each other out. I feel that my oldest daughter is selfish and short - sighted. Will you com- ment on family responsibility, please?--Disappointed Dear Disappointed: In many families, where there is real warmth and love, older broth- ers and sisters do help the younger ones through college. Unfortunately your family is not so blessed. Your older daughter is doubly selfish, Not only did she refuse to help educate her sister, but she refused her father a loan. Dear Ann Landers: I am a newcomer to your country and have a few questions which may ANN LANDERS Children's Pets Part of Growing Up Dear Ann Landers: I need a grownup to stick up for me. Will you be the one? Our next door neighbors are' moving out of town in a few weeks and they want to make me a present of their two hamsters. Women 14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, March 25, 1965 \- My mother says I ant take the hamsters because they will] smell up the whole house and also they hatch very often and we will have three dozen before we know it, Our neighbors enjoyed the Senior Past President Cuts Ath Birthday Cake For H andS The Westmount School's au-jcontaining the minutes of some, ditorium was filled to capacity|jearlier meetings of Westmount} by parents and guests who help-|Home and School Association, ed celebrate it's Home and/referring to a pupil, Miss Mary School Association's 40th birth-/Read who entertained parents hamsters very much and they had them for almost a year. Also I don't think their house smelled any worse than any-| body else's house. I] I promised mom I would take care of them and they would seem silly to girls who have rown up here. When my date calls for me |what should I do with him? If am not ready do I shout, Pease sit down," or what? If I am ready, do I ask him to be seated? If so, for how long? still says no. Please help. me.'should 1 encourage: him to --Pet Less speak with other members of Dear Pet: If your neighbors|my family the first time he had the hamsters for almost a|comes to our home or would .it year and there are still only two|be best to wait until the second day, This was a truly memor-|by performing the Sword Dance. able occasion, as 12 past-presi-|Memories came to life, when dents attended, The eldest of/Mr. Harold Pascoe introduced) these, 84-year-old Mrs, Ada | this former pupil, now Mrs, Keast honored the association/J, V, Collins, who again skil- by cutting the cake. {fully executed this traditional) not get in anybody's way. She TRADITIONAL IRISH symbols marked the annual St. Patrick's dance held by the Knights of Columbus, Saturday evening, Seen here trom the left are; Miss Lynn Noonan pinning a shamrock on her father, Mr. Dennis Knights of Columbus Go 'Trish' For Annual St. Patrick's Dance Irish colleens, shamrocks and shillelaghs were predominant at the Knights of Columbus annual St. Patrick's dance held Satur- day evening in the Knights of Columbus Hall. More than 130 members and their friends, upon entering the hall, were given shamrocks by Miss Lynn Noonan and Miss Deborah Noonan, dressed in tra- ditional Irish costumes, The music was supplied by Bernard Tierney and his band, with Irish tunes enticing couples to the dance floor. Vincent Vasey, Mr. and Mrs. Mrs. Louis Hughes, Mr. Mrs. Rober others, During intermission, Mr. Jo- seph Hiddink, Whitby, many numbers on the organ, in- cluding "Peggy O'Neil', "Mc- Namara"s Band", 'When Irish Eyes Are Smiling' and others. Many joined in singing the), Ted Reinders, Mr, Robert Mac- Donald, Miss Mary Maher, Mr. and Mrs. James Gorman, Mr. and Mrs, Neal Boyle, Mr, and and) t Gannon and many) por pHE BIRTHDAY played and his daughter, Miss De- borah Noonan, The two girls greeted each guest with a shamrock, --Oshawa Times Photo Noonan, Mr. Leo Gallag- her, Mr, Arthur O'Hare, Mr. James Noonan, chair- man of dance committee THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW | Yesterday's fine planetary in- fluences continue, so you should| have clear sailing along prac- tically all fronts. Business mat- ters and dealings with superiors and others of influence who could help to advance your aims are especially favored. FISH STEAKS CREOLE (Use halibut, salmon, cod, swordfish or haddock) Ibs. fish steak, cut 1'" thick