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9 eS gate RI SAE 2 ares My ey yey 'WEDDING ALBUM A record for your Wedding Album is provided by The Oshawa Times Woman's Page. Oshawa Times office. Early publication of this wedding record is facilitated by submitting the completed form and a picture of the bride to the possible after the ceremony. names of out-of-town guests attending the wedding to the social editor either before or the day after the wedding. The marriage took place in; Calvary Baptist Church, Osh- awa, of Barbara Joan Stacey, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Er- nest Rolfe Stacey, Oshawa, to Nicholas Copes, Don Mills, son of Mrs. Peter Copses, Islington, Ontario, and the late Mr. Copses.| The Reverend Robert B. Lytle officiated and the soloist, Mrs. George Delaney, sang 'Saviour Like A Shepherd Lead Them'"', "Together" and "They Must Have the Saviour With Them All the: Way'? accompanied by! Miss Ruth Skinner. Given in marriage by her fa- ther, the bride wore an original formal gown designed and made by her mother, fashioned) of pure white hand-embroidered| silk organza, imported from) Switzerland and lined with peau-de-soie. The bodice and bell-shaped skirt were bordered with wide bands of hand-made lace, with narrower lace border- ing the elbow-length sleeves. A self-bow held the chapel length) train.. Her pearl coronet held her elbow-length double bouffant veil of tulle and she carried a , Forms are available at The Women's Editor as soon as You are asked to submit the Stacey. cascade bouquet of pink and white roses, The maid of honor/was- Miss Catherine Farrell, Toronto, and the bridesmaids were Miss Anne Kouack and Miss Sandra Sta- cey, both of Oshawa. They were dressed alike in formal gowns of rose-pink georgette over taffeta. The flower girl was Miss Jill Stacey, similarly dressed. __ The best man was Mr. Stan- ley Boyda, Toronto, and the ushers were Mr. Perry Copses, Mr. William _Copses, both of To-| | ronto(and_Mr\ Bruce Stacey and Mr. Jan Stacey) both of Oshawa. The ring bearer was Master Peter Copses, Toronto. The reception was held at Adelaide House where the bride's mother received, assist- ed by the bridegroom's mother. The couple spent their honey- 'moon in the Bahamas. For trav- elling the bride wore a mauve) © tweed suit, with black accessor- ies and a corsage of maroon snap dragons. Mr. and Mrs. Copes will re- side at-12 St. Dennis drive, Don Mills, Ontario, Office Dress Differs Greatly Over The Past Sixty Years | By MARGARET NESS Leg of mutton sleeves, a high- collared shirtwaist and gored) skirts hardly sound like an emancipated woman to the ca- reer girl of today. But at the turn of the century this was the costume worn by the young woman entering the new world of office work. Once the office girl married she re- tired again into home life. Today the situation is far different. There's even a new career superimposed on the ac- cepted office pattern -- tem- porary office help. Many mar- ried women now wish to keep on working to supplement the family income or, with their children grown up, to provide freedom with her Turkish-style| trousers. The idea didn't catch on, however, until the year} after her death, in 1894. Then) a sort of knickerbocker called! 'bloomers'? became popular for the new. bicycling craze. Now some 70 years later the Office Overload audience saw| on the runway a 'group of} clothes geared to the active life of today's office worker, | from bare-back, minimum-cov- erage swimsuit to shirted shorts for tennis and a slickered fish- erman's outfit. There was even a demonstra- tion of how you change your simple office hair-do to evening elegance with the increasingly popular Postiche. Sally Potter, |Office Overload personne! man- jager, brought her own to add soft top curls to her own longer) hair scooped back and upwards. Oddly enough, women at the outside interests. However, many of them are not looking for permanent em- ployment, Others like the chal-) lenge offered by different office) collar. If you wish the pat- tern, please send a-self ad- dressed stamped envelope and ten cents to cover cost Add a new and youthful touch to your favorite tail- ored dress or sweaters by crocheting this neat looking | Keeping Up Conversation i CROCHETED COLLAR FOR DRESSES, SWEATERS of handling to the Needle- work Department of this newspaper and ask for Leaf- let No. PC 1478. of.things in life, it was so sim- ple it worked." Often it is the simple thing |(along with keeping at it) that C B Ditti lt Probl m {ends up solving the overwhelm-/to declare an amnesty and the an e 1 1cu e jing problems in our lives. So/prisoners were sure pardon By ROBERTA ROESCH "A few weeks ago, you wrote|the house. a column about an office worker} "At the time, I never told whose biggest problem in the of-|anyone what I was doing," she|- fice was keeping the conversa-!said, "because. my. struggle to} tion going," writes a reader. 