HOSPITAL AUXILIARY DRESSES DOLLS FOR ANNUAL TEA incr atin 'collected by our of the hospital. Tea 'will be served in the cafeteria where the dolls will be on display Mrs. Joseph Dominik, left, who assist- ed in dressing the dolls in their various national cos- These beautifully dressed dolls will be prizes to be given away at the Oshawa General Hospital Auxil- jary's mammoth bake sale and tea to be. held Friday afternoon in the board room Gail Nugent, 29th Guide Company Presented Coveted Gold Cord A Gold Cord presentation forjon her daughter's arm. Gail Nugent and a flyup were| District Commissioner Mrs held at St. Mark's Church re-|J. W. McLean presented a gold cently. The meeting was open-|tenderfoot pin on behalf of the ed with inspection by Division'company. Mrs. Lorne Seeley Commissioner, Mrs. D. E. Fox.|presented a guide ring on be- lhalf of the 29th parent com- The guides and brownies of|mittee. Mrs, Hayball was pre- if | "It constitutes a major revo-| the 29th Company and Pack/sented with the thanks badge : J formed two parallel lines. Each|and Mrs. Gordon Dulyea was girl: lit a candle and said, alpresented with a gift by the Eleven brownies flew up. verse to Gail as she passed' Guides. through. Gail cut the gold cord cake The gold cord was passed at the head table and tasty re- from Ex-captain Mrs. William|freshments were served by Hayball to Mrs. D. E. Fox tolthe Guides trying for their Mrs. Harold Nugent who tied it'hostess' badge. CHILD GUIDANCE - If Punishment Fits The Crime Spanking No Harm To Child By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD |there may be instances when In many an article or speech|an older child should be spanked on punishment, you have readjor paddled. or heard that the chief argu- ment against spanking as pun-jfeel resentment then if he ishment is that it arouses re-|thought the punishment was fair sentment in the child. The state-|and just and if he knew, before ment usually is made without|he committed the act for which any qualification or reference to}he was punished, shat the pen- the age of the youngster. alty would be. In case the par- All our three children gotjent had always been consistent, gome spankings before they en-|the child knew the inevitable tered school. We kept volumi-|consequence before he chose to nous notes on the apparent ef-lcommit the forbidden deed. fect on these youngsters. Al-| The question often arises: most none of these notes re-\Should we punish the child on vealed resentment in the childithe first offence? The answer is because of the spankings. No for the youngster over four Spanking of the young childjor five. But for the youngster) -- in and of itself need not arous|two or three it usually is desir- resentment. But spanking thatjable to issue no warning, espe- is cruelly severe or a mere|cially in instances of danger "flea bite" or inconsistent, may.) We usually get best_results_in One cause of recentment iSiteaching the youngster not to Spanking for an act which had toych known dangerous things, been approved or ignored ear-'as in the kitchen, or not to go lier. Another is spanking a tot) ajone to dangerous places on the An older child hardly would) 12 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, November 15, 1965 Vincent Massey Sees Film On C Children's Reading was the theme of the November meet- ing of Vincent Massey Home and School Association under Chairman Mrs. James Smales. The film "The Lively Art of Picture Books" was shown, nar- rated by the author, John Lang- staff. The school-librarian, Miss Carol McGirr gave a brief com- mentary prior to the showing of the film. Mrs. J. W. Lemon Rlexpressed the thanks of the parents present to Mrs. Smales and Miss McGirr; The president, Mrs. Jack |Dewell, presided over the busi- ness meeting. The Family Donation Plan was reported as successful but further donations : % [will be accepted at any time. " Mrs. Carl Griffith and Mrs. |Michael Clayton, UNICEF Com- mittee, have reported $146.29 as tumes, Mrs. Alfred Austin, |Students. convener, and Mrs. E. F. | Mrs. Keith Smith reported Cuthbertson, co- convener, |from Council and outlined the admire one of the dolls -- jprogramme for the Area Be dressed in Hungarian attire. lConference being held in Osh-| lawa November 20. Membership --Oshawa Times Photo |Chairman, Mrs. George Yule in x Fades 4 - | Beloved High Heels Abandone | By Paris Wome | By PEGGY MASSIN | | PARIS (Reuters)--Low-heeled) ishoes are high fashion in Paris.