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Oshawa Times (1958-), 3 Sep 1966, p. 18

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ANN LANDERS Thoughtless Friends Show id our $ -- years old. Mike + ap! is 17 am Vv prou is ichelistie 'roonrd is excel- lent and he has earned recog: nition in sports, Mike has always enjoyed swimming and he used to go to the pool often--until this year. When I noticed he was making up excuses not to go with his friends I became suspicious. Yesterday I learned the reason and now I need your advice. Mike was mowing the lawn when one of his friends walked by and yelled, 'Hi, Ape. Tried out for any Tarzan pictures lately?" Mike's face turned crimson. He did not answer. I asked Mike what it was all about. He replied, "I have hair growing all over my back shoulders and the kids call me 'Ape.'" Do you recommend shaving, hair removal creams or per- haps even electrolysis in a case such as this? Please tell me what is best for my son.-- R. R. R. Dear R. R. R.: Shaving, hair removal creams or electrolysis is no answer when a man's back and shoulders are in- volved. Mike needs to talk to some- one who can get through to him and make him accept his hair- iness without shame. This will not be easy since his friends have already made him ex- tremely self-conscious. Ask your family doctor for guidance. Dear Ann Landers: My chil- dren are eight, seven and five. Their father has a hot temper and when they misbehave he really wallops them. The kids are afraid of their daddy. When they do some- thing wrong they beg me not to tell him. I usually say, "0.K. if you promise not to do it) again." him.|ised not to do it again if I Their Jealousy 1 Yesterday the two alder ones were playing with matches. I caught them twice. 'They prom- didn't tell daddy. Am I over- protecting, my children?--Unde- cided Dear Undecided: You are un- der-protecting your children and I hope you see this answer be- fore somebody catches on fire. Don't make deals with those kids. Work on your husband to be less harsh with them. You'll have better children and a bet- ter marriage. Dear Ann Landers: For years our mother complained about aches and pains although ex- tensive examinations failed to show anything organically wrong. She. also lied constantly. We all covered up for her be- cause we believed she was a mental case. Last month a psychiatrist told {CHILD GUIDANCE Children Who By GARRY C, MYERS, PhD Recently. we discussed the child labelled immature by the teacher. We noted that in many a letter about him the mother renarie thai he ofien "acts silly' at home, at school, or both. I have read of this be- havior so often in letters and heard it so often from parents and teachers, about the child the latter hss labelled imma- ture, that I am almost per- suaded that acting silly is a pretty sure symptom of im- maturity. We are apt to say that when a youngsier acts silly he is try- ing to win attention. This may be so, but while his silly ways May win temporary attention they usually are met with dis- approval by adults and children older than himself. As a result, the youngster feels frustrated and uncomfort- able and grows more ready to resort later to more silly ways. These ways are the more prim- itive. ones, more babyish, and more easily followed. Actually Lack Confidence Show Off tions, we parents may do most for him from the times he be- gins to toddle, all the way through his school i While the child may pg greatly in maturity in Bel ANG UU Lite BCHYOVL qiaysivume, we may have more ties at home as we study him while neighbor children are in our house, where we can guide him at being a good playmate. His gains at home at growing up should-result in gains in ma- turity at school. But we hardly can hope by just talking to him at home about his ways at school. He needs guided prac- tice constantly in. desirable and satisfying behavior at home and at school, If at five, seven, or 10 he still does 'not talk plainly or en- gages in babyish speech, the school, with its speech experts, may help him greatly; but at home, long before he enters school, even while in school, his parents by reading con- stantly to him and encouraging him in normal speech, may do more than the school can do. Perhaps a better explanation At home and at school the many persons will be ling, too, FOR THE BIRTHDAY your moroscope indicates tat you should take advantage of every available opportunity to advance yourself in occupa- tional matters now since, while results will not be immediate, your ideas and ingenuity in put- job and (or) business gains: Mid - December through mid- originality to work on pet proj- ects now, Planetary influences will be so generous in stimulat- ing your ingenuity where occu- pational interests are concerned [Soggy ys ig | Ding and (or i Yous rile IB a Late De- ; cember, next April, May and August. we A child born on this ; . be endowed with lnc pl tive and technical ability and THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA fine recognition by mid-Decem- to wae| ier. Good. trends' in this com nection are also indicated during the first two months of next year, late April, June and Au- gust. Best periods for monetary matters; The mid - December- mid-February period. June and HEXL depLEMper, Domestic and social activities should prove stimulating for 'edgy." Use caution in travel- tasty sandwiches, You