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14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Fridey, July 2, 1965 SSA Ge ACE SRE a TRG its Family Gathers For A Birthday And Anniversary ENNISKILLEN (TC) -- A happy celebration was held June 27 at the home of Mr, and Mrs. H. J. McGill to mark the 92nd birthday of James A, Werry and the 25th wedding anniersary of Mr. and Mrs. A record for your Wedding Album is provided by The Oshawa Times Woman's Page. Forms are available at The Oshawa Times office. Early publication of this wedding record is facilitated by submitting the completed form and picture of the bride to the Women's Editor as soon as ¥, after the ceremony. out-of-town guests You are asked to submit the attending the wedding to the itor either before or the day after the wedding. PICTURED. AT the re- ception following the wed- is re Mr. and Mrs. Les- thaw. bride, is the daughter oF Shaw - Hughes Canon F. G, Ongley officiat- ed at the marriage in St. George's Memorial Church of Shirley Ann Hughes and Leslie David Shaw. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Rus- sell Hughes, Oshawa, and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Cecil 0. Shaw of Whitby. The organist, Mr. Alan Reesor played the wedding music and the bride was given in mar- tiage by her father. ; a white prayer book and a cascade of red roses and carnations, the bride wore a floor-length gown of lace over esilk-satin with lily-point sleeves. Sequins and pearls adorned the bodice and a headdress of pearls and petals held her shoul- der-length bouffant veil Mrs Ronald Conners was the matron of honor and Miss Bar- » bara Shaw and Miss Dale Clark were the bridesmaids. They Mr. and Mrs, Russell Hughes, Oshawa, and the bridegroom's parents are Mr.. and Mrs. Cecil 0. Shaw of Whitby. Baas yellow chrysanthemums and white carnations. The flower girls, Elinor Hughes and Kath- leen Norton, were in yellow nylon and lace and carried baskets of white and yellow chrysanthemums.. Mr, Ronald Conners was the best man and ushering were Mr .Richard Hughes and Mr. Larry Shaw. A reception was held at the Buckaroo Ranch. The bride's mother wore a two-piece pink lace suit and the bridegroom's mother chose a two-piece suit of blue linen. Each had white accessories and a corsage of white and pink gladiolas. The couple left on a motoring honeymoon and are residing at 334 Adelaide avenue east, As they left the bride was wearing a coat and dress ensemble in yellow with white accessories and a white and yellow orchid corsage. all wore ballerina gowns of pow- der blue chiffon over taffeta flowers and veils and carried say . Kyle - Davison Northminster United Church was the setting Saturday even- ing for the marriage of Bonny Lynn Davison, Peterborough, to William Paul Garry Kyle, Win- nipeg. The bride is the daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Archie Frank Davison, St. Hubert, Que- bec, and her bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. William a Whitby. Reverend H. A. Mellow officiated and the wedding mu-lat the Whitby Canadian Legion|observers from sic was played by Mr. Harold/Hall, the couple left for a honey-| States and Quebec. | Ade, Ottawa. Given in marriage by her\the bride travelling in a black| father, the bride was wearing a short-sleeved formal gown of silk organza. The A-line front panel was embroidered with) flowers and the back panel formed a bustle and train. Her headdress of seed pearls held her waist-length heirloom veil- of net and-she-carried a_bou-|Whithy, Silver Lake and Pick-| quet of red roses. | 'The matron of honor was Mrs. Rosalie Lavigne, Ottawa, and the bridesmaids were Miss Linda Hopps, Whitby and Miss Laurel Ann Turner, Windsor. Mr. David Kyle, Oshawa, was the best man and the ushers and Mr. Bart Davison, Mont- real. Following the reception held {moon in Northern Ontario with |knit suit with white accessor- lies. On their return Mr. and |Mrs. Kyle will take up residence in Winnipeg, Manitoba. | Guests from out-of-town were present from Windsor, Ottawa, Quebec City, Weston, Peter- borough, Winnipeg, Toronto, ering. Steel Takes Over At Home Both Inside And Out By ELEANOR ROSS Steel, the wonder metal, has inconspicuously helped build our houses for a century, and, to- day, as it heads into its second century, it is taking on a more conspicuous and valued role in home-building, indoors and out. Bigger and better appliances, colorful furniture, elegant din- nerware, healthful innerspring mattresses and many more items are all part of the inter- ior. : : "But steel is busy outdoors, helping to solve design prob-' lems relating to the use of land, foundations, beams, studs, joists and plumbing fixtures. Thanks to the ingenuity first) ed bridge - builders, new er ase being