'get something to talk about! "This describes my problem|would have sounded so ridicu-| in every sense of the: word, I'mjlous to anyone else--even if I tongue-tied before I say 'Hello.'|could overcome my handicap! I sit in the midst of the office|long enough to talk about it. talk and when the. conversa-| "But this system worked so tional ball is thrown my way 1I| well for me that, after a period simply strike out of several months, I never had! "To help myself improve, I've|to do it in the same methodical | kept your column on _ better|way again, because I was no} speech and I read it every. day. |longer lost for words when it routines. So they prefer to workjturn of the century wore false/puyt even though I'm trying, I/came to conversation. on a part-time or temporaryjhair too. These were the famous|qon't get any better. basis. They have actually be-j"'rats," the sausage - like rolls come an important labor reser-jover which the high pompadour|handicap before it was back voir. |rested. But no make-up The Toronto branch of Office|USed then. No respectable girl Overload, one of the firms de-/Wore any until the 1920s. lyears old. voted to filling openings for part - time work, recently ar-| ranged with Simpson's; a Tor- onto department store, to stage a White Collar Girl fashion show for its temporary employ- ees and their friends DISPLAY OLD COSTUMES The difference in office dress between the turn of the century and the present was high- lighted by four staff members modelling costumes from the early era. Here was the office uniform of white shirtwaist \TYPIST TURNS TABLES | The typewriter led women's assault on the male-staffed of- fices, Still, the United States 1890 census placed women in offices at only 75,000. The new_ viewpoint, that women have a right to live their own lives, was the basis of a short play by Sir James Barrie, written in 1910. In The Twelve Pound Look,} Kate, a typist, arrives with her) typewriter at the home of a| self-satisfied bully, newly cre-| with the huge billowy sleeves,|ated a baronet. He is her for-| the gored skirt trailing the floor. A street costume combined the long duster-style coat and the large feather-laden hat. For sport, there was a '"'bathing"' costume of Mack Sennett com- edy type, with tightly belted tunic, bloomers and black stockings mer husband who believes she left him for another man. He gloats over the social position he has bestowéd on his. present wife and the jewels he has given her. Kate finally jolts his ego by telling him there was no other man' She wanted to be free of him and taught her- self typing, When she had An elegant evening gown was |carned £12, she bought a ma- probably out of the picture for the office girl of that period. It! was unlikely that she would be invited to formal parties. She wasn't quite socially elect. chine and left him. They are joined by the new wife, a timid young woman. But.on Kate's exit the second wife supplies the punch line of Working women were still in/the play the minority, Man was the! "Are they very expensive?'| breadwinner, she asks her husband. 'These Married women only went to|machines?" work because of poverty or wid-| -- . z owhood. Gradually the stigma! of working for a living or re- turning to work after marriage began to disappear until today the reverse is true. < | Until 'the 1890s unmarried | women were relegated to a life | of unpaid help in their own homes. or had to live off the charity of relations. Married | women had only social obliga- tions to hold their interest. 