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'A record for your We Oshawa Times Women's Page. Forms are aVaiiavie at Tie Oshawa Times office. Early record is facilitated by submitting the co~pleted torm and aicture of the bride to the Women's Editor as svon as possible after the ceremony. names of out-of-town guests attending the wedding to the social editor either before or t re] 1 "ft at pandy - smiin veil, and a corsage of deep red |, In an afternoon adouble-ring| ceremony in the chapel of St. Andrew's United Church, Dor-! ° een Jane Smith, daughter of Mr.| and Mrs. Richard J. Fowler,) Brooklin, was united in mar- riage to Glenn W. Sandy, son of Mr. and Mrs. John M. Sandy. | Oshawa. | | The Reverend John F. G.| Morris officiated and the wed- ding music was played by Mr. Kelvin James. » The bride was wearing a win-| ter white boucle suit, matching bow headdress holding a short CHILD GUIDANCE Pastoral Counselling Needs publication of this wedding You are asked to submit the he day after the wedding. rosebuds, The matron of honor was Mrs. David Smith,. Oshawa, and the best man was Mr. Don- ald Sandy, Peterborough, bro- ther of the bridegroom. Mr. Neil Sandy, another" brother, was the usher. Following the reception held at the Georgian Motor Hotel, the couple left: for a honeymoon in Niagara Falls, with the bride donning for travelling, a tur- quoise suit, beige coat with mink trim and brown and white accessories ze | | To Be Held Ih Strict Confidence: By GARY MYERS, PhD | There is appearing in profes-| sional literature more and more} evidence that religious pastors) are often called upon for coun-| sel on marriage and general) family problems and personal problems. There are also indi- cations that many oi these spir-| itual advisers do a vast amount) of good at furthering better men) tal health and human relations Counselling is taught increas- ingly more now at theological seminaries of the various faiths Many clergymen are pursuing special courses in counselling at various clinics and professional schools. ; Obviously, the pastor can eas | Fortunately, |naries are including courses re- counsel and to the whole field' of counselling. Some clergymen, after read- ing several books or taking a| few summer courses in counsel-| ling, suppose they are seasoned! experts and attempt 'to counsel far beyond their ability. This problem also prevails in coun- selling at school by teachers. So a big problem in pastoral coun-! |selling is for the pastor to know! and respect his limitations. With this reservation any pas-| tor may be able to acquaint himself with the professional sources available to persons/ who come to him for counsel.| theological semi- POP PATTERNS FOR PATIO Pop art designs in gay colors are used in the Em- pire style patio dress at left, Lycra. The outfits were de- signed by Beatrice Pines for the National Collection of DIST ; Summary Of reports of SIMCOE STREET UCW (Astra Unit) The regular meeting of the Astra Unit of Simcoe Street United Church Women was held recently with Mrs. Howard Toaze onening with the reading of a poem. and thanking every- one for their co-operation dur- ing her term of office. The Reverend J. K. Moffat installed the new officers as fol- lows: past-president, Mrs, How- ard Toaze; president, Mrs. Ken- neth Cowan; vice - president, Mrs. Elgin Savery; treasurer, Mrs. Douglas Courtney; record- ing secretary, Mrs. Ronald Armstrong; pianist, Mrs. John Peeling; card convener, Mrs. Eric Hempstead; press report- er, Mrs. Reginald Piper; friend- ship convener, Mrs. Nicholas Gulenchyn; group leaders, Mrs. Stephen Salmers, Mrs Bruce Travell and Mrs. Robert Currie. The worship service was led by Mrs. David Weldon and Mrs. Wilfred Hewitt. '| The new president, Mrs. Ken- Success Soars For Secretary WINNIPEG (CP)--Mrs. J. A |Cammell is a soaring secretary. A gliding enthusiast for the last 10 years, Mrs. Cammell is the only woman member of the § | Winnipeg Gliding Club who flies {She has been club secretary for the last year She began gliding while work ing in France as an occupa- jtional the rapist. When she moved to England in 1959 she jbecame executive secretary of ithe RAF Gliding and Soaring |Association. Two years later she came to Winnipeg and mar- ried Gliding is a safe sport if AFF DIARY I meetings and activities of | omniled from _renorts neth Cowan, presided for the business with the following an- nouncements being made: a nearly new sale would