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ANN LANDERS Inarticulate Wife Needs Dear Ann Landers: All my life I have been a poor conver- sationalist. You have printed letters from others who have had this problem and you've told them the world needs lis- teners. Well, I'm not even good at that, I often sit silently, hanging to every word, when I don't understand a thing. It's almost as if I am listening to a foreign language. I. graduated from high school with honors so I can't be retarded, although at times I've felt this was a very real possibility. I once thought my problem was a limited vocabulary, so made an intensive study of words, their origins, meanings and everything I could lay my hands on relating to the sub- ject. It didn't help. When I see a play I know if I lke it or I don't like it but I can't speak coherently about what I have seen, The same goes for movies, I can't even repeat an amusing incident to a friend without losing my train of thought. Wh we lived in a small town/I managed to bluff, but in Indignapolis it's rough. My hus- band is a successful business man and his friends are bright. He is very attractive and I feel sure that he just stays with me because of the children. Can you offer any advice or am I---Hopeless? Dear Friend: Your problem is not mental or intellectual, It is emotional. Your enormous feeling of inferiority has cre- ated a psychological block which makes comprehension vir- tually impossible under some circumstances, You need psychiatric help and I hope you'll get it at once. Dear Ann Landers: When I married my husband 22 years Expert Heip fore--to a og nant with child, 1 learned of it 18 years later, by accident. When I confronted him with the information, my husband said he didn't see any reason to tell me since the girl meant nothing to him. He said he stayed with her only until the child was two weeks old, then disappeared from sight. The child, a girl is now 27 years old, She is married and is the mother of three small boys, Last year the child '"'dis- covered" her father and now she won't let him alone. She Iilives in another city, but she Iphones and writes letters to him and he has gone to visit her three times. How can any- one be so stupid? This man has proved he didn't care about her so why does she continue to pester him? My husband seems to enjoy his new-found family. I've asked him to stop seeing these people but he has ignored my feelings completely. Will you please tell me what to do?--Frult Cake Dear F. C.: You can do noth- ing, 80 stop trying. It might help if you would accept the fact that none of this is the girl's fault, She may be stupid but she's human. Her father is a rat but he is still "father" to her and she wants to establish a family relation- ship. He apparently wants to es- tablish a family relationship, too. So be friendly if it kills you --because if you aren't friendly, it'll kill you sooner. Confidential to Burning the Candle at Both Ends: That's no candle, Lady, that's a stick of dynamite. How long do you think you can keep them from bumping into each other? My advise is to say good-bye to one of the gentlemen before they ago, he neglected to mention that he had been married be- say hello to each other. Jane Park's Brave Example Lightened Many Another's Load By ROBERTA ROESCH From the day I began to write a column:on opportunities I've said on many occasions "Someday I'll go back to Hackettstown to interview Jane Park." , Hackettstown, N.J., is the town where Jane and 1 grew up. For years I've wanted to write her story, with personal comments from her, because she made her own opportunities --and found work to do in the world-in a life that, by some standards, gave her a limited chance. The last time I actually saw Jane was when she was 17, a dark-haired, lively high school 'junior whose talent and interest 'in music promised the opportu-| nities she hoped for in the future, In those days her nim-| ble fingers handled the trumpet with skill, so she played it in our public school band as well as in an all-state band, But one day a sudden illness) kept Jane away from reharsals. | Then, cruelly, without any snatched her away from her) | warning, rheumatoid arthritis trumpet and future and immo-' Whenever I felt Jane's spe- bilized her and confined her to bed for the next 25 years, To relieve the pain that crip- pled her body she had endless operations. But no hoped for medical. miracles gave Jane strength or achieved results, The illness that weakened Jane's body strengthened her spirit and mind. As she lay im- mobile in her bedroom with the bird feeding stations outside she taught herself to hold a pencil between her thumb and her little finger. Then when her pain was not too great she created her own opportunity and found work to do in the world when she made it her business for 25 years to |write people letters and share her strength whenever she heard they had troubles which she invariably thought were greater than hers, I