| | Nothing dates a woman faster} \today than spike heels worn in| ithe daytime, say leading shoe) | designers. lution to have induced French) women to abandon their beloved] high heels," says the director of} 'ithe Christian Dior shoe salon.| E\"By present standards, stiletto heels seem as inappropriate for streetwear as an evening dress worn in the morning." ' The oxford and brogue-type| | . % shoe, now so popular, was for- | d merly strictly the preserve of elderly English nannies. No Frenchwoman under the age of! Child With Perceptual Problem |Concern Of Association Meeting: GAIL NUGENT The Association for the Chil-|image, or many other varia-) \dren with Learning Disabilities| tions. Even with high intelli-| met at A. E. Lovell School. The\gence, it makes it difficult for guest speaker was Miss Eleanor|the child to interpret, and to} Cox M.A., who has 18 years injlearn. It is important that the) the education field. She discuss-|problem be recognized when the! ed children with perceptualjchild is very young, to avoid problems, those who do not see, |frustration and emotional prob- hear or feel as we do. More re-|lems. search has been done in the last} Parents of these children few years, and new techniques'must recognize that _ their are being developed to help|ability will be limited, and they these children. {must not be pushed into situa- Children with perceptual prob-|tions with impossible goals. lems may have double vision,/There should be close co-opera-| which can be corrected, they|tion. between teacher and par-| may see only a part of anient. Recent surveys have shown plained, and enough experience|that 5 per cent of the school to choose not to repeat the deed|population have this problem, if he knows beforehand the in-|and there will have to be, more evitable penalty. awareness on the part of Citi But if you try to explain to a Zens, and departments of edu- youngster, two or three, why he cation. The field is just opening should not touch or play within Ontario under four or five to make him street, if we make sure he gets) the meat grinder in the kitchen| The next meeting of the asso do what you command him tolimmediate pain the first time he|"@ may be more eager to find|ciation will be held Nov. 23 at do. ' does such acts and without. ex-) Since pain tends to make the ception thereafter -- till he act connected with it painfuljavoids such things and places ana nen tnwn « ~ ' snd, therefsrs, by. the Gmaticaliy, poems sn ently out for himself. City Hall, | ia happy holiday season, There} |new psychological approach to Home & School hildren's Books her report told of the many rea- sons for being a member of Home and School. Announce- ment was made of new publi- cations now available each meeting from Chairman Mrs. Douglas Johnson. In keeping with this year's plan to outline for the member- ship the duties involved in different positions in Home and School, Mrs. Russell Elliott de- scribed the offices of Member- ship Chairman and Hospitality Chairman. The Association are again this year asked to donate Christmas parcels for the Mental Hospital and depuis were designated for these gifts. member of the Ontario Reg- In closing the meeting, Mrs.