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ANN Daughter Inherited Mother's Obsession Dear Ann Landers: I am be- . ginning to think my mother was right. She once told me that there is not a decent, clean- » thinking man in this world. I'm convinced she knew what she was talking about. * I am 48, and have been mar- _ fied twice. Both my husbands were skirt chassers -- morning, 'noon and night. The office man- ager made a play for me the "second day I started to work . here. The window washers and » the janitor made goo goo eyes 'at me the same week, Yesterday the meter - reader * made an indecent proposal. This . morning the bus driver gave me a com-on wink of the eye. I am - 80 sick of sex maniacs I don't «know what to do. * What advice do you have? Is . there an escape? Please don't tell me to see a doctor for a , check-up. The last time I went » to see a doctor he propositioned me right in his office.--Desper- - ate - Dear Desperate: I think you ought to see a psychiatrist. But «make sure you select a female. And I am not kidding. Dear Ann Landers: I would like to say a word to the grand- mother who signed herself : "Beck and Call." She pras an- mnoyed because her married daughters used her as a sitter, a@ cook and a seamstress. They also had a habit of dropping off their children at her house when they went away for weekends. I am in the same boat, so I know how she feels. But the solution you suggested won't work for me. Here is my story: Several months ago my daugh- ter asked if I would take her children for four days while she and her husband went out of town. When I hesitated, she LANDERS about it, skip it.' She hungeup and would not speak to me for three months. I missed the chil- dren so much it almost killed me. Now when she asks if I will take her youngsters I say yes without hesitation. The price for refusing is more than I want to pay. Maybe you will say I am a darned fool, but I love my grandchildren.--Granny Dear Granny: Don't look now but your daughter is blackmail- ing you, and she is using her children as bait. I hope, for your sake, Mother, that there are no more at home like her. One is enough. Dear Ann Landers: I am 16 and going steady with one of the coolest cats in the senior class. We haven't done anything wrong yet and that is why I am writing. I believe in pre- venting trouble before it starts. Please give me some advice. After four dates I let Ronnie kiss me. Now that is all he wants to do. I can't get him interested in going to a movie, bowling, playing records or looking at TV. I even tried your formula of asking him questions about himself to get a good con- versation going, but no dice, Ann. Ronnie would rather make out than do anything. Last night he said if I cared for him as much as he cares| for me I wouldn't fight him on} this. I don't want him to ditch me, but I don't want to give in either. Please give me some) advice and fast.--Hanging On| By My Fingernails | Dear Hanging On: I'm typing) as fast as I can and I hope I) am not too late. | Give this creep a final no and tell him to stop pestering you or} to find another girl. If he ditches said, "Well, if you have to think you, you haven't lost much. Pack Your Omaments For Next Year's Holiday CAROLLING FOR OTHERS Three playmates and pupils of Dr. S. J. Phillips Public School decided they would like to do something to help others less fortunate than themselves so they learned some carols and with their parents' permis- sion they went around their neighborhood singing. They collected $8 which they have donated to the Simcoe Hall Crippled Children's Milk Fund. The girls are, seat- ed, Rochelle Rubin, 10, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Amos Rubin, Masson street; Diana Stapleton, 8, left, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. A. G. Stapleton, Aberdeen street, and Nora McBean, 6, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. W. S. McBean, Simcoe street north. --Oshawa Times Photo 18 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, January 5, 1966 TEU TA TL CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD It's not what children say or how they say it that makes them stutter, but the way their parents listen to them and com- municate to them their own anxiety that the children speak well, So one may summarize what Dr, Wendel Johnson had -been|t telling parents and_ teachers about stuttering in children for many years until his recent death. He was director of the speech clinic of Iowa University where he served on the faculty for 30 years. Dr. Johnson arrived at his conclusion after making many studies of speech in young chil-|; dren. Among his many pub- lished studies was one in which he found that the average child between two and five repeats a