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= & <otutrwad me teas ae em ee ee 12 'THE OSHAWA TIMES, Scturdey, Apri 15, 1967 Dear Ann Landers: When started to date I wouldn't con- sider going with anyone who wasn't at least five feet 10, wel built and handsome. I made fun of the boys who were a little too fat or a little too thin. If a fe low's nose was too big or his teeth weren't straight, he was automatically off my list. A boy's clothes were impor- tant, too. If he didn't look lik a fashion model I wouldn't con- sider being seen with him, My mother warned me that I wa making a big mistake, but wouldn't listen. I made fun of|arranging to take the children her, too. Guess what happened? I married the best looking, best- dressed fellow in town. All the girls were green with envy. Ow wedding pictures were great. We now have five children My handsome, well - dressed hasband never takes me any. where, not even to church, I haven't eaten in a restauran for three years. He prefers to go places alone. IT am disgusted and fed up. but I am determined to keep our marriage together. This rot ten husband happens to be a good father. Please warn girls not to pass up the short, homely fellows. I'm sorry I didn't have sense enough to grab one for myself. --Susan Dear Susan: You're so right. Marrying for looks {s a lot like You can buying wax fruit. starve to death looking at it. Dear Ann Landers: Our son is/is free to do the same. If he having a fifth birthday party in a few weeks. The problem is|And if he does come back, that the mothers always. bring their children and sit around as if the party were for them. ANN LANDERS It's What Is Inside Package That Counts . I; I know from experience that young children behave much better when their mothers are 1-;not around. Our home is small and it would be much easier for me if the mothers did not stay. 1-| If I come right out and tell them how I feel, will they be angry and perhaps retaliate by not allowing their children to come? What shall I do?--J.B.B. e| Dear J. B. B.: Be frank. When you speak to a mother ask her to drop her child and sjleave him in your care. And jjyou can sweeten the situation by home when the party is over. Dear Ann Landers: I am an y|18-year-old girl who is in love with the most wonderful guy on earth. I know he is the man I am going to marry. The problem is his mother. I've worked like a dog to get }o her right side but she hates e. Three months ago he dropped me to please her, but we got »|to sneak around behind moth- doesn't know we are dating and "|he can't bring himself to tell her. Invisible Ink. courage to tell his mother he is dating you, he will never find the courage to marry you. Go with others and tell him he loves you he will come back. make sure his mother knows about it or you'll waste some mighty precious years. CHILD GUIDANCE Progress Comparison Helps Train Children In Neatness By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Many parents are distressed over a child whose written work is untidy or illegible. They know he will be handicapped all his school life unless he improves in.neatness and legibility. Teachers, too, are worried and annoyed over unattractive hard-to-read written work. Just to rebuke or ridicule the child for ugly written work can hardly prompt him to strive to make it more legible 'and at- tractive. I once heard from a teacher of her good way of motivating her fourth grade pupils to strive for more neateness in their written work. In September she asked each child to let her keep a written paper of his choice she had returned to him. At the beginning of each succeeding month of the school year she invited him to let her have an- other such sample of his writ- ten work. She guided each child at plac- ing each successive written sample between the leaves of an old magazine, dating each sample. Then at various inter- vals she had each child lay out on a table his samples in order of their dates, when all could see how much he had improved in neatness and legibility. SOME GREAT STRIDES On the vote of the children, the successive samples of a certain number of the children which revealed most improve- ment in neatness and legibility were displayed on the school- room walls. The children and teacher discovered that some of the children whose first sam- plés were. the worst showed most improvement and won a handwriting in appearance and legibility. No doubt most chil- dren would gladly co-operate at home or school at this enter- prise. They might, indeed, like to carry it on over several years. Another good way to motivate Whether "he loves me or loves me not" My boy friend is 20 and I think it is crumy that we have to sneak around behins moth- er's back. Tell me what to do.