_ Happy Gang TOPS) EG ALININ T KATIATDA FLL iii Unwritten Moral Law Favors Male Species Dear Ann Landers: I am writ- ing about that grief - stricken eailace hav whose sweetheart confessed she had intimate re- lations with a high school lad. I know the type. I'll bet he had affairs with at least six girls while he was in high school. He arrives at college and-is disap- pointed not to find an abun- dance of "white flower' girls. Where have al] the lovely flow- ers gone? To the high school boys like "Grief-Stricken"--I'il bet. If these creeps think so highly of virgins why don't they leave a few around? Can you imagine a girl who has had six or seyen affairs demanding-that--her fi- ancee be 100 per cent pure? The fellow would fall down laughing. A male with sex experience is called a lover. A woman with sex experience is called a tramp. Men want to marry lily- white maidens but they also like to take their fun where they find it. Such hypocrisy makes me sick. -- Miss K.Q. Dear Miss K.Q.: If I had your address I'd send you a get well card.' Thanks for a good letter. You speak the truth, Lady. Dear Ann Landers: I have worked for this firm for 12 years. I started at a modest salary because the boss assured me that I would "'grow with the company." The company has grown and I've made a signifi- cant contribution. Yet I've re- ceived. exactly one salary in- crease--four years ago. There are no bonus arrange- ments, no stock options, no chance that I will ever share the profits. I'm on a straight sal- ary, plus a turkey for Christ- mas. boss about a raise he tells me happy to work for people who appreciate me. T have inree children througn couege. wien i aon my wife if I should leave she says, "A bird in the hand --." What do you advise? -- S Dear Soaped: They won't take birds as payment for college tuition anymore, or compliments either. Look around for a company that. can use your talents. Equally important is the quality of people you'd be working for and with. Be selective. When you find the combination tell your boss good-bye, and next Christmas send him a turkey. Dear Ann: When I first mar- ried Jim he always seemed to disappear when guests arrived. He'd either go to the basement and repair the lawn mower or out to the garage and change the oil in the car, or upstairs to rummage around in old pa- pers and magazines. It caused me a lot of em- barrassment and he knew it, but to put gave up inviting company at night. | Now that our children are iteen-agers it's the same story. | When Carla told us a boy friend would be coming over and she wanted dad to meet him I knew what would happen. And it did. The minute the boy showed up, Jim went downstairs and started to putter around, He stayed |there for an hour. |. Finally 'Carla took the boy downstairs and introduced him ito her dad. Jim was very |friendly and they got along fine. | What can be done to change \Jim? Why is he like this? -- | Concerned | Dear Con: Jim ts ill at ease Whenever I talk to my | with strangers and he avoids discomfort by "disappearing." he just wouldn't change so 1} I'm loyal, and invaluable to the/I doubt that he will ever change company. He lays on the com-/so accept him as he is -- and pliments, then says I should be! work around it as best you can. 'Health And Your Child' Topic At Coronation H And S The Milk Foundation of Osh-jtor of St. Matk's Anglican awa is a non-profit, public serv-;Church; and Mr. W. A. Smith, ice organization whose purpose|Attendance Officer for Public is to inform and educate the|Schools. Mr. Barnard Lewis, of citizens of this community in/the Children's Aid Society, will| the ways of basic nutrition, re-|act as moderator for the eve-| volving, of course, around milk |ning. and yap tooo 4 | On addressing oronation | ° Home and School members,| Unwanted Babies Mrs. R. P. Jaeggin, represent- ing the Foundation, pointed out Mrs. Margaret Stuart, leader of Westmount Chal- lengers TOPS Club, crowns Mrs. Mary Horruzey, 1965 Queen of the Happy Gang TOPS Club; as the runner-up Mrs, Joan Vickers, looks on. Mrs. Horruzey lost 4714 Ibs. and Mrs. Vickers lost 4544. The Queen will be eligible to compete in the International Convention of TOPS Clubs in Toronto, later this spring. --Oshawa Times Photo Wemen that while its program was de- signed to justify and encour- age an adequate and continuous consumption of milk products, it was also intended to help peo- ple to upgrade their eating habits in accordance with "Can- ada's Food Guide." Mrs. Jaeggin stressed the essential part played by milk in adding to the variety and nutri- tive value of a well-balanced diet, and indicated that many of the accidents occurring in in- dustrial plants are caused by people who do not eat break- fast. | The Milk Foundation supplies posters for these plants, point-| ing the way to sounder nutrition. | There are thirty-six local Milk| Foundations carrying out food programs, with their head office in Toronto. Mrs. plained that they render serv- ices such as teaching aids, sup- ply health posters, booklets, guest speakers, and show health films in schools. Animal feeding demonstrations were also given in schools to emphasize proper feeding habits. Dr. George Beaton of the Uni- | Jaeggin eX" ever reach the point where un- |married mothers will be forced \to keep their babies. | "Where there is a surplus of | babies in one area, there's usu- jally a shortage in another, and | everything levels out." | The figures in papers on her jdesk reinforced her statement. | But the situation isn't serious in | Ontario yet. I hope we won't Exceed Adoptions