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Peete ann OR, | (BRR ANN LANDERS WR The Size Of Diamond fm Doesn't Measure Love Dear Ann Landers: I'd like to say something to the mother who told her daughter to give the engagement ring back be- cause the diamond was 580 small. A dear friend of mine mar- ried a young man who drove a delivery truck during the day and went to night school five evenings a week. Every Satur- day Edie's sweetheart took her for a ride on the street car. That was their big date. When they became engaged he gave her a ring with a diamond chip in it. You could hardly call it a stone. That was 35 years ago. Teday the man is a multi- millionaire, Edie could have a rock the si f an airport bea- con if she wanted it. For birth- days and anniversaries her hus-| band has given her a diamond) necklace, bracelets, pins and earrings. But Edie still wears} that gold ring with the tiny) diamond chip in it. She says it is the only piece of jewelry she cherishes and she| would never wear another in its place. What do you say about | this, Ann Landers?--A. B. C. | Dear A. B. C.: Edie has class. Dear Ann Landers: Several months ago you printed a letter) from a woman who wanted to) know where she had failed in|, i ybe a wee bit taller and) raising her children. My heart) sjimmer, but I'm sure her gown| went out to her because I have} oui fit me. Do you think it| asked myself the same ques-| tion. My daughter was a lovely, sensitive girl who was unable to) cope with life's problems. She turned to the bottle. It was the same story you've heard hun- dreds of times--broken home, disturbed children, a stretch in jail and three suicide attempts. | My pocketbook was nearly| empty and my heart was bro-| I asked myself dozens of [ times why I failed to raise a well - adjusted, self - sufficient daughter. And then I read your answer to the other mother and I knew it was my answer, too. You told her: "Stop beating yourself. If you did your best, accept the peace you have earned. Angels can do no more." : On that day, Ann, I found peace. I will always be thankful to you.--A Mother Dear Mother: One of the real rewards of writing this column is knowing that an answer di- rected to one person can bring some measure of comfort and strength to others, Thank you for letting me know. Dear Ann Landers: I am 20/ years old and plan to be mar- ried on St. Valentine's Day. I need help with a very important decision. I attended the wedding of al friend last Sunday. She wore, the: most beautiful gown and viel I have ever seen. It must have cost a fortune, I have al- ways wanted to be married in the traditional bridal ensemble but I could never afford a gown and veil like. that. She is just about my size, would be all right if I asked her to let me wear it for my wed- ding? I would take very good care of it--Want To Be Ex- quisite Dear Want To Be: Your friend knows you are planning to be married and if she offers you her gown, fine, but don' put her on the spot by asking. Most brides consider their | ken from worry and grief. Fam-| wedding gowns more important ily and friends did all they could than just another costume. to help her make a fresh start, They hope to hand them down but it was useless, The tragic|to their daughters. If you bor- story ended when she died at! the wheel of her car. row a gown your daughter will Inever know this joy. h CHILD GUIDANCE Many Parents Send Report That Chair-Sitting Works By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD | In any week one or several/t mothers write to tell me how effectively chair-sitting for punishment works. Some seem to suppose it's a new idea, but I've been writing about its vir- --ftues in this column for over a quarter of a century. Until recent years hardly a letter mentioned it. For a long while I had almost despaired and feared I was not getting the idea across. down before the beforehand time is up, he will get physical pain. He won't risk) ---- Your child will soon learn hat, the moment you find him announced- getting down. He will stay there until the bell rings or you tell jhim the time is up. |BE DEAF | While in the chair your child) will have no toys, radio, TV or other amusement. If he cries or screams you will be deaf. No jamount of crying or pleading One mother wrote: "T read your column regularly and am so pleased with the re-) sults I have had with my chil-| | i >| headache. dren using the 'chair-sitting'| B ie ut many a parent will