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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, July 15, 1966 ANN LANDERS ~ Love And Acceptance Necessary For, Living Dear Ann Landers: I was visiting a friend in a mental institution last weekend and suddenly I realized that but for the grace of God I could have been a patient instead of a vis- itor, Gost Few of us realize how close we are to the edge. And few of us know what it was that kept us from going off the deep end. My parents were divorced. My mother ignored me. She heaped all her love and affec- tion on my brother. I was not permitted to have a thought of| my own or a pair of shoes of} my own. My sisters ran rough- shod over me and all my pos- sessions. Mother had a way of making me feel guilty and stupid. If ever a person was a candidate for a mental institution I was.| ' the dish washer and took the But somehow I escaped. I know clothes out of the machine. By that time the kids were|# now it was the kindness of} warm - hearted teachers and some wonderfully wise friends that saved my sanity. | My plea to your elders is) this: Be that one person each) day who shows a small kind-) ness to someone near you. Yo! don't know what a smile or a! kind word or an act of consid-| eration will do for some mis- erable soul. It may keep him from giving up.--Lucky Me Dear You: Thank you for re-| minding us that we all need} Jove and acceptance. Too often \dish washer, loaded the wash- istarted to pick up the house, jand made the beds. y finished the housecleaning, got Due to a serious iliness 1 have been partially disabled) since December, 1965. My wife went to work to help support the family. (We have five chil- dren, four in school and one preschooler.) I tried to keep house. _ oats 7 This is what my life was like May 16 when, thank God, I was able to go back to work: I got up at 7 a.m. and saw | the kids were dressed right, gave them a good breakfast and got them off to school. Then I dressed the four-year- old for play and put him in the back yard. I loaded the dishes in the ing machine with clothes, Next I vacuumed and dusted, unloaded due for lunch so I fixed sand- wiches and soup. The kids came home, I gave them lunch, put the four-year-old in bed for his nap, cleaned up the kitchen, sidone about the mottled, lumpy )skitnpy" skirts "and high rise the four-year-old up, took him along while I did the grocery| marketing and other household} errands, | About 5 p.m. I started supper| and set the table. At 5:30 1 got! into the car to get Mommy at work. She didn't ask "What did| | KEEP IN TRIM By IDA JEAN KAIN "What, if anything, can be appearance of the thighs? Is thie part and parcel of the mid- die - age apread? Are hefty thighs inherited? Have the fash- ion designers gone mad? Please or exercise that might help." ; Questions about the thighs are asked often in summer, particularly this summer of hemlines. Yes, designers ap- pear to have lost their reason. But, let's not press the panic button. Hold the skirtline to cover the knee. We inherit our body frame, and along with this the limbs of ue family tree. A tendency to slender or stocky legs and thighs is inherited. But a mot- tled, lumpy appearance can only be caused by poor circula- tion and toneless muscles, and excess fat, With flabby musculature gen- erally, the thighs -- especially along the inner and outer bor- ders--are likely to be in need of toning. These muscles are not used in ordinary movements USE THIGHS Check on routine movements. | |In rising from a chair, use the ; |thigh muscles. Don't assist with | your arms, or bend forward, hips trailing rearward as you help yourself up. Keep your back straight, hoist with thigh muscles, In walking, make sure SWIM SUITS FOR CANADA'S TEAM enter competitions. Then blue; The "speedo" suit, as the one-piece "speedo"' suit the name implies, was spe- at right will be used ex- cially designed by Christina Canadian swimmers at | the British Empire Games in Jamaica next month will to point your toes straight | ahead, weight toward the outer| jborders of your feet. | Readers Questions About Thighs | Asked Most Often In Summer right angles with trunk. In this position you are free to exercise the thighs. Keep knees straight, toes pulled toward instep to con- tract the