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ANN LANDERS Graduation Exercises "Going To The Dogs'! Dear Ann Landers: I thought!/went back to him again I was I had heard everything when going to live with my dad and all those nuts wrote in to tell his new wife. you they sang at their own| I packed and left, only to find weddings and 'everyone just|that my dad and stepmother loved it." Today I ran across] were fighting just like mom and} some more evidence that peo-jher second husband. I miss my} ple are getting buggier by the|school and my friends and 1) minute: jwant to go back home but I} I see by the South Portland-|can't decide if I should. Please Cape Elizabeth Journal that|tell me what to do.--Battle commencement exercises were) Fatigue held for dogs. The place was| Dear B.F.: It sounds as if one} packed with proud '"'parents."" |place is as bad as the other, Down the aisle pranced aland there's nothing you can do} poodle, a collie, a Doberman,|about it, so you might as wel and so on--all wearing the tra-|be with your friends and school ditional mortar board with|mates. hanging tassels. These dogs had}. It's a sad commentary when completed their obedienceja 17-year-old boy has to write! classes and were presented with|such a letter. I hope every pair ribbon - tied diplomas. Their|of battling parents reads it and masters were as puffed up as|feels ashamed. if a son or daughter had made} Dear Ann Landers: My hus- Phi Beta Kappa. jband and I have been married I am enclosing the newspaper |for seven years. We have three story, complete with picture to) children. prove that I am not hung over) I feel like I am living in the from New Year's. Thank you--j|dark ages. My husband refuses Steady Reader |to allow me to wear shorts in Dear Steady: To those who|the summer or stretch pants in insist that education is going to/the winter. All the other young! the dogs, what better proof do|wives in the neighborhood dress you need? Thanks for my laugh|this way and nobody thinks for the day. janything about it. My husband| Dear Ann Landers: I'm a boy|says he is against such clothing 17 years old. My parents were|for religious reasons. | Take Advantage Of Open Doors For, Opportunities By ROBERTA ROESCH When good opportunities are your ambition, never close any doors. This is the outlook--and we all can follow it--of Judy Lewis, the daughter of film and TV star Loretta Young, who has opened enough good job doors 4\to develop an acting career of her own. "From the time I was a stu- dent, acting was at the back of my mind," Judy told me when we talked. "But at first, wasn't confident I could be suc- cessful because of the natural habit of comparing myself with the finished product I always saw in my mother. "So, I decided to play it safe and begin my own career with a secretarial course and a job with a writer, since I thought J might like to write." When Judy was ready to work, however, her mother sug- gested that she begin as a sec- retary for the Loretta Young Show. "As I walked through that open door,' Judy said, "I be- gan working with the story editor. On the job, I learned ev- ery aspect of the script and production of TV, including re- search, musical scoring, etc. In s my spare time, I studied acting and joined a little theatre group." After Judy had opened suf- ricient doors to give her a var- ied background in film training and acting experience she de- ljand, it seemed her world fell cided to move to New York to see what she could do on her own. "In New York, I was a stranger," she said. 'I did a bit of everything and kept many irons in the fire. One thing you can say for New York City: It gives newcomers a break--even if it has to send them out of town." One of the chances, Judy found was a radio research as- signment 'in Washington, D.C Later, when she decided (after being chosen by George Abbott, noted producer, playwright and actor, for a play) that. she could succeed in acting she be- gan to concentrate on that, even though the Abbott play closed apart. Since Judy has confined her- self to acting, she has worked on TV, appeared in commer- cials and played in the Broad way production of Mary, Mary OSHAWA TIMES PICTURE RE-PRINTS Available At NU-WAY PHOTO SERVICE 251 King St. E., Oshawa 8 x 10 -- 1.50 each 5x 7 -- 1.25 each 20% Discount on Orders of 5 or More Pictures for a year. Currently she is; seen regularly as Susan Dunbar in the TV soap opera, The Se- This type of job assignment GUARANTY has her commuting three days a week to her acting career in New York and spending the rest of her time at home in Connecticut. Her home is essen-| tial to Judy, too, since being a wife and mother is one of the many doors in life that Judy) wants to keep open. "As many women have dis-| covered,"' she said, dom an easy matter to balance | la busy working 'routine with an/ lactive home life. It takes both| \will power and strength. 32. KING ST. E. Open To Serve You Mon. - Thurs. 9 to 5 Friday 9 to 2 Saturday 9 to | drapery needs see Botty Haydl INTERIOR DECORATOR 15 King Street East CUSTOM MADE DRAPES Phone 725-2686 divorced two years ago. Last} Religion is just as important BRITISH WOOL CREPE SUITS year my mother remarried.|to me as it is to him and I don't My stepfather was good to me|see anything sacrilegious about until he began to slap myjshorts or stretch pants. | Hardy Amies uses new Each has an_ enormous | British wool crepe in delec- matching straw Breton. The mother around. When I tried to} What are your ideas on this? | table spring colors for these famous London designer, protect her he would get mad|Thank you.