tell) method you recommend for dis- ine child: "You sit there till T| cipline. I started this with MY tet you get down." When shel first child when he was about tells him will depend on how he} a year old and everyone scoffed, ita aad aw gue tals, | a pe tga cl kt pce Instead, she should tell him) 8 pheetang 4 * |he must stay there till the clock FEELS SECURE jrings or its big hand '"'gets tick on and on. It has no feeling, | bees change the clock, it will] Inever gets nervous or has a! "] am surprised. everyone|there." She will make the sen-|as a force to make you do some-/4Fe 0 tence for exactly so many min-|thing. You are trying to pit your|Pect utes, 'about 15 for the youngster| wil] against yourself, and this; C®5S doesn't try using the 'chair-| sitting' method. It has given me such a feeling of security with|two or three, 30 minutes for the! my children. They know you|child five or six." Rib End Pork Loin Becomes Company Fare With Apricots Here's something different at; moderate cost for that special! cup light corn syrup occasion. Plentiful pork, es- pecially the rib end pork loin } roast, is such a good meat buy during the winter months. Have your meat man saw the rib bones and cut the loin \lengthwise not quite through, if your market doesn't stock them this way. The preparation is so) easy. Lay the roast open flat} and arrange apricot halves on bottom half of roast, drizzle sauce over fruit and fold top alf of loin over fruit. slow oven, _ basting times during roasting. Result-- the prettiest, tastiest, most at-| half of roast over apricots and; The evening was a gala af- | tractive pork loin roast that will |delight guests and family too. Here's the recipe for glazed pork loin with apricot sauce 4-pound rib end pork loin roast, with rib bones sawed and loin cut lengthwise, not quite through. 1 can (1 pound 14 ozs.) apri- cot halves KEEP IN TRIM APRICOT GLAZE COMPLIMENTS ROAST PORK 1-3 cup sugar 3 tablespoons vinegar \% teaspoon salt \% teaspoon pepper. \ teaspoon mace \% teaspoon ground clayes Drain apricots; reserve %4 cup syrup. Combine apricot} syrup, sugar, corn syrup, vine-| gar, salt, pepper, mace and | cloves. Bring to boiling point | and cook 3 minutes. Lay Toast open; arrange 8 to 10 drained apricot halves on bottom half Tie|of roast. Hold apricots at front)son for the Oshawa St. securely and brush the outisde| edge in place with wooden picks.| Ambulance Nursing Cadets was| wounds of roast with sauce. Cook in a|-Drizzle 2 or 3 tablespoons sauce/held at the home of Dr. Ralph several|over apricots. Fold top half of|/J. Kimmerly and Mrs. over apricots. Fold top tie securely. Place in shallow roasting pan; brush with sauce. | Roast in slow oven (235 degrees F.) until done, about 2% hours, basting with sauce several times during roasting period. Add re- maining apricot halves to sauce; 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, January 3, 1966 Proficiency Prizes Awarded To St. John Nursing Cadets The last meeting of the sea-|the cadets had just completed John| would enable them to attend to suhc as those, until medical aid could be obtained. The rest of the evening was spent in watching films, play- ing games and dancing. Dr. Kimmerly who had the honor of being made 'Serving Bsrother" in the Order of St. John, by Governor General Vanier, in Ottawa, is Divisional Surgeon of the No. 274 Oshawa Nursing Division. He has al- Kim- merly, fair with cadets, parents friends joining in the fun. Seven proficiency prizes were awarded for the highest marks obtained in the recent First-Aid exam in which all of the Nurs- ing Cadets successfully passed and simmer gently 10 minutes serve/The prizes were presented by|ready passed a good share of with roast. Yield: 6 to 8 serv- ings. jtendent of the Cadets. ih } Get A New Perspective On Diet Aims For New Year The new year is ideal for| making a fresh start. There is] an impetus to hurdle the initial) inertia. Alexis Carrel said it} just right: "Life leaps like a| geyser for those who drill through the rock of inertia." | Take the right slant on thai illusive force termed will power, | and you have in your hand the key to unlock the door. The mis- take is in trying to use the will requires continuous effort, which is tiring. Then wher you| you will find it fascinating. In terms of pounds lost, reducing is a physical accomplishment. Actually, it's a mental triumph too. Think in terms of what you want. Don't waste effort trying not to do something. The mind} acts out your dominant) thoughts. Thoughts are back of actions. Think, talk, act in the direction you wish to progress. Get excited about it. Know you n the right track and ex- to succeed. Picture suc- VISUALIZE GOAL You do not have to believe can't argue with that timer!