| istered Music Teachers' As- Dewell wished the membership} sociation and is at present is no December meeting, but] teaching piano and theory the Association will meet again} in Oshawa. She is a pupil of on January 10. Refreshments! Mrs, L. W. Parrott. were served by the mothers of ---- GETS DEGRE Miss Lucille Donna Ly- zanchuk, Townline road north, will receive her ARCT teacher's degree to- night from the Royal Con- servatory of Music at Con- vocation Hall, University of Toronto. The former Kings- way College student is a Miss Cunningham's room and) ' | Mr. Barton's room, under grade} St. Gertrude $ CWL 5 mothers Mrs. Robert Gowans, Mrs. William Spiers and social convener, Mrs. Donald Mac- Annual Bazaar Donala, The annual bazaar of St *|Gertrude's Catholic Women's League was held recently, A |harvest theme was, used to decorate the parish hall. The |Reverend Alexander Tacacs, as- nN In Style Shift sistant paris: priest, opened the SY : : Pouring tea were Mrs. Kelly 70 would have dreamed of weal neGray, chairman of Ontario ing a "sensible shoe" anywhere) gt) 'region, Mrs. Harry] except on the golf course. |Gowanlock, president of Holy! Then such influential coutur-\cros; and Mrs. Leonard iets ss Dior, St. Laurent and) weexs, president of St. Mary of Balenciaga, and shoe designer the people. Roger Vivier, launched a whole} General convener was Mrs. otwear. They have succeeded|=dward Beauchamp with Mrs. in convincing women that it is|James O'Reilly se st Etats more elegant to walk than tojcther conveners were: M wobble, safer to stride than to| Leonard Schlechter, tea room; stumble. Mrs. Frank Baron, kitchen: Rover Vivier launched his Mrs, Sylvia Poirier, doll draw; "amazon" line with rounded Mrs, Gerald Merkley, doll draw toes and flat heels in contrast|? d religious articles table; to hish-cut vamps and baby-| Mrs. George Bogaard, aprons; boot: styles, Mrs. Alex Borowsky, baking; | Balenciaga featured mannish- Mrs. Frank Doreen, mystery} 'okie "hhoguel" wore with|table; Mrs. Patrick eager schoolgirl coats and heavy-| Knitting and sewing; Mrs. John ribbed woollen stockings. Byrne, penny draw, Mts. John} The. best-selling shoe in the) /oltz, money tree; Mrs. John| Disr cuitomonade salon ts alt alman, advertising; Mrs. | beige suede oxford with thin | G°oTse Miller and Mrs. James "snaghetti"" ee inch.|Sraemer, decorating. paghettl" laces. and an: inch Winner of*the money tree was) 1 s ' pe ere rornd een ana| MTs: J. Carrigan; of the Barbie " " ABs \doll, Mrs. Gordon Patterson and/ Mary Jane" pumps with cross-| , | strap or low-slung ankle brac-|°! the baby doll, Norma Brother- elet are the popular new style| ¥00%: all ot Coney: for the teen-age group. They are | also being worn by many not-so-|many pairs of the low-heeled| junior women. One couturier, | guardsman-style shoes with sil-| Louis Feraud, features flat-\ver buckle in white patent | heeled baby-doll shoes in shiny leather as in black. White sere poster-paint shades of red, yel-|are worn with all white ensem- low, and orange. patent leather. bles and dark-toned handbags. | White shoes, traditionally re-; The _ French government's stricted to summer wear, are a edict banning stiletto heels in| dominant new winter trend,;museums and embassies in or-/| launched as the logical evolution|der to protect valuable old par-| of Andre Courreges' famous|quet floors has proved to be one white boot. ' jof the strongest fashion influ- Roger Vivier is selling asjences in formal footwear. Eurns Jewellers BIRTHDAY child, when spanking a young- ater, about three, to make him Close the door or pick up the blocks, to name a few exam ples, may not succeed in. com- pelling him to do as you re- quest. In such a case it makes him more stubborn, it makes him resentful. TIMES FOR PUNISHMENT But if this same child were told once not to throw the block a single sharp whack on his fundamental may be very ef- fective. There is no occasion for them to feel resentful. Though I have often said in this column} that we parents should aim to be finished with physical pun-} ishment by the time the young-! ster is five or six, I concede! Getting pain in such cases doesn't necessarily stir up re sentment in him. It may sur- prise him but he soon discovers the reason for the pain. CONNECT PAIN Therefore, with the average tot, two or three, don't explain the danger or the reason why he should avoid it. Connect in- stant pain with this danger and he soon will discover the reason after he has learned to avoid it But with the child over five, six or seven, new situations are constantly arising which are no! so simple as a specific hazard to be avoided. 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