never saw the smile and cheer that people say Jane never lost. But I felt the hope and strength she gave when I received the notes she so pain- fully wrote. They helped me through the hopeless times that inevitably hit every family. COW COUNTRY FASHIONS Once known only as tough and sturdy work pants, levis or jeans hit the fashion scene in a variety of shapes, colors and -- os new casual wear is low slung, hugging the hips but flaring out to ie who was preg: The forthcoming mar- riage is announced today of Miss Mary Alice (Bon- nie) McIntyre and Mr. Robert William (Rick) Vailieres. The bride-to-be is the daughter of Mr, and Mrs. W, A. MelIntyre, Osh- Mr, and Mrs. George W. Davy of Bancroft, recently celebrated their fiftieth wed- ding anniversary. Mrs. Davy, the former Nellie Manuel of Oshawa, is a daughter of the late Mr. and Mrs. J. H. Man- uel, and Mr. Davy is a son of the Jate Mr. and Mrs, W. A. Davey of Bancroft. Mr, and Mrs. Davy were married in Oshawa in the gar- den of her parents' home. They have two children, a daughter, Mrs, Stanley W. Nichols, (Rae) who is at pres- ent residing in Ramstein, Germany, where her husband is a jet squadron leader with the RCAF, and a son, William H. Davy of Bancroft, who arranged a telephone call to his sister as a surprise for his parents. Another pleasant -- surprise was the arrival of the Reverend C. J. Felton, now residing in Suffolk, Virginia, who married the couple. He was accom- panied by his wife and daugh- cial help, or heard about it from others, I'd think about making TO MARRY NEXT MONTH Bridal Party Of Present To Enjoy Anniversary (emen awa, and her fiance is the gon of Mr. and Mrs. R. W. Vallieres of Hampton. The 4:00 o'clock ceremony is to take place in St, Matthew's Church (Anglican) oh Sat- urday, September 3. 50 Years 'Ago ter, Mrs. R, Harvey, also Mr. and Mrs, W. R. Alchin of Osh- awa, long time friends of the couple. In the afternoon and evening, Mr. and Mrs, Davy received friends and relatives in the ladies' parlour of the church recreation hall, The guests were served by the bridegroom's two sisters and relatives of the bride. Mr. and Mrs, Davy enter- tained at the supper hour in the banquet hall of the church. In the party was their son William, their sisters and their husbands' and brothers and their wives, also the Reverend and Mrs, C. J. Felton and their daughter and Mr. and Mrs. W. R. Alchin. The entire original wedding party was present, The brides- maid, Mrs. C, Wakeford, the bride's sister, Florence, and the best man, Mr. William F. Manuel, the bride's brother, the flower girls, Mrs. EB. L, McColl, (Marguerite) the bride- groom's sister, and Mrs. A. C. Stannard (Amy) the bride's \sister, also the Reverend C. J. a trip back home to get her|Felton who officiated at the powell pl ~ aygeine 7 re (ceremony. This ~ the first cen a Tew we 80 I/time Mr, Felton had been pres- did go to Hackettstown to talk ent at a fiftieth anniversary for to a women's organization |s couple he had married. Oy t's We eine aves The vase on the anniversary from getting Jane's thoughts oh fern cio wage pn the subject, I turned toward my : years ago and | jseventy-three Fee after the talk and traded/ii., on her wedding cake. 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, August 9, 1966 AT HOME Mr. and Mrs, Bert Guthrie, RR 2. Whitby. will be at home to their relatives, friends and neighbors on Sunday, August 14, 1966, from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. ana 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. on the occasion of their 25th wedding anniversary. FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr, and Mrs. Louis Pleau, Oshawa, wish to announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter, Lorraine Yvonne, to Mr. Edward Smale, son of Mrs. Wilfred Smale, Hampton, and the late Mr, Smale. The ceremony is to take place on Saturday, September 10, 1966, at 3:00 p.m. in Hampton United Church. FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr, and Mrs, Donald Mc- Ilveen wish to announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter, Dianne Phyllis, to Mr. John Douglas Lamb, son of Mr. and Mrs, Eli Lamb, all) of Oshawa, The wedding is to take place on Saturday, August 20, 1966, at. 2:00 p.m. in North- minster United Church. THE STARS SAY | By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW For the third day in a row, average in the way of accom- plishment. In fact, you may even experience some delays and disappointments in putting over ideas and plans, But do not be disheartened, Keep on trying, with the knowledge that, within 24 hours, planetary re- strictions will lift and you can go full speed ahead, FOR THE BIRTHDAY SOCIAL NOTICES | Jones, stars promise no more than aS FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs. W. A. Me- Intyre, Oshawa, announce the forthcoming marriage. of their daughter, Mary Alice (Bonnie) to Mr. Robert William (Rick) Vallieres, son of Mr. and