ANN LANDERS Annual Boss' Night Tribute To Employer ' Dear Ann Landers: I have|whole family is in an uproar. read your stand against Christ-|I have come to believe that the ' 'has office parties and I agree| youngster now uses these words with you 100 per cent. And now|to get attention. *"will you say something about) All children repeat profane +. the annual "boss' night" party/and nasty words when they are which is another thinly dis-|growing up. They don't know guised attempt by the secre-| what the words mean. I've tried taries to get chummy with the|to get this idea across to iny " executives? daughter but without success. The "girls" are mostly wid-|Please print my letter and your **gws, divorcees and spinsters|views.--Distressed Nanna ' who plancocktails, dinner) Dear Nanna: You are right. * dancing and the whole bit. My|It is best to ignore profane and °™*husband's secretary is oldjnasty words from pre-school enough to be his mother, sojchildren, Older ones, however please don't think I feel threat-jshould be told: "We don't use) ened. Frankly, I resent it when|that kind of language in our) "he leaves me and the childrenjhouse," and then the matter ** to spend an evening this way.|should be dropped. | * He has told me he doesn't en- | *'¥6y these parties but he hates| Dear Ann Landers: You had} to hurt his secretary's feelings. -----~Am I all. wet or am I right|was sick of her husband's ex-| in thinking that the secretaries|wife. A person who doesn't have lousy advice for the woman who} | see our husbands more hours|to put up with such guff can't out of the day than we do and/know what it's like. that the annual boss' night "When you Your statement, ought to be discontinued?--In-| marry a divorced man you buy| it dignan : ; Dear Dig: Of all the two-bit, penny ante complaints, yours takes the cake. There is as much similarity |the total package--ex-wife, and jthe whole kit and kaboodle,"' is) Inonsense. I don't recall any-| |thing in my marriage vows that| 'The Oshawa and __ District Camel of Home and School Assoviations will hold a panel discussion .entitied 'Sex and Our Childven' next Tuesday evening at ff. A. Lavell School auditorium on Centre street, A current topic facing parents and teachers and expressed in the press, radio, TV, literature and society is sex education, It is studied, organized, re-organ- ised and re-studied from every afgle and viewpoint, Great changes regarding (this subject confront society. Therefore, ine formation vegarding this sub ject will interest all parents re- gardiess of the age of their, children or their sehool level Experts-have heen selected as panel-members with a desire to present fully a child's various contacts within the community as a result of his knowledge or lack of knowledge in this area, Panel members will be: Dr, C, M. Ellfott, who will presentlg Experts To Lead Discussion : On'Sex And Our Children' MRS, WALTER KUCH for. women's. nostel, : Churches, service clubs ve } Helps Destitute |individuals contributed Epes ' jand money to the formation of 'Vancouver Girls East Enders Society| ing houses, discovering the n the East Enders Society. / : A run~ down but well - built VANCOUVER (CP) -- When | rooming house was purchased, every other door has slammed then transformed inte a spot- in the faces of destitute women lessly clean, pleasant residence here, May Gutteridge opens thé/for women in trouble. portals at the East Enders So-| the women who come here sgededs |see the house as their first sta- | Five years ago, Mrs. Gutte-|bility in many years. It ts al- iridge gave up a paying job to/ways open to them, jsit in the basement of an Angli-| 'We are here to supplant their can church, providiig'hélp and|"happy life on Skid Road," advice to the troubled, lonely |e tea on oe hs hes peat , > ; : Fra sad ere fhttte provided a kitchen wher, the cate. the Santen: the ane th | women can obtain a snack when ' : P gry, e a el as lonely, the drunk, the addict,|@e" are SNE & Desteee the penniless stranger lost in er lehutge i seep manes a lthe city , 13 idleness and a cozy living room . where the women can relax. At the request of Bishop God-| A clothing store, also in the frey Gower, Mrs, Gutteridge|pasement, is open to them for expanded her. welfare work and! any apparel they need, jwent into the courts.to assist! But-more than these. material jIndjan girls, conveniences the hostel provides And she wandered through)|the most essential