built on steep sloped *"4mpossible'--but are because of their lower price and the views they generally afford. With steel framing, these houses can cantilever out over a slope, neatly solving a prob- lem that conventional construc- tion cannot economically han- die, It's like a house floating on air, but with all the security that steel affords, Once upon a time, home building was seasonal. But now there is.an all - weather light- weight steel foundation system requiring very little excavation thereby making it possible for builders to continue construction activities during the long winter months, Then there are the steel com- |ponents that open up home styl- ing. lots that were once called) Also there. is the new steel) desirable|stud, Shaped like a regular two-| ; |. Mr, and Mrs. James Szikszay Jr., announce" the marriage of their daughter, Syl- Guests. attended from Tren-| with headdresses of blue bows,|ton, Toronto, London and Lind-| tions, were Mr. Peter Hopps, Whitby! John Borrowdale, of Oshawa. A congratulatory address was read to the couple by Mr. Werry, A_ silver tea service was presented, on behalf of the family by Allan Werry and Mrs. Ralph Virtue. Travelling lug- gage was presented by their son, Brian. Mr. Werry has attended the 25th wedding anniversary of all his sons and daughters. Attending the gathering were: Mr. and Mrs. William Borrow- dale, Oshawa; Dr. and Mrs. lowdale; Mr. and Mrs. Joseph McGill and family, Cooksville; Mr. and Mrs. Garth McGill and Mark, Orillia; Mr. and Mrs. E. A.. Werry, Betty, Jane and Bert; Mr. and Mrs. Allan Werry and family, Mr. and Mrs. Grant Werry, Mr, and Mrs. Ralph Virtue. and Judy, Enniskillen. SOCIAL NOTICES ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs, Albert F. Foote, Whitby, wish to announce the engagement of their daughter, Barbara Anne, to Mr. John Thomas Rothnie, son of Mr. and Mrs. John Rothnie of Weston, Ontario. The wedding ceremony is to take place on Friday, July 30, 1965, at 7.30 p.m. in St.| Mark's United Church, Whitby.| | _ ENGAGEMENT | Mr. and Mrs, Milton Sleeves wish to announce the engage-| ment of their eldest daughter, Janet Louise, to Mr. Sheldon Smith, only son of Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Smith, 'all of Whitby. The wedding is to take place on Saturday, July 17, 1965, at 4:00) p.m. at "monds United Church.| FORTHCOMING WEDDING Mr. and Mrs. Harry Camp- bell, Oshawa, announce the forthcoming wedding of their daughter, Joanne Louise, to Mr. Aldoria Dignard, Oshawa, son of Mr, and Mrs. Jeffery -Dig- nard, Tracodie, New Brunswick. The ceremony is to take place on Saturday, July 31, 1965, at 11.15 a.m. in Holy Cross Roman Catholic Church, Oshawa. FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE via Vera, to Robert Garry Har- lock, son of Mr. and Mrs. E. J. Harlock, all of. Oshawa. The ceremony will take place on) Saturday, July 24, 1965 at 3.00 p.m. in Albert Street United | Church. Varsity Women Explore Trend To Further Study | The University Women's Clubs of Ontario under the auspices of the Canadian Federation of Uni- ersity Women sponsored the York Seminar on Continuing Education for women_university graduates. This province wide workshop was part of the CFUW's participation under their adopted resolution -- "to assume leadership to encourage juniversity women graduates to} resume their studies and aug-| ment their. existing qualifica- The purpose of this seminar was to try and articulate the needs and interests of these particular women in continuing education, to explore the exist- ing resources now open to} them, or open new ones in On- tario. Attendance was limited to 125, jincluding representatives from the 51 University Women's Clubs) lin Ontario, from universities in lthe Province, from the Depart- ments of Labor and Education, |from interested professional and |yolunteer groups as well as |qualified discussion leaders and the Unite q | Mrs. Barnard Lewis and Mrs. E. M, Culp represented the Osh-| jawa Club, Miss Eve Merriam, lauthoress of "After Nora Slammed the Door" delivered the keynote address. Miss Mar- ion V. Royce, director of the |Women's Bureau, Canadian De- lpartment of Labor, was chair- \man of the seminar. by-four or two-by-six, it can be cut and nailed like wood, But un- like wood, it never warps, sags, rots or swells, because it is made of galvanized steel sheet. There's a new lig ht weight open web joist made of a new high strength low alloy steel that speeds construction, frees home styling and reduces the number of building components required. All this interests women be- cause these items help to bring down homebuilding costs while making for a superior product. Clark Werry and family, Wil- Mr. and Mrs.