muscles, Action: wing legs as wide apart as comfortable, then swing inward, crossing one leg over the other, swing wide apart again and then swing in the cross again. Begin with 10 counts, increase to 20 or more. It's fun and freeing--fat freeing. Roll off the bulges. Position: Sit on floor, lean slightly back to bring weight to bear on bulge, arms out at sides. To clear the way for a rolling action all along the thighline, bend knees sharply. Action: Slowly and heavily roll along one thighline, back across rear hips and on over to other thighline. Make this a continuous rolling action for 20 counts, For leg beautifying exercise, walk on the beach in shifting sand in your bare feet every chance you get, EAT LITTLE The Food and Agriculture Or- ganization estimates at least 20 such as standing and walking. |per cent of the population of un-| \der-developed areas to be un-| der-nourished "About Tofon" Aum Sommers Now thot the kiddies are home on vacation why twt send them down to the EASTWAY TEN PIN LANES, King Eost, on Wed- nesday afternoons to enjoy themselves in the cool air-co.ditioned bowling arena. They have certified instructors for beginners, on request. It's a fine, healthy sport to break the kids in on while they ore still young, but please, Mom, none under 7 yeors old! As for the teenagers, it's a good place for them to spend their evenings, and keep cool at the same time. The snock bar is thore--for-refresimnents; lockers to" store" personal effects, and bowling shoes ore for sale or rent. Further inquiries con be made by calling 723-3485. x OS Have you ever seen the beoutiful irridescent wings of butterflies fashioned into lovely modern jewelry? The butterfly wings (in four different colors) together with delicate gold ond silver fili- gree work are combined into charming "heirloom" brooches, This and other fine jewelry such as necklaces, earrings, and brooches, sold in sets or individually, ore all handmade imports from Germany and sold exclusively by THE W. D. SALES, 272 College Ave., Oshawa. Call Mr. Devenish, their sales representative, 725-5596, and he will gladly show you this lovely line of smart jewelry in the convenience of your own home, * * * As well os having beautiful rugs and broadlooms, the ANGUS- GRAYDON CARPET COMPANY, 282 King St. W., Oshawa, hos in its showrooms such a diversified collection of floor and woll tiles that they dare not go unmentioned. The beautiful "marble" tile, in pastels, have all the translucency of real marble, differing only in price. '"Hand-painted"' tiles with harmonizing borders can be designed according to your specifications. And for the more sophisticated floors, there are gold-flecked tiles with inlaid gold motifs. These are only a few examples. You must see for yourself their wide variety . . . something to please everyone's taste, -Phone 728-6254. x «© * One of many fine homes listed with W. FRANK REAL ESTATE, 21 King St. W., Bowmanville, is a stately 15-room brick mansion surrounded by an acre of beautifully landscaped lawns and ter- raced gardens. The interior of this fine old home is tastefully decorated in on ultra modern manner, from the well chosen wallpaper to the luxurious' fur-fabric broadloom throughout the Now the exercise: To stimu- late circulation, get into action | With an in-and-out swing of the jiegs from the hips. | - Position: Lying on back on : Wiaas" ae jespecially through speculation | si4oe ecaieate on |--for another 12 months. Next} --------___° main floor (included with purchase), The original large carriage house in the rear now serves as garages and storage space, with a five-room apartment overhead. Anyone interested in a spacious home for truly luxurious family living, or for some worthy busi- ness enterprise, an exclusive school or institution, should really see this one to appreciate its possibilities. Coll Bowmanville 728-7518. we forget. A smile, or a word] you do all day?' She knew, be-| of support and encouragement,|/cause she had done it for sev- costs nothing but it can enrich) eral years. the life of the person you least) If every husband had to keep suspect needs it. jhouse for just one week he ed ; Dear Ann Landers: In behalf|/ would never again joke about|the kiddies but it helps keep me of all ignorant, foolish husbands| what a soft life she has. I say|alert and living in The Now,' THE STARS SAY I want to apologize to all the|"'God bless all housewives ev-|rather than the 'Way back h i i 1, % h B. H. C tll 'when.' It makes them want to . | good financial periods: Early/ ousewives in America. I, too,|erywhere.