ANN LANDERS Does A Person's Name Influence Character? theory that may the surface, but think about it, the @ there is some- I thing (4 can tell what a person is to be like before she meets him'she said about Mr, just by hearing his name For example, men named Burt pinchin: two fel other bn has yet io meet a cheap La She says check no matter wha arount,"' Chauneys are prissy and Bobs are virile, Viliots ere. mamas' band to keep his teeth the boys and any man named Frank out his entire life span, It's too "Ail fellows named Larry are very eres i e mone wi ight for the ye v8 ie ig market whieh teeth-grinding, These appliances will enable the woman's hus- through- FOV TET REFIT VER TTEV ER De either, she says all are penny: tightwade. | know of pt 6 named Burt and we is fight shout them. On the) ee that she'of teeth, a ie chee Oe rry, enlightened, facetious and when you get right down to it, of ho was frivolous, arthig help whatsoever, can have his choice of women, bad you don't know about them This friend insists she hag never Ann Landers--AM.D.D§, met a guy named Albert who wasn't a jerk are jstupid and cow-like named Faith, Hope, Charity Prudence or Honor, she insists Girls SIF is only half right Your flat statement that the appliance will solve the problem are dver-righteous or downrightefor all time is muc h too optim phon like that give a girl two strikes in the\ eradie The flower girls them, (Rose, Lily, Violet Daisy) talk a lot and are bores Girls with bo names Jackie, Mickey are good company, full of pep and well-liked According to her, names istie, Teeth grinding cannot he < cured by the appliance, It will provide only temporary relief, A as che calls cure can be effected only if the and cause of the teeth-grinding determined and corrected, Most like grinding is due to an emotional Johnnie and Jo| problem if it's the first reason, the patient needs a dentist to cor- Before you say my friend is \rect his bite, If it's the second out of her tree, go through the |he needs a doctor who will work names and check them against 'several inches higher up in the people you know It het the time, How about it? CHILD GUIDANCE you head will find she is right most of |straight And this from comes dentist's reply my mouth Purpose Of Father's Day Is Lost To Commercialism By GARRY C, MYERS, PhD The original purpose of Fath er's Day was to appreciate the father and his place in the family and to cultivate hetween him and his children an affec tionate, companiable relation. ship Like all other and celebrations, it has become highly commercialized, It is seized upon for selling things things that perish, The imper ishables are too often forgotten Something, of course, may he gained in father-child relation ships when this child, out of his own earnings and savings, buys a gift for hia father; atill more when he makes a gift for his dad; or even when he helps in the family planning for select ing gifts for his father and for celebrating Father's Day Something may be gained in the relationship when fathers be stow some useful gifts through out the year on this child But bearing gifts by the ehild to the parent or by the parent to the child ean become an empty and perfunctory activity "The gift without the giver Is bare." Unfortunately, many a father who must be away from home for long or shorter periods aup poses can buy his child's time 'and affection with gifts Accordingly they may heap gifts upon the child lavishly, only to render this child more selfish and cause him to think of dad as a kind of Santa Claus Some mothers who work away from home also ease thelr con acience by often bringing home gifts for the child, "What did you bring me"' may be the child's greatest concern DISCIPLINE IMPORTANT The father who often must he away from home may put so much faith in the gifts he brings as to make !t harder for the mother during his absence, He may- suppose he should not he concerned while home with the discipline of the children, lest they might not love him as he wished they would But the wiser father who must often be away from home thinks of the child while he is home as a growing person he is going to help the mother guide in being apecial days he becoming a happy self controlled, unselfish person en joying the companionship of both parents, This father while home tries to build this com- panionship to last in the child's memory and imagination while he is away from home 'There are some wonderful fathers, whether regularly at home with the family or some times away for short or longer periods, While reasonably gen erous with gifts to him, they don't put thelr emphasis on) things but on matters that last.) From the child's early infancy this kind of father plans with the mother his best upbringing, and from time to time they review and revise thelr ways of guiding him These