-- Dear Ink: Stop seeing this fellow. If he doesn't have the is of little consequence to five-year-old THE DAISY "Sweet -bunch of daisies, brought from the dell, Kiss me once, darling, daisies won't tell." This tender oft - quoted coup- let was written in 1894 by Anita Owens but the link between love and the daisy seems to have endured for centuries, The daisy is the flower of April, and it has become the traditional adornment of Cana- dian April brides. Those born in April are grac- ed with thie daisy as their special flower just as they have the diamond for their birthstone. This is why the florist will sug- gest daisies in arrangements to mark such occasions as birth- days and graduations, welcome home or "'get well" greetings. a child to strive to do neater written work is to guide him individually at writing words and figures by hand. Many a patient persuasive parent should be able to do this well. COPY FROM MODEL For example, a parent might have this child write under a neatly written line of script slowly and carefully several lines of his own. It would be desirable if the model-line is written on a slip of cardboard or heavy paper which can be slid down the paper so that the child copies from this model and not his own earlier copy. As your child does written work at home, you can show him how to leave margins and to indent for paragraphs. You might mark off the page for him in dim lines. When he does number work you could show him how to keep the columns up and down and the rows across in neat alignment. After your child has done written work at home for school, you should check it for neatness. If time permits, you should require him to redo careless slovenly work. You might display on the kitchen wall the neatest and most legible papers your child brings home from school, leav- ing them there in order of date over a long period. ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. Would you put a tot three, place in the exhibit. Here is something any parent} might also do with the child at} home, in order to stimulate him to strive to improve his four, or five to bed to punish him? A. No; nor use anything as punishment which I wished him from all periods and designs, Its bridal acceptance has ob- viously overcome Shakespeare's theme, established when Ophe- lia gives the queen a daisy to signify "that her light and fickle love. ought not to expect con- stancy in her husband". The daisy, in its many var- "op" striped covering. Or, if the shopper prefers, there is a chair covered with one of the new floral prints in electrifying colors. The fake fur rug may be just the thing to fit in with this nucleus, and that zebra striped ottoman carries out the prim- itive beat. How about that low chest with its wood worked in a dazzling chevron pattern? Or that coffee table of see-through glass or plastic with bamboo- turned legs of polished alumi- num? BROAD SELECTION Wide is the choice of seating cushions upholstered in shiny vinyl or patent leather, lux- urious deep-piled velvet or cor duroy or fake fur. Throw pillows are included for piling in pro- fusion on sofas or even on the floor for complete relaxed loungability. This new. "instant decorating" is easily grasped by the homemaker, with its choice of co-related furniture and ac-| cessories even to the ashtrays. | The complete room collection | is the "in" thing of the year, | with tuned-in furnishings thet swing with the times and min- | gle harmoniously with furniture | to like. Furniture Groupings Take Worry Out Of Shopping By ELEANOR ROSS Shopping for furniture and| \lacking individuality. stance, a black shiny leather or | For in- accessories is being made much) Vinyl sofa, deeply tufted and/| easier this year. Manufacturers have worked together to create collections of co-ordinated softly massive with cushioning | lof latex foam rubber, is com- fur-|Pl Pay & © mes x | Maes su 2s : | 0? 23s 24s ~_ | in Ove * $3 ee s.. £4 mos s > < fj a*° ted by an easy chair af| niture, thereby solving the nerv-|8enerously curved contours with | racking problem of picking and |Perhaps choosing from a welter of un- a bold polka dot or! related designs and styles. This year, stores offer entire furniture groupings with de- signs, fabrics and colors co- ordinated in unmatched but| go - together collections. The trend is away from piece-by- piece presentation; the empha- sis is on '"'total" rooms for the convenience of the customer who now can purchase her own "eclectic" furniture, safe in the | knowledge that it is in good | taste and tuned to the latest | decorating trends. SAMPLE ARRANGEMENT These furniture groupings, often include tables, wall deco- | rations, rugs, bookshelves and/| lamps to form an up-to-the- minute total-concept package. Such a showcase arrangement is a real breakthrough in home furnishings display and a dis- tinct boon to the home deco- rater. There is a wide choice so that there is little chance of @ tom being standardized or | { | Jho Mayfair Salon 27 Celina Street P. IVAN International Hair Stylist Platform Artist LONDON PARIS VIENNA Now at... 728-0662 The Special Flower Of Those * Whose Birthday Falls in April Marianne as she plucks the petals from a field daisy. Cupid's computer has a long link with love and is April's flower of the month. This arrangement contrasts the pure white field daisy with the natural color of a fruit basket to symbolize the freshness of spring. jieties