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CP ee ee errr se 14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, July 20, 1966 ANN LANDERS Sympathetic Readers Criticize Selfish Mother sion. It's a joy to know that my column is being read by so many beautiful people. My thanks to' all of you who wrote, Dear Ann Landers: I was rocked by the letter from 12- year-old Danny. His mother would not give him money to go to the movies with his schoolmates because he had been sick a great deal and his illness had cost the. family.s much. His mother told him that because of the doctor and 'hos- pital bills he had run up, she wasn't going to be able to buy any new clothes for a long time, and they'd have to forget about a new car.' Danny asked you how he could let his mother know that he loved her and that he was sorry he had caused them so much trouble. I would like to address my remarks to Danny's mother: | Madame: If you feel that your son is too expensive, will you please send him to me? Being ill and confined to a hospital is difficult enough for a child who arry wants to be well and strong. To| Pounds nicely--but again, it de- make him feel that he is a fi-/Pends on where you are carry- nancial burden is just about the|!ng them. See your family doc- crudest thing I've ever heard|tor and let him decide. He's a of jbetter authority than your girl | tite Head stones in-the cemetery friends. | don't hug very well. I know. 1 a : et have three of them. Believe me, | , in lipo sot dg Mk at te and Ta. give up|teW and then your' reasoning| of my life, and I'd give UP! breaks down--as it did in your} _ riding in cars forever if I could| i THE STARS SAY | have just one of my three sons|®¢vice to Chambermatron. By ESTRELLITA | Dear Ann Landers: I am a 17-year-old girl who is fivefeet,;- four inches and weighs 122 pounds, The problem is that these giris at church keep tell- ing me I ought to lose about 15 pounds, I have asked several of the boys what they think and they all say I am just right. The girls who keep telling me to lose weight look like flag poles. Do you think they 'are jealous of my shape? Should I lose weight?--Maryland Miss Dear Miss: How do I know? You may be built better than this building, but through the }mail it's very hard to tell. A girl who is five-foot-four should be able to carry 122 A smart addition to a business man's summer shirt wardrobe is this short sleeve, button-down collar Oxford model by Lion of Troy. Woven of an even blend of polyester and combed cotton, the fabric has a permanent press : ; You advised a wife to pick up| in my arms this very moment.|.70- her sloppy husband, but Pet of ya! ~~ mug Pd suggested that she train her| ate it, but you have beenigons to pic blessed with God's greatest gitt|so their wives wouldn't have to|FOR TOMORROW | --the love of a child. It is alwrite to Ann Landers. How can| Business and financial mat- mystery to me, as I am sure|a mother teach sons to be neat|te"s continue to be governed by} it is to others, how you haveli¢ their father is a slob?--~ |generous influences. Just on managed to raise such a won-| Another Chambermatron admonition, however: Don't derful little boy. I'll bet he has! pear Another: Easy? No. But/¢ven consider monetary trans- a fine father.--Tulsa not impossible. Tell your sons|@ctions with strangers in the Dear Tulsa: I received hun-|that a wife can't retrain her|late p.m. It is always advisable dreds of letters expressing/husband because marriage is|'0 be cautious of such involve- warm and wonderful feelings|not a reform school. But she|ments, but some unusually du- about Danny, can--and should--train her chil-|bious offerings could be pre- Since the vast majority of my|dren. And let them know they'd|Sented on Thursday evening. ceive so many sensitive ex-|lazy because you will not tol-|, line indi. i . i an ate % fates jyour horoscope indicates that, pressions of love and compas- erate it, And don Bosca . _|within 10 days, many pressures A dl T T k jof the past~in both your per- |more encouraged than you have jin some time to expand your jinterests. This will be entirely puter+controlied system that|pital's business." breaks" in financial matters will reduce administrative work during the first two weeks of and allow professional hospital| SAVES TIME August should give your morale nadian Nurses' Association| medications, for instance, could|cated between mid-September meeting Tuesday. be saved by this sytem. jand mid-November--to be fol- The automated information| The computer would check|!owed by other good cycles for pital and the University of Man-| With other medications receiyed|@%4 June. It will be important, itoba and currently is being fi-/by the patient, bring the inven-|"wever, to avoid undue extrav- nanced by a federal govern-|tory up to date for the pharma-|@g@nce and any kind of specu- The system, still in the plan-| gal implications of this and|W° Weeks of September and the ning stages, is expected to go| other procedures are not yet ast, vi as ta o b cave Len into operation when the Royal! clear. |Best periods for job advance- two years, Mrs. Mac- | them to go ahead with the proj-| to other hospitals, Laughlin told the 1,500 nurses|ect and to come to them with! She said the new mechanical here for the July 4-8 meeting. definite proposals, operation will not mean that pital, said: : ___|legislation may be necessary to}now have to understand your It has been estimated it will|cope with the automated sys-| television set to operate it,"' but only take approximately two|tem." Project directors were|that it will change the role. of {bi | i ee ae ee NEAT AND COOL finish to keep it looking neat, The polyester contrib- utes wrinkle-resistance and the cotton gives it softness and absorbency. The shirt is machine - washable and the fabric requires no iron- ing. By Tracy Adrian ment: Late September, early December, next January, March and May. Both your sentimental inter- ests and your social life should prove most stimulating during the year ahead--especially be- tween now and Sept. 15, and between mid - November and Dec. 3. Next good periods along these lines: April,, May and June, of next year. If careful to. avoid your innate tendency to- ward obstinacy with those in close circles, you should find most personal relationships un- usually harmonious. Most propi- tious periods for journeys of any length will not occur until 1967, with outstanding months includ- ing January, May and June. Short trips taken before then could prove highly ,enjoyable, however, ! A child born on this day will e hypersensi