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MARRIED 63 YEARS Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Needham, Nassau atreet, quietly celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary yester- day. Aged 88 and 86 re- spectively, the couple have lived in Oshawa since 1945. Both Londoners, the former Lillian Lezzie, born in the wan for 38 years. Mr. Needham worked in the Maintenance Department of General Motors retiring in 1951. The couple have one son, Mr. Ernest Leon Need- ham of Oshawa, and one daughter, Mrs. Leonard Crowder, Whitby, and two grandchildren. Borough of Westminster, and Mr, Thomas Needham, born in the Borough of Bow, were married in Ley- tonstone, Middlesex, March 30, 1902. They came. to Canada in 1905 and went to Manitoba for a year then homesteaded in Saskatche- Poor Eyesight Lowers Grades VICTORIA (CP)--Poor eye- sight can drive a child to poor grades in school and even juvenile delinquency, says op- tometrist Dr. W. E. Beck. "More than 80 per cent of all school tasks are based on a child's ability to see. Prelim- inary studies show a definite 'Mrs. Jules Ethier Is Elected | President Of Diabetic Group | Mrs. Jules Ethier was elected president of the Mothers' Group, Oshawa Branch, Cana- dian Diabetic Association at its regular meeting held at the home of Mrs. Stanley Hockett, 18 THe OSHAWA TIMES, Wemen Wednesday, March 31, 1965 SOCIAL & Jo Aldwinckle, Mr. and Mrs. Charles Eder, Fernhill boulevard, have re- turned from a six-week vaca- tion in' Florida. Mrs, J. A. Aldwinckle was a luncheon guest Monday of the Beth Tzedec Congregation where the Institute of Ethics held an afternoon and evening session dealing with the moral responsibilities of a free press. Internationally-known columnist Marquis Childs addressed the gathering on The Ethical Dilem- mas of a Newspaper Column- ist and the Moral Responsibili- ties of a Free Press. Dr. Stuart E. Rosenberg presided and To- jronto columnists, Frank Tum- |pane and Ron Haggart, led an jopen discussion. | | Kelly Elaine, infant daughter of Mr. and Mrs, John Mud- rey,Jr., Courtice, was chris- tened Sunday by the Reverend F. G. Ongley in St, George's Memorial Church, Anglican Following the service Mr, and Mrs, Mudrey entertained at a tea attended by the infant's | godparents, Mr. and Mrs, Larry \Butler; her grandparents, Mr. 'Mothers, Daughters (Can Work Together | _ By ROBERTA ROESCH | Can mothers and daughters |work in business together--or does this arrangement develop into the kind of thing that gen- erally happens to two women in one kitchen? This question appeared in the who asks it tells the rest of her story in this letter, which I'm quoting in part: "Fifteen years ago,'"' she mailbag today, And the reader|,,°: PERSONAL Women's Editor Telephone 723 - 3474 for Women's Department William Sunderland and Mr. and Mrs. John Mudrey; her great-grand- parents, Mr, and Mrs, Michael Mudrey, Whitby, and many others, and Mrs. When the women of St. Luke's Presbyterian Church hold their "Hair Flair For Spring" in St. Paul's Presbyterian Church next Monday, those modelling wigs will be Mrs. William Milne, Miss Netta Elliot, Mrs. Frank Spar- ling, and Mrs, William Gould. Mrs. Leslie Guy and Mrs. Charles Smith of the Oshawa Horticultural Society will de- monstrate flower arranging at the dessert luricheon to be held by St. Stephen's United Church jduring Easter week, ORMTA Has Music Forum | The March meeting of the Oshawa and District branch of the Ontario Registered . Music Teachers' Association was held in the recital room of the On- tario Ladies' College, Whitby. | Mr. Gordon Hallett, member jof the piano department of the }Royal Conservatory of Music, jhead of the music department jat the Ontario Ladies' College, jand prominent lecturer in peda- j}gogy, was the guest speaker. Using three compositions by Claude Debussy, he illustrated points in the teaching of inter- | pretation: | (1) "Maiden with the Flaxen Hair' -- Think of the feeling that you want and give the type jof composition with the. very first note. Follow the technique. _|to the present', Mrs. G. D, Co- b isi RECEIVING Mrs. W. B. Syer, Bowman: ville, Women's Service chairman of the Ontario County Unit, Canadian Can- cer Society and Mrs, George | AT DAFFODIL TEA Telford, a member of the advisory board, are receiv- ing at the Daffodil Tea in Simcoe Street United Church Memorial Hall this after- noon, "History Gives Understanding To Present' Couples Club Told troducing Mrs. Conant re- marked that Mrs. Conant was the guiding force in founding many organizations in Oshawa, and that her interests include: Girl Guides, St. John Ambu- lance, Little Theatre, IODE, Canadian Club, Business and Professional Women's Club and many others. In thanking Mrs. Conant, Mr. F. M. McLellan suggested that her many interests and activities kept her young. 