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. WEDDING ALBUM A record for your Wedding Album is provided by The Oshawa Times Woman's Page. Forms are available at The - Oshawa Times office. Early publication of this wedding itated by submitting the completed form and ie bride to the Women's Editor as soon as < record is fa - a picture of | possible after the ceremony. - names of out-of-town guests _ social editor either before or You are asked to submit the attending the wedding to the the day after the wedding. "bodice and a slim skirt gath- -ered softly at the waist. Her 'shirred se dress held a bouffant shoulder- a 'white orchid surrounded by : white carnations, of honor was the 'bride's sister, Miss Janice Bird, Brooklin, and the bridesmaid : bridegroom, They -were dressed alike in emerald green chiffon velvet styled the same as the bride's. Self roses held their short veils and they 'carried bouquets of white and ted variegated carnations. egroom's brother, Mr. Peter Grant, Don Mills, was| the best man and the bride's brother, Mr, Neal Bird, Brook- lin, was the usher. The reception was held at Oshawa, where received wedding ring head- | .|wearing a misty pink peau de MRS, G, H. GRANT ruby chiffon velvet with a cor- sage of white carnations. The bridegroom's mother assisted soie suit with an orchid cor- Sage. As the couple left on their honeymoon the bride was wear- ing a gold wool suit trimmed with matching peau de soie pip- ing. A matching hat and cor- sage of bronze rosebuds com- pleted her ensemble. Mr. and Mrs. Grant will make their first poms in St. Johns, Newfound- Guests. were present at the wedding from Toronto, Don Adelaide -the bride's mother : wearing a suit of Mills, Huntsville, Peterborough, THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW. Very little can go wrong when you have loyal backers to aid you in overcoming personal ob- stacles -- as you have now. Maintain the contacts that have value, morally as well as ma- terially. In your turn, have the proper compassion for those who are troubled. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that, as of now, you are in a fine period in which to advance job interests in such a_ worthwhile manner as to not only merit the jattention of superiors, but to bring you increased profits. In fact, where finances are con- cerned, your outlook is more Pleasing than it may have been for some time and, if you grasp) all the opportunities available between now and the end of March, you should make still further strides along these lines in late September, late October and late December, Other good riods for work interests: mid- ay, late October, early No- vember and January. Personal affairs are also gov- erned by fine influences, so look for harmony in domestic and social relationships; also inter- mance is concerned, Best periods along these lines; the current month, late May, late June and late July. Do not take September or October romances too seriously, however. Look for a possible change in your home environment in July; chances to travel in July, September and next December. A child born on this day will be endowed with great self- reliance and integrity; will also be creatively inclined. Riddled By Pain Girl Finds Relief In Hidden Talent By ROBERTA ROESCH We all have spells of wishing that we could discover a talent for a wonderful new opportun- 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesdsy, Januery 12, 1965 CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD. If you have a retarded child and one or more other children who are normal, you have some problems with the normal chil- dren, Your heart strings may be so tightly wrapped up con- cerning the handicapped child and you may give so much of your time and attention to him, that the other children will feel neglected. ia actually may be neglected. Then you have the problem of the attitudes and relationships of these normal children toward the retarded child. Are they ashamed of him? Do they suffer because of what other children feel and think of him? Do you yourself suffer, especially if your retarded child is so retarded that his handicap is obvious to everybody? SOME QUESTIONS How may you bring yourself to accept this child and not feel you must constantly explain his condition to your friends and the playmates of your children? How may you encourage your other children to understand him and accept him as he is? How may these other children aid their friends to understand this handicapped child, treat him kindly, and help him to feel as comfrotable as possible? If you are the parent of a severely handicapped child, your first problem is to accept him as he is and resolve to help him develop as far as he is able. Then take the other children into your confidence, in private, Retarded Child Affects Relationship To Others