sweet green pepper peeled small onion stalk celery % peeled section garlic 3 tbsp. butter or margarine 1% c. solid-pack tomato, drained and mashed 1% tsp. sal ¥% tsp. pepper c, seasoned bread crumbs ¥% c, tomato juice drained from the canned solid- 2 i 1 1 If tomorrow is your birthday,| jyour horoscope predicts some interesting challenges in the year ahead--especially in thé field of employment, You. will make progress along these lines but there will be periods when 1 These traditional birthday sup-| idance. pers have always been graced) Mr. Ward said Grace after ~ # many prominent citizens. | which a wide range of tempt- is year was no exception.jing dishes, provided by mem- Among the guests, seated at a and friends of the forint beautifully decorated tables|tion, was served buffet style. were the Reverend and Mrs.| The festive table decorations Frank H. Ward of Westmountiof gumdrop trees and dolls in et begs Mr. Ha co) dlcrinoline dresses, created by 'ascoe, a former principal of/Mrs. Fred Smith and Mrs, Westmount School and Mrs. Pas-|Charles Heath, introduced the! coe; Mrs. F .H. Ross, wife of | graceful atmosphere of the gay, Mr. Ross, principal of West-|old, horse-and-buggy days, A seg School; ae ne " er novel mpuch was sree sd " uch, area _ vice-presiden cipes from an o C00) 100 Home and School Council; Mr.|compiled by the members of the T. J, Heath, Inspector of Public/first North Oshawa Home and| mag and Mrs, Heath and Mr. |Se hool Club in the 1920's, which D. Thomas, representing the|were placed beside each table aoad of Education. |setting. Authentic costumes of bygone| The supper was convened by days, worn by the executive|Mrs. Ralph Boneham, president members, made a perfect set-jof the association and by Mrs. ting for the guest speaker, Mr. Ithanked 'the me ate porgens Thomas Bouckley, His remark-|thanke e members. and par- able collection of pictures and| jents who worked so hard to slides showed Oshawa as it er For the evening a great suc- a hundred years ago and how)Cess: this city had grown during the|-- past century. Mr. Bouckley told| they are probably brothers, smell argument, because they sure do--but children learn a great deal from having pets They also develop a sense of responsibility when they are given a chance to care for liv- ing creatures, I hope your Mom will reconsider and I also hope * that she doesn't get mad at me for putting her in one heck of a spot. Dear Ann Landers: My busi- ness (construction) took a turn for the worse. I found myself unable to finance my freshman daughter's education for the re- APRIL BRIDE April 24 has been set as the weding day of Miss jor third date? I can't help you with thehim a cup of coffee? Should 1 offer Customs vary according to the country and I don't want to frighten a young man away with too much, or too little, at- tention. Thank you. -- San Fran Dear San: A young man ap- preciates it if the young woman is ready when he arrives. If he shows up early, member of the family to greet him and visit until you appear. ask another But speed it up, Toots. He did not come to your home to chat with your Aunt Tillie. Skip the coffee, and be on your way. Margaret Vos and Mr. Rob- ert D., Carnegie whose en- 4 nt is to- day. The bride-to-be, daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs, Walter Vos of Picton, graduated from the Oshawa General Hospital School of Nursing in 1962 and is a member of the . hospital's operating room staff. Her fiance, son of Mr. and Mrs. R. J. Car- maining two quarters of the year. I asked my married daugh-| jter (whose education I paid for)| {to loan me the money to put) |her sister through. This mar-| ried daughter now earns $5, 300 | a year teaching. Her husband) makes $8,500 a year. They have) no children and no debts, Her answer shocked me. She| familiar Irish tunes. seriously doubt it. Bear pack guests and parents how Osh-| SOCIAL NOTICES negie of Port Perry, is a said, "If you can't afford to For All Your "Bridal Shoes" (Tinted Free) CHOOSE DANCEY'S DOWNTOWN OSHAWA in mind -- especially in April, late May, mid-July, early) September and throughout De- cember, Some delays and dis- jappointments are quite possible jduring these periods; also feel-|hutter until color turns, Add to- _. ings