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CHILD GUIDANCE 16 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondey, June 6, 1966 Continues Into mere f BY GARHKE ©, ma eee; Many a pair of parents have abundant enjoyments with the children growing up with them, and continue these enioyments after the children have gone from the family. It is hard for me to imagine any other satis- faction so great and abiding. But from the letters I read, I infer that some other parents and children spend together hours, days, weeks, months and years when they feel vexed and irritated at one another almost constantly. Very sad, indeed, are some accounts I read of such family unhappiness, es- Tireduce or eliminate Enjoyment Of Growing Child Adulthood Mee. to figuee aut. together what you parents might do to some of these vexations. Look into your forbiddings ana requ ire: and try to figure out if they might be reduced or might be enforced more effectively. EVALUATE REACTIONS Name to each other the ugly speech and action of a child or children which vex you most often, Ask yourselves how well you control yourselves then, how calm and reasonable you are, Ask yourselves if you pecially when the eldest child or children are teen-agers. | I spend a lot of time writing] personally to some parents sug-| gesting ways by which they might have more happy times with their children, though I rarely know if my amotnt to much. I just hope, Perhaps the biggest source of, vexation between parents and their children is ineffectual guidance and management of ithem, Whether a child is two lor 14 he and his parents will often be vexed at one another if he has not learned early and continuously to accept a neces sary "No" as final. When any youngster ignores this word en- tirely or until it is screamed angrily at him, he is sure to be annoyed on hearing it and his parent is sure to be vexed at his disobedience. Of course, the basic source of inice relations between children) and their parents are the nice MARIE WHITING, NANCY COULSON 33rd Guide Company Present Cords In Special Ceremony --nyasonsir'aniovey ron An All Round Cord ceremo-|marched in by the flag bearer, and their success at agreeing ny, the first held by the 33rd) Karen Bradley, assisted by Joan/on the ways of bringing up the Guide Company, took pees st Sisinicd and Dekka. weber thine: on "Whitin eB nahaiage voi maid. Mrs. Manning congratu- There may be other adults, rte hiting and Sagat ~ Ou jated both girls on earning their too, like grandparents in the en eee h their cords and asked them to use family who can make the prob scenes their knowledge learned in fu- lem of family relations harder Previous to this Marci Siain- ture years. though sometimes easier ton and Karen Bradley along ), i th Cathy Twaltes of the 2ind woe Presented Mrs. Kenneth opHER FACTORS INVOLVED with Cath ware ae" Whiting with her daughters cord my had received their ig had : gater In any family there may company , who in turn placed it on Marie's cords at an annual mother and "Mrs. William | se arise all sorts of worries, bur rs Mrs, William Caulson waSiqens, and encumbrances not meet ugly utterances and acts by a child with more ugly angry utterances from you. In all the tragic wordy war- fare between child and parent, the parent, having more age and experience is in the van- needs to take the initiative in effecting a truce, saying noth- ing back when the child talks back to him or her. I just wish I knew how to tell parents to act when they see a very vexatious time arising with a child. But of one thing I'm sure: This parents ability at self-control is the ace card to play then. My fellow parents, let us of- ten muse when alone on ways we are going to try to do our best to avoid unnecessary vexa- tion in a child toward us, and to prove victorious in dispers- ing vexations when they occur. I'm sure we parents all can do fat more in this direction than we ever have supposed we could, PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. At what age level do you consider TV programs of slug- ging, stabbing, shooting, killing and other violence most harm- ful to children? A. Between two and six years, requirements |¥ Publishing Music Has Many Avenues By ROBERTA ROESCH Dear Roberta Roesch: Will you please tell me how to put over a song and get it published. I compose as @ Miss M. B, H. Dear Miss M. B. H.: Here are three procedures for r natential com- posers to follow: First, take or send your son, jto @ legitimate publisher. A |visit to your local music shop will supply you with names and addresses, A second procedure is to show your song to singers and {musicians who come to your jarea, They might be able to tell lyou whether it has possibilities. A third course is to offer your isong to a top record company with the hope that it will strike such a happy chord the com- pany will get in tune with you and help you put it across. | While you are trying to put jover your song, however, avoid doing business with companies hobby. | and the first person you should see when you have designed a product you hope to market. His services will cost money, of course, But if your product is a good one, the investment is worthwhile, since he has the experience and know - how to conduct a search to see if your idea is patentable. Ator rey chtein © natent. vou can work with a patent mar- keting firm that assists inven- tors and presents their ideas to manufacturers. It is also possi- ble to write to "manufacturers directly and present your idea to their new products depart- ment. You usually have to sign a release so you won't accuse the firms of stealing your idea in case they have been working on a similar product prior to seeing the one that you have designed. Dear Readers: A number of you who have sent me questions or requests may not have heard from me because you did not letterhead or did not enclose a stamped, self-addressed . enve- lope. Therefore, I have not been able to comply with your re- quest. If you will write me efforts|tage place, He or she usually|that ask you to pay them for publishing your work. Dear Roberta Roesch: 1 am a_ professional hair- dresser, and I have just de- | signed a hair curler which I believe has commercial possi- jbilities, I have no idea how to get it on the market, though, and lack of money is a problem ', 8. Dear F. §.: As we have said before in this column, a reliable patent attor- ney is usually your best friend again, and include your address, I will be glad to do what I can to help. ALE! SALE! SALE! BRIDAL GOWNS . . 