a ane them sliced, or minced wit mayonnaise, pickle relish and most of year, and po ha , 'ou ma' they nourishing, realize a' dream of Row t na mee » Canad mr termtneenenatanineneneenneeintininantnti JURY & LOVELL Lid. DRUGS - OSHAWA Holiday Weekend STORE HOURS SATURDAY, SEPT. 3rd au sro = «sto. 9 p.m. OPEN If tamorrow is your birthday ting them over. Best periods for February, late June, late Au- ust and all of next September. ood financial periods parallel the above, with June an out- standing month for expansion. But do avoid extravagance and speculation -- especially be- tween now and Nov. 1. Where romance and social re- lationships are concerned, you can look forward happily to most of the year--with accent on especially stimulating expe- riences during late December, next April, May and August. Sentimental affairs could prove of "acting silly'? and "showing) disappointing in late November, us that mother's mind is per- fectly OK and that she ha kept us all under her thumb by pretending to be ill. | My brother and sister and I are furious, We have decided to tell our friends the truth. Father continues to lie and says since she is our mother we should lie, too. I say he is encouraging us to do wrong and, mother or no mother, we do not owe her that. What do you say?--Honorable This sweater dress by Alyssa, designed for back- to-school wear, is in royal temporary escape from discom-) fiture. They occur when the) youngster does not feel he can} succeed when with other per- off" is thet they serve as a|Parent and teacher may do most for the child who is la- belled immature as they look for his strengths and build on |them, as they are able to help June and July, however. A child born on this day will| be endowed with ambition, great | SUNDAY, SEPT. 4th intelligence and an unusual love A SWEATER BECOMES A DRESS blue and features a turtle neck and low-placed sash. was manufactured in Hong Kong, (CP Photo) sons in achieving as they| him feel more and more worthy achieve. So although we natur-| 88 @ Person and win more suc- ally try to curb his silly ways| cesses at achieving in more we don't get far in our efforts|4d more directions, unless we can help him get fun! 5 at play and work with der ee nl ae ae hus- children of about his own @8e./ hand and I don't like. How can CHILD MATURES we keep these dislikes from of the arts. FOR MONDAY Planetary influen ial ual 8 KING ST. E. 12 te 6 p.m. OPEN -- 723-2245 MONDAY, SEPT. 5th, Labor Day ar 1 to 6 p.m. OPEN -- 723-2245 | | ces promise | cong relati hips! on Monday, success through) mental work and writings, gen-| eral advancement along most) lines. All should do well! | Betty Dear Betty: It's hard to be-| lieve a psychiatrist told you! your mother's mind is "per- fectly OK." If he did, he must have played hooky the day his class studied hypochondria. Any person who continually complains about aches and pains when the physicians can} find no organic illness is ill in| 4 l the head and this can be more|homestead with steel siding by crippling than an organic dis-| explaining that this newest en- ease. itry into the home improvement Your lack of compassion is|field is a product that actually verted: . ee "heals" itself when "'wounded." | By ELEANOR ROSS You can entice the man of! the house into sprucing up the Surplus Of Marriageable Girls Presents Forlorn Picture In U.S. | MIAMI BEACH, Fis. (AP)--- The United States is caught in the middle of a marriage squeeze. It looks as if 500,000 or more young girls are going to have ta postpone their first marriage. or get hooked to somebody they would have passed up in normal times, or. -- worst of fates--not get married at all. The cause is the baby boom that followed the Second World War. The babies are grown up now and the girls are looking So, tell how it works, Zinc coating is the "healing" agent) that gives galvanized steel its protection against corrosion. If} the siding is cut or accidentally | scratched or gouged and the) steel is thus exposed, the zinc goes into electrolytic action. When moisture forms a bond between zinc and steel an elec-| trical current is generated, That current workes on the mately not marry at all." more chemically active of the NOT ENOUGH MEN |two materials---in this case, the The hard facts are that in fhe |zinc. in Uns fasnion, then, zinc late 1950s there were 99 mar.|serves as a "'sacrificial'"' protec- riage-age young men for every |tive coating on the steel. 100 marriage-ready girls. But * in the early 1960s, the figure a 7 gah ng dropped to 94 guys for every 100) ,*° might also enumerate steel's other qualities--its in- gals. Now it is down to 93 fel-|) . ont strength which is th lows for every 100 females. A engia which 1s thiee times that of other metal sid-! | might otherwise have never married, "Or'--and here the paper let out the brutal news--"'it is pos- sible that more girls will ulti- New Scratch-Proof Steel Siding Latest Innovation For Homes The child seems to be more) mature as he grows less de- pendent physically and emotion- ally on older persons, He be- comes more self-reliant when he does fcr himself what he is able to do. He matures as he learns to amuse himself and enjoy normal- fun with other children of his age, to look after his own rights them and settle his own wuar- rels with them. In these direc- Stock panels, which interlock to form. weather-tight