of the wom- Vancouver's skid road, its sidé}en's needs: a last hope' for a streets, dingy hotels and room-ireturn to human dignity. - the views of the educationaliat; | Detective Sgt. J. D. Powell who) will speak on behalf of the law and juvenile court; Canon F, G. Ongley who will give his thoughts as a member of the clergy; Mrs. Norman Roe who will present the role of the parent in the home and Mrs, | Doris Gregory, school psychol- | ogist, who will discuss the med, | ical viewpoint, | Mothers and fathers, citizens | of Oshawa whose interests lie) in children's welfare as well as Hurry - Hurry - REXALL'S Home and School Association members are invited to attend. There will be a question box! available in which written ques- | tions may be deposited. between the office Caristeas |e : mee oe oe bg wth | it - sesaactad jhusband's ex-wife. That tramp ADE IDE C party and boss' night as be-jcan't set her foot inside my tween the moon and green'house. If she ever tried it I'd -- : ; part her hair with a baseball . nm answer to your question. | pat. L. na aol da |, A second wife me tough) vener and Mrs. John 'G Dear Aan Landers: 1 am aime, uthout you honing, lt} Wright general convener o " sarge = is trying aw. |you'd shut up on this subject.--| e annua night of card S fully hard to P my nose out/ivag at You 1c ERE aue BAA) 6 re eee ee Dear Reader: Your lettet night of cards is being held at the school on pga January 24 at 8.00 p.m. an will feature euchre, bridge, The program is. being pre- and cribbage. ipared by Parent Education --Oshawa Times Photo |Chairman Mrs. Walter Kuch. Mrs co-ordinator, sponsored by the Adelaide McLaughlin Home and School Association, look over a number of the many useful prizes to be awarded, prior to wrapping them. The William Roth, prize left, Mrs. James Carey, ticket con- ness. But when someone you! ff ' love goes off the track it is dif-;came in the same batch with ficult to remain silent. jhundreds of others--from first My daughter's son is three wives who are also furious with and a half years old. He has|™e. : | picked up some profane and ob-| They are hair-pulling mad be-| scene words from his "wise/cause I sald a relent survey | elders." When he uses these|showed that s arriages words bis mother spanks him,|are working out a shade better) washes his mouth out with soap/ these days than first marriages. | and makes such a fuss that the I can't win. | Upset Nervous System Causes | Child To Live In By JEAN SHARP | TORONTO (CP)--Some chil-| dren live in a world of confu-) sion which is hard for a norma!) person to understand. | For them a trip to a super- market can be too exciting. They may have trouble dressing because back and front or left and right mean little to them. They may talk or hear correctly but have trouble learning to read, These children are not re- tarded. They are not physically handicapped or wilfully bad, -though they may be tagged any of these. But their emotional disturbance is probably the re- sult rather than the cause of their chronic confusion. These children have suffered) damage to their central nervous systems which shows its effects in learning difficulties of all sorts. The disability interferes with the child's perception, his ability to make sense out of! things. For some the supermarket is too exciting because of its mul-| titude of sights and sounds. Some children with this impair- ment cannot sift sensations nor- mally and may see or hear all of them at once in a chaotic jumble. Mrs. Joseph Kronick, secre- |Learning Disabilities. Confused World retarded or emotionally dis-| turbed but not to worry about) it, he'll grow out of it. If they're| bright they may be called "un- | der-achievers" and you will be) told you don't read to your child enough. "They may be put in oppor-| tunity classes or in classes for children with other kinds of handicap. We know of one child who was put in a school for the deaf before anyone realized) what he had was a speech problem." ENLISTED HELP Mr. and Mrs. Kronick were among three couples who two) years ago formed the Ontario) Association for Children with They began with letters to professional people asking their interest and help. They now have a mailing 'list of about 700) professionals and 500 parents,| mostly in Ontario, a few in other parts of Canada and the US Similar groups already ex- isted in Edmonton and London, Ont. 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