parents together keep in mind the kind of child they hope him to be one, several, or many years hence, They aim! for his affection, love and es. teem in later years and guide themselves accordingly, They agree that they can't buy-these with money or with letting Him do as he pleases, But all the while they strive to have good times with him and -enjoy "his companionship as a precious person REGARD AND AFFECTION This father, knowing he may not have as much time aa the mother may have with this child, keeps thinking of the quality of relationships with him and his mother, Even while at work he may. often muse on ways of greater family enjoy ments Hach parent aims to build up in this child deep regard and) affection for the other parent Then the ehild, naturally, will he especially thankful of his) mother on Mother's Day and of hia father on Father's Day PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. How many outstanding Ne gro atudenta have won acholar ships to the colleges of their choice, through the National Merit Scholarship Corporation? , A, The number is 225, includ ing four seta of identical twins,| coming from 98 states and the! District of Columbia; with stip ends ranging from $260 to $1,600 a year depending on the atu dent's needs and Female. Automotive Engineer Designs Dummies For Chrysler By CHARLES C, CAIN DETROIT (AP)--Pretty Juli ette Auerbach's world is filled with dummies and that is the way she likes it The Q?-year-old engineer, a key figure in Chrysler Corpora tion's auto safety program spends most of her time at the firm's Chelsea, Mich, proving grounds Last week she stole the show at a meeting of the Society of Automotive Engineers in De troit Her paper titled, Prob lems of Developing Crash Test Dummies, She was the only woman among the 100 speakers at the four-day meeting attended by more than $000 soctety members The Texas-born blonde deliv ered her formal report at standing-room-only session at tended by 600 engineers. She also held a press conference to elaborate on points made tn her paper MUST RBI ur was a 'HUMAN' main problem is ta de velop a dummy which will re Ypone as much as possible like a human being in various types of collisions," ahe said "They all have to take a lot of abuse in the crashes and we concentrated on some changes in the chest and abdomen areas to make them more like a hu man, We think we have made some progress," Miss Auerbach's role in the) auto industry's safety campaign | came after she got her bach-} elor's degree in mechanical en gineering at Vanderbilt Univer) sity and added her master's de- Dear Ann Landers: Your re- y to Mrs. Countdown, the wife who was being driven crazy by her husband's nightiy grinding une There are appliances on the can prevent Dear A, M.: You are correct when you say my reply to the agro are sex and Vathers| wife was inadequate, but yours is Dear Converted: I was rather, enjoying your triend's theory-- wlll | came to Esther, That rien he just happens to be MY name. yg le ones Farthermare 1 didn't od iy Linstein, | Be Mr ing, upper Max Duetsch, etand- pieture, presi: dent of Club Lorely for the 1966-67 looks over the club records with three other top officers of the executive, They are from People Who Are AeABON, Must Control Feelings By ROBERTA ROUSCH How can you break the habit of being overly sensitive to the actions and remarks of co workers? This is the question one reader asks in the following letter "Uniess my young daughter who works in an office finds a way to control her feelings and let a few things roll off her shoulders, she pill ruin" her opportunities in-a-very good job | She threatening to quit her job now heeause her feel ings are so often hurt by re marks from her co-workers, But she doesn't want to listen to advice from my husband or me.! "Perhaps you have some sug gestions that she will take to heart It is never easy to avercome the habit this reader describes, | once we have let it master us Rut to get along in jobs or careers--or anywhere else life must pull in our senal livity antennas so that we don't react resentfully or hurtfully to everylhing that is said to or about us This is the hest way I know to halt the overly sensitive syn drome SUGGEST HALF DOZEN Here are six other suggestions that may help you control your feelings, if you seem to be offended too often in your dally job 1. Expect to be the victim of soine thoughtless words and s tions, This Happens to everyone every da Don't attach too much importance to it Recognize the fact that we often pul ourselves in spdta in whieh we almost can't help but have our feelings hurt, So, when co-workers react to our expec tations, we only have ourselves to blame 3, Wait to see how a situation turns oul hefare you jump to hasty conclusions and snap judgments, When you give things time to resolve them! is in we