has long captured the imagination of poets, particu- larly Burns and Worsworth. One of today's favorite var- ieties bears the name of Long- fellow. While poets move into |the abstract, the April daisy |has become a@ symbol of fresh- jness. "Fresh as a daisy" seems to have been coined by Charles Dickens. |. Florists nowadays use the daisy-like anenomic. chrysan- themum for many purposes and the shasta for wedding arrange- ments. The anensmie in white- yellow, yellow - gold and orchid combinations is available earlier than the shasta, which blooms mainly in April. The shasta comes in yellow or white. The latter is ofter tinted to match the dresses of bridesmaids. The daisy comes in many var- ieties, ranging from the hardy common white and the yellow "ox - eye" species found in most fields to the frost - sen- sitive double - billed 'Long- fellow" and the "bride", which prefer the florists' care. These bloom from late spring to first frost. The flower gets its name from the early English term "day's eye", a reference to its charac- 93 TODAY Receiving congratulations today, her 93rd birthday, is Mrs. William Cardinal Sr. Mrs. Cardinal has lived in Oshawa for 51 years and is now making her home with her daughter and _ son-in- law, Mrs. James -Hardie Sr. and Mr. Hardie, Aber- deen street. Mrs. Cardinal has five sons and three daughters living, 25 grand- children, 61 great grandchil- dren and two great-great- grandchildren. A son and an adopted grandchild are deceased. SOCIAL NOTICE RECEPTION Mr. and Mrs. Earl McLean, RR 4, Oshawa, will be happy to receive their relations, friends and neighbors at the home of Mrs. Ellen H. Pierson, 36 Buckingham avenue, on Wed- nesday, April 26, from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. on the occasion of their 50th wedding anniversary. REASON FOR COLOR Venetian gondolas are sup- posed to have been painted a uniform black in the 16th cen- tury to protect the anonymity of intriguers visiting each | other's wives. KEEP IN TRIM By IDA JEAN KAIN Let exercise be your spring tonic. Here is a promise: With a few weeks of planned exercise you will begin to experience a feeling of vigor and buoyancy. Exercise is a positive health measure, and health is the vital principle of joie de vivre. If there is no reason, bearring vel- leity, why you shouldn't exer- cise, get the habit. Your individual program will depend on your way of life. If you take public transportation to work, you can stop short of your destination and walk the rest of the way: Perhaps a surer plan is to walk briskly for 15 minutes before getting on the 'bus. If you drive the children to school, why not walk with them? Mothers in one section did this with excellent results for themselves and the young- sters. First you have to will to walk, but before long you won't want to forego this pleasant ex- ercise. Homemakers need a program of exercise to keep the big muscles of the body in tone. All the labor-saving devices rob us of the natural way to control Let Regular Exercise Be Best Spring Tonic is an inherited factor, influences where fat is likely to be de- posited. One homemaker question: "On a diet, when the pounds begin to come off, do they come off at the same rate all over, or do they tend to come off where there is more fat?" Unhappily, fat seems to come off last in those spots where it has lived the longest. Why? These are probably the muscle- lazy-areas, Stored fat is used generally, not just from spots. However, improved circulation is all to the good--so stimulate circulation in the fat - prone places. Direct the exercise ac- tion there. Exercise steps up calorie burning. The slimming results will not come from burn- ing the calories deposited in spots, but from increasing the muscle tone in asks this ming. You'll look and feel slim- mer, and measure slimmer. To reduce, curb calories. To| WOMAN RUNS BANK -- Rebecca E. Watson, ap- pointed manager of the Univer- sity of New Brunswick's cam- pus bank in 1963, was the first woman manager in the Bank of Montreal's 146-year history. REMEMBER THE SICK MONTREAL (CP) -- This city's volunteer bureau is ask- ing Canadians to adopt "forgot- ten patients" in mental institu- tions. Volunteers are asked to visit their patients regularly and to write letters and send small gifts at Christmas and for birth- days. Ks WIFE PRESERVER To empty a pencil sharpener Perron 4-17-67 those areas,(without mess, fit the vacuum Nevertheless, the effect is slim-|cleaner hose into the sharpen- {er's opening and let the suction ido the rest. streamline, exercise. The hap-| piest reducers are those who| combined exercise with dieting. | weight and keep in tone. EASY TO GET SOFT It's easy to get soft today. Soft muscles have an affinity for fat. There is the clue to where fat goes on--and comes off, Added fat padding is prone to settle on the least disturbed spots. Gain more, and more pounds pile on the same muscle- lazy areas. Body build, which TIMELY TIPS EDGAR'S DECOR CENTRE BARBARA'S BEAUTY SALON {0th Anniversary | | | t 34 KING ST. 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