| | | |F. Werry and grandson, Ralph; psychiatry, |these investigations learned of and 'Mr. and Mrs. Wallace Butt, RR 1, Oshawa, were honored at a dinner party by relatives and friends at St. Stephen's United Church Hall, on the oc- casion of their 40th wedding an- niversary. Mr. Donald Andrews acted as master of ceremonies, On be- half of all present, Mr. Harry Butt and Mr, David Butt pre- sented their parents with a ruby ring each and the couple also received many other gifts. Mrs, Butt is the former Miss Reta Warren of Prince Al- bert and Mr. Butt was born in Whitby. They were married at the home of the bride's parents in Prince Albert. Beside their two sons, Harry and David, Mr. and Mrs. Butt Way oe ie tony bees MR. AND MRS. WALLACE BUTT --Ireland Studio Present Pair With Ruby Rings To Mark 40th Anniversary have three daughters, Mrs, Ed- ward Wilson (Bertha), Mrs. Bruce Vaillancourt (Olive) and Mrs. David Reynolds (Helen), Maple Grove. There are 13 grandchildren. For the occasion Mrs, Butt wore .a brocaded pink cotton dress with a red rose corsage. The anniversary cake in three tiers was. made and decorated with dark red roses of sugar, by a close friend, Mrs. Henry Strong. Friends attended from Toron- to, Oshawa, Pickering, Ajax, Innerkip and Port Perry. Mr. and Mrs. Harry Butt, Cedar Valley drive, entertained the family, relatives. and close friends at their home, after the dinner. CHILD GUIDANCE Proper Discipline Aids AChild's Development By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD A few children in North Am- erica, typically under the age of three, have received serious physical abuse, Reports of scat- tered cases from hospitals for a number of years seem to have caused a group of five leading physicians in pediatrics, roentgenology (x- ray), obstetrics and gynecology to make a survey of the pre- valence of this probelm. They are: C. Henry Kempe, Frederic N, Silverman, Brandt F. Steele, William Droegen- mueller and Henry K. Silver, all MDs. They reported their study in the Journal of the American Medical Association for July 7, 1962. They understood a country- ide survey of hospitals which were asked to report the inci- dence of the battered-child syn- drome in a one-year period. From 71 U.S. hospitals reply- ing, 302 such cases were re- ported. Of these, 33 children died and 85 suffered permanent brain injury. In a third of the cases proper medical diagnosis was followed by some kind of legal action. From 77 district attorneys 447 cases in a similar one-year period, Whether, or not there is a his- tory of the injury, the x-ray reveals the damage to the 'grow- ing skeletal structures. Yet some physicians are reluctant to accept the radiologic signs as an indication of repetitive trauma and possible abuse. This reluctance stems from the emotional unwillingness of the physician to consider abuse as the cause of the child's diffi- culty and also because of, un- familiarity with certain aspects of fracture healing so that he is unsure of the significance of the lesions that are present. 4 To the informed physician, the bones tell a story the child is too young or too frightened to-telt: * DISTURBD PARENTS But psychiatric knowledge of why the child is battered is meagre. Nobody knows how often the battering parents are mentally and emotionally dis- turbed. Frequently they have been described as psychopathic or sociopathic characters. Some battering of children occurs among parents of "good education and stable financial social background," In most of such cases the authors CLEANING | In Your Home .. sOSHAW, RUG & UPHOLSTERY | . or Our Plant ag PHONE 725-9961 EANERS Fea ay DIVISION OF OSHAWA CLEANING CONTRACTORS believe" that' some defect in character structure is present. Sometimes parents may be repeating the type of child care practised on them in their child- hood, Do these findings mean that all physical punishment should be condemned? As I reported earlier, the Na- tional Academy of Pediatrics has published a bulletin on obedience, which approves se- lective spanking to train the tot in safety. It does not set lower age levels but assumes that parents will be humane and self-controlled, never bruising es flesh or bones of the young- ster. WARNINGS TO PARENTS So have I assumed over the many years I have written this column and have urged parents to trai the tot early in the un- ambiguous meaning of "no." From what many, including the present writer, have been say- ing about the harm to children from excessive permissiveness, some parents may wrongly sup- pose they have professional ap- proval to hit the child whenever | they feel angry at him. | No sense in giving any physi- cal pain to the child before he can move about under his own steam. When you begin to spank, be sure it's just a sting- jthe I00F Lodge Rooms with \Grand Dorothy