sound, a word, or a phrase 45), times a 1,000 running words. ly PARENTS CONCERNED when this child's parents show concern over such normal repe- titions, the child may repeat more often, and soon be classi- fied by them as stutterers. Effort And Application Help Stuttering Child tween the ages two and five. Be a good listener, calm and appreciative. Try to create a comfortable family atmosphere for your child. repetition of a sound, word or phrase, have no concern. Just comfortable as he talks. peat or to go more slowly. Talk companionably with him. Learn to enjoy hearing what he says. Read to him a great deal daily. stuttering, don't let yourself look at his mouth or hold your breath your goal in an atmosphere of |"all is well." Dr. Johnson observed that! ANSWERING QUESTIONS children hear us joke about anybody's religious beliefs or practices? The critical years are be- When you notice his normal ry harder to help him feel Avoid telling him not to re- If you suppose your child is ill he gets the word. Sometimes you might nonchalantly say the! word he's tnying hard to say,| but don't be in haste to do so, | -- Make "slow and easy" your| logan, love and companionship Q. Can we afford to let our A. Certainly not. "Speaking has to be easy and effortless," he said. "Any con- scious effort impedes speech. The harder he tries, the worse. he (the stuttering child) does and the worse the listener re- acts. Pretty soon he (the stut- terer) has a real problem." Dr. Joh was once a Stut- Woodview Park Neighborhood| Merry Throng Weicomes 1966 At Woodview Community Centre Mrs. Harold LaChapelle, Mr. |r. and Mrs. Thomas Hoy, Belleville; Mr. and Mrs. Rob- ert Germond, Mr. and Mrs, Ron- ald Willows, Toronto; Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Parker, Mr. and |Mrs.- William Morrison, Mr. terer. himself, plagued in child- hood by the taunts of his class- mates. He was determined to overcome this handicap. He en- tered the University of Iowa in 1926 as a member of a class composed entirely of stutterers jwho were to be "guinea pigs" UN Official Delivers Baby In Transit UNITED NATIONS (Reut- | érs)--An Iraqi official of the United Nations turned mid- wife, delivering his wprife's baby in a car on the way to a hospital Monday. The official is Ibrahim | Wahab of the UN's human % TO ADDRESS CLUB Immediate past-president of the Oshawa Busi and Private Schools Based On Seund-Principles ST. THOMAS (CP)--The cor- nersiones on =m iVAie school should be built are sound learning, freedom, discipline, spiritual values and devotion, the Association of Head Mis- tresses of Canada was told Monday. Miss Muriel Bedford - Jones, head mistress at Crofton House school, Vancouver, said these principles were necessary if a school was to keep pace with the new while preserving the old. She also stressed the nvces- sity of freedom to choose both teachers and pupils for contri- butions and ability as well as scholastic standings. The association's annual con- ference, being held at Alma College here, ends Wednesday with the election of officers. Professional Women's Club, Mrs. J. W. Richardson, RR 1, Brooklin, will address the Lyceum Club and Women's Art Association at the first meeting of the new year, next Monday. Mrs. Richard- son will show pictures of the Scandinavian countries and the Netherlands taken on a motoring holiday, The meet- ing is being held at Ade- laide House, Meat Market SOCIAL NOTICE ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. R. C. Martin, Oshawa, announce the engage- ment of their daughter, Donna Marie, to James Charles Hol- man, son of Mr. and Mrs. Douglas Holman of Dunbarton, Ontario. The wedding is to take place on Friday, February 18, 1966, at 7:30 p.m. in Kingdom Hall, Simcoe street Oshawa. mee Week-End Specials ! ALL MEAT GOVERNMENT INSPECTED STEAKS & ROASTS SIRLOIN T-BONE WING BONELESS RUMP BONELESS STEAKS ROASTS ROUND STEAK 79: north, . By ELEANOR ROSS janxious to help. Anyway, al- jand Mrs. Frank Kalar, Mr. and rights division and his wife We all enjoy the holiday sea-|though the job is a practical son, but when it comes to the moment of truth--the cleaning up after the ball is over--it is Mom who usually has to do the job. It is quite different from) one, ritual for many of us. it is also a sentimental Families that believe in tra- dition have favorite ornamerits trimming the tree, when every/and decorations that are member of the household is|brought out faithfully every ittee in c year. After the festivities, sheasl aia ght gga things | away to preserve them for an-|Millie F other joyous holiday season. awe LEFT TO MOM Office Managers Voice Pet Peeves | By ROBERTA ROESCH } Bosses admit to pet peeves which they take out on employ- ees, as evidenced by three em- ployers who discussed