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---- -- ANN LANDERS Some Candid Are Disgusting Dear Ann Landers: I have something to say to the great American public and I know of no better way to reach them than through your column. I work in a large drug store as a photo finisher for color snapshots. Every day I see thousands of pictures. I am one of four finishers so you can multiply my story by four, and) keep in mind, ours is only one drug store and there are thou- sands in the country. It is shocking how many peo- ple take pictures of half-dressed and undressed people and gag shots which are in shocking taste. Some of the stuff is down- right pornographic. Well - known people in this) town keep bringing in film which would shock a mule skin-} ner. I realize, Ann, that a per- son has to be a iiitle sick to take these pictures in the first place, but if they knew how many pairs of eyes saw them before they left the drug store they'd be a whole lot sicker.--} Your Friendly Finisher Dear Friendly: Your letter should be a flag to these sick exhibitionists. A not-so-friendly finisher could finish a few ca- reers if he felt so inclined. Dear Ann Landers: My hus-| band and I are torn between his loyalty to his parents and an opportunity to advance in his firm. We don't promise to take your advice but we'd like , to hear what you have to say.| John and I have _been mar-| Photos ried six years; We have three children. two blocks from us. They are good people, not the interfering type, and we all get along fine. The problem is they have few friends and no interests other than our family. Their lives are centred, around us and our chil- ren. [She thinks this makes her an John's parents live|meant he was not intelligent. | authority on everything. This friend has turned my mother against several of my boy friends because according to her, "You can tell all about a person by studying his face." Tom was sneaky, she said be- cause his eyes were close to- gether. Harold would never make a good living because he my a receding chin which was a sign of weakness. Bill's forehead was low, which Bob was mean and stingy. She} could tell this from his thin lips. Chuck, she insisted, came from peasant stock because his neck was thick and his hands were large. Ben, she warned me, had as evi- murder in his heart, denced by his stubby thumbs. Is there anything to this? Please say yes or no, Thank you.--Mercedes Dear Mercedes: And you're welcome. John's company wants to send him to another state as a dis- trict manager. It would mean an impressive promotion and a substantial salary increase. My father-in-law says if John will pass it up and remain here he will make up the financial dif- ference. He says money isn't jeverything and their lives will |be empty without us. Comment No. ARTISTS CAN EAT HALIFAX (CP)--Nova Scotia| artists need not leave the prov- ince to make a living says CHILD.GUIDANCE By GARY C. xi%ERS, PhD Suppose you were the teen- age daughter described in the following letter from a mother. Suppose you were her parents. very little effort, student in her ninth grade. She loves Latin and algebra (includ- ing enclosed sample alphamatic puzzle which she often does daily before changing school | clothes). 'If I remind her to pick up the pile of papers, books, etc., which are perpetually on her desk or the heaps of clothes on her chair or bed, she responds in a resigned voice, "Yes, yes, Mother. Nag, «xz. Do this. Do "Our daughier, 15, is, with) a straight-A| that, is all I ever hear.' I have! jtried to 'straighten up' her} things, although the continual mess does bother both her fa- please.--Torn Esther Bollinger of nearby Dear Torn: True. Money isn't Prospect Bay. The eastern everything--but there's more in-|coastline provides "a fantastic volved here than money, Like|amount of material" onl ay a > of\ers. and there is a market for oo = eegarnamal a i ta beep ennunts who go beyond Sunday) j dabbling, Hie pia Poy = Aga the Albright Art School at Buf- N.Y. I believe he should accept the me NS Lo uty | teem acta AWARD Lee Marvin,. two-role star of Dear Ann Landers: My/|Cat Ballou, mother has a friend who has|Bear award as best actor at the had two years of ae, |Berlin Film Festival. | | RUG & UPHOLSTERY CLEANING 5 In Your Home... or Our Plant PIANO CLASSICAL and POPULAR For further information PATRICIA TUCK 74 BURK ST. OSHAWA 725-4587 PHONE 725-9961 'SOSHAW, DIVISION OF OS CLEANING CONTRACTORS ANERS says the veteran of| received the Silver} ther and me. "If she is not reminded of | bedtime (10 p.m. school nights). | She just doesn't get to bed till| |sympathetic' part - time graduate A-Student Lacks Order In All Home Activities 11 or after, and she again com- plains of nagging when her fa-| that these problems will affect ther or-and I do remind her that) it is 10 o'clock, and time for bed. NO ROUTINE "I believe the reason for our) 'nagging' is that we don't know) how firm a stand to take on the importance of establishing a minimum of basic responsibility, in routines important to living co-operatively. "She would rather read (cur-| rent. periodicals--Readers' Di- d ) ; studies to continuous house- work! "I'm sure she's somewhat jealous of her slower sister, 11%, who does delight in 'being helpful'. --just to 'show her sis- ter up.' Our son, 9, saidsre-| a part of this family.' "Truthfully, I am concerned) \her feelings of positive self- ing to quit talking, If you can't find a way to get results, ac- cept the problem and don't get) mad about it. In respect to her untidy room, inspect it every so often--say, | cently, 'Jane doesn't want to be! once or twice a week--and what | you will expect to find at that! time and the penalty if it's not| denial of certain privileges she| worth." APPRECIATE DAUGHTER I hope you show appreciation} jof your daughter's interest in) | puzzle - solving and her achieve- | ments at school. She's pretty old for you to get) {very far by force in matters of | responsibility, I think you and) Dad ought to figure out what) you can enforce other than by jawing. Just decide you're go- | | greatly enjoys that you can en-| | force. I know just how much you are annoyed by her untidiness and irresponsibility. However, you don't name anything that is) la very serious matter as I can| fash Maybe you make too much) of it. 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