i¢ gree at the University of Michi gan Her other interests range from cooking to flying a rented! plane each Sunday, from keep-| ing he Arbar, Mich.,! apartment spie and span to making her own Clothes, She is/ Single and not engaged n PILOT CLUB of SATURDAY, 2:30 and tour t 5 TEA PARKWOOD of Oshawa GARDENS JUNE 25th Tie ?) | elven LORELY ELECTS EXECUTIVE AND DIRECTORS FOR 1966-7 vener; Mr, Max Welker, corresponding secr etary, right, Standing are from the left, Mr, Helmut Uphoff, Mr, Fred Hennig, Mr. Fred Liig, and Mr, Fred Ruck, all directors Oshawa SOCIAL NOTICE FORTHCOMING MARTIAGE | Due to renovations at Holy iCross Roman Catholie Church, the forthcoming marriage of Patricia Diane Monaghan William Dodd (Billy) Little, will take place at St, Phillip's Roman Catholle Church on. 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OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE to) [Vcmen [14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondor, June 20, 1966 : Voile, Denim Making Comeback |In Fields Of Summer Fashion By MARGARET NESS TORONTO (CP).-- Two tab ries, one long out of fashion, are linvading new fields as spring | gives way to summer Voile, which hasn't been in style for so long that it's almost like « new fabric, has entered the spottewear field Old fashioned biue denim, a favorite for some years in sportswear now takes jis place as an un expected fabrie for late-day wear Volle, an airy sheer or semi sheer fabric, has turned up even in pants. for sportswear i lined of course, At the beginning \of the 2th century ja popular bridal fabric volle wae After | that it had little popularity until JASPER, Alta, (CP)---A study of 150 unwed mothers in Lon- don, Ont,, showed that only 50 per cent of them believed they) had been given adequate sex education, Dr, M. P. Wearing of London said Sunday Dr, Wearing waa reporting on the study at the annual meeting of the Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada, He said the study gave these additional findings ~The younger the unwed mother, the more likely she came from a low social atra- tum ~Vifty per cent of the girls had mothers who worked out- side the home, o~wBixty-two per cent of the un- wed mothers were school drop-outs Seventy-eight per cent had had sexual relations with only one partner -~Alcohol waa not an impor: | tant factor---op per cent of the girls did not drink, Dr. Wearing said the study) showed three main factors com-| mon to most casese"'an un- stable family life, unestablished standards of moral values plus too-little » and-too-late intensive 'sex education," Wearing said "the Ideal | Dr solution is education in th home, to teach social responsi: | bility In regard to sex; in the church for moral responstbill- ties, and school for the ata: demic aspects of sex, a few months ago This spring it appeared again in bridal gowns, especially Galey and Lord's Bwiss vols, It has also shown in flowered dresses, blouses, lingerie, even in beachwear as a charming cover-up over a swimeauit and on little girls' party frocks, It is charming in an old-fashioned shirtwaist, newly back in fash- jon favor Voile belongs to the cotton family but is also popular this season combined with some of the noiron man-made fabrics like dacron, It is extremely popular with the young crowd who like Simpsons-Sears addi tion of ruffles around the bot tom of a printed voile top and jaround the long sleeves RUFFLE TRIM POPULAR There is a sort of companion dress, in the same gay flowered print, actually a smock shift, sleeveless but with a high Peter Pan collar, And for sportswear, one of the young American de- signers has created a crazy combination of sheer voile with a western influence in a purple voile floral print shirt with pur ple voile dot hip pants, Sturdy denim also belongs to the cotton family, For a long time it was regarded entirely as a workmah's fabric, and always in a faded blue color, That utilitarian viewpoint has disappeared, except for fun con Then there are ecombleations ike the navy denim wrapekirt trimemed with white leather and | worn with @ red calico shirt, Also included im the denim lrange are & western skirt with frontier pockets front and hack, | knee-knockers and a kangaroa- pocket top with frin cap sleeves, For etrt-hoard addicts and for heach pear, denim erope ap in white as halter and short pants, the latter ruffled =a a a wabaetut mated Of course there will always hebiae ieane in denim The 1966 edition is & spruced-up version of the classic, with pockets and leather tats. Inct- dentally, you will be hearing the word "scrubbed" as applied to denim. it merely means that it's brushed for # softer and aimost worn look. But it's the new effect and \ikely to he popular with the younger set, WORLD OF Beauty AWAITS YOU HERE! 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