initials "Dear Well-Known: Of course you can change, and you've al- ready taken the most important 8! recognizing the need to bange and wishing to do so. 'You seem filled with hostility. you know why? And toward om? Talk this out with some- ome whose job it is to listen. hen you unload those ugly fgelings you will no longer be compelled to punish your fam- ily and friends. You will like yourself better and find it easier t@ be civil and perhaps even gracious to those around you. * «Dear Ann: I love my husband very much, but he is driving me crazy. «Paul is a dentist. He receives @pzens of professional journals, agvertising flyers and countless es of samples and "gifts" m pharmaceutical houses. is junk is sent to his office, tht he brings every bit of it heme. Every night he hauls in More paraphernalia, and now I can't even set up an ironing heard or a sewing machine in what was supposed to be my werk room. His library is so ANN LANDERS Correction Of Faults Appraisal Starts crammed full of trash I have given up trying to clean it. He has ordered me not to touch anything. Paul has promised dozens of times to sort things out but he never gets around to it. In the meantime, I am ashamed to drowning in junk. ..Dear Crowded: Do you have fire insurance? If you don't have it, you should. Ask your insurance man to look at your place. A call from him might inspire Pack-Rat Paul to get rid of at least some of the junk. that which you cannot change. Dear Ann Landers: I am 13 and have no way of earning money for gifts, records, movies and little extras. I spoke to my father about this months ago. We agreed that I would do certain chores around ance. It started out fine but my father has gotten into the habit of borrowing money from me now he owes me $7, and I don't think I will ever see it again. Do. you have any suggestions money? Please don't say I am lucky to have an allowance, be- cause I really deserve it. Thank you.--Broke Dar Broke: There's no way I know of to get your $7 back unless your father decides to repay it--and I certainly hope he does. A father who welches sets a mighty poor example. In the future, deposit your money in a savings account where it will draw interest and not be available for "loan." THE STARS SAY = By ESTRELLITA - HOR TOMORROW *Sunday will be a perfect time extend hospitality to family amd friends. It's a day for gift- generosity on every ne. Travel and romance also favored. EOR THE BIRTHDAY elf tomorrow is your birthday, outlook is an extremely it one. You are currently ig a. period in which you can f@mulate long-range plans and your financial status if you constructive steps--espe- y between now and the end r December. Fine gains are during the forth- coming seven months but, in d@rder not to offset them, it will he imperative that you avoid wagance in November and ber and engage in no tion in early August or een Jan. 1 and the begin- g of next March, at which ie you will enter another lendid four-month cycle for iftreasing your assets. Best months for occupational better- it: September, November, mber and next March. tellar blessing is given to r personal life, too, with phasis on romance between and late September, in late etober nd next April; on vel: The next four months, mber, January and April. th domestic and social inter- @ts should continue on a happy rote generally throughout they of intellect, a brilliant wit and year. 'A child born on this day i make an excellent jour- talist, composer or playwright. }Monday will be a day in which your best efforts could Yay off handsomely. Superiors will be mindful of your endeav- Ofs, and you could receive some unusual recognition for services rendered. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If Monday is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that your ability to size up situa- tions smartly could bring you many benefits during the next 12 months. This should be a year of great accomplishment --a springboard to still greater achievement in the future. Look for fine chances to better your financial status between now and the end of December. Then, consolidate gains and "mark time" until next March 1, when you can look forward to an have guests over and I'm/-- What's the answer?--Crowded| | It this doesn't work, resign| [gs yourself and accept, with grace, | § several] © the house and receive an allow-| and not paying it back. Right} : 1| CHILD GUIDANCE Differing From By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Suppose you have three chil- # idren--a boy, 8, a girl, 6, and a boy, 5. Unless they are triplets or two of them are twins, they are different physically and the greater these differences are the more different their home environment will be, all else being equal. For two years, the eldest was the centre of the family. The attention of his parents, rela- tives and neighbors centred about this youngster. As soon as the second child was born this attention was divided. The first child surely felt this differ- ence. After the third child ar- rived the eldest may have felt himself Jess important in the family and the second child was no longer the youngest, As each child grew older, there grew wider difference in the responses by each parent and each of the relatives and other adults to these children. There gradually grew wider differences among the re- sponses of children outside the family to these children. When any one of these children in the family received less approvals and attention than the other children, he felt this difference. So he felt the difference when he received more disapprovals, rebukes or punishments. These children may differ widely in quality and degree of native intelligence. Even if they didn't, they may be widely different in their achievement with book-learning at school, where they have different teachers and are taught differ- ently. If one excels at school, he may lag more because one or both the other children excel or vice versa. Sometimes, one child in the family might do better at school if a brother or sister did not do so well there. One child might be less stubborn and disagree- able at home if another child '| Each Child Is An Individual Brothers, Sisters' child there. Each parent is a different person now than when the first child was born. Fur- may be different. Most parents will say they treat all their children alike and they suppose they do. But thermore, income and the like a By ELEANOR ROSS Heating equipment, when in use, generally gets a hit or miss cleaning. So the warm weather is the signal to scrub the fire- place, the radiators, the hot air wets and grills -- all places where dust and grime have ac- cumulated over the cold season months. Unless thoroughly 1 they