Haley. Lodge \Lilian French, Elsie McKee, The clos' ineeting of the, season of Sunshine Rebekah Lodge took place recently in Noble Grand Francis Cornelius presiding, assisted by Vice according to ritual, the flag of the country was pre- sented and visitors welcomed. Secretary Victoria Magee read the correspondence and invitations. Vice Grand Dorothy Haley gave the report of the sick and shut-ins, Election of officers took place, and the following were elected: Noble Grand, Dorothy Haley; Vice Grand, Della Hutcheson; Secretary, Victoria Magee; Fin- ancial Treasurer, Luella Pine; Treasurer, Marie Elliot; Trustee (3 years), Estella Sims. Appointed to the examination board were Past Noble Grands, and Ann Coakwell. Past Noble Grand, Elda Howard was appointed to the District Com- mittee. She also gave an excel- Dorothy Haley Noble Grand _ Of Sunshine Rebekah Lodge the following morning prior to their departure at 8. a.m. In addition stamped picture post- cards of Oshawa were circula- ted for their use. i The second bus load will arrive in. approximately one week's time and will also stay at the Hotel Genosha as guests of the Rebekahs and Oddfellows. Early co-operation with school RESIGNS AS EDITOR TORONTO (CP) -- Josephine Harshaw has resigned as editor of the YWCA national publica- tion Journal after 42 years, Mrs. Harshaw is writing the history of the Canadian YWCA and hopes to complete it next year. LE enna' Automatic Dryer Cleaning -- Service FIRE - Dial 725-8915 Eye Bank of Canada to handle your gift of eyes. Members of the Rebekah and Oddfellow Lodges have been approached for donations to continue an area of research that had nwhere: else been established. The response has been generous, but more dona- tions are needed to continue this great 'and important work. These are only two of the important projects being spon- sored by this great fraternal society. | Next meeting of the Sunshine Rebekah Lodge will be held authorities is desirable. Another project not generally known, except to the members of the above lodges, is the World Eye Bank in Visual Research. This project was started in 1956, with a donation of $10,000.000, A committee was appointed to investigate further and it was decided to endow a chair at the John Hopkins Uni- versity, whereby the causes of blindness could be resolved. A permament chair in ocular re- search was endowed at the Wil- mer Ophthalmological Institute, John Hophins University. Nego- September 13, at 8. p.m. © Rental Information ° IMMEDIATE OCCUPANCY The Cavalier Apts. The Viscount Apts. The Diplomat Apts. 725-9934 -or- 728-4283 Assembly. A successful rummage sale was held recently with Past | Noble Grand, May Wood con-| vening. Tentative plans were made for the annual autumn bazaar to. be held Sept. 15, Past Noble Grands, Agnes Kemlo and Irene Willis will be general convenors. A pot. luck supper was held at) the close of lodge. ing projects. One of these is the Annual United "tions pilgrimage, New York for students. Each year over 500 students from all parts o Canada and the United {States July or August, with an opportu- nity for study, and observation of the United Nations in action. The young people receive brief- ing by various members of the United Nations Staff. They learn of the organization and function- ing of the Untted Nations and its) many branches. To be eligible they must be) juniors or sophomores attend- ing high school at the time of | selection of delegates. | The first bus load for 1965) arrived in Oshawa, June 3, at/ 9. p.m, at the Hotel Genosha. They were welcomed by Pasi| Noble Grand Elsie McKee and} the welcoming committee, also) members of the Odd Fellow Lodge. They were served soft drinks, sandwiches, cake and| cookies donated by the above) lodges on arrival, | The students remained over-| night and breakfast was served thigh. Never use anything on the young child but your bare flat hand. Never jerk or shake a child of any age or slap him about the face or head. Avoid using on an older child a bruis- ing "weapon"' like a hairbrush or ruler, A thin, broad pliable paddle is safer. As soon as learned from pain connected with "no" or "don't" rarely said) to obey this word and to stay where put, you should aim to abandon physical punishment Insetad, have him sit at a cer- tain place unamused, doing nothing for 15: to 0 minutes; according to his age This type of punishment is safe, humane| and very effective. | Cee KAYE'S LARGE SIZES SHOPPE SIZES from 14¥4 - 32Y2 and | Reg. 38 to 52. LOVELY LARGE SIZE BATHING SUITS and SUMMER PLAY SUITS. KAYE' LARGE SIZES SHOP 4 King St. BOWMANVILLE |! 623-5102 | FOR THE 74 Celina Street FINEST Custom and Ready Made DRAPES In the latest Shades end Fobrics ... see... 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