'If she lives to be one hundred, she "History gives understanding nant said in her address to the First Baptist Couples' Club at its meeting Saturday even- ing. She felt that until recently Oshawa had lagged in interest in its pioneers. | | "In 1955, Mr. MacIntyre Hood started a series of articles in The Oshawa 'Times, describing the early pioneers and histor- ical buildings,' she said, and these aroused interest and an awareness that collectors were : ; : ill still be young," he said making off with priceless items babe ; rl f from Oshawa, due to lack of in-| and presented her with s gift of terest." | flowers. " | Mr. Barnard Lewis offered lic saline wer kala ct ue his congratulations to the His- Laughlin Public Library and the torical Society and felt that they f helped to give this community a Oshawa and District H Society came into wine ce sense of identity and. purpose, continued: : which is so often lacking. Mr. 5 eae _|Lewis announced that the April Mrs. Conant described how + the society, under the guidance meeuny would be:a tour of 'the of Mrs. Ewart McLaughlin, re- County Court House in Whitby. stored the Henry House at Lake-| Mrs. S. J. Winsley introduced view Park. The opening cere- the incoming executive and the mony was held on May 21, 1960,/"¢W presidents, Mr, .and Mrs. and that just recently, a new| Barnard Lewis, presided. CHILD GUIDANCE Younger How By GARRY MYERS, PhD From California a girl, 10, sister, six: she gets in my way. She always wants to play with us then. My friend says to me, 'You should let her play with us.' So she ends up playing with us. And like everybody says, 'Two is all right, three is a crowd,' "At night when I want to play with her she doesn't want to play with me. Please tell me what I should do about this problem." My reply in part. It is not strange that, when a playmate of yours comes to your house, your little sister wants to play with her and you. But the chances are that your playmate is about your age. Then each of you is much older than your' little sister, Four years make a big. difference. You and your playmate have many interests your little "sister hardly has, and you two can do and play many things together she can't play as well. HA PLAYMATES It might help if your sister had some playmates of her own age, and if one or more of them came to your home to see her. At such a time, you should make sure not to try to play with them when not invited to do so, but let them have fun of their own without you. Then your sister might notice your good way. You even might say as you leave her and a play- mate who has called to have fund with her: "I will go so you can have your own fun to- gether." If, after a few weeks, you don't find your sister improv- ing her ways when you have a guest in, you might decide to have a quiet private talk with your mother, explaining your problem to her and asking her to try to cange your sister's ways. As you and your mother get) talking about this matter, both| writes of her problem with her "When I have a friend over Older Sister Can Show To Play sometimes. Try to have good fun then and help her to have good fun, too. But as you are four years apart in ages you two hardly can be perfectly happy playmates most of the time. As you and your sister etd older and older, you will ind that you will grow farther apart in your play interests. However, you may. get a lot of good enjoyment showing her how to learn new games and to do and make some new things. If you are very kind to her, you may be able to make her feel proud that she is learning to do so many things and growing up so fast, It is wonderful when a little sister looks up to her big sister and wants to keep learning from her, It's also wonderful when big sister is proud of her little sister. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. I'm endeavoring to teach my 18-month-old girl the mean- ing of no, and I find that I am jraising my voice. more and }more; at this age should I use ithe method of distracting her with something different? A. There are times when. you \should divert her immediate at- tention, But after you have made clear she must avoid a certain thing or act, don't at- tempt distraction, When she doesn't obey your quiet no, pick her up and smack her soundly on a safe place, MORRISON'S FOR Maternity Fashions of you might think of ways to) help your sister win more play-| mates of her age. The more of such playmates she has the less! your problem should be. | You say that when you are) See all our New Spring Fabrics, Styles. and sizes. quodes ng PARTY DRESSES TOPS © SLIMS SKIRTS @ SHORTS Maple Grove, Other officers elected were: |past - president, Mrs. John vice - president, Mrs. Proctor; treasurer, relationship between his ability to see properly and his ability to read and learn." And failure to succeed schol-|Stokes; astically may be a contributory| Maurice factor in anti-social behavior, he|Mrs. Harry King; secretary, says. |Mrs. William G. Smith; tele- Dr. Beck says a U.S. study/phone, Mrs. Stanley Hockett showed that up to 80. per centiand Mrs. Murray Thompson; of a group of delinquents hadjcamp chairman, Mrs. M. B. learning difficulties in reading|Proctor; and press reporter, and that poor vision was in-|Mrs. W. G. Smith, volved in 50 per cent of the) Members were present from cases. Greenbank, Cobourg, Port Hope Things to watch for are €X-\and Oshawa. A report was given cessive frowning or blinking,/on a successful night of cards more than ordinary head move-\nelq in February at Woodview ment and aversion to reading,|park Community Centre. he says. More obvious signs} 4 short discussion was held are children holding books/on summer camps for diabetic closer than normal or losing/children and it was announced] their place while reading. that application forms were) available from the camp chair-) man for those interested. Plans were made for the an- It ve ae to yo ge ngs dinner to be held May 12, mage sale Monday, April 26, at/at 'st. Paul's Presbyterian the ORC building on Gibb street.