the handica ere is a caution. Both you and your normal children may sometimes be too protective of this handicapped child and do much for him that he could do for himself. Try to help these other chil- dren to see it is no fault of this reterded child that he is handi- capped, that this happens to other children in lots of fami- lies. If you know this retarded child was born "that way," suf- fered from birth injuries, or be- came retarded from some acci- dent or serious illness, tell these facts to the other children. Then thev will understand him better and will be able to explain such matters to their playmates. If your doctor or a specialist has not been able to explain why he is retarded, you will also tell this to the other children. UNDERSTANDING HELP In all sorts of ways, endeavor to show these other children how they can helped the handi- capped brother or sister to do what he is able teydo and to celebrate successes with him. For example, if he's eight years old and can do no better than a chiid five, help the other chil- dren grow aware of this fact. Expect no more of him, but be happy when he does as well as a five-year-old would. Having got this appreciation of him, they will cause their playmates to appreciate him in like man- ner. In the meantime, parents of child need to Brooklin, Oshawa and Uxbridge. Diotte-Allison ity and the opening of a new d keep in mind the normal child or children in the family, their need of love and appreciation as precious persons and their need of opportunities for best de- velopment. oor, and do your best to help them But while we wish for this/accept him as he is. Try to help magic and envy people whojthem see his limitations, what have it, many of us don't al-jhe can do and what he cannot ways realize that very often|do, to be kind to him and not those with talent discovered the|be ashamed of him. roots of their ability purely by ANN LANDERS "roller" top hair for flatter- hair in place for sleeping ing fullness, taping neckline comfort and to avoid too much curl. Second, bangs are taped firmly in place-- to make sure they come out exactly the way you want FOLLOW THE photos for a pretty hair style. First, SOCIAL & PERSON Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Editor Telephone 723 - 3474 for Women's Department accident. A crisis started them digging--and then they took it from there, developing it in the best way they could and aiming tape to set it at night. ers. The matron of honor, Mrs. Legion Hall, Bowmanville. The MRS, HENRY DIOTTE A reception followed in the BOMBAY RESIDENT fect example of someone called my attention to talented Nalini Mehta who lives in Bombay, India. ent she didn't know about, Na- lini, a young woman in her Jate|that you will print my letter 20s whose name should really|but I want to have my say, be Courage, successfully devel-janyway. .joped an interesting and far- reaching career. for only the best. Recently I came across a per- this when After she found she had a tal- no easy tasks. She was Teenagers, Ta You told the mother "Ab Nature Plays Tricks Dear Ann Landers: 1 doubt) ra ra Recently the mother of a ne @ creates|school senior wrote to sa e beautiful wooden dolls that are|hoy didn't have much money to authentic miniatures of the glit-\spend so 'he asked his girl over tering performers and charac-\severa] evenings a week to ters in India's traditional Kath-|wateh TV. His mother told him akali, a classical dance drama.|he could have the girl over only For Nalini, however, findingli¢ he invited another couple and developing a@ talent thaticince no one else was going to would give her opportunityipe home. were the: victim of a disabling acci- dent in a plaster cast tron neck|solutely no dice," and added, ke Note @ os man race. Nature doesn't care if you're out of high school, or if you can provide financially for a family, or if you care enough about each other to want to spend your lives to- gether. Chew on this for a while, Senior Boy. ; Dear Ann Landers: Please settle something, once and for all. Is it right or wrong to correct a person who makes a grammatica) error or mispro- nuunces a word? Last night I corrected a ffiend who said she was finding it difficult to be ORIENTATED Among those entertaining for Mrs. George Grant (nee Nancy Bird) prior to her marriage in St. Bonaventure Roman Catho- lic Church, Don Mills, were: Mrs. Donald Lillow, Oshawa, a shower; Mrs. Donald Stutt and Mrs. Bruce Witherly were co- hostesses at a _ miscellaneous shower; Mrs. Alfred Wilson and Mrs. Ronald McKinzey, a mis- cellaneous shower; Mrs. R. W. Braddock, Mrs. R. Androchuck and Mrs. McNab were co- hostesses at a shower at the Donalda Club, Don Mills; Mrs. Thomas Claire, Hyntsville, a shower; Mrs, John MacDuff, Whitby, a shower; Mrs. William Grant, mother of the future bridegroom, gave an introduc- tory tea at her home in Don Mills; and Mrs. Mervyn Bird, mother of the bride-to-be, enter- tained at a trousseau tea in her honor at their home, Nancydale Trainer was in charge of the worship service. The French conversation group of the University Women's Club of Oshawa and District met Monday evening at the home of Mrs. Donald H. Moore, Alexandra street, Tonight at the first meeting in 1965 for the University Women's Club, Mr. George L. Roberts, Principal of McLaugh- lin Collegiate, will address the club on the subject 'Institu- tions of Higher Learning for Oshawa." . St. Andrew's Society held a stag celebration of Burns' Night in the Fleetwood Room of the! 