39.95 (BRAND NEW) BRIDAL HEADPIECES 5.00 SARGEANTS Sales and Rentals 463 Ritson Rd, S. since children then tend to ac-| cept what they see as real. 725-3338 WIN A FREE )uicuT ON THE TOWN include your address on the) os omen ar A Division of the &. 5. Kreege Company Limited gan AAV VA Wi |7 a SCUGOG CLEANERS 524 Cromwell Ave, Oshewe 723-1159 "Branch Stdres" 64 King St, W. OSHAWA 898 Simeoe %. N, OSHAWA OSHAWA 905-2332 WHITBY 1 le PORT PERRY 130 Brock gt. N. A 668-4341 Exclusive HAIR STYLING FOR MEN EMIL HAHN 364 Wilson Road South 728-6007 KELLY DISNEY USED CARS LTD. i jel GUARANTEED USED CARS "We ere never satisfied until you are,' " 1200 DUNDAS ST. EAST 668-5891 WHITBY ONTARIO | Draperies Ready-To-Hang -- Also -- '@ SLIP COVERS @ BED SPREADS @ DRAPERY HARDWARE OSHAWA'S INTERIOR DECORATING SERVICE WARD'S Simeoe St. $. ot Athol 725-1151 INCE 1919 daughter banquet. Both Guide or sig pat car pc : ; her daughter's cord and| immediately related to the chil t St. Paul's Presbyterian'. Phareh. Congratulations to both girls'tions between parents, and may were extended by their capt- spread to the children Among | aire nea Sete jo Mrs. G. A. Leavitt, president fatigue or impaired health of wd of the parent committee, pre-|one or more adults there. Yet a Assisted by Lieutenant Linda). j ; : ? spoon and extended congratula-|can rise victoriously even over Hopkins, the Captain present-|tions Mrs, Frauts presented' these. them, . Mrs. Frauts congratulated a aa aS ; Lnecetegs pre 0 da parents cribed Cake was cut and your children, here a Heather McLean and Kathy | PY the Marie and Nancy, at an|some things you might wish to Twiner who had received their)#ttractive tea table decorated) consider. at! to cultivate St. Paul's Church, the day be-| White candles and two minia-| more enjoyable and companion- e, for tain. Refreshments were serv-|\selyes as parents. Parents Bud Manning, joined the lead- ed by several guides working! chould sit down in private and) ers and the company flag was Nancy and Marie both sin- which there are strong tensions THE STARS SAY \eerely thanked everyone who| between them and the children. | By ESTRELLITA to obtain. their cords tive workers are indicated in ; | Among the guests preséntiearly August, late September, | e the initiative now where| Tak laites of the 22nd Guide Com-|ber, next January and March, terests. Planetary influ-|Pany, om ences are good--both for com-|started their Guiding, -- smoothly during the year l-\ ahead, with the mid - August- and launching. new ventures,|¥00¢ Bradley, past Especially favored: Home and % the parent committee happy ones. Do not, however, 2 make any drastic changes on ng and sound investments. i , monetary affairs covering theldle of this month. Social stimu- FOR THE BIRTHDAY weeks. between February Ist\lating for the balance of this | your chart indicates that, as Oflinterests should be generally|October, Jate November and the ; fow, your occupational and )excelient throughout the next 12) weeks between Dec, 5 and Feb, than it ig gg Mi oui Wo | complishment are star - prom-|Late November, next April and) years an at, if you mobilize jicseq during the next week, in|May; for travel: September, ~ of the generous influences|November, next February' and) A child born on this day will » which have prevailed for the which have preva or March. Outstanding cycles for\be highly intelligent and ambi » tinue until the end of Septem * ber, you should find your af-| + of 1966; In fact, as of last week you entered a period, lasting be advisable to make plans for exnansion along both of the with a view to immediate gain but for advancing your status which] will encompass a period of un-} usually profitable activity. In| © one admonition; Do not specu-} late during the month of Au Further, on the score: If you manage give Campanies hold their meetings in turn presented it to Nancy.\aren. which can arouse vexa- With the Guides in the horse-/ ain and lieutenant them are family finances, Diane McDermaid as a Guide. sonted both girls with a Guide|good many wondeful parents d badges to the girls earning| ; Zo e 8 g Bithe girls with their All Round) qf you believe you have many Joan Stainton, Coreen Levitt Religion and Life Awards |with blue and gold flowers, Look for ways ture Guides made by the cap-lable relations between your- District Commissioner, Mrs for their hostess Badge. enumerate times and areas in | |had helped them in any way se 'OR TOMORROW A < were Captain Mrs. George Tw-|the first and last week of Octo-| it will help to advance your in-| with whom the girls) pomestic matters should run ' pleting Jong - pending projects | Douglas Stainton 'and Mrs. president mid-October months especially property interests, merchandis i other excellent cycle governing|the home front during the mid- If tomorrow is your birthday.!andq April. 15th. While career|month, in late September, early financial outlook is far better|months, notable periods of ac-|10. Best periods for romance: * your efforts to take advantage|oarly August, late October, late|next January and May. f past month and which will con-) recognition in the case of crea-|tious; artistically inclined fairs in fine shape by the end until July 15, when it would aforementioned lines--not only over the next two years this connection, however, just gust fairs conservatively a your af between October 1 and the end of Janu- 'ary -- but particularly during} the last two weeks in Decem | | | financie UI | | | | * ber--you should not only do * well, but you can count on an * . WOOLWORTH Super Bakery Specials BAKED FRESH DAILY IN OUR KITCHEN ! 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