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ANN LANDERS Computer, Cupid Does a Hear Ann Landers: Lately 1 have been reading a good deal about "love by computer."' Stu- dents on various campuses have made a business of matching up young men and women. They invite interested parties to fill out- a questionnaire and state their age, height, weight, re- ligton, financial status, hobbies, politics, prejudices, ambitions, feelings about sex, fluoridation and the bomb. "The cards are put through a computer and the couples are paired off according to similar- ity of background and interests. e of those couples may ry as a result of machine matching, a thought which seems to me downright fright- ening, if not immoral. Yve heard that automation is) coming and that we must ad- just: ourselves to it, but don't fée] this is going too far? I'd ate a reply in the paper --<s> others can see it,--Jaun- iced EXYE Dear Jaundiced:; From the way people - picked marriages have been turning out the last i] years I don't think a ma- ine could do much worse. +We are living in a sexy, 6u- per-charged society which em-| phasizes glamor, speeds, kicks,| status and escape. People marry for looks, measurements, --so help me--"because we nce so well together."' What sh call love is actually one sbt of glands calling to another. There is plenty of evidence that marriages work out best hetween individuals of the same ace and religion, And where there is similarity of educa- cational background, values and Igng-term goals, the marriage hps a far better chance to suc- ceed, Selections made on the d-|was lower than a skunk--that Many Mistakes solid than marriages between people "who turn each other on." But the computer. obviously does not hold the answer--wit- ness the high school senior in Kewanee, lill., who wound up matched with his sister. | Dear Ann: Seven years ago my handsome, good-for-nothing husband blew town and left me with four small children, He scrammed when the court or- dered him to pay child support. Yesterday I went to school to pick up my two youngest and for the first time in seven years I saw my husband. He was standing on the sidewalk in front of the school, holding pic- tures of the children--trying to spot them in the crowd. I went over and told him he his children needed dental work and glasses and he'd better come through with some money. As he leaned against his brand new car he told me that his new teeth cost $400 and his glasses were not paid for. He said he would do what he could when he gets in better shape financially. Of course he has no intention of giving me a dime:| What I want to know is this Since I'll never get any money out of him don't you think T am entitled to some satisfaction? Would it be O.K. if, the next time 1 saw him I rassled him to the ground and took away his teeth and glasses? I am bigger than he is and I know I could! do it. Please say yes.--Need to Ex-| press Myself Dear Need To: You have enough trouble without getting arrested for assault and bat- tery Express yourself to a lawyer.| MR, AND MRS, THOMAS SPEIRS --Oshawa Times. Photos Surrey Drive Couple Honored On Silver Wedding Anniversary jcentury, this wonder metal is 14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, April 25, 1966 West Courtice H and § Association Annual Meeting And Election The president, Mrs. Johnjrepresentatives from the West Leger presided at the April/Courtice Association to the an- meeting of West Courtice Home|nual dinner meeting of Home and School Association, The at-|and School Council at E. A, tendance banner was won by|Lovell School on May 24. Mrs. Balson's Grade $ and 4; Mrs. B. Hanewich and Mrs. room. |Wilson reported on the Home Annual reports were given by|and School convention at the the secretary, treasurer and so-'Inn-on-the-Park. cial convener. The guest speaker was Miss The nominating committee, Frances MacLeod, primary Mrs. Earle Wilson and Mrs.|reading consultant for the Osh- Lawrence Bray, presented thejawa schools. Miss MacLeod slate of officers for 1966-67 as|stressed the important role par- follows: president, Mrs. Benja-jents played as teachers to a min Hanewich; ist vice-presi-| pre-school child, in reading to dent, Mrs. James Maclean;|him and answering his ques- secretary, Mrs. Eric Dunham; |tioms. She explained how the treasurer, Mrs. Arnold Eyman;|kindergarten and Grade 1 program chairman, Mrs. EHarle|teachers prepared a child for' Wilson; assistant program|his most important subject, chairman, Mrs. Douglas Oke; |reading. A child could become membership, Mrs. A. J.\a poor reader by having read- Brouwer; publications chair-| ing forced on him before he was man, Mrs. Morris Chard;|ready and eager to learn grade mother chairman, Mrs.|to read. Miss MacLeod com- Lawrence Bray; social conven-|pleted her talk up to the Grade er, Mrs. Thomas Mahaffy; as-|3 level of phonics. sistant social convener, Mrs.