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Still suf-|'What good do you think an- pos va i Bay gs of her|other couple will do?' ordeal, she is forced to live a et the feeling yo n't restricted and pain-ridden ex: uel tiewaaare""We wat ok istence. lsex fiends, you know, Chew on \this one for a while Ann \Landers and give American "But I wanted to do some i |thing useful with my life,"? she on oe. somenng-= bride's mother received in a turquoise brocade sheath and jacket with matching accesso- ries and a corsage of white car- regres The bridegroom's moth- er, assisting, was in a black J yy French crepe dress with velvet WAKTER TO BS USEFUl, hat trimmed with white and a red rose corsage. dent Laurie Irving sang a selec- tion of songs by Burns and Messrs. Archie Taylor and Douglas Robertson gave read- ings. The informal, smoking concert, rounded out with, com- munity singing, was voted a big success. The only item of busi- ness di d was the society's to a certain situation. I said,|Farms, Brooklin. "You mean ORIENTED, don't you?" She replied icily, 'Never mind what I said. You know what I mean; don't you?"' She then gave me the dirtiest look I ever saw. I have always felt correcting tions, Relief even occurred in cases of long standing, and most im- portant of all, results were so that this impr was maintained over a period of John Logan, Toronto, was American Beauty peau de soie and the other attendants, Mrs. Gary Conway, Bowmanville and Miss Diane Diotte, Ottawa, wore camellia pink, Their full-length gowns were styled with chapel sleeves, bouffant backs and Mrs, Donald Cullen, president of the Kinette Club of Oshawa, initiated nine new members at its recent meeting in the Fleet- wood Room of the Hotel Genosha, The new members ~nenamaren, ding band headdresses of pleat- ed peau de soie with veiling matched their gowns and they nations. The flower girls, Miss Cindy Lou Luck, Bowmanville, and Miss Louise , Oshawa, wore petal pink, 'ith matching headdresses and carried nose- gays of white carnations, Mr. Bernard Diotte, Fairport Beach, was the best man and ushering were Mr, Marcel! Diotte, Oshawa, and Mr. Robert Allison, Bowmanville. As the couple left on their petals to compliment her cor- sage of pink roses. Mr. and Mrs, Diotte are resid. ing at 63 Lambs Lane, Bowman- ville, Guests were present from Montreal, Ottawa, Dalkeith, To- ronto, Lindsay, Nobleton, Peter- borough, Ajax, Kingston, Fair- port Beach, and Richmond Hill. said, while in New York a few months ago for special medical The answer to what it could for her niece -- was created purely to give Nalini something to do and divert her mind from her pain. After she realized her talent for doll-making, though, Nalini enrolled as soon as she could in classes given by the All-India agers that [ don't know, Because: I was one myself at of rose and pink organza|be came surprisingly, however,|And I raised one. And I have during one of her bed-ridden|talked to about a half million periods, That was when Nalinilteen-agers from the platforms discovered her talent for mak-jof hundreds of high schools dolls. The first doll--a rag one|from Seattle to White Plains. I've. been reading letters from you teen-agers for almost ten years -- intimate, straight from the shoulder letters about prob- lems. many of you are unable to discuss with your parents T love you kids and I don' , 0 ¢ Dear Boy: You can't tell me wedding trip, the bride waslattention, 'even though I didn't;much about American teen- wearing a two-piece rose wool|/know what it could be." carried cascades of white car- suit, a white fur coat and a hi a person was an act of friend- ship but maybe I am wrong. If 1 ever made such a mistake I'd certainly appreciate it if -|someone corrected me. Would it be best to allow these mistakes to go = "'un- noticed" in the interest of smoother human relations? -- THIRD EAR Dear Ear; It really depends on where and how you offer your corrections. Most people resent being corrected in the presence of others. '| Unless you can offer the crit- tlicism privately, and in a truly were Mrs. E. J. Beauchamp, Mrs. Clare Hardsand, Mrs, Stephen Hawkey, Mrs, Bruce Mackey, Mrs. Gordon Pearson, Mrs. B, C, Taylor, Mrs. David Brown, Mrs. J, B, Schill and annual Burns' Supper for mem- bers and guests to be held Jan- uary 23, Chief of Police George Rankin of Whitby was an out- of-town guest. Mrs. J, B. Sinclair. Miss Agatha Morey returned te Denver, Colorado, after spending the Christmas holiday at the-home of her parents, Mr. cod are. Sagar Morey, Verdun road. Mrs. Clayton Lee, president of the Women's Christian 'Temper- ance Union, presided at its first meeting of the new year held at Simcoe Street United Church recently. Many reports were want to see you louse your-|constructive and non-conde- selves up. I'm not against you.