| A parent will not need to sayjease up you slip right back into! 41i. nor disbelieve it. Go ahead They even set the timer them-|more. If the child wishes to selves now when I have to an-/|Visit with her, in case she is nounce this punishment." |near enough, s Some other mothers say that | im as if nothing unusual had the youngster from two to five) or six would much rather have a spanking than 'to sit unamused| for 15 to 20 minutes. Other par- ents say it's very effective with ANSWERING QUESTIONS the child as old as eight or 10.| @ How may we parents dis- As you know, I recommend it|/courage tattling? for the chronic dawdler on a, A. Avoid punishing the one school morning who has the/|tattled on. Uusually the motive whole family worn out getting|for tattling is to get another him ready for school on time. jchild punished. You may recall the advice--|---------------- Have him stay home that day) and sit unamused, doing noth-| ing, while schoo] is in session, | with a recess of five or 10 min.|'Ne order they are to be re- s |strung, on a length of cellulose ~ at the end,of each hour °F or masking tape, sticky side up. Anchor tape at both ends so the beads don't roll out of position. can go. He won't need to make any promises or hear a lecture. RESTRINGING BEADS 0. | A father (college professor) | wrote to say, "It worked like magic, One day's treatment ef-| fected permanent cure." | 'CRIES TER' ve Use a cotton swab dipped in 'An Clee carest writes detergent to clean smudges un- and says it won't work, Grnt| CoTEEREE the phone dial. "the youngster won't stay in the) chair unless I hold or tie him;"| or that, "as soon as I turn my back he's out of the chair;" or) that, "he cries and screams so terribly I can't stand it." | These parents started with! chair - sitting before they had! trained the younster to stay| where put, to respect the little word "no."' As soon as your little child, through pain from your bare) flat hand applied to his bare flat thigh, has learned the mean- | ing of 'no' and will stay where HOUSEHOLD HINT - lahead with enthusiasm. the old groove | j she will talk to|BE INTERESTED | Try working with your will happened, but not about his|fhe clue is, the will obeys your) ., offense. When the time is up he| mental : pictures. Adventure in| turning your thoughts and your attention to picturing your goal |The essential ingredient is in-| jterest. When you are keenly in-| terested in a project, you begin to think constructively about| lways and means of achieving what you want. With the will harnessed to a goal, you can go | A potent secret is to give prior) thought' to your slimming Line up graduated beads, in plans. Forethought costs little|¢ effort or exertion, but it is sur- iprisingly 'effective, This does| Inot mean to daydream idly. Forethought means to actually jplan, in a definite way, how you| |wish to act. 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HAVE BLADDER IRRITATION | After 21 twice a3 mar*zgmen as m xe made miserable by common urinary | itation caused by e germ, herich | he secondary \d disturbed sleep Special This Week PUMPKIN 39 Style BANANA CREAM ROLL Special This Week JUMBO 73 ler irritations, | STEX tablets w' & Blass of water 3 times daily for days. CYSTEX is a cleaning urinary anti- septic, also an analgesic pain reliever for | = fitiiy OCAMeR Cr Bs Tics saney Backache, and muscular pains, Get) OXSTEX trom arussiat, Feel better fast, * a few @ Another Woolworth's Service A SAME erve Sin ica PARTY. SAMDWICH TRAYS -- Serves.16. to 29 rcople 5.95 Only Miss Deanna Vance, his enthusiasm, friendliness and good-will along to the new nurs- ing cadets. A delicious buffet supper was Superin- A realistic display of casualty simulation was done on two volunteers by Divisional Officer, John Visser of Whitby Division. Mr. Visser explained to the| parents that the training thati enjoyed at the conclusion of the evening after which the host and hostess were thanked for a most enjoyable evening. Custom Made Drapes @ Broadioom © Custom Made Slip Covers HOWARD'S DRAPERIES 926 Simeoe St. N. 725-3144 28 King East THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FoK TOMORROW Wile Mormink asvecis- will Le onthe mild side, those hours ¥ riod in which.te. make plans for 'lafternoon activities. More vigor- ous influences will prevail after noon, will encourage accom- plishment in important interests. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your outlook for the next year is excellent, indeed. As of De- cember 23, you entered a fine period, where finances are con- cerned -- one which will last through the first three weeks of Februany. There's a good likeli- hood of increased earnings dur- ing the sforesaid weeks, but be careful not to speculate in mid- January and don't commit your- self to large expenditures. Next good cycles for monetary gain: The entire month of April (but only where long-range ventures are concerned, Don't expect im- mediate returns); again, during the first three weeks of Septem- ber, and throughout October and next January. Where job and-or business in- terests are concerned, best pe- riods will almost parallel good fiscal cycles--especially between now and mid-February, Next: The first three weeks of March (though, here, you may be given more responsibilities), the last} week in September, the first} three weeks of October and throughout November and next January. Just one admonition: Do nothing to antagonize super- jiors 'or business partners in June, early July or the first three weeks of September or the star-promised rewards will not be forthcoming. Along personal lines, there will be great emphasis on ro- |mance during the latter part of this month, in February, June, late October and late December. Don't take the infatuations of May, September or November too seriously, however. Most {stimulating periods for travel |and social activities: the current {month, the first three weeks of |May, next November and. De- |cember. | | TRAFFIC LIGHTS | AND GRANDPA Q. As a traffic officer 1 have noticed thet many elderly people simply ignore traffic signals. Could it be that they don't care what happens ? A. Doctors engaged in geriat- ric research (problems of the elderly) have noticed this also. Such behaviour might be ex- plained in several ways: singleness of purpose; lack of awnareness that vehicles cre threats; or a tendency to what may be called "indifferent suicide', Some elderly persons seem to show little interest in the continuation of life. Adhesive Powders For Dentures Q. Is there anything in den- ture powders that would be harmful if such powders were used in excessive amounts. A. No the chief donger with dentures is possible damage to supporting tissues which may be incurred by wearing of ill-fitted dentures which require more and more ad- |hesive to keep them in place. You get ALL 3 -- profession- jal skill and care. . jservice. . . iprices' in | service, + prompt and reasonable our prescription Pe Ee a & Oshawa Open Evenings till 9 p.m. Free City Wide Delivery The Women's Welfare League of Oshawa SIMCOE HALL BOY'S CLUB - EASTVIEW ADULT & CHILDREN'S REGISTRATION JANUARY/MARCH SWIMMING INSTRUCTION CHILDREN'S SWIMMING INSTRUCTION for Tadpole, Beginner, Junior, Intermediate, Senior and R.L.S.S. Bronze, Award of Merit. 12 week course, one hour a week. Classes will be held on Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays at 4:15 to 5:15 pm. -- 7:00 to 8:00 p.m. -- 8:00 to 9:00 p.m. The fee for the course is $6.00 per child and child must be a member of the Simcoe Hall Boys' Club. ADULT SWIMMING INSTRUCTION MIXED ADULTS each Tuesday evening. Classes held 9:00 to 10:00 p.m, -- 12 week course, One lesson per week p.m Intermediate and Senior Red of age. Six weeks course, one Directors of -- announces ----- FOR Cross LADIES INSTRUCTION each Thursday morning, Classes held at 9:30 to 10:30 o.m to 11:30 a.m, 12 week course, one lesson per week. Fee $10.00. Classes include Beginner, Junior, Intermediate and Senior Red Cross. : MOTHERS AND PRE-SCHOOL Each Monday afternoon 2:00 to 2:30 p.m, -- 2:30 to-3;00 p.m, for children under 5 years lesson per week. Fee $1.50. The above programme will commence on MONDAY, JANUARY 3rd, 1966, For further information call 728-5121 GEORGE MUDD, Assistant Director, Simcoe Holl Boys' Club, Eastview Park, Oshawa. Fee $10.00. Classes include Beginner, Junior, 10:00 to 11:00 10:30 3; be a gogd pes} (iam 4 ; WALKER'sS # GIANT JANUARY SALE PLAYTEX' BRAS & GIRDLES wy ON PLAYTEX LIVING' STRETCH BRAS Living Stretch Bra with em- broidered cotton cups and side Reg. 4.95 panels. 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