| Refreshments were served by Richard Dickson; council rep-|Mrs. Leslie Noble, Mrs. Wilson, resentative, Mrs. John Leger. |Mrs. Norman Gibson and Mrs It was decided tp send two! Mahaffy. Steel - Strong, Versatile ia A Wonder Metal For Homes By ELEANOR ROSS {there is a _ lightweight steel As steel heads into its second|foundation system requiring lit- tle excavation, thereby making ? it possible for builders to con- taking on an even more cCOn-|tinue construction activi ties te Bee Merde ee a ib i Aer de da AOR Na NRE aS La Leche League Organized Holds First Meeting In Ajax The newly organized Ajax Group of La Leche League will hold its first meeting on Tuesday, April 26, 1966 at 3.30 p.m., at the home of Mrs. R. G. Wonnacott, Ajax. The name, La Leche, is Span- ish and means "the milk." A non-sectarian, non-profit. organ- ization, the league's purpose is to' help encourage 'better mothering through breastfeed- ing." The group will meet the fourth Tuesday of each month. A series of four meetings will discuss, informally, different phases of breastfeeding. Topic for first meeting, Advantages of Breastfeeding to Mother and Child. Available at the La Leche League meeting is an excellent loan library contain- ing many books on childbirth, child care, mothering and nurs- ing, as well as the league's manual, 'The Womanly Art of; Breastfeeding." | | All women who are interested 44Y to have children, if you are! in nursing their babies are in-|@ standmother, if you are in- vited . . . as are their babies. |terested . . . you are welcome. | ita _ gt be pregnant or| Transportation can be arranged i pacave PB gon hia attend.| f+ Oshawa mothers who would ope some nn | ke to attend |interior finishings of homes as\ 2 Leche League began in a well. Porcelain-on-steel is now| "Micago suburb eight years ago,| applied to plumbing fixtures for when one mother who had suc | the bathroom, as well as major| °°S*fully nursed her baby, help-| appliances, by a new method|c? another who wanted to that improves the product and| reastfeed. jcuts manufacturing costs. This is still the basic ap-| Still another development in|P'0ach, although the league is) \porcelain enameling is a new|"W international in scope, with) type of steel with a low carbon| More than 250 groups helping content that mak "onat (thousands of women in the |enameling possible oor coat | tnited States, Canada, Mexico, This also affords idpeltiowshl tee ecnieas bec ae i |\savings, and, in addition, gives|and practical eucecctions of ¢ the same hard use ¥is) saser pod Lod ty no oe * | , wbragype -|non-medical nature are given! ful, easy-to-clean finish to steel|t, mothers who want to nurse! MRS. R. G. WONNACOTT In these and other ways,|to regain confidence in their steel, which has long helped out| own abilities to breastfeed around the house, is now bring-| For further information about ing to home styling and finish-| the new Ajax La Leche League ing a brand new look, while| group, or should you have any tubs, sinks and other cabinets.| their babies. Womer often need! _ of what two people can share are bound to be more A man who does not abide by a court order can be sent to jail.|cian Motor Hotel marked the GHILD GUIDANCE 'it's Not Necessary To Spoil Only By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD |{ Obviously the first child of the same parents is an only child unless or until more chil- dren are added. The whole him while he is the only child. New problems come to him/5 gehen a brother or sister ar- rives, and more and different problems arise and continue f for his parents. | 8 With no brother or sister to t vie with in the family there may be no one there to quarrel and. fight with or to feel jealous of. Indeed, some parents of the only child under four or five dread the possible jealousy if or when a brother or sister is added. However, other parents of the young only child hope this child might be happier and more easily managed if he had a brother or sister. Either group 8 among these children and their parents can arouse selfishness. Parents are right in assuming that less of the fam- ds to revolve around|ily income will be needed to oo bring up one than to bring up overlook they may selves to several children they may gain therefrom more per- adaptation to only one. PARENTS MUST: WATCH Child families and some relationships increased children. But the personal values themselves derive rom reasonable sacrifices. for everal children. Besides when hey successfully adapt them- everal many onal enrichment than from However, you may know an only child who has turned out to be a very unselfish and lik- able person. His parents being aware of some problems facing A surprise party at the Geor- jsilver wedding anniversary of Mr. and Mrs Surrey drive, last Saturday eve- ning. The former Olive Goldsmith, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Leon- ard Goldsmith, Oshawa, and Thomas Speirs, son of the late Mr, and Mrs. Robert Speirs, were married in Oshawa by By ROBERTA ROESCH I have resisted the temptation