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'HIS AND HERS' SWEATERS ARE QUICK TO KNIT These "His" and "Hers" pullovers are so easy. and quick to knit on big needles with mohair yarn. The big feature is the big cable trim. For more interest, this de- sign is given with the popular raglan sleeves and there is a choice of the "V" neck as illustrated or a round neck which is also given in the instructions. There are eight sizes from which to choose, size 12 through to size 14. If you would like the leaflet with these instructions, simply send a stamped, self address- ed envelope and 10 cents to the Needlecraft Department of this paper requesting MOL- ey CABLES, leaflet No. Wemen Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Editor Dial 723-3474 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, August 18, 1964 7 Points Way To By ROBERTA ROESCH limits and not beyond." These words, soundest ever to come to this desk on the always challenging subject of how much to push yourself, come from a New York |' psychiatrist, Dr, Anita Stevens, whose achievements in mental health write a tale of success, Just to mention a few of them, attractive, blonde Dr. Stevens-- often called Dr. Anita--is a cer- tifed medical psychoanalyst, New York Medical College; member of the American Psy- chiatric Association; director, division of mental health and preventive psychiatry, Pan Am- erican Medical Association; di- rector of psychiatry, National Juvenile Delinquency, and a dedicated authority on the prob- lems of depression in women. The day we went to talk to her we questioned her on the latter, CHILD GUIDANCE Areas Of Emphasis For Nursery Schools By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. The greatest need for public and_kinder- gartens is in the schoo] areas most deprived economically. Most could be done there, per- nursery schools haps through nursery schools In school districts with no public kindergartens, it might be more practical to establish public kindergartens first in the slums, These might gain the most public approval. Yet the children from two to four in the deprived areas merit first concern, The younger the child, as a rule, the closer his teacher can get to him and to his parents and the more she can influence his home for good. darbesuarsery schools and an Endergations On sanitation and health should prevail, also a free lunch and a nap period. The parents should be encour- aged to observe and participate. Thus they may learn much about cultivating health and nu- trition habits at home. Also these parents will learn ways of guiding their little chil- dren in self-amusement and in having fun with other children of their age. OFFER GOOD MUSIC These children should be ex- posed to good music from rec- ords, They need to enjoy draw- ing with pencil and crayon. And to experiment with water col- ors. Also to cut and paste and put together all sorts of scraps in ways they like. The teachers and volunteers, even the visiting mothers should continually collect all sorts of scraps for the children to play with. The mothers might find this a most fruitful source of ideas for similar projects to in- troduce at home. A very important item, eitaer in the nursery school or kinder- garten, is reading to the chil- dren. Some of these children may have never seen a beauti- ful book. The mothers could be en- listed to read to small groups of two or three children who are able to look at the pictures in the book being read from. These mothers would grow fam- iliar with the best books for this purpose. SCAN BEST BOOKS It would be wonderful if these mothers could go with a teacher and small groups of children, to the local library, if there is one (children's libraries are children at home and will eag- erly listen to the answers. The whole program, in this public nursery school or kinder- garten, will provide an atmos- phere of culture and refine- ment to which the children and their parents never had been ex- posed before. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. When our son was home from his first year of college we found cigarettes in his pock- ets. We are sure he never smoked before. We have tried to reason but to no avail. A. The fact that you searched his pockets could have done most to render your reasoning futile. I advise that you apolo- vacy and Say no more now ing or to keep it at a minimum PERSONALS questions about guiding these) gize for trespassing on his pri- about the matter, waiting for the day when he might choose of his own accord to quit smok- IN VARYING DEGREE "Depression hits when people 'come to low frustration points," she told us. "It may vary from a mild down - heartedness, or THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW A stimulating day! Much can be accomplished if you put forth your best efforts and co- joperate with business associates jand superiors. In fact, earning the good will lof superiors could put you in the jway of winning some un- jexpected benefits--and enduring ones, at that. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, you have every reason to be in your life, even though some of the blessings promised may not be immediately evident. Look for an uptrend in job and-or business matters in No- vember, December, next March most needed in slum: areas), to, see some of the best books from which to read to little children. They might be encouraged to borrow a few for home use. Why should the public nursery school. and kindergarten not have on hand a number of books the mothers could take home to read to their little children? Also these visiting mothers will learn from observing the teachers, to converse compan- ionably with little children, to answer their questions kindly, and to enjoy them. CAN PARTICIPATE Indeed, a good nursery school or kindergarten program any- areas, will aim to have every mother come to the school, not only to observe but also to par- ticipate. Nor will the fathers be ignored; the more of them who come the better. Naturally these parents will ask the teachers all sorts of Lori Ann is the one-year-old daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Glenn Balson, Goodwood ave- nue, Scarborough. Mrs. Bal- son is the former Glenda Atchison of Oshawa, Lori's grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Harvey G. Balson and Mr. and Mrs. Courtland Atchi- son, all of Oshawa. Her great- grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Robert Killen, and Mrs, Jack Balson, Hampton. Ireland Studio Oshawa | where, especially in deprived) Mrs. Edward Wetherall an daughter, King's crescent, Ajax, are vacationing in Belfast, Ire- land, Mrs. William Coe and_ her daughter, Miss. Jill Coe have returned from a three - week vacation in England where they visited Mrs, Coe's brother, Mr. Leslie Jackaman, Nottingham, and also visited. in Peterbor- ough, London, Gravesend and Clacton-on-sea. Among the guests last week at the Emerald Beach Hotel, Nassau, in the Bahamas, were Mr. and Mrs. J. A, Aldwinckle, Bonniebrae Lodge. Out-of-town guests attending the Beeston-MacGregor wedding R Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Hurn, Port Credit; Mr. and Mrs. Rob- ert Milne, London; Mrs. Dor- othy Barr, Miss Ann Barr and Miss Lynn Barr, all of Cobourg; Mr. and Mrs, Roy Burnham and Mrs. Laverne Teed, all of Scar- borough; Mr. and Mrs. Terence Train, Mrs, Helen Train, Miss Sharon Train, all of Toronto; Mr. and Mrs. Donald Piggott, Ajax; Mr. and Mrs. George Pol- lard and Miss Jill Pollard, Chatham; Mr. and Mrs. Dale Coe, Fenelon Falls; and Mr. and Mrs. William Barr, Co- bourg. Mr, and Mrs. Alfred Temple, Romford, Essex, England, have been visiting their daughter and son-in-law, Mrs. Alfred Allen, Mr. Allen and family, Grand- view street. 'While they were here, Mr. and Mrs. Allen and their guests motored to Miami, Florida and back. Mr. and Mrs. Temple are returning to Eng- land tomorrow. Mr. and Mrs. N. H. Dunford, King street east, were in To- ronto on Saturday attending the wedding of their grandson, Mr. John Barry Jackson to Miss Diane Lynn LeGear in the Ang- lican Church of the Apostles, Downsview. Also attending from Oshawa were Mr. and Mrs. R. J. Courtice, Mr. and Mrs. V. S. Cubitt and Mr. and Mrs R. H Dunsford and Karen of Lake- field. Mr. Gary_Cubitt, Oshawa, was one of the ushers for his cousin. FAST ! Treasures Later 723-3680 THEY GROW Portraits Now Will Be coebymer Qreland sw and July. 'And, where finances are concerned, a most profit- able period throughout Septem- ber and October, There is one admonition here, however. In your optimism over the jturn of events, don't splurge in |November and December. And, jabove all, don't speculate or you could offset the earlier gains. | Don't expect much along monetary lines in January or |February, either, but with |March, the picture will change. iA good trend, beginning then, | will continue gradually upward juntil the first week in July, when you will enter an excellent jcycle where your pocketbook is | concerned. : | The celestial spotlight will last Saturday in St. Gertrude's|also shine brightly upon your) oman Catholic Church were:|personal life during the next 12) |months, and you should find great happiness in domestic, social and sentimental relation- ships. In the latter case, your best periods will occur between now and late September, in late October, next May and-June. indicated between now and late September, in January, next April and May. personality. A child born on this day will be endowed with fine imagina- | tion, originality and a dynamic "The healthy woman, whether at home or at work, shou'd set her own limits. She shouldn't let herself be pushed, but should push herself to reach her own among the Society for the Prevention of optimistic about this new year Opportunities for travel are|z A New York Psychiatrist Mental Health feeling of indifference, toa de- spair beyond hope, "Usually the experience of psychiatrists in private practice shows that many cases of mild depressions are not recognized. This is particularly true if they assume the form of a period of fatigue or brief periods of de- --* lasting for only a few s,"? "How does depression affect the working woman?" we asked. "One of the things that hits her is the reality of depression," Dr, Stevens answered, "This often comes when she's making every effort but still finds her work isn't going well. "Working with difficult peo- ple is another factor that wears and tears her nerves and causes degrees of depression, FRUSTRATION LOW