--B. H. Cary, Ill. when. ps vi ie Sowers : | used to think that just because) Dear B. H.: Housewives ey-/hear about when 'Granny' was FOR bis secygrsind Pao ' -- Ney ee a woman had a dishwasher, a|erywhere will bless you for your| young, if I am interested in and} Saturday should prove most) June vacuum sweeper, and a washer-|letter, But I have a question,|helping in what they are doing, | enjoyable, especially if you curb) For most of the forthcoming dryer that she could sit around|Bub. Why didn't you go back|and that can bring in history of emotionalism and unnecessary| year, personal relationships will| clusively. The two-piece suit in Montreal for speed swim- at left, for pleasure swim- ming. ming, is in red, white and be able to choose between | these two swimsuits in their wardrobes -- until they (CP Wirephoto) Fs The MORLEY-STALKER MOTORS has the used car lot where you get definite value for your money. If you're looking for a car, you can be sure that whichever selection you make will be thor- oughly roadworthy and in A-1 condition. And with summer upon us and the kids home all day under foot, wouldn't you, Mom, just love to have your own car to run about on errands ond take the youngsters picnicking or swimming during their holidays? If at present you are Only a one-car family, go down with your hubby soon and look over their used cars. You both may decide in favor of owning that second cor ofter all, when you take notice of their low, low prices. Phone number 723-6322, ~« * While scanning the map of Ontario's endless waterways down ot the OSHAWA YACHTHAVEN, off Horbor Road, one just dreoms of owning a beautiful new Crestliner boat such as is on disploy there. You, too, should see them in their beautiful variety of colors. You may even decide then and there to own one, since they come in vorious models to suit your requirements as to style, size ond moneywise. Here, also, you can satisfy your boating needs in the line of hardware, paints, varnishes, etc. So come down and look around while enjoying the cool breezes off the lake, Phone number 723-8186. * x *<* This time of year we're thinking mostly of the outdoors. So in @ secluded corner of your lawn, under tall shade trees, you might create a centre of interest with a small garden pool. The JOHN BROUWER GARDEN CENTRE, 2 miles west of Whitby on High- way 2, has the essentials you need to start yours, namely--- pressed concrete planter bowls. These are quite successfully used as garden pools when buried to ground level and combined with rock garden stones surrounded with your favorite plants and shrubs. By completing the area with patio squares or flagstones you will have a little spot to cherish and enjoy all summer long, Phone 668-3396 for prices. ~ 2 The LOCKWOOD MOVING & STORAGE, 557 Bloor St., Oshawa, is awaiting your call whenever you are ready to move to a new locality. So when that day comes, just phone 725-2831 and leave all your moving problems to them, They will even give you an estimate of your moving costs by just telling them the number of rooms Of furniture to be moved. Then, with your O.K., the proper-sized van will be on hand to do the job. So, whether it's local or long distance, leave it al! to them. Moving is their busi- ness, and they do a mighty fine job of it! x * * If you're out for a Sunday afternoon drive and you choose High- way 401 because you love the scenery and cool lake breezes, be sure to turn off at Bowmanville and stop at the sign of the FLYING. DUTCHMAN MOTOR HOTEL. Here vou can enioy any- sized meal from a sandwich to a full-course dinner, all turned out in their delectable "'héme cooked' style. The service is ex- cellent; no waiting or wasting time!