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THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursdey, August 20, 1964 J] CHILD GUIDANCE Eleven-Year-Old Shows No Respect For Parents By GARRY C, MYERS, Ph.D. You and I have heard some children talk in very ugly word: and ways to their parents Sometimes 'it's the child's habit- ual way; sometimes it occurs only at moments of great provo- cation. Usually such ugly words are matched in kind by one or both parents. Parents who don't wish their child to talk back to them, or talk to them in angry, ugly words and tones, should first make sure that they never speak to him in like manner. The whole problem of word- warfare between child and par- ent begins and continues be- cause of unwise and ineffectual parental management. Children learn early to re-|consistent in discipline with spect the little word no, rarely) said by parents who are fair and just, who exercise great self- control in a family atmosphere} of understanding and love. These parents rarely or never, hear disrespectful words from their children. LACKS RESPECT The following letter came}friends of his own age. from a mother in Missoum:! "We have two girls, nine and seven. He always heckles fhem and looks for trouble. He says don't know anything about boys because I had no brothers. My husband was the only child in his family too, ~ "We treat all three children the same, We live on a farm and have a happy life but not much money. Will our .son re- spect us. in later years? What can be done to help this situa- tion now?" BE CONSISTENT My reply in part: It's dis- tressing to read what your boy says to you, but I wonder if he doesn't say these ugly things when you parents are angry, too--when you may say some ugly things to him. Aim to be yourselyes and with each other. If you were in his place you possibly would feel that you vee not loved nearly as much as the younger children are and you would heckle them and tease them, too. They probably torment him. 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