of restlessness at seeming/mato, salt and pepper, simmer ~ [lack of accomplishment or irri-/5 min., then spread over fish. jtation with the orders 'of " i ["higher-ups," and you may Top with crumbs mixed with want to chuck everything and remaining butter, melted. Place )Start all over again. It would in moderate oven, 375 degrees be inadvisable. F, When half done ,pour tomato Even though 1965 will test juice into pan to prevent over- your mettle, keep plugging. ' . |Your efforts will be appreciated -- 1 nt ran ln jand will be gratifyingly reward- let allow 35 min CPR OPOW I: led early in 1966. Financially, {t should be SINUSITIS Nervous Stomach a |good year, with notably out- |standing periods for making) Ronald W. Bilsky,p.c. CHIROPRACTOR gains indicated during the first 100 King St. E., 728-5156 | three weeks of May, between keep Ramona in school let her go to work." When I was growing up we) were taught to share and help) Lay fish in well-oiled low, baking dish or on baking plat- ter that can go-to-table. Fine- chop green pepper, onion, cel- ery and garlic saute in 2 tbsp, awa became the industrial pad it is today. Lacing his remarks) with humor, Mr. Bouckley made| yr, his talk entertaining as well as pjcton, educational. In bringing greetings member of the teaching staff of Queen's University from which he graduated in 1962. Later in the evening, Mr. James Noonan, dance chairman Mr, and Mrs, Anthony Merin-jand his committee assisted in pe. Mr. and Mrs. Frankjserving refreshments. The lucky hine, Mr. Daniel Riordan, Miss/door prize was won by Mr. Betty Puskas, Mr. Mink Coats -- Hair Styles Belong To Special Occasions By JEAN SHARP TORONTO (CP)--The woman of taste wouldn't wear a mink coat to carry out the garbage} or for a trip to the grocery store. But while the right clothing for the right occasion is recog- nized as important, a New York hair stylist says some women are unaware that it's equally important that their hairdo should suit them and the occasion as well. Richard Hendler, a free-lance stylist for television perform- ers, talked about hair while in Toronto for the Allied Beauty Association show. His main advice is to choose your hairdresser carefully and then put your hair trustfully in his hands. One reason is that despite study with a mirror no woman really knows what she looks like. A well ~ trained hairdresser learns to gauge face shapes and effects, although if he's a good psychologist he won't tell you why he's combing your hair a certain way. For example, some fullness in a hair style can make a thin face appear wider. A close hairdo will help slim a broad face. Normally one side of your face is fuller than the other, so 'that if you have a swept hairdo the sleek side iasaeel be on your fuller side OVAL PREFERRED If, however, you are the lucky owner of a heart-shaped face you can wear almost any style because the ideal total effect is to make the face appear oval Among those seen dancing were: Mr. and Mrs. John Fox, 10% DISCOUNT IF YOU BRING THIS AD ENGAGEMENT and Mrs, Walter Vos,| Ontario, wish to an.| \nounce the engagement of their from|daughter, Margaret, of Oshawa,| the Board of Education, Mr.|to Robert D. Carnegie, son of T. D. Thomas invited parents|Mr. and Mrs. R, J. Carnegie, | to sit in at some board meet-|Port Perry. The wedding 1s to] ings. This invitation wasjtake place on Saturday, April] repeated by Mr. T. J. Heath,/24, 1965, at 7.00 p.m. in the who went on to say that parents|/Hebron Christian Reforn:ed were always welcome at board|Church, Whitby. | meetings where they could find) aki kieran | out first hand what was being! ENGAGEMENT | done for children's education in) Mr and Mrs, Frank Shew- ring, Taunton, wish to an- Oshawa. In the absence of Mr. F, H.{nounce the engagement of their |Ross, Mr. Robert Russell, ajniece, Susan Georgena Shipp, lteacher of Westmount School|daughter of Mr. and Mrs. greeted the parents and com-|George Shipp, Clinton, to Nel- jmented on the great work done|son Keith Fice, son of Mr, and |by this Home and Schoo] Asso- |Mrs, Nelson Fice, Taunton. The ciation. |wedding is to take place on Sat-) Mrs. R. H. DeMille read ex-|urday, May 15, 1965, at 3.00} cerpts from an _old i scrapookip.m. i in Zion United Church. | | One is using hair spray prop- erly--holding the spray can far jenough away from your head. Another is by feathering your hair, a mild form of back comb- ing. 