-it is one of those stop-overs where tourists from all parts of the country make a special effort to arrive at by mealtime. This alone confirms their fine reputa- tion! Their overnight accommodations are the best, and their large banquet halls provide popular meeting places for club and other large groups. Phone 623-3373 for reservations. x ®% The OSHAWA STEAK HOUSE, Simcoe Street, specializes in serv- the price is right half the day, drinking coffee|to your job weeks earlier? It four generations, bickering during the early|be governed by generous influ- with the neighbors and looking}would have been easier, "I am 88 years young but I i hours. Planetary in-|ences, but be careful to avoid | E : morning y I ' ) avo at daytime TV. |wouldn't it? need all the help I can find to| fluences in the p.m. will bel friction in close circles in mid- pies keep pace with the world of| unusually beneficent, favoring|December and throughout next} CHILD GUIDANCE today." travel, outdoor pursuits and) April. The celestial spotlight} You and I have been im-| group activities generally. will shine brightly on romance| mothers say their warm com- 4 - | Grandparents Interested In | suniestion with the grandchil-| _ If tomorrow is your birthday, | mid-November and Jan. 1. Both) dren do for themselves your horoscope indicates that,| cycles will be excellent for mak-| oye * war iegs while your material progress|ing new contacts -- especially) Writin To Grandchildren ANSWERING QUESTIONS may have been at something of with members of the opposite Q. Though we can often say @ standstill during the Past! sex, Next good periods for af- ,/toa child, "You may always couple of months, new ideas in| fairs of the heart: Next April, "I'm sure they enjoy these 5 ne fi | Sat apaike i Gd hae Gass ta trying 10 keep to detiers much more than just a, A. He may have learned from| ine the latter cuir ot ponkestat the way of travel between now touch.with her grandchildren card or plain letter and it gives experience not to tell us much, ah OLS " r. and the end of December but, | . - budgies aac : urther uptrends along these/ynder highly auspicious influ-| i i me a lift too as I plan each one.|our actions not squaring with|;, nt ; 3 | living far away from her. Since Pp ; wcrhe |lines are star-promised in early| ences, you can take off on long! then, a number of other grand-| eprciaL LETTERS ae __|December and in January,| journeys in January, May and-| parents have reported similar)" never knew my grandpar- |March and May of 1967, lor June of next year. 1. From Arkansas: can produce the sniffles -- and ber period will be fine for mone- f sink "After reading the letter |imve + gong hd gp Pgs A consequent rough and tender/tary interests, with outstanding) ©" °° stad leRetonateleta written by a grandmother in| felt they were very special per- skin around the nose. Use ajchances for gain indicated in your column I just wondered if| sons. So in years to come I feel|"¢™, Slick stick that heals and) October, but it will be important BRIDE TOSSED TORCH other grandmothers had unu-|these |i ; st ws |protects -- and doesn't show in}to stress conservatism during} The Roman bride, after light:| i |these little children will remem- the least. Wonderful protection] the first two weeks of Septem-|ing a symbolic fire on the hearth sual ways of causing their)per the extra special letters | vi ' p g asy e hearth) the far away grandparents. I'qay better too." -- didn't realize I had been doing| > the same thing this grand- tmother wrote about. COLOURFUL "This Easter in place of send- SUMMER and on your social life between By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD |'Gramma you do write the best) son "me anything you wish," he|connection with your job or|May and June. Except for short ways. I wish to quote here from |ants for they died before I was| ae ee The first two weeks of August) 4 child born on this day would| grandchildren to wish for letters|Gramma sent when they were |2/8° for tender lip tissues)ber. In fact, all Cancerians arejof her new home, tossed the} ing cards I wrote a letter telling | ° 5 Ee Y . pressed with what these grand FOR THE BIRTHDAY dw. and Sept 18; alco, betwen A few months ago I quoted| letters, and we keep every one.'| 11, may seldom do so. Why? | business, put into effect now,|trips; don't expect too much in! two of them: born but just to hear my par- Sudden temperature changes/ and the mid-September-Novem-| 1,6 an excellent. educator | that keep them remembering) jittle; and for me, it makes my against sunburn. : warned not to risk assets--|torch to guests. 