installa- tions, generally are .017-inches thick, 124% + feet long, eight inches wide and weigh about among} having bad effect on our chil- |dren's eating proper food? A. You know that by trying FOR THE BIRTHDAY @ FREE CITY WIDE DELIVERY ® If Monday is your birthday, | often a small portion of disliked | foods you and dad can learn to \like them, You certainly can |keep from talking of your dis- likes. HOUSEHOLD HINT Wooden spoons are much more satisfactory for beating 'and stirring than metal ones. | 614 pounds each, So the siding) can be readily assembled by a do-it-himselfer. | SHEARS OR SNIPS For a professional-looking job, assemble the customary car- penter tools along with power shears or tin snips and a caulk- ing gun, Then prepare the sur- face to receive the siding. If you're covering an old surface, it should be as smooth as| possible. | Fasten trim around window, | doors and the undersill of the roof iine. The first course is installed at the lowest point on the house to which the siding is to be ap- plied, but at least six inches! above the grave level, All joints) should be caulked. Use only zine coated nails. 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It has dent-resistant qual-|They should be long enough to) aiiutk a otatistical blow for ike ities so it can withstand such|penetrate the original frame} American male: abuse as bumping by children's|sheathing or other surfaces at} ras Giees estar kk bikes, the force of hail storms|least % inch. Drive the nails ihiike Ghat Gk ton toit part 3 and the dimpling caused by the|flush with the siding; do not the 1960s, tre marriage i ueeze | Pressure Of Incders. so ru was resolved in large oa by A point that might have more With steel siding, your house changes in the marriage pat- feminine appeal is that steel/has got itself a durable, main-| ferns of the wolned, and pot by siding is available in a variety | tenance free facade. Instead of alteration of the trend of ages Oe: CORLOFY BRLniee ; CONPER. ae a paint job, all you need to re- pick your color and suggest|fresh the exterior is wash it! 610/612 WE DO IT FOR YOU Pounds For Only For only $2.50 we will dry cleon about 10 skirts er 12 dresses or 20 sweaters or 10 children's coats or 8 men's slacks, or any combination of clothing weighi up to 8 Ibs. Tremendous sovings on drapes ai blankets. Glenayr YOUR CLOTHES tion convention by two men from the U.S. census bureau, Paul C. Glick and Robert Parke at first marriage for men. .. . "The young men have been successfully warding off any mle Jr. In a paper they said: "Generally speaking, the squeeze can be resolved in any) or all of several ways: "By the boys marrying for s the first time at younger ages, | "Or by the girls marrying for the first time at older ages, | "Or by the girls marrying older widowed and divorced} men, or older single men who) Small Children' Take Precedence Over Tob | By ROBERTA ROESCH | Do you think I could handle| a job at home at the same time I am responsible for four sma}! children I have a great urge to use my job training, so when I dis-} cussed this with a _ potential employer, he offered to give me) work this fall that I can do at home. When I told him I would take it I was sure | could do it. But) now that the time for starting it is literally around the corner, | I am wondering if I can handle) it with the children underfoot | all day. Do you think I will be able to manage I would ap-! preciate suggestions. -- Mrs, EK : | Dear Mrs. K. H.: I think most of us can manage to do| the things we want to do badly) enough. And since I once had) experience handling a job at) home with a baby on my lap) and two children underfoot, [ know it is possible to do it if you are willing to roll with the punches and fit in the work when you can. However, it is hard to have regular working hours and needs and demands have take precedence. Therefore, you usually find you burn the midnight oil and | work by the dawn's early light | in order to handle everything, | and still do the things you said | you could do when you took on a job. | My personal advice, since you! have small children, is to limit) yourself to part-time work-- say, no more than four hours) a day. Then if you find you can/ handie the work, you can ai- ways agree to do more. | pressure from the mounting numbers of marriageable young women." If the pattern continues, sociologists said, more than twin daughters. We could use some extra money, though, so the|I am wondering about the pos-| «g |Sibility of tutoring individual students who come to my home. postpone getting married." _ What's the best way to get But the young bachelors had|into this work and how much better enjoy it while they can,|Should 1 charge--Mrs. M. G. In the 1970s, the ratio will re-| Dear Mrs. M. G.; You can turn to 99 guys to 100 gals. round up students who need |tutoring by: 1. Giving your s Demands half-million women will have to |name to the principals of local schools; 2. Posting notices on bulletin boards and 3. Advertis- ing in community publications. Rates vary slightly from one hart pt the. counter te ernnther jbut $3 for a half-hour session Dear Roberta Roesch: I havejis a fairly standard rate for never used my teacher's train-| individual lessons, Five or $6 is ing. I was married the day I|what many tutors get per hour. | finished college. 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