--Texas Woman | two dress - jacket outfits couturier to Queen Eliza- at me for butting in and I'd) Dear Woman: Some women| from his 1967 spring beth, is currently touring | summer collection. The one the world studying the de- catch it, too. look terrible in shorts and} H ' Pe a One night he knocked out|stretch pants and their hus-| on the left is in apple- signs of airline stewardess mom's two front teeth and she/bands are opposed to them for| blossom pink and on the -- uniforms in different coun- left him. Two months later they | this reason. | right in pale almond-green. tries: -- all in preparation made up, he paid for some new| I say if a husband is opposed | for his ge omg teeth, and then he knocked/to shorts and stretch pants for| HOUSEHOLD HINT from British European Air- THURS. & FRI. them out. They went back to-|any reason, a wife should re-| Try using one thickness of] »)* to design new uni- " : irls of gether three days before Christ-|spect his wishes. There are| ' forms for the gir mas, but on Christmas Eve he|plenty of attractive skirts you\W'@PPing paper as a pressing) Europe's largest airline. hit her again. I told mom if she'can wear--and I hope you will.|cloth on wool, dacron or cordu- CHILD GUIDANCE Sta "yaa: oro Electrical Gadgets Hold rehome But Junior! You can't study allnight! hot iron. The crease will be| as requiring him to sit un- A al T Child amused for 20 goon -- | Jan y him. Better not at- gerous ppe 0 1 tick the night prose till after RETAILERS TO THRIFTY CANADIANS OPEN DAILY TO 6 P.M. By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD The modern home has more and more electrical gadgets. They are attractive to the tod- dier and most of them are very dangerous to him. If he has not learned well the meaning of no he may be in constant peril. Of course, they might be kept out of his reach but unless he also learns to stay away from them, never toching them or iampering wi i om, he may get to them when no one is watching (like all other known dangers about the home). The surest way to make the child safe is to train him to avoid such things automatically and permanently. Merely to hold the youngsters away from these perils and to explain to him why he must not touch or tamper with them is not enough. He must get instant pain when he does touch them. If he is allowed to explore them as he chooses he may get pain severe enough to keep him from doing so again, but with the pain he also may lose a finger or hand, even his life. Left to nature's ways, all youngsters may learn to avoid many specific dangers, but this learning may be at tremendous cost. We can improve on na- ture's ways: We can provide the pain necessary to keep him together it might slow him down some but this has not helped us. He gets up at 3 a.m. and 4 a.m, to play with Bobby's toys. Then he gets Bobby up again at 5:30 a.m. and goes "This is not just a home prob- lem, it is wherever he happens to be, outside or visiting or shopping." My reply in part: Having read carefully the foregoing you may easily see why your effort at restraining him has not worked. Since the electrial gad- gets are so dangerous, centre your attention on them, The moment he touches, or even you have got him under control by day. Once you get him under con- trol at home you should have no trouble restraining him away from home. strong all day. ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. Our son, 2, is well cared for while dad and I both work.|! We read to him every night. I would like to teach him to read. Whan can I do? A. Your time could be spent more profitably perhaps if you didn't aim to teach him to read but kept on reading to him in- stead, and encouraged him in creative fun alone and with other children of his age. Even if you've got a student's lamp from LIGHTING UNLIMITED 7 STORES--TORONTO HAMILTON -- OSHAWA ® reaches toward one of them, seize him, turn him over your knee and smack him soundly. Be sure it hurts. A mere tap or a slap over his clothes-armored thigh may not hurt at all. It may be wise to bare his bottom and make the smack skin-to- skin. Besides he may have tough skin. When he gets out of bed in the middle of the night to play and disturb his older sleeping brother, see that he also gets instant pain without exception. In the morning you should teach him in like manner not to get up until the clock rings or you call him. Once he has learned to re-| spect such pain you can em- from specific known dangers without physical harm to him. The most effective way for us| to do so is always to be on hand| to touch it we can, with the bare | flat hand applied to his bare| thigh, smack him, making sure) it hurts; until he automatically | keeps himself away from it. | NO EXCEPTION | Till such time when we are) sure our child never would) touch a dangerous gadget again, | there must be no exception and} he must get immediate pain. Many parents will smack the tot then this time but only yell/ no at him or pull him away the} next time and the next. Over a} period of a few days or weeks he may thus get pain a total of many times when he ap- proaches the danger while at! many other times he may not. A mother writes of her son,/ 3: "Michael is truly a bright! little fellow but he will not and cannot stay out of things elec- trical, or the stove and just anything he sees that is not his. He has been told no, punished and spanked and before you| can turn around he is doing it) again. He is not destructive but you can just look at him and see the wheels turning. 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