2. From Michigan: .. .. .«.. "T've always been almost too busy to really enjoy both my children and grandchildren but | now I am surely enjoying to the about all the things they enjoy |utmost my great grandchildren, When they are visiting here,|ages from new babies to 10-| like how many new baby calves | year-olds we have and the baby chicks;| "For several years I've been| etc. and as I write I paste, cut-| writing and printing them let- outs of the things I write about |ters and illustrating with crude | in my letter and when they do|drawings or picture clippings. | et to visit they know a lot|But at times find myself out of | about the things going on at the |ideas as to how to proceed. It's farm and they hug me and say, | quite a chore to keep pace with | SUMMER SLACKS 2 FOR THE PRICE OF 1 PLUS $1.00 PATTE'S Tailored. from the finest English and domestic all wool yarns, dyed worsteds and flannel pic 'n' pic, PAINT CANADA | This Week's Special ! Super SPECIAL GALLON . COTTAGE PAINT White 95 Years at 85 Simcoe St, N. PHONE 725-3529 A Summer-Gay Assortment Of LINED SHIFTS to wear on holidays, in You'll find Poly. lawn, printed Ho- nan silk and ribbed sur- rah shifts in the group. the city! Easy-fitting stylings, to belted Pretty pastels of blue, pink or maize in S-M-L. wear or not. ZELLER'S SHOPPING CENTRE DOWNTOWN SIMCOE STREET SOUTH neat and plains in grey, medium, dark brown and biues. Hook and bar fastener above zipper fly, single pleats, continental style included, tabs on back pockets. ECONOMY RANGE DELUXE RANGE 14.95 CUSTOM RANGE 17.95 HAND GRADE 19.95 PAI PAI PAI , OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE Open to 9 p.m. Thursday and Friday EXTRA 1.00 EXTRA PAIR 1.00 EXTRA 1.00 EXTRA 1.00 OPEN A CHARGE ACCOUNT No Money Down -- No Carrying Charges SAVE 8.95 SAVE 13.95 SAVE 16.95 SAVE 18.95 R \ DOWNTOWN 36 King St. E. Open to 9 p.m. Friday As ing the finest steak dinners in Oshawa. If you gals really want @ night away from the old cooking routine, you,and the family should try this fine restaurant at the north end of town, Their specialty includes a beautiful tender, juicy, wing steak with French fries, chef's salad and beverage, for only $1.95. Now doesn't that sound tempting? And you can enjoy this luxurious meal while basking in the pleasant atmosphere of a quiet "country inn"!, Phone 723-8741, + x «© * When furnishing our homes, consideration is seldom given to that most necessary piece of furniture--the writing desk! It con serve many purposes. In your kitchen it is your work centre for budget planning, typing recipes, making up shopping lists, etc.; in the den, hubby keeps his business records up-to-date; in the privacy of your bedroom, perhaps, you catch up on social cor- respondence; and in the teenager's room, he or she can quietly complete the all i rtant homework assignments. At the ALCAN FURNITURE & APPLIANCES, 452 Simcoe St. S., Osh- awa, they come in various sizes in attractive wood finishes, and with ample drawer space. Phone 723-0011 for further inquiries. * * * Additional hair pieces are becoming so popular these days, why not wear one yourself? HEIDI'S MODERN HAIRSTYLING, 367 Wilson Ave., Oshawa, has "natural hair" wigs and pieces, that serve many purposes. For instance, you ladies, whose hair is thinning, particularly on top, can wear a postiche of large curls to add height and thicken the appearance of your coiffure. As @ glamorous cover-up, an additional set of 'bangs' does wonders where hairlines have receded slightly. And to insure exact color matching when ordering your hair piece, a sample is clipped from your own hair. For a consultation regarding your own individual needs, call 723-5631 x * If you haven't as yet taken your vacation, the OSHAWA LAUNDRY & DRY CLEANING, 50 Mil! St., will help you get ready for that long awaited day. They will do an excellent "wardrobe clean-up" for your whole family, and have them look- ing spic and span on short notice, Just call 723-8166 and they will pick up and deliver your wearables the same day, if neces- sary. As an added suggestion, before you leave, strip off all soiled bed linens, bathroom and kitchen towels, etc., have them picked up and laundered so as to have everything clean and readyto use again when you return home from your vacation, Phone 723-8166