can continue to how nearly impossible it is to do so, however hard the parent tries. As a rule, we parents do try hard to hold to this principle, and we need to keep on striving. But when we clearly see that one is not responding to our treatment as another does, we need to look for other factors which might be influencing their feelings and behavior. Constantly we parents need to ask ourselves of each child, Does he feel he is considered as important as the other chil- dren in the family? Does he feel himself as much loved and wanted? When we discover reasons to believe he doesn't feel so, let us try to build him up as a person, try to set the stage so he might win more successes at play and work, might feel more worthy. Doing so should be a challenge to us and call forth our greatest skills and resources. However, we need to take caution lest we go too far and cause his brother or sister to begin to feel unduly inferior. I once watched a mother and father bringing up five children during their earlier years. I was impressed with this moth- er's sensitivity to the feelings of worthiness in each child and how skillfully she proceeded in this direction, ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. Can we parents, when our children are with us, afford to be discourteous to a waitress in a restaurant or clerk in a store or cause these helpers any un- necessary trouble? A. Certainly not, or at any other time. were not so co-operative and cheerful. PARENTS CHANGE In ever so many ways the successes or failures, approvals or disapprovals which come to one child in a family affect the feelings and behavior of another OSHAWA TIMES PICTURE RE-PRINTS Available At NU-WAY PHOTO "PERIOD COSTUMES BRIGHTEN SCHOOL CEREMONY the school, dedicated by a pupil representative of each class. The trees represent the school children's partici- pation in centennial. They raised enough money to pur- chase them in a two-day paper drive at Adelaide last April. Mothers served an 1867 snack of apple juice and cookies. James P. Carey. Mrs. Carey made the dresses she and her daughters wore to the school. Dr. A. E. O'Neill, a former principal of O'Neill Collegiate and Vocational Institute, was guest speaker on the topic of trees. Seven Canadian varieties were planted on the south side of A tree planting ceremony at Adelaide McLaughlin pub- lie school recently turned out to be a_ centennial fashion parade for many of the 600 mothers and chil- dren visiting the school. Patty Carey, Grade 2, right, is seen with pre-school excellent four-month cycle for improving monetary matters still further. Do avoid specula- tion during the early part of August, however; also, between Jan. 1 and the end of next February. Best periods for job advancement and recognition: September, November, Decem- year, mance between now and late September, in late October and next April; on travel within the next four months; also in De- cember, January and April. If careful to avoid friction on the home front in early November, your domestic concerns should be unusually harmonious for a long time to come. A child born on this day will be endowed with a high order a delightful personality. BOARDS FLASH NAME MONTREAL (CP) -- Lost children at Expo 67 have their own special place on St. Helen's Island. Attendants collect lost youngsters from the exhibition site and their names are dis- played on electronic panels un- til they are claimed. Oshawa Business College offers Summer Training for BUSINESS -- it makes good sense! Prepare for higher Start as soon as possible after Registrations accepted up te J "Summer School M Make your Summer count for hi Acquire Useful Skills and Knowledge Make yourself more employable for the future. Get a head start on an Office Career. TYPEWRITING AND SHORTHAND and schedules. Open to students from Grades Six, Seven, Eight, High School and University. 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(CP)--Mary|job of all Christians to extend HANDY MATERIAL There are more than 5,000 uses for wood. waft dirt onto freshly cleaned floors, walls, and furniture. Use plenty of suds to clean the fireplace. If it's unpainted brick, make it hot suds, good and hot. Use a stiff scrub brush to remove smoke stains and grime. Painted brick will shine the brighter for a swabbing with warm suds. But take care not to mar the painted surface with abrasive cleaning tools. A sturdy sponge should suffice, though steel wool, which must be carefully handled, may be needed for really stubborn stains. Marble mantels can be washed with plenty of warm suds 'and rinses. Discoloration and stains usually respond to a "poultice" of hydrogen peroxide mixed with whiting, then sprin- kled with a little ammonia. When the bubbling stops, re- move the application and wash the area thoroughly. Or just ap- ply the peroxide and ammonia with white blotting paper. This usually removes tobacco stains caused by knocking pipes against. the fireplace. There are special brushes to remove dirt fro! iator sec- tions. You can also use a bottle brush dipped into hot suds, then in warm rinse water. Or tear a strip of clean cloth to wield the suds as you would a shoe-shine rag. DIRT COLLECTS The places you can't see are where the dirt collects, so get in between sections and behind the radiator. For a quick preliminary cleaning, use a vacuum to re- move surface dust -- after Heating Equipment Needs Check 'Then Cleaning Every Spring spreading a damp cloth under and behind the radiator to trap the dust so it won't fly around the room. This makes the brush-washing easier and more efficient; Follow the same rou- tine for hot air grills or ducts, Remove surface dust, then wash tall reachable surfaces with suds and water. Let the clean fireplace serve as a handsome summertime decorative feature by "plant- ing" some realistic plastic foli- age, or if you have a green thumb, by arranging some pot- ted plants in and around the area, Greenery, whether real or plastic, provides a spot that looks cool.and pleasant and is restful to the eyes. An occa- sional spong will keep plastic greenery fresh looking. And all those fortunate gh to have fir can enjoy their cozy warmth in the winter, and fresh greenery in the summer--when the fire-fed heat's off. An ordinary 8' garage door handle placed in the bathroom doubles as a towel ring or hand- grip for gettinng out of the tub. BIRKS recommends HAGERTY Silver Care MAPLE CLEANERS 4 LOCATIONS Speedy Service SPECIALS - - Whithy Location Only SUITS PLAIN DRESSES 00 PANTS SLACKS PLAIN SKIRTS 00 progress will be evident during|cyitaren's Ald Society of St.| Mrs. Joseph Cartier, Chip- --y oe ef 8 ps poe a aN the entire year. 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