tive, emotional and creatively inclined. '@ee mail deals with trouble and|better not try to use their Dad's| : : | grief, it was refreshing to re-|sloppiness as an excuse to be TY inocu a veer ticity, {sonal and business life--should jlift, and that you may then feel Hospital Administrati P feasible, if you operate conserv-| MONTREAL (CP) -- A com-| hours to transact all of the hos- atively. Some small, but good personnel more time to care for) She said up to 50 per cent\a boost, but a really propitious patients was outlined at the Ca-\f time now used to administer|period along these lines is indi- system is the joint project of|the dosage ordered, make sure|{iscal advancement in early De- Winnipeg's Royal Victoria Hos- there were no incompatibilities|Cember, next February, April ment grant. Research was be-| cist and so on, ; {lation for the next 12 months-- gun in January of this year. Mrs. MacLaughlin said the Je-| Dut especially <during the first Victoria Hospital moyes into a| But the attorney-general's of- | | new building in approximately|fice in Manitoba has asked|ible so that it could be adapted) J. 'The Winnipeg woman, a re-| "They have indicated that ajnurses have to understand the search analyst with the hos-/ revision of some of the present! equipment "any more than you hours of computer time per 24 trying to keep the system flex-'the nurse and other personnel. Congratulations Mary Tuesday, July 12th was a-red letter day at the S. S. Kresge Co, Ltd. store in Downtown Oshawa, Mrs. Mary Hopkins, lunch counter manageress, celebrated her twentieth anniversary as an employee of the S. S. Kresge Co. Ltd. on that day. A presentation wos mode at the lunch counter of o floral tribute and an anniversary coke. The presentation was made by the Assistont Manager, Mr. C. Simmonds, on behalf of the staff and management The store Manoger, Mr, J. Peters, presented Mrs, Hopkins with her twenty year service pin and @ letter of congratulations from the Managing Director of the S. S. Kresge Co. Ltd Pictured above ore Mrs. Hopkins, St Mr. C. Simmonds re Manoger Mr. J. Peters and Assistant Manager Reg. 5.98 to 12.95 SALE PRICE 998 . 798 CHILD GUIDANCE Needs By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD For schoo! children their grades for the term or year wil soon be coming home. Some al- ready have arrived, Children ep ain ct good grades may be appiauded by their parents, or their successes may be taken for granted. Those bringing home low or failing grades may be shamed and punished. In the same family one child may have high grades on his report card, another very low grades. "Why are your grades not as good as Jim's or Karen's?" is the kind of question that may bring to a child a lot of pain. Suppose one of your children brings home a report card excellence. Suppose another brings home a report card say- ing he failed. to be promoted with his class. How would you feel, act and speak to each child when you see his report card? How do Grandma, Uncle Pete and Aunt Becky act then? How do the children respond? What do they say? How do they feel toward you and toward each other? | No doubt you knew months ago that the one child was lagging at school and that the other was excelling. How did you act toward each of these children then? How did each child feel toward you over the past several months? How did each feel toward the other child? How will each child feel toward you and toward the other during the next several months? In the secret musing of your heart, what place will each of these children have during summer vacation? Dur- ing the. first several months following next September? DEALING WITH LAGGARD Here are some ways in which you might act and feel toward your child if he has lagged or failed in one or several school subjects. 1, You might shame him, abuse him and tell him he is ornery and lazy. You could add that his school report has dis- graced you and your friends. You could punish him. 2. You could pity him and tell him how sorry you are that his grades are so low. 3. You could tell him not to worry about the grades on his report card now, that you are going to find ways to help him next fall to earn better grades at school. WWiin A Child With Poor Grades Constructive Help vw awe 4. You could set out to tain where you could best advice and guidance sible for helping this child more efficiently. check on the child and vice, you might come conclusion that this child have the native capacity much better than he 6. Or you could try to act and feel as if you are not concerned at all, and kept no more account of his low grades than if he well before drying them on the towel. READING A KEY If your child in the grade or high school has very low or failing marks, the chances are great that he is low in reading skills. You could find out in a few minutes if his schoolbooks for his grade are too hard for him to read well. Just have him read several sentences aloud and tell you in his own words what he has read. If he must stumble over words or is unsure jof what he is reading, you will jknow he needs reading practice on materials much easier. In your school district there may be classes which this child can attend, You might be able |to find a skillful tutor to work with him for several weeks this summer. You might tutor him yourself. But it won't be easy for you to follow closely a program or keep yourself al- ways patient and serene. Whatever you do, please don't have his school arrears hang over him this summer like the Sword of Damocles., With no reference all summer to his low grades last term, select only hopeful things to say to him in relation to books, school or learning. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Our two children, 8 and 10, quarrel so much at mealtime that they disturb the peace and lcomfort of the family there. |What can we do? A. Tell them before the next meal that, hereafter when they quarrel, one will be sent from the table to finish his meal. Toss a coin to ascertain who 'it will be. After that, alternate the one to be sent away. crwell always wash his hands | BURNS Semi-Annual SHOE SALE NOW IN FULL SWING! All Summer Footweer and Discontinued Lines of Spring Famous Make Shoes Men"s, Women's, Children's and Boys' Shoes TEENS' SHOES _ Reg. 9.98 SALE PRICE 998 .. 1795 SHOE STORE to 19.95 Children's SHOES Reg. 6.98 to 8.98 SALE PRICE 298 . 398 SALE PRICE 898 . 2495 SPECIAL CLEAROUT RACKS -- 1800 PAIRS OF SHOES Ladies' HANDBAGS Discontiued Line of McBRINE . . » GREATLY REDUCED !! LUGGAGE {| 1 KING ST. 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