'BLOOMERS' ARRIVE The first stirrings for a more 'ae ¢ > ope active life began in the he a gis veartsines, century. In 1849 Mrs, Amelia! them out of the water in- Bloomer of Seneca Falls, N.Y.,|stead of pouring water off. Grit introduced the idea of clothesland sand can't cling this way. ER Working in his garden one doy, @ man was startled to see a flying saucer alight and some little green men get out and ston the area with binoculars. "Excuse me,' he said apologeti- cally, 'but what are you fellows looking for?" Without bothering to look up the spokesman for the group retorted: "Little green women." STORES © 92 WOLFE © 170% MARY ST. © 12 BONDE. © 924 SIMCOE N, AGENTS @ United Taxi, 143 King St. East @ Roxy Variety, Rosslynn Piaze BOB EAKINS 725-3555 "My method was very sim-| this|ple,"' this woman said. "I'd sit| mejat the kitchen table and go in my job," adds this|through all the papers, while the| reader who tells us she's 20/rest of my family was still sleeping, and I'd collect 10 in-| Whether 'you're 20 or 60; you|teresting things to talk about can overcome this weakness|that day. and learn to shed your shyness) WRITE DOWN ITEM . and have something to talk} "Then I'd write each topic | about. Many people do it. I hear|down in a notebook and even as} of them all the time. |I dressed and went to work, I'd One business friend of mine,|go over everything I read about for example, who was just as|those items until I could talk} lost when it camé to conversa-|about them fluently. I'd also tion as the reader who wrote|figure out questions to ask so today, solved her problem years|I'd be prepared in every way) ago by getting up an hour early|to keep the conversation from every morning and going/dropping. through the daily papers in or-| 'I know. it sounds simple and der to fortify herself with con-|silly," she said. "But like a lot| "I'd like to overcome holds if your. problem is office talk versation topics before she- left|and better conversation, try this|50th anniversary of Italy's en-| |method for yourself--and give it|tering THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, June 14, 1965 J] CHILD GUIDANCE "Family Should Encourage Child Lagging At School By GARRY C. MYERS; PhD. Jt seems that he is a kind of, When any child, especially|a Jone wolf.and doesn't incline| the youngest in the family, lags|t9 do what other children are at school, he needs the encour- doing at the time. To help him ent and support of the whole family. - in this direction, try to attract "T have four children, agesmther boys of his age to your 16, 13, 10 and 8. My eight-year-|home and encourage him to get) old son is failing in the third)into quiet games with them. grade, My conference with the/then you could study him hop- teacher revealed that all of hisling 1o discover ways to help teachers ory ges oye "na him become a better playmate. mature and slow, yet when A in eratts- given a maturity test, several ae pect "_ pv patos weeks ag, he is in the upper home some of the paper toys third of his class. _ lhe makes at school, Encourage "His daily papers range injnim to make more of these at grades from A to F. He is very good in all oral work and his|nim, You or one of the older teacher finds him an enjoyable|-piidren might help him see boy except early in the year/that as he makes toys when he} when he tattled. His school rec-}i, supposed to be doing at ords disclose his. other teach-| schoo! what others do, the other ers have also found him to have|children might suppose he is a pleasing personality. lbabyish. HE DAY DREAMS | HELP WITH SKILLS 'He spends his time in school; Jn all sorts of ways, your) looking out of the window andigiger children might help the playing with toys he makes out! boy to act in a more grown-up of paper. Please, do you know] way. They might help him learn what I can do to help my son|come play skills other children) |'help himself?' " will admire and enjoy with him. | | My reply in part: It would be wonderful if the) | | think you can help your|whole family could make this) child most: in hundreds of situa-|lad feel he is a worthy mem- tions at home to do better at\ber. Privately take the older | school rather than by talking|children into your agg, about the school problem. and try to ete them to help) See that he has a few jobs--|this little brother. : isimple ones -- 'he must do Chances are that he is a poor | promptly and satisfactorily. Set| reader. If you could find books isome definite penalties when hejand magazines | which ca gat doesn't measure up to these. |drawings of things to do an | rae tangs --_------!|how to make them, he might! 'ANVICTS C 1 . |have a strong urge to read the | CONVICTS GO ON STRIKE ai octions 4 order to follow | ROME (AP)--Convicts in halfithem, It might be desirable to| ja dozen Italian jails organized|/employ a person to help him} |hunger strikes when Giuseppe/reaq better and do better his} Saragat, the new president,/other school assignments. made no mention of an amnesty} -- So after taking office. It is cus ltomary for incoming presiden A. E. JOHNSON, 0.D. 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