ANN LANDERS & ream Was Aftection "Maniiesis Itself Dear Ann Landers: I'm a! man who has been married for! 21 years. My mother always' used to. say, "It's the little things that break up miarrages. People manage the big things somehow." She was so right. My wife has a habit that drives me nuts, Whenever we! go out for dinner she never or- ders salad or dessert.. theme song is, "All I want is a small steak and a vegetable." The minute my salad comes she puts her fork in it--"just to taste the dressing." If I don't pitch in fast I don't get any. With the dessert, it's the same story. She'll say, "Herman, it looks so good, I'll just take a snidge." Then she moves in for half or more. This has been going on for 25 years. She knows I hate it but she does it anyway. If you can think of a solution you are a genius.--D. Prived Dear D.: The experts tell us that the desire to eat off the plate of another person is a sign of genuine affection. So, consider it a compliment and pray for another 25 years. Dear Ann Landers: What do you do with a boss who throws things? I don't mean in a fit of temper or anything like that. He just throws things because he is too lazy to walk a few steps. Instead of carrying the tele- phone directory to the stand he will heave it 15 feet. Often it lands on the filing cabinet but usually it hits the floor. One day I am afraid he will frac- ture my skull. This is entirely possible as we live in Dallas and our phone books are large and heavy. The boss also throws staplers, appointment pads and other un- breakable items. 'anything in school. In A Novel Way Why does he throw things and | is there any hope of curing) 'him?--Constantly Ducking Dear Duck: Your boss prob- jably makes mind bets as to whether or not he's going to hit his target. Tell him yow want ito get in on the betting, too. If jhe hits you be owes you $20, |(P, S. And no fair moving in the He direction of the flying object.) | Dear Ann Lander's: Next' week our 19-year-old son enters the air force. To be truthful, I can hardly wait till the kid leaves. The boy's father has never encouraged him to accomplish He has _al- ways said "If you just get by, that's good enough, son. If you are too smart nobody will like you." One thing the boy's father has encouraged is beer drink- | ing. The two of them can sit down and put away eight steins apiece. They get loud and rau- cous but my husband insis they are not.drunk because "beer is mild." I hope and pray that the service will straighten our son out. Please print my letter. I'd like to put it in my husband's lunch pail.--Bessle Dear Bessie: Please don't expect the air force to perform miracles. It can only work with the material it gets. I have known instances where young men came out of military serv- ice vastly improved, however. | And it may happen to your boy, so don't give up hoping Your husband has done his son no favor by encouraging | beer-guzzling. Some alcoholics drink nothing but beer. (P.S. 1) hope your husband enjoys his 'lunch today. Be BY CANDLELIGHT in Northminster United Church, daughter Norman Alexander Grierson, Oshawa Times office. record is facilitated by submitting the com a picture of the bride to the Women's Editor as syon as possible after the ceremony. names of ,out-of-town guests attending the social editor either before or the day after the wedding. Oshawa, became the bride of Thomas Harry Ellis, son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Harry Ellis, Toronto. Piper Studio, Toronto Gladys, and Mrs. Judyth of Mr, WEDDING ALBUM A record for your Wedding Album is provided by The Oshawa Times Women's Page. Forms are available at The publication of this wedding pleted form and Early You are asked to submit the wedding to the THE OSHAWA TIMES, Seturday, December 18, 1965 15| . _Ellis - Grierson | Ana candlelight ceremony in;--Mr.-Forresi Grierson, Oshawa, | rfhr . United Tudith- 'Gladys; aus and Mrs. Grierson, Ellis, son of Mr. Charles Harry Ellis, Toronto. The officiating clergyman was the Reverend H. A. Mellow as-| sisted by Canon R. K. Perdue, Unuren, |was the "Best. mA and daushior of Sir. Hts ihose j Northan Alexander json, Oshawa; Was tnited;Ramsey, 'in marriage to Thomas Harry |bearer and Mrs. | Ellis, Toronto. 'The Foctate. ring | William was Master The reception was held at the \Grandview Golf Club, following which the couple left on a honey- moon to Quebec and Massa- Islington. The soloist, Mr. Ross | chusetts with the bride don- Cotton, was accompanied by ning, for travelling, a cherry- Mr. Ronald Kellington at the' organ. red three-piece walking suit with a black fox collar and muff, and Given in marriage by her |black accessories Mr, and Mrs. father ,the bride wore a forrnal| Ellis will reside at 95 Lawton gown of imported Belgian silk velvet fashioned with a scoop neckline, lily-point sleeves, an empire waistline, and a grace- ful sheath skirt. The gown was enhanced by a matching velvet cape which flowed. into a train. Her satin wedding ring head- dress, trimmed with seed pearls and sequins held her bouffant elbow-length veil of tulle illu- sion and she carried a bouquet of white chrysanthemums and roses entwined with ivy gar- lands, The maid of honor was Miss Judith Gray, Oshawa and the bridesmaids were Miss Pauline Haugh, Oshawa, and Miss Mary Ellis, Toronto. boulevard, Toronto. 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