TORONTO (CP)--A woman | faced with the r ibility of 14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursdey, Februery 24, 1966 a business in which the supply constantly exceeds the demand) might be expected to show her worries. But Betty Graham, first woman director of child welfare for Ontario, who has had that esrponsibility for little more than a month, is still smiling. "One of my prime concerns is the increasing number of chil- dren coming into the care of the Children's Aid Societies of On- tario," she said in an inter- view. "As of Dec. 1, the total stood at 15,367. "There's an increase in chil- ren without a corresponding increase in adoption applicants. SOCIAL & PERSONAL Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Editor Telephone 723 - 3474 for Women's Department | Mrs. Peter Kennedy, former- ly Barbara Holmes, daughter of the Reverend and Mrs. N, T. Holmes, Oshawa, is currently residing in Madison, Wisconsin, where her husband is pursuing) his studies towards the Ph.D. degree in Econometrics. Mrs. Kennedy is employed by the University of Wisconsin at the Research and Development Centre for Learning and Re- Juarez. Before returning home, | the travellers visited Mrs.| Clarke's brother, Mrs. Jack/ Thomson and Mrs. Thomson at! Lancaster, California, | Weekend guests of Mr. and Mrs. Russell Worsley, Gifford! street, were their son, Mr. Ken- neth Worsley and Miss Sharon Christanson of Laurentian Uni- ; d versity, Sudbury. \Education. There she is_ in- jvolved in advanced research) 4 surprise party was held at land experimentation in the field] the home : 1 | the of Mr. and Mrs, Jack lof Educational Psychology. Mann, Welland avenue, by Mrs. i a wae ye: Mayor, nape ae in honor of her| RR 1, Oshawa, returned last | fin ands, Mr. Thomas Mar-| in's 75th birthday last Satur- day, February 19. Friends and relatives presented Mr. Martin with a purse of money and a large cake made in the shape of the number 75 centered the table when a buffet supper was served. Out of town guests were from Weston, Toronto, Newcas- tle and Trenton. Mrs. C. M. Elliott, Glenciarn street, welcomed members of the French Conversation Group the University Women's Club to her home for a study and so- cial evening on Tuesday. Crown 1965 Queen it takes 16 montis to make aj oe Queen. At least in the Happy Gang TOPS Club of Oshawa, it took Mrs. Mary Horruzey that short & time to lose 4714 Ibs. Mrs. Horruzey lost more weight than any other mem- ber in the same period. Her run- ner-up was Mrs. Joan Vickers, with a loss of 45% Ibs. Both were honored at a hanauet held st the Simeone Hall Bovle Clnh which was decorated in the Val- entine theme. The leader of the Westmount Challengers TOPS Club, the la- test club to organize, Mrs. Mar- garet Stuart crowned Mrs, Hor- ruzey and Mrs. Vickers, and presented them with cheques. The Happy Gang leader, Mrs. Doreen Thompson, presented each with a bouquet of flowers. Mrs. Georgie Kingsley, Queen for 1964 and her runner-up, Mrs. Frances Kavanaugh received floral arrangements in recogni- tion of their achievement. The divisional winners were: Division 1, Mrs. Doreen Thomp- son; Division 3, Mrs. Helen Turner; 4, Mrs. Ellen Krysinski; 5, Mrs. Madge Parfitt, Each re- ceived a cheque presented by Mrs, Kingsley. | Mrs. Kavanaugh presented Mrs. Stuart with a token of ap-| preciation for taking part in the! ceremony. The Queen and her runner-up| gave talks on their methods of} losing and maintaining their! weight loss. Low. calorie refreshments were prepared and served by) Mrs. Marjorie Groat and Mrs. Peggy Eadie. | Earlier in February the club/ chartered a bus to Toronto! where they attended the Ice Follies. The monthly Queen for Janu- ary was Mrs. Kingsley and her runner-up, Mrs. Gail Cockburn. Three new members were wel-| comed in January, Mrs. Irene | Levick, Mrs. Lucille Noonan} and Mrs. Shirley Smegal. | | UNICEF To Ask For Higher Grant | TORONTO (CP)--The Cana- dian UNICEF committee may soon ask the federal govern- ment to increase its $1,000,000 annual contribution to the chil- dren's fund of the United Na- tions, Mrs. Margaret Konantz of | Winnipeg says. | Mrs. Konantz, chairman .of| the committee and former Lib- eral member of Parliament, said the increase may be asked because of the growing public interest in the work of the or- ganization. | | Public interest and support is jreflected in the increased amounts that have been con- tributed to the committee's hal- loween collection and greeting card program, she told repre-| sentatives from 28 national | women's organizations. New styles, new fabrics, exper service, Give us a call. . PHONE Darlington new business offers you free estimates and pick-up and delivery: . our rates are bow! 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The regis- cuss Juvenile Delinquency: De-|try will keep track of all re- tective Sergeant John Powell of| ported cases of child abuse in relatives. During their five-week vacation the average daily tem- perature was a delightful 72 degrees. Mr. and Mrs. Albert Clarke, Celina street, have returned from Chula Vista, California, where they attended the wed- ding of their son, Mr. Ronald) Willis Clarke and Miss Maria} ham said. "We need young men to work with fathers and their families." OUR GREAT MIDWINTER FURNITURE SALE CONTINUES the Oshawa Police Force; Mr. Harold MacNeil, director of Simcoe Hall Boys' Club; Mr.|may slow the operation, how-|and prevention. And despife her| S. W .Pointon, Clerk of the Fam- ily and Juvenile Court; the Reverend A. I. 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