Mrs, R. W. Vallieres, Hampton, The ceremony will take place on Saturday, September 3, 1966, at 4:00 p.m. in St, Matthew's Church (Anglican), Oshawa. FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Burke of Barrie, Ontario, wish to an- nounce the forthcoming mar- riage of their daughter, Pamela Patricia, to Ralph Ed- ward Glassford of Barrie, son of Mrs. George Glassford of Oshawa and the late Mr. Glass- ford. The wedding will take place on Saturday, August 13, 1966, at Essa Road Presby- VIRGINIA SOMMER The first national Y-teen con- ference will be held in. Calgary from August 14-22. Two girls from Oshawa will be going as elected delegates of their Y- groups. They are Virginia Som- mer, 16, and Irene Yaremi, 18. Virginia is a student at Cen- tral Collegiate and a member terian Church, Barrie. FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr, and Mrs, James F, E. Seaver, Oshawa, wish to an- nounce the forthcoming mar- riage of their daughter, Susan Beatrice, to Mr. Wayne Carl son of Mr. Horace H, Jones of Huntingdon, Vermont, and Mrs. Thelma O. Jones. The ceremony is to take place on Saturday, August 27, 1966 at 4:00 p.m. in St. Mary of the People Roman Catholic Church, | Oshawa. SEAS, | ! jof the leadership training group jat the YWCA, She has attended \Junior and Senior Regional Y- teen conferences and worked as a junior and senior counsellor at the annual Y-Day Camp, Her hobbies are ballet dancing, sports, reading. | Irene Yaremi is a_ student at Donevan Collegiate. She is ja member of the Y-teen club, Every Book Read Makes Tree Grow! y IRENE YAREMI 'Two Oshawa Girls Selected To Attend Y-Teen Conference She has also worked as a senior counsellor at the Day Camp for the past two years. Her hobbies are photography, drama and stamp collecting. The groups these girls belong to have work- ed hard to raise money for con- ference expenses by having re- cord dances, a car wash, a car park and selling candy. The pro- gram department at the Y had a rumage sale, with the 'pro- ceeds also going to the travel fund, A_ pre-conference study was made by the leadership group of the City of Oshawa. Four hnudred delegates from across Canada will be attend- ing this conference which will be held on the Campus of the University of Alberta. The theme} will be "Challenge and Res- ponse -- or Y-teens' part in planning the future of Canada. Strong Swing To Irish Tweed Chanel, doyenne of the Paris designers, has again this year sampled Irish tweed. She chose the soft, chunky tweeds, the predominating color being apri- cot, closely pollowed red, coffee and pink. Her final choice will appear in her Fall collec- tion. Ted Lapidus, one of the youngest Paris designers, went for the smooth fine tweeds. He chose checks and stripes to match with the plain fabrics. The upsurge in Irish tweeds is very strong this fall, and many garments in rich colors will be seen in the Canadian stores. ONTARIO APPLE AND CHEESE CRISP ¢. apple slices. tbsp. lemon juice % ec. sugar Y% tsp. cinnamon ¥% e. sifted flour Y% tsp. salt Yc, fat 2-3 c. grated cheese Fill baking dish with apples. Sprinkle with lemon juice and ¥%c. sugar. Mix cinnamon, flour, salt and remaining % ec. sugar. Cut in fat until mixture is granular, Stir in cheese. Spread over apples. Bake at 350 degrees until apples are ten- der, about 40 minutes. Cool be- fore serving. | Eat, Drink and | Be WARY... | Do you love lots of fresh fruit, cool salads | and tall tinkling beverages in hot weather? | Sounds healthy, but sometimes careless 9, ge, or ove | can lead to annoying Diarrhea. Then it's Dr, Fowler's Extract of Wild Strawberry 5 1 | } to the r e! It quickly relieves nausea, cramps and restores intestinal balance. For children and adultes alike, Or. | Fowler's Extract of Wild Strawberry has proven gentle, and quickly effective for \over 115 years, Keep it handy at home, | cottage and on trips. 65-9 An unusual maple tree is sprouting in the Boys' and} |Girls'- Department of the Mc-| Laughlin Public Library. Its roots are in the August | Reading Club, which any boy| jor girl who is old enough to} read books which are not easy- | |reading or picture books, may | | join To become a member of the If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that, from now until the end of 1966, it would be advisable to aim only for goals which are within your obvious) reach, Do not hope to profit much from new finan- |August Reading Club, a child | must read one book. Then 'he | |will be given a branch of the} jmaple tree with his or her| 'name on it. Each time another | book is read a maple leaf goes | cial enterprises, but consolidate any gains made during the past few months immediately and) make plans for further expan- sion along these lines, with a) view to "collecting" in 1967 and} 1968. . According to the stars, Sep- tember and October will be) ideal months for making such} plans since influences then will greatly stimulate your intuition and your inate foresight and practicality. The first three