'Done properly, it has no| bad effect on your hair, and you! should still be able to run al comb through it without pulling} hair out. Hold your hair at right| angles to hour head. Then start! at the base and with either a brush or comb very lightly push the hair down. It should be the same length when you've fin-| ished as it was when you started." WRAP IT UP If neither of these preserva- tives works, Mr. Hendler says, wrap your hair in tissue and put a hair net over it before! you go to bed, Both Mr, Hendler and Evelyn| Hathaway, co - owner of the Bruno schools for hair design, suggest trying on wigs if you are thinking of a complete hair- | color change. They can give| you a good idea of the startling effect a change of color can have on your skin tones. mid-August and mid-September and late October. You should also do well in November, De- cember and February if you avoid extravagance before then and have some cash re- serves which could help you jtake advantage of some inter- jesting opportunities for further expansion, Your personal affairs are also |sederoushy aspected, with stim- |ulating social activities prom- ised in July, September, De- |cember and January; chances to trave].in September and De- cember; and, for the single, new romance and - or marriage in July or August. Victoria LTB Lodge "Generally, reds will add a Marks Birthday little warmth," says Mr, Hen-| Tables decorated with sham-| dler. "Blonde shades are rocks, potatoes, hats and paper harsher to skin tones." pigs formed the setting for the "Your skin tones change as 59th birthday banquet held Fri- you grow older," Mrs, Hatha-|day evening for Victoria Loyal way says. "If you are coloring|True Blue Lodge, No. 55. greying hair you should go| Head table guests, all past- lighter, not darker." jmistresses, were: Cora Gard- As a rule of thumb for choos-jner, Beatrice Hurst, Diane ing hair styles to suit your age,|Cowle, Ruth Gatchell, Alice she says: 'When you're a/Short, Mary Thompson and youngster, youth will work in|Worshipful Mistress "Mabel your favor and you can wear Blow. almost any style. When you're) Past Mistress Susan Spencer 25 to 35, whether you're a ca-jand her committee served an en- Features apart, you should/peer woman or a homemaker,|joyable meal. District Deputy choose your hair style on the/yoy should recognize that you|Grand Master Willard Spencer, basis of the life you lead, your) jaye gone beyond really young) Past Master Milton Bateman personality, the clothes YOUlstyles, such as shoulder-length|and Past Mistress Beatrice wear and the sort of occasion|yair, 'Try an upline or the cur-|Hurst addressed the members you want the hairdo for. rent trend, a short, adaptable|and guests. Mr. Hendler \says You)ctyie, From 35 up, wear an up-| A program was provided by| shouldn't choose a style simply| tine or a close, head-hugging ef-/Mrs, Alice Godfrey and her tal-| because it's fashionable or looks/reot which can either lend alented group, followed by danc-| good on someone else. |youthful or sophisticated look."'|ing. "A woman will see a style on someone else and decide this is} what she'd like to wear whether it's good for her or not. "Most people today want a simple, smart hair style. Think of your hair style as you would) a mink coat. When is it suit-) able?" If you want a special hairdo for a special occasion ask your hairdresser to show you how to comb it so you can turn it into! something simpler the next day. | You can preserve any hairdo} three ways, Mr. Hendler says. List Your HOME with BILL HORNER Re-Sale Home Expert "PAST PERFORMANCE" PROVEN 728-5157 ACTIVE Realty Lid. 48 Simcoe St. S., Oshawa Re WHERE SMART WOMEN SHOP Spring's fresh new look in soft "Cotton and Lace" LEFT, Bross buttons. Cowl neck crepe blowse. Belted bock panel. Pink, blue. 5-13, RIGHT. Chelsea collar. 2 rows of buttons. Sheath skirt. Pink, blue. 10-18. GAS DRYER! SEE THE FABULOUS "THOR" Gas Dryer udev a | YOU PAY 7 07 WEEKLY viet ON LY On Your Gas Bill FREE Cannon Bath Towels or Wool Blanket with every purchase. 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