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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, February 20, 1967 True Dear Ann Landers: My heart went out to that wonderful man|home we are in for a dance) whose wife had multiple scler-|," piano concert by the eight] | osis for 19 years. We, too, have a wheelchair|and dramatic readings by the in our family. The invalid is}10 year old. We have children my husband. Sometimes I feel as if our lives are controlled by| wouldn't think of inflicting them} a yardstick. Can we get him through the door? Is_ there enough room? You'd be sur- prised the places we can't go. Too many stairs--narrow pas- sageways. Everything must be checked in advance to avoid inconvenience and embarrass- ment to others. We had one child before my husband got polio and we have had two since. You wouldn't believe the questions I've been asked. And, yes, some people have been cruel and highly critical, but I have learned to be patient and: forgiving. What they don't know is that we are trying to live as normal a fam- ily life as we can. It has been said that God never sends a heavier burden than we can bear, and I believe it. When my husband tells me he is the luckiest man in the world because he has me, my heart melts. I know what it is to be loved and I wouldn't trade my life for any other.--Wife of an Invalid. Dear Wife: Your letter should make all women with healthy, able-bodied husbands take a good hard look at themselves and the nature of their com- plaints. That husband of yours must be a prince of a man. He stands 6% feet tall--even in a ANN LANDERS Perplexing: Obstacles Love Overcomes Every time we go to their recital-by the seven year old, year old and impersonations who take lessons, too, but we on our friends. 10 minutes of kiddie entertain- to climb the walls. He told me again <.1d not to accept another invitation to their home unless I make my position clear in ad- vance. What shall I do--Need Council Dear Need: Let the mother know your husband's attitude toward the floor show and un- in the future, stay home. | Dear Ann Landers: I'm a 17- year-old boy who is in a jam. I am going steady with two girls. The brunette lives across the street, the blonde lives in a small town 65 miles from here. The brunette has a_ terrific build but she is dumb to talk! to. The blonde has a shape like an ironing board but she is smart and has a great sense of humor. I had to buy two class rings to keep them both happy. It cost Last night after one hour and ment my husband was ready) when we got home that he re-) "% fuses to sit through that stuff] less she is willing to spare him| «~~ ¢ Whenever the young swinging fashions are being discussed the question of the proper accessories in- variably comes up. This time the problem is what type of handbag to wear with the vivid striped or op art print. The answer is simple: When your dress is op art printed or striped, your bag should be smart "THE ACCESSORY PLUS in color but plain, please, and shape like this leather envelope. Well - tailored, it has a convertible dog-leash strap for shouldering during a hard day's shopping spree. It is shown here with a a chic, tiger-striped, orange acetate tricot dress. The long sleeves and a bateau neckline are new fashion notes. --By Tracy Adrian Gifted Harpist By ROBERTA ROESCH Pearl Chertok is one working woman who believes in loving what she does and in giving her main interest her every effort. And for Pearl, an accomplished harpist, this viewpoint has brought many chances. One job opportunity, for ex- ample, keeps her busy as the harpist in the otherwise all- male CBS orchestra in which she plays, on a regular basis for the Ed Sullivan, Jackie Gleason and Arthur Godfrey shows for Lamp Unto My Feet, for Look Up and Live and 'for Around the Corner and Camera Three. Another job opportunity keeps Pearl Chertok on the go teach- ing the harp to a wide range of students. And still a third op- portunity has her giving con- certs like her recent one in Carnegie Hall, as well as those she continuously gives in hos- pitals, mental institutions and reformatories. LIVES WITH HARP the harp for breakfast, lunch and dinner," Pearl said. 'But this is the life I love, and I be- lieve you must love what you're doing in order to build a ca- reer." | Pearl herself has loved the |harp since the day, as a very small child, she heard a dra- matic reading of Edna St. Vin- Harp Weaver. "I was brought up in Laconia, New Hampshire," she said, "and all through my childhood my mother used to take me to all the concerts and dramatic me a small fortune. These girls don't know about each other and if I run into one of them when I am with the other I'm! KEEP IN TRIM a dead duck. Help! Help!