be held October 7 and the fall bazaar on November 16. Dantunnhe nase pee, A ore AVUAIWORMECANO WLS DULVYTU W, Mrs. Bruce Travell's group. SA HOME LEAGUE At last week's meeting of the Salvation Army Home League, Mrs. William James presided, and reminded the members about the rally in Peterborough on April 25 for which a bus will be chartered. Mrs. George Beard read a thank-you card from Toronto for old stamps which had been! received from Oshawa. Enough had been sent to keep 50 leper patients for one year. All mem- bers were again asked to save all their old stamps. | Mrs. David Owen was "in, charge of the meeting using the | Valentine theme, with readings, contests and. hat making. Mrs | Wilbert Clarke sang a solo and jothers taking part were Mrs. |William Stubbings and Mrs \John Ludlow. | At the previous meeting the |Cheerio group were in charge jof the devotion period and the guest speaker was Mrs. Captain (an average of 50 m.p.h.) and there is no gas to catch fire. | {It's silent. You have a complete| sense of freedom and a sensa- tion of mastery over the ele- ments."" She admits, however, there are moments of fear about find- ing a safe landing spot. Her ongest flight was in France. Taking off about 20 miles from Paris, she lost her way "T flew for 20-minutes and realized the sun was in the, wrong direction. So I turned| around and flew back. I'll never | forget the way I felt when I} mernert rraser, Bowmanville. Mrs, Philip Bell sang a solo 4 So hecite: neeerineas neon At aa We ous Eicup servou tea, : At an earlier meeting, Mrs. Meynard "Neen "ii hare tr the devotion period, took as her theme "June in January,"' talk- ing on wedding customs and brides in different countries of the world. 18th SCOUT GROUP AUX. The February meeting of the 18th Senut Grown Asviliane wae *\held in Courtice United Church with Mrs, Thomas Mahaffy pre- siding. é The final plans for the father and son banquet were made with the date set for March 5. The members were asked to have the fathers and sons pur- chase their tickets right away to allow the auxiliary to know how many to cater for. All mo- thers were asked to help prepare and serve the banquet. The next auxiliary meeting will be March 8 when sugges- tions will be asked for ideas for money raising projects, BETA SIGMA PHI At its semi-monthly meeting held recently at the home of Mrs, Kenneth Young, XI Alpha Sigma Chapter of Beta Sigma PY a MissMers. low speak on Jamaica. Mice-Pellew"tacaht-anhe 7% Jamaica for severai years and spent considerable time among the people of that country. Her talk was supplemented with her many colored slides of the peo- ple of the island, the beautiful scenery and the exotic flowers and fruits. Ls During Ue Dusilees poruon oF the meeting presided over by the vice-president, Mrs. John Beaupre, a report was read to the chapter by Mrs. John Mat- thews. The report written by Mrs. Neill MacLean were the views of Mrs.. MacLean on Beta Sigma Phi in the city of Osh- awa, Members agreed to receive and file the report with no spe- cific action to be taken at the present time. Mrs, Percy Bradley of the ser- vice committee reported that the layettes, made by chapter members, for the Children's Aid Society, were now ready and would be given to the Society at the next meeting. It was announced that the next meeting would be 'held at the home of Mrs. Harold Ball. The program will be conducted Paks. 22 etASs = : planning on taking the members. Tacennn Minn Bed thews distributed travel posters from various countries to each member and asked for their co- operation during the presenta- tion of her program. ORA AUXILIARY The regular meeting of the ,|Ontario Regiment Association Auxiliary was held recently at the Armories with 18 members present. _The president, Mrs. Harry Wood, presided. Mrs. Fred Por- ter resigned as ways and means chairman and Mrs. Robert An- drews was elected to fill this office. be The new executive for 1966 took over the meeting. Volinteers for Hillsdale Manor on February 28 were Mrs. Harry Wood, Mrs. Duncan Foreman and Mrs. Jack Hele. The draw this month donat- ed by Mrs. Anderson was won by Mrs. Harry Davies. - Refreshments were served by Mrs. Harry Wood, Mrs. George Fox, Mrs. Duncan Foreman, Mrs, James Foreman and Mrs. Douglas Cox. % PRICE allpaper Sale Various Assortment of PRE-PASTED Wallpaper in a Wide Range of Colors and Patterns MANY PAPERS AT BELOW COST! ONE-CRAFT Tont Croft made of Banlon. The same saw the