months of the new year should see first returns roll in, and you can look forward to another profitable cycle lasting from June 1 until Sept. 1. } "Today" I had in my hand | lfor the "Someday" when 1 Many cards, letters, also tele- wasn't busy? grams and numerous gifts and |flowers were received. TASK WAS DONE Guests were present from One week later time ran out/puffolk, Virginia; Flint, Michi- for the courageous girl. After/gan; Toronto, Oshawa, Orange: the 24 immobile years in which|yijle, Palgrave, Peterborough, she cheerfully did her best with/Bridgenorth, Orono and Ban- what she had to give, the Em-| croft, ployer, who strengthened her) ---- -- for her task, decided her as-| signment was done. Hobby Becomes Now it's too late to interview her on the word "Opportunity." | : s at on me isos late to report| ACtiVe Business | ' rtralt of cour- laws ply Ages ba Old China Registry, the first Nor is it too late to remind |china matching service in Can- lourselves, because of her exam. ada, began as a housewife's ple, that there's a way for all|hobby, Eva O'Leary, 25, and of us to use our spirits and| mother of two young sons, liked |minds to create out own oppor-|to browse through antique tunities and find work to do in| Shops and at auctions. Several of her friends asked her to 'keep -jan eye open' for items they |were interested in -- in parti- cular for certain china pat- jterns that were old and lovely -- unavailable, but not antique, She soon realized such items |were neither the domain of the | 'antique' or second-hand' shop, | |and so began her Old China Re- gistry service, which bridged the lgap between the two. With the |Support and encouragement of * |the manufacturer's agents, the | ichina and antique shops, her| | business prospered It is a unique service, hand- jling discontinued china of Ayns- ley, Wedgwood, Minton, Royal + \Doulton, Royal Worcester, Havi- land and Elite Limoges only. |The $2.00 service fee lists any jpattern as wanted or for sale jand the request is held until or cancelled, From its small beginning last year, this service now receives requests from all across Can- jada and the United States. Over a thousand inquiries have been |reeived and matchings are re- | suiting. Recently a woman in Islington sold her set of Aynsley Hat- field china through this service to three women, who had been Best periods for job advance-| jment: The latter half of this month, the last week in Sep- tember, the last two weeks in October (exceptionally good!), late December, next February and May. Creative workers should have a generally good year, with December, January, March, May and June outstand- ing for accomplishment. The balance of this month, late September and the entire months of October, December, January, February, April and June will be exceptionally good for cultivating new friendships and for social interests gener- ally and, if you have travel in} mind, most auspicious cycles) will Include the last twe weeks! in October, late December and| the entire months of January, April and June, Most interest- ing periods on the sentimental score: The latter half of De- cember, next February, May and June. A child born on this day would make an~ exceptionally fine dramatic critic or actor; | could also excel in the fields of business and the law WOMEN HOLD EDGE In Italy, women outnumber | men 27,000,000 to 26,000,000. | unable te find additions to their| sets for thirty years, Mrs. O'Leary uses such words | as 'fun' and 'exciting' when dis-| cussing her work. "'It is heart-| breaking to learn your pattern is discontinued, 'Open stock" does not mean _ indefinitely| available, and discontinued pat: | terns were a problem to every: | one. Now there is: an answer --/| Old China Registry." | a loose, comfortable leg -- accented by a wide elt. (CP Photo)' INTERIOR DECORATOR SURNITURS DRAPERIES BROADLOOM 15 King Street East CUSTOM MADE DRAPES Phone 725-2686 ww jon the name branch. Readers are also given a special folder in which to keep ja list of every book they read and each time. they complete \a book, a maple leaf sticker is |}pasted into the personal folder. The librarian hopes the maple tree will grow and grow and so she wants boys and girls to join the August Reading Club jin the Boys and Girls depart- ment of the McLaughlin Public {Library which is open from 9:15 to 5:00 p.m. every day, except Wednesdays. | Miss Susan _ Beatrice Seaver will become the bride of Mr. Wayne Carl Jones on Saturday, August 27, according to today's announcement by her parents, Mr. and Mrs, James E. Seaver of Oshawa. The -- prospective bridegroom is the son of Mr, Horace H. Jones of Huntingdon, Vermont, and Mrs. Thelma 0. Jones, The wedding is to take place in St. Mary of the People Roman Catholic Church at 4:00 o'clock. F, Cow Brand |is good for | cars too! P- Bug spatter and Ae r | traffic grime can MA ~ | be removed easily from windshields, head lights and windows. 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