--! Living in Fear Dear Living: A 17-year-old boy shouldn't be chained to one wheel chair. You sound like/chick. Introduce the two girls people I'd love to know. and add another couple for good Dear Ann Landers: My hus-|measure. And just in case you band and I have been friendly|think of yourself as a great with a couple we've known|lover--any liar can lead a dou- They have|ble life. It's nothing to be proud of. since high school. three children. Enthusiastic Grandmother Enjoys Her New Figure By IDA JEAN KAIN Enthusiasm is positively con- tageous. The heartening report from the grandma who slimmed CHILD GUIDANCE Speech Defects Hold Child Back Socially, By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD |t Many a child on entering|going suggestions. The older this school does not speak plainly./child is the more sensitive he may be about his speech, conse- dren and the teacher. Naturally|quently the more careful. you this child is treated as much|Will need to be lest you render him more self-conscious. Avoid understand why since what he|!#terrupting him or breaking in hon testy | of his to have him d ong t Ty say the word after you e10Ok eee On) SOs me correctly. Wait till he has fin- ished a sentence or more and then quietly say distinctly the word he had trouble with. What he says may not easily te understood by other school chil- younger than he is. He may not said at home was usually under- neighbors. Indeed, some parents of chil- dren with infantile speech think they are cute, and make little or no effort to help them speak plainly. A mother wrote: then sometimes I'm not able to make it out." t! HEARING TEST My reply in part: In the first i Place you should have that child's hearing tested. She may not hear sounds distinctly when others speak or when she her- self speaks. When you speak in her presence try to enunciate distinctly; also as you read to her daily. Keep a secret notebook of the words with sounds which give|to sit at the table till he has her most trouble. Nonchalantly,|eaten all the food served him often let her hear you use these|0n his plate? words as you speak. When read- ing nursery rhymes to her,|much on his plate, letting him choose some containing these|choose how much of any food, troublesome words. Read or say|S° long as it were visible, or let these rhymes over and over to|him serve himself. words which trouble him you may discover the few sounds " which trouble him most. Then I am concerned about mylyou could centre your attention ughter, 4, who cannot enun-|on a few words. While not show- ciate words clearly. People dojing any displeasure over his in- not understand what she is try-|distinct utterances of some ing to say and 75 per cent of|words, be generous with ap- the time I have to ask her to|proval as he says some of them repeat what she has said and|correctly. speech clinics. If your school has none of these try to find one you can find ways to help this child yourself he may make good progress. prove his speech more than most parents suppose they can. ANSWERING QUESTIONS Academically inctly, follow roughly the fore- Tf you will take down the In the best modern school here are speech specialists or in private practice. Of course, if Parents can help a child im- Q. Would you require a child A. No; I would not put so down 54 pounds in eight months and changed from size 42 to size 14, sparked a chain reac- tion among you readers. "Tell us more," you urged. Today's story is from the grandmother whose teen - age granddaughter said: "Grandma you have the pretiest shape I ever saw!" She sent the infor- mation along with a full meas- ure of inspiration. Here it is. "Grandmothers, don't wait another minute! Start a protec- tive reducing diet so you can enjoy a new life full of bounce and energy. Think of the day you will be shopping for new clothes to fit your perfect fig- ure. You'll purr with pleasure while making your selection-- among the misses sizes. "First, see yur doctor. Tell him of your earnest desire to reduce and improve your health. He will give you a cal- orie chart and a protective diet plan. My doctor put me on 1,200 calories a day. To lose the last 15 pounds, I lowered calories to 1,000 a day. "My