hangars coming into} colors and design are used in the halter neck sun suit at right, which is made of ily be approached, as a rule, lated to counselling. But few, if by persons of his parish and|@ny, prepare clergymen to be this pastor is in a strategic po-| expert counsellors. What they) sition to give constructive help|need most to do is to prepare to those persons directly or to/Pastors to acquaint themselves refer them to specialists who|With the professional resources can aid them. javailable to their parishioners However, there are minus| 224 when their special services factors in pastoral counselling. | 27 needed. Union Label fashion shows what in Montreal. --CP Wirephoto you're careful and know view." you're doing, she says. She had been in the air five | "You're going at a low speed|hours. Paint and Varnish Co. Ltd. 19 Bond W. 723-4922 Reading and hearing so much about the opportunities to coun- sel, some clergymen who have It seems to me that the big- gest problem in pastoral coyn- jselling is the danger that what {a youth or adult reveals to the | VISIT BLACK'S no special training in counsell-) 5 ' ing may attempt to be counsel-| P&st0! z Ho gga ag hot be lors and, manifestly, can do held in strict confidence. .| A "sacred" tent in the medi- 4 harm to the oo 'they | cal profession is that the phys- lician shall never reveal any per- |sonal matters of his patient to any person, even to members | of his family. In medical train- jing the person being prepared FOR TOMORROW for his profession has the ideal Maintain a strictly down-to- | of keeping the confidence of his earth attitude on Friday. Some! patient constantly soaked into adverse planetary aspects indi-| him. cate delays and disappointments; Though to a lesser degree, in putting over new plans, so 0 slo holds true for the profes- BRIDAL SALON ... THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA SERVE DOLE 'would be best to stick to routine|sion of law. 'generally. Avoid making hasty! Imagine what could happen decisions, too, or you may have|when a pastor freely talks to to reverse yourself later. others, especially others in his |congregation, about the marital FOR THE BIRTHDAY | problems or other very personal matters brought to him. When should you seek counsel of your pastor? No one is able to tell you when you should seek counsel on personal and family problems with your pas- tor. However much you may ad-| mire him as a person and pastor, you might wisely set up some guidelines: How use do you feel that he won't divulge to any other per- 'son but an expert in counselling any very personal matter you reveal to him? How sure_do-you feel that he has had ample professional edu- cation and training fitting him to guide you in such matters? How likely do you uppose he | will be to recognize his own lim- itations? How familiar is he with the |available experts in counsell- ing and how ready will he be to help you get.in touch with them? Feeling sure he will never vio- late your confidence, his warmth and personal interest in you could do much to give you peace of mind. Q. What principle should guide us in trying to cultivate good manners in the child? A. -- Thoughtfulness of the) comforts, rights and feelings of }other persons. If tomorrow is your birthday, | your horoscope indicates that} within the next 12 months, your occupational and financial in-| terests should go very well. Job or business matters will take an uptrend in mid-March, with fur-| ther boosts in late April and early May, in September, late December and next January. Best cycles for fiscal interests The latter half of next month, early May, all of July, mid September, mid - October and here, too, next January Personal relationships will be governed by generous influences for most of the year ahead, and social activities should be unu- sually stimulating between May and September; in December and January. Do not overtax yourself during the latter month, however, since new opportuni- ties for business and financial expansion should be available then and you will need to be at your best, both mentally and physically, to take advantage of them. Best periods for ro- mance: late June, all of July (an all-around good month for Aquarians) and late September A child born on this day will be endowed with excellent lit- erary ability, and could become an outstanding good writer of sensational stories. 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