|scending manner, it is best to I'm for you. And this is why|allow the mistakes to go "un- I keep belting away on the/noticed." Handicrafts Board. Later, she continued develop- ing her talent and craft under Suttas - Model Rooms Obtain _ Character By Color By ELEANOR ROSS Looking through notes made at various model room displays, we find one theme stands out-- by color in the hands of experienced decor- ators than any use of fine furn- ishings and luxury detail. Col- ors ary' Rg they are warm and inviting. . As for period decor, there is a harking back to the tradi- tional, but with the stiffness and formality missing. Today's reasonably priced, ex t, well-made reproduc- tions of 18th century English fala al decorators. When modern is used, the dis- arate designs are cleve Rise into an harmonious se ting. Now that travel has become a way of life for so many Americans, the decorators in many instances have utilized this custom in their decor. There's quite a global influ- ence in one series of model rooms that is most sapere. India, China, Africa--all have representation. The various items from abroad used as furnishings are cleverly displayed to prevent a hodgepodge effect in the home. For instance, old wooden screens from India aren't just arranged as travel souvenirs. tively used to decorate a fire, place and their beautiful carv- ings make a focal point, The fireplace is part of a handsome living room that has a global theme. Above the fire- ace is a Mexican mirror, anked by carved Buddha heads, In the centre is an old Indian elephant bell, an ornate piece. The room is papered in a gold mosaic-like paper that is most interesting, Underfoot isa charming rug woven in a. soft bamboo pattern. Floor treatments in every dis- play set-up we have seen were imaginative, yet practical. We liked the floor of a room intended for a young girl, The handsome wood floor had been randomly spotted with stain then lightly rubbed with yellow paint to give a soft fur effect, Snip off a piece of the ribbed plastic doorway matting and use The screens have been imagina- it under pet feeding dishes. the guidance of Baboojt Shilpi, the honorary director of the All-India Handicrafts Boards. With his encouragement, she! began to develop her idea for creating true-to-life Kathakali character dolls, To do her best at this, Nalini made the effort to go to Kerala, where the Kathakali dance was born. Then two years ago, she started her own workshop with six people working for her. To date, the project has been so successful that her beautiful and perfect dolls were shown and sold in the Indian Pavilion at the New York World's Fair last season. Now this enterprise is at the Indian Government's Handicrafts and Handloom Shop in New York. REMINDER FOR YOU Nalini's story is a heartening reminder that opportunity can be yours, especially when you make your own by; same old string. I've heard from too many decent, lovely, intelligent teens who some-) how got off the track and wound) up in trouble, And they weren't) sex fiends, either -- just unin-| formed. | This is why I tell you kid those biological urges unde asking for instant trouble. FORTHCOMING not to overmatch yourselves Don't be so sure you can keep control, And two kids alone in a house--kids who are strongly attracted to each other -- are Nature has rigged things in faver of perpetuating the hu- heard, Mrs, Fred Williams sang solo, and Mrs, Wellington 725-1521 SOCIAL NOTICE MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs. Joseph LaPorte, Oshawa, announce the forth- coming marriage of their daughter, Bernice Anne, to Mr. Edward (Sonny) Carl Remen- ek, son of Mr. Stephen Remen- ek, Toronto, and Mrs, John Kozub, Oshawa, The ceremony is' to take place on Saturday, January 30, 1965, at 2.00 p.m, in Simcoe Street United Church, Oshawa. S r Ronald W. Bilsky, oc. Chiropractor 1f hurt on the job, osk your employer to authorize Chiro- asking". 100 King St. E, 728-5156 practic core. "It's yours for the |) | NOTICE || Repairs to all makes of Sewing or Knitting Machines, OSHAWA SEWING CENTRE 329 Simcoe St. §, 728-2391 (1) Forcing yourself to dig for your talents. 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