usual breakfast: One whole orange or half grapefruit --the fruit is more filling than the juice; one poached egg; three slices of unsalted whole wheat melba toast, with a half pat of margarine and a trickle of honey and black coffee. Later I switched to caffeine-free cof- fee as coffee made me nervous. I wanted to enjoy every minute of this challenging adventure. VARIGO PROTEINS "IT had my big meal in the mid-afternoon, I varied the pro- tein--a most serving of lean meat, broiled chicken, fish or shellfish--crabmeat, oysters or shrimp. I had three vegetables --a half cup each -- always choosing one green or yellow. (Avoid corn, peas and lima beans.) With salad I had sea- soned vinegar, or yogurt or but- had gelatin, fresh fruit or fruit tapioca. "Here are the 'bad guys'-- steer clear of them: baked beans, macaroni, spaghetti, gravy, all baked goods, avo- cado, cream, cream dressing, ice cream, whole milk, potato chips, corn chips, salted nuts, soft drinks, alcohol and choco- late. "Regard these weight-makers as the killjoys that keep you from reaching your goal, and the temptation to eat them wanes. Soon you won't want them. "Think of the thrill that will be yours! Imagine being able to admire a slim, firm, youthful figure. This can all come true for you. The process isn't pain- ful--it's fun," she promises. This grandmother's program will be continued later in the week, a WIFE PRESERVER Add casters to the bottom of a tall garbage can and you've a portable bin for long-handled garden tools. ELECTROLYSIS Removes superfluous hair painlessly Try Our Kree-Imperiol Machine MARIE MURDUFF will be in Oshawa et the GENOSHA HOTEL Feb. 20, 21, 22 PHONE 723-4641 For appointment on these dotes termilk dressing. For dessert, I| performances that came to our town. "From the time I heard about the harp, I wanted to play one myself, but I didn't get near one until my teens." Pearl started taking lessons-- and couldn't stay away from the harp. "I loved the instrument so much," she said, "that while I was going to school, I'd do any- thing, right or wrong, in order to get home to play the harp. CLIMBED OUT WINDOW "I'd take out garbage at school, for instance, and then continue on my way till I got home to the harp. Or I'd climb out of classroom windows when the teachers and students were Through Dedication, Hard Work "Like many harpists, I have) cay) cent Millay's The Ballad of the) Finds Success solo, recitals and chamber music in museums and librar- ies,"' she said. "Later, when the Ed Sullivan show made its debut 18 years ago, I got a job playing for that, and I've been a staff musician for CBS ever since. "I think you must love what you're doing in order to get anywhere. And I also think that in music or any other field you have to give your interest your all. You can't just dabble around." Curried Eggs Make Tempting Supper Eggs can be served in a vari- ety of ways. One of the best, especially for a supper treat, is found in curried eggs, accord- ing to a recipe from home econ- omists at Macdonald Institute, University of Guelph. Sliced, hard - cooked eggs are served on golden brown fried bread and topped with a spicy curry ce, CURRIED EGGS tablespoon cooking oil ad medium - sized onfon, chopped 2 tablespoons chopped green | pepper tablespoon flour tablespoons tomato juice cup soup stock \% bay leaf salt to taste \% teaspoon curry powder 5 slices bread 6 hot, hard-cooked eggs butter Combine oil, onion, and green pepper. Cook until onion browns slightly. Blend in flour, add tomato juice, stock, bay leaf, and salt. Simmer 10 minutes. Strain. Add curry just before serving. Fry slices of bread in butter to golden brown. Cut eggs in thick slices, and divide on slices of toast. Pour on the curry sauce. oe CANNED HAM PLATTER (Ib.) can ham 1% tbsp. mild table - mustard (Dijon) 1% tbsp. currant jelly 12 whole cloves ¥% Ib. sliced liverwurst 12 cherry tomatoes (halved) 12 sprigs parsley Refrigerate can of ham at least 6 hr. Open and unmold. too busy to notice. "Tt all sounds ridiculous, I know, but this is what I mean you're doing." | After Pearl graduated from high school, she studied the harp in Philadelphia. When she finished her training there, she settled in New York where she began her career. when I talk about loving what|lightly with mustard and cur- Scrape off gelatin; save and heat to make pan-gravy. Slice ham % " thick, spread rant jelly mixed; stick in cloves. 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