to promote 'all the 'national weeks" that have steadily in creased until now they number more than the 52 in the calen- dar year. However, I would like to weaken just this once and help celebrate National Secretaries Week because so many of our readers hold jobs in that field. And since this is the week, there is no better time than the present to pass on some perti- him may have disciplined them- selves not to give him too many) things, not to spend too much} nent pointers on how to get ahead. These are from Mar- garet Lawson, 1965 Interna- Thomas Speirs,| National Secretaries' Week 7 Marked By Tips To Secretaries the late Reverend George Tel- ford. They have two children, |Douglas and Helen and one grandchild | Many gifts and best wishes jwere received among gpvhich was a set of French Provincial tables from friends and rela- tives. | Out of town guests were pres- ent from Detroit, Michigan; London, Woodstock an Bethany the top. As she progressed and moved up in each job, she con- stantly made it her business to change to a new opportunity) when the job in which she was working offered no place to go. |This need to keep moving on jis one of her pertinent pointers for people who want to get ahead, "You can't stand still," she said. "And you cai't let a job go on for too long when you know it is time to move." OFFERS SUGGESTIONS Other suggestions from the | Secretary of the Year for those the slope, neatly solving a prob- spicuous and valued role iniduring the winter. The new home building, as well as pro-| foundation consists of a number viding us with bigger and better|of steel posts secured on indi- home appliances, colorful furni-| vidual concrete pads with steel ture, elegant dinner ware and|perimeter beams, corner braces many more items. jand interior steel joists. The Thanks to the ingenuity ofjonly excavation needed is the bridge builders, new houses are| boring of holes two feet in diam- being built on steeply sloped eter down past the frost line to lots that were once called "'im-| pour the concrete pads for the possible' by even those most|steel posts. | experienced in the field. But} Steel components open up im- these are lots that are desirable|proved home styling. For ex- because of their lower price and|ample, a composite steel and the views they usually afford.|wood beam has been introduced By using steel framing, the! in home building. The steel adds house is cantilevered out over | only three pounds a linear foot to beam weight but more than lem conventional construction|doubles its load-carrying capa- cannot economically handle. It's| city, | like a house floating on air, but; Another new product is the) with all the security that steel nailable steel stud that can be/| affords. cut and nailed like wood, But ™ eonventional construction,| unlike wood, it never warps, », 9.eel is mal nportant sags, rots or swells because it contributions. is made of galvanized steel For instance, home building| sheet. | was once seasonal. But now! Steel is also remolutionizing| eae helping to reduce construction| questions on nursing you. would | and upkeep costs and adding to|like to discuss please feel free | permanence while decreasing | to contact Mrs. Wonnacott, at maintenance | 1942-4129. SOCIAL NOTICE MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs. Donald F. ae Oshawa, announce the jmarriage of their |Donnajean, to Mr. prog por [Vernen, son of the jate Mr. and Mrs. Louis Vernon of Brooklin. |The ceremony took place on Thursday, April 21, 1684, in the chapel of St. Andrew's United Church with the Reverend John Morris officiating. CNR DROPS HORSES MONTREAL (CP)--When the CNR's accounts department redesigned expense account forms one item was omitted-- horse hire. No-one could re- 'member when they had last «~~ -@ claim on that line of the ; form, THIS 15 THE LAST WEEK / For OMSIP COVERAGE STARTING JULY Ist JOIN BEFORE MAY Ist ENROL TODAY/ REN * he Ci ar oe ck cama aie 68 i of parents may discover later) money on him, not to let him/|tional Secretary of the Year. |who want to progress were that their fears and hopes were|nearly always have what he| Margaret, who believes. good) based on the following pointers: wrong. }wants nor lavish too much at-| secretaries have wonderfully re-| 4 pe enthusiastically inter- i P - tention on him. Their relatives| wardi y i While jealousy may not bes ir relatives| warding careers, won her title ested in your work. Enjoy it big problem in the only child} and do all the extras. jand friends might choose to) last summer at the 20th annual| during his first few years, it co-operate with them in these) convention of the National Sec-| ax een is th wie | 2. Be loyal and strive for perfection. directions retaries Association. gies with other chiidren outside} From the time tne only child) Even as she wears her official the family and observes them in|begins to toddle he may have|crown, she practises what she| 3- Be alert to opportunities | relation to himself and his par-|had opportunities to play with| preaches in her jobs as secre-| when they happen. ents and other adults. Indeed,|other children of his age and to|\tary to Arthur J. Lumsden,| 4. Learn all you can, since it's conceivable that an only|share his playthings with them.