their problems with me recently. The first one has an axe to grind with employees who won't follow directions. "There's a girl named Dot in my office," he said, "'who could be a top employee. But she won't do what she {is told. "Recently, to cite one case, I gave her an important job which had to be done to the letter. Because this was so es-| artificial greenery, balls, outdoor lights, tinsel and| even manger figurse will bene- | Tolls of paper towels or foil. fit from being swished through| warm suds and rinses. | are carefully packed| So generally it is Mom who} must wash and polish them with a soft dry cloth before putting them away. | Mom ornaments, wreath 8,| Christmas | A quick job does it. Just take} the same precautions that you| "ua! dividends in an atmosphere | |would for your fine china--use|°f family warmth that comes either a plastic dish pan, or line|{fom doing things together. the sink with a thick towel to| prevent accidental breakage. It is preferable to wipe deli- sential I told her over and over|cate, or hand-painted surfaces again that if any question at all/with a well - lathered sponge, arose she was to come to my/|then a damp cloth. office immediately and let me clear it up. She nodded her nang | DRY EVERYTHING that she understood and then| she went on her way. } "T didn't see her for two days,| so I thought all was going well. | But last night at nearly. five) o'clock another employee ar- rived with Dot's work. | LEFT EARLY | 'Dot had to leave early,' he} told me, 'but she left me with) some questions none of us can answer.' After washing, everything should be bone-dry before being wrapped in tissue paper and stored in sturdy, labeled boxes. Launder colorful tree-aprons and mantelpiece - stockings by and, and separate from other things to prevent damage from bleeding colors, Even holiday ribbons can be dunked in warmish suds, then rinsed. A pressing by a warm iron between layers of wax paper should restore their crisp- ness. For storage, wind ribbons |Association ushered in the New \Year at another of its annual New Year's dances, held at the| Woodview Community Centre. | Dancing was to Cam Warne's| orchestra and was followed by refreshments served by the| Among those seen dancing} were: Mrs. E. H. Bradley, Mrs. Hamilton; Mr. jand Mrs, E. J, Bradley; Mr. jand Mrs. Lloyd Hall, Mr. and \Mrs. Joseph France, Mr. and Mrs. F, Ross Westlake, Mr. Mrs. Earl Westlake, Mr. Mrs. Orlie Conlin, Mr. Mrs. Thomas Gladman, Mr. Mrs. James Smith, Mr. and and and and an Actually the clean - up job after the holidays can be 4 fun session; one that can pay an- An extra bonus is the sense jof cohesion derived from the jawareness that prevails in pre- jserving the family holiday |treasures -- in keeping with maintaining a tradition. and Mrs. James Major. Mr. and Mrs. Ray Martin, Mr. and Mrs. R. A. Armstrong, Mr. and Mrs. Jean Cardinal, Mr. and Mrs, Eric Woodward, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Kitchen, Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Ward, Mr. and Mrs. B. J. Mulville, Mr. and Mrs. William Oderkirk, Mr. and Mrs. George Marsh, Mr. and Mrs. Jack Murray, Mr.| and Mrs. Ronald Code, Mr. and Mrs, Kenneth Gibson, Mr. and Mrs. Harry Irwin, Mr. and Mrs. William Wilson, Mrs. Marie Lavender, Miss Barbara Lavender, Mr. and Mrs. Ger- Mrs, |Mrs. Mrs. Charles Pullen. R. J. Twining, Mr. and Earl English, Mr. and Mr. and Mrs. Curtis Russell, Mr. and Mrs. Walter Dowe, Mr. and Mrs. James Reid, Mr. and Mrs, Richard Donald, Mr. and Mrs. Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Whiting, and many others, M. E. Breffitt, Whitby; HOUSEHOLD HINT Tired of candles that bend in over-heated rooms? While new, spray with shellac; the shellac will hold them erect. when dry, jin a research project there. | He continued to stutter as he worked toward his doctorate de- gree. During these. years he was building up a vast amount of |knowledge in the study of |speech problems. He finally lovercame stuttering in himself after weeks, months and years of effort and application of what he had learned. PREVENT STUTTER You need not have been a stutterer yourself to prevent stuttering in your child or to help him overcome stuttering} once it has started. | the former Birgit Viklander of Soraker, Sweden. A friend of the family said they were about 100 yards from a hospital in a New York suburb when the baby was born. Wahab used a handkerchief and a shoelace to help per- | form the delivery. | After cooling off, Wahab | commented: "Nature is so strong, I just automatically | did the right thing." Both Mrs. Wahab and the | baby girl are doing well. | hard Christy, Mr. and Mrs. Les- lie Cole, Mr, and Mrs. Ralph aus | Jackson, Mr. and Mrs. R. 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