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o--"~ ne en ea ae pe ae a ee Fe WH ER Gee ae Hee eoererere Ww er ene vows By GARRY C, MYERS, PhD CHILD GUIDANCE An Older Child Learns From Helping Younger Ones LP en Pag PPS Sy TR Te ¥ ore ee. ew * b cll to as "sharing ex " Tt certainly is sand for ster whe thus reads aloud. But suppose you were a very poor reader in a classroom where a very good reader was reading aloud "to share expe: riences" with you, Would you warmly welcome this sharing? Might you not often feel more is sniette perien readin, school in reading or other sub- _ WILL FIGHT COOKE LO8 ANGELES (AP) Angeles: Bin Hockey pene py Sod action --_,, to keep Jack Kent Cooke, former ito sportsman and broadcaster, from operating a National Hockey League team in Los An- geles, Cooke, owner of the Los pte Lakers of the National court Tos Angeles, Log |Court Dy or 'contenu. the Western |&" agreement The Superior tnat existed between NHL and Blades' officials in 1961 that the Blades would get the NHL franchise, BUTTONS LED TO SONG Odetta, the U,8, Negro folk singer, earned' money for voice jects, But the older child gen- erally resists help from this younger one, especially when such help is not requested, DON'T INTERRUPT It the father or mother is 4 reading with him the assign: ing, spelling, arithmetic, or the like the younger will volunteer help also, He may spell a word or give an answer when the older child pauses, for example, Parents write me of such Cages, |jeye), I advise them to forbid the younger child to butt in; also|ANSWERING QUESTIONS not to have the younger child} Q, Could jealousy by one present when they are trying to|child toward another cause the help an older child, former to be stubborn? Often in educational litera:| A, Yes, indeed. It's hard to ture you see applauded the fre-/name any type of undesirable quant neaotioa in tha ovadas afihahaviar which mav ant he having. the best: readers read|caused or increased by jeal- aloud to their entire class. Itjousy, [ OSHAWA Rie CLEANERS | In a family of two or more children of school age an older child might be able often to help a younger one, This. some- times happens. It might happen successfully more often if better relations between the children were cultivated, Often I have urged parents to induce a child who can read to a very young child in the family or neighborhood, This practice cultivates kindly relations be- tween the children and provides wholesome amusement to the listening child, Best of all, it helps the reading child to read to read better, Many a poor better, Many a poor reader of the grades could be helped mana hu this msgaadise hae Bus a tutor, even a reading. expert, Recently a mother wrote to tell me of the fine way her son, 15, helped her son in Grade 2 to catch on with modern math inferior over your reading dis- ability? You and I have watched some of these "'listening"' chil- dren and may have wondered why they are not more de- lighted than they seem to be with the "shared experiences," How much better it might be to seek volunteers from a Grade 2 or 3 steps higher to read aloud to children at a lower grade: Basketball Association, has ob-|!essons in a button factory and tained the NHL franchise for - Pee asa maidservant, The Complete . . FAMILY SOUND intended wedding to Nohra Vaca's two previous. mar- Ines Alvarez, (CP Photo) riages, It was an unexpect- PD sect death blow to his up, handing the officiating priest copies of the certi- ficates of Jose Reyes Novoa "., . SPEAK NOW or for- ever hold his peace" -- So | a Bogota detective spoke 'Colombia's Marriage Course 'Doesn't Overcome Bigamy The two marriage certifi: dozen children often do not cates were not the only indi. wed, cations that Jose's grasp of Pattern for the course is the message of the pre-mar- flexible from parish to parish, ital course was less firm than A typical counselling team to a younger brother or slater in reading, arithemetic, spelling} or other school work, in addi-| tion to helping this younger! child get along well with other children, HAVE YOUR RUGS and UPHOLSTERY would comprise the parish By CP Correspondent BOGOTA, Colombia (CP)-- Jose Reyes Novoa Vaca flunked the finals in a course for engaged couples. Prospects that he will be enrolled to repeat the course are dim. The course was recently in- stituted by some progressive Colombian bishops, Priests in the dioceses of the bishops co- cerned are not permitted to marry couples who have not taken the course, Announcement of the course provoked from gleeful Colom- bian commentators a spate of teaching suggestions, of marg- inal theological soundness, An example: "Marriage drags on for centuries and centuries, That's why it's in- dissoluble." Emerald dealer Jose, 21, and Nohra Ines Alvarez, 17, an attorney's secretary, at- tended classes. regularly. The parish priest was leased and s0 was Nohra nes, "He appeared very tranquil and very interested," she said of Jose. For a pre-marital course, the wedding must rate as the final exam, Jose was tranquil and in- terested at the church cere- mony too, until the priest reached the section; 'Does anyone ." any impedi- ment . RUDE INTERRUPTION A detective, taken for a guest as he stood by the altar rail, stepped forward and handed the priest two docu- ments, Jose became less tranquil, more interested, The documents were the certificates of two previous marriages. Colombia having no divorce laws, neither had been dissolved. Unobtrusive in the congre- gation, his two earlier wives were also tranquil and inter- ested. One of them had warned the police and press of Jose's already bigamous state, the priest had supposed, Frisking following his arrest at the altar rail disclosed that accessories to the groom's at- tire included a 45 automatic stuck in his belt, Sponsors of the pre-marital course are bearing up well un- der the setback Jose dealt their project. Reaction included a cartoon of a teary Bogotan chiding a preoccupied male: "If you really Joved me you wouldn't marry all those others," And an ebullient columnist commented: "It.is meet and right to teach that one should love thy neighbor, It is also well to teach that one should love thy spouse," AWARENESS LACKING The bishops who set up the pre-marital classes aim to bring an increased sense of responsibility to the Colom- bian marriage scene. Teen-agers wed with scant awareness of marriage's re- sponsibilities. Rural couples whose awareness of these re- sponsibilities runs to half a priest, a doctor, a nurse and a married couple, Topics include conjugal love, adaptation to marriage, masculine and feminine psy- chology, responsible father- hood, marriage and the civil law, marriage and canon law, marriage and the home, and so forth, Usually the classes are held once weekly, during the month before the wedding. Reception of the plan has been generally favorable, with one or two demurrers: ~<An airline hostess, with a cosmopolitan grasp of mascu- line psychology, doubted for- eigners (meaning North Americans) have the patience to wait a month to wed; A social worker said those most in need of the course never get married anyhow, As for Jose, he now accepts that he and the bishops are thinking along different lines. "As soon as all this is fixed up I am considering going to Mexico to marry Nohra there in a civil ceremony." Imagine how this older child ments from these books helping him mean, TAUNT YOUNGSTER Unfortunately some older chil-| |dren in the family will maker ifun of the remarks or questions | of a younger child in the fam. PROFESSIONALLY CLEANED NOW! might help a younger child who found his textbook hard to read {by reading with yim the assign-| and) learn what they| Free Pick-up & Delivery OSHAWA RUG CLEANERS 1700 Simcoe St. North, Oshawa Housewives orem a! 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