|executive vice-president of thelall the knowledge you accumu- child at five, eight or 14 could|He may have attended a nurs-|Greater Hartford Chamber of|late helps you somewhere along suffer more from jealousy than|ery school or the nursery de-|Commerce of Hartford, Conn.,}the way. if he were one of several chil-/partment of a Sunday school.|and as corporation secretary of| ¢ the sa r After he ente K : r rc i dren of the same parents gh red kindergarten' the Chamber of Commerce |yate situations and make deci | 18,35] 28.37 P more often be|and the elementary grades his | Parents I have always liked to work) sions 86) 51.24 hi 'hike D ST be aie od Credit at HFC means credit coast to coast Credit in one HFC office gives you cash credit in every HFC office throughout Canada and the U.S. A good reason to borrow from HFC, MONTHLY PAYMENT PLANS " | " au | | | " _| menthe | moathe | months | months months) months} 5. 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TORO BOAT would be pleated te have you wisit her enen 128 Wilson Rd, §. began at the bot-| The Oshawa chapters of Beta But she kept her eyes on Sigma Phi will celebrate the 35th = = a = = = = = = = Ee i rons boo os x Telephone 942-6320 of time. Yes, silver will stay with you forever .. . while faithfully serving every day, At Birks, we know all about your hopes and dreams, as well as that "practi- cal angle". True, we offer you a delightful variety of exclusive open-stock patterns; but also, our convenient budget terms. You can set your family table for as little as $100... and enjoy your silver, as you pay for it. PHP THN NA if a og deve: tan ' opportunities for getting along . ¥ " Me t ght when they believe a child with hie Miiares haan hs He and found it interesting,"' Mar & Expect to start at the 1 87.72] | with brothers or sisters may greatly) garet said. 'I learned my skills} hottom., When you start there ves | vase ifi , ften say they can easily é sia] di grow unselfish. Manifestly he|°TS ° j Y\ for jobs both in high school and! ---- Ras. 2. delta must more often wail and share|SPOt the only child at school 'MUUUUNVNAVOARNENOODLLTLTEOOTT = nf the home and in attention Probably have been weighing) BEGAN IN RETAILING : from the adults there and other TOS "ofthe state After, Margaret graduated WMrArm' «ee However, there are many that you find good ways in the her typing and shorthand aside, very selfish children in large|family to help him grow less/ 4nd began a career in retailing INTERNATIONAL that he will spend ample time) offered an excellent chance for HAIRSTYLIST with other children near his own a secretarial job. | brushed up : ; Considering the only child|'9 that field." Sorority Founding during his first few years, in| Margaret your big problem is to help him grow self-reliant and not too tion's founding tomorrow ' tionally on his mother; that his April 26. A banquet including father shall take considerable held at St. Paul's Presbyterian) sy iqance tors away but the 1966 Winter Church Hall His independence of hi« "ames at this northern commit i hoping and -- budgeting. An chapter of the sorority was/ence on his father and on him-|);0 local people watched dow silver is quife an investment. formed in Abilene, Kansas.|self will help prepare him not|S!¢¢ taces, snow sculpting for your money: daily service. with over 185,000 members in/sively, but to grow reasonably| ment and a hockey game testing beauty "and unchan i g fiffeen countries happy with the added child or vee } = traditional ceremonies will be AES pane A. E. JOHNSON, 0.D. olerved. The history of the PARENTS QUESTIONS ll er a er ecia S s .onhumber of boys as girls as lo ; i a@l new members will receive inte", Psa ets A811 14V2 King St. East |] 4 723-2721 BAKED FRESH DAILY IN YOUR KITCHEN ! Hy have more opportunities to increased, Nevertheless teach-|j) high school and used them| you cas. OA ko up 4 the necessities and luxuries; If you have an only child you relatives ments. Your. chief concern is from college, however, she pul! * 28% 48 wr ii - self-centred, less selfish; and; "Then," she said, 'I gas Chapters To Mark Pies age on my shorthand and switched case more children arrive later, | tom anniversary the organiza dependent physical!y and emo the five local chapters will be) rosnonsibility for his care and Thirty-five years ago, the first| mother and growing depend nity went on as planned. About re are now 8,000 chapters to suffer from jealousy exces. | Weightlifting, a darts tourna ee ar ote i nm addition to the banquet, children value for more than your life- lowal chapters will be reviewed _ @ Would you invite the same OPTOMETRIST : sip A. 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