| Church, where the guest speak- er will be Dr. Robert Ehrlick, diabetic: research, dren's Hospital. 7 | Plavi y the Playing should not be vague. DECK PANTS GIRDLES & BRAS MORRISON'S Opposite the Armories 48 SIMCOE'NORTH Downtown Oshewe home at night with your sister, she may not want to play with you. Do not insist that she play with you then. Don't feel badly \if she doesn't. She may have a lot of things she wishes to do alone. You may have things you want to do alone. PLAYING OCCASIONALLY writes, 'my mother turned the} jsection had been added for} Mr. and Mrs. Reginald Fulton sunporch of her home into an| (2) 'Golliwogg's Cake-Walk"|Archives, including old letters,|presented the worship service| office, started a real estate--Humor in music should notj}deeds, newspapers and other and Mrs. Fulton read "'Thoughts| business from scratch and bit|be like a joke gone flat, Fingers) items. on Easter" with Mr. Fulton) by bit developed it into a real/must be wide awake, accents} The Historical Society plans reading a poem "Lent". | success, |very positive with an exaggera-|to preserve the old Robinson "Now that she's getting older,/|tion of tone. and Guy homes, located across she wants to taper off from| (3) 'Clair de Lune' -- Deli-| the road from the museum, for SOCIAL NOTICE AT HOME Of course, it is fine when you Mr. and Mrs, Norman Down/and your sister play together| carrying the full load herself. |cate effect of composition often|future expansion. In_ closing will be at home to their friends|-- i ; "And for my part, I'm anx-|lost by the moving of the bar-|Mts. Conant said, "It would on Wednesday, April 7, 1965,| ious to get into business, after|line, listener should get no beat|Make an interesting hobby for from 2.00 to 5.00 p.m. and from} being house-bound for several! at all. |retired couples, interested in years, | A recital of piano ensemble| o2H2¥2's history, to go about 7.00 to 9.00 p.m. to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary. "Kingswood" Modern--Woalnut console-- . ts ' {collecting historical lore from SUGGESTED WORK | preceded Mr. Hallett's lecture. | the elerty eitisans," "My mother has suggested), St. Anthony's Chorale", vi. & M, McLellan In. in- that I start working with her) #aydn, was played by Maureen) --------*--* 7 with the idea of learning the|Coleman, Lynn Fallis, Christine) business and becoming a full| Small and Heather Wick. | partner for the next few years.| "Sicilienne", Bach -- Anne guaranteed Merconi Depend- @bili Transformer power- ed, Handwired Chassis--23" Bonded Picture Tube-- Reg. $299.95 17th Anniversary Sale Later when she retires, I'll be|jand Mary McWhis; "Polka", ready to take over the business,|Marsden -- Susan Davidson, Even less with Trode, --Oshawa Times Phote MRS. JULES ETHIER "This sounds like a good idea|Betty Stanger; "Marche Mili- to me--and it would certainly|taire", Schubert -- Marylysbeth be an opportunity. Adams, Beverley Bulmer, Mary "But my husband discourages} McWhis, Jane Sproule. me from getting involved be-| Miss Helen Willard conducted ause he feels that a mother|a short business meeting when and daughter will never get/it was unanimously decided to Sick Chil-|along in one small office. |have a workshop in' the fall. | 'What do you think?" |Miss Lucille Lyzanchuk and It was announced that the| Usually two factors--individ-|Miss Willard will be the dele- next meeting would be held on| ual temperaments and the qual-; gates to the 34th annual conven- Wednesday, April 14, at the| ity. of past and present relation-| tion held at Seaway Towers, To- home of Mrs. James Cowin, Co-|Ships--are the starting points in|ronto, Easter week. The last bourg. Slides of Camp Banting| determining how well moth~~ student recital for the season will be shown. jand daughters can work vill be on April 13. a: [aim egd in the same office a.. Dr. S. page -- business. entertaine e association at a BLIND CAN BE NORMAL | But if these factors are for|pleasant social hour in their MONTREAL (CP) -- Joan|you instead of against you, thisjresidence, following the Bridge, a social worker at the|kind of arrangement can often| meeting: 4|Montreal Association for the|be an opportunity, especially|---- f Blind, believes that with proper| when it's a situation such as the|pon'T SPANK EGG WHITES! rehabilitation a blind person can|one described here. | QOver-beating of egg whites re- live almost like anyone else.| I can say this with conviction , A ) y '|duces the volume of foam, warn Mrs. Bridge, whose youngest|too, since I've seen many moth-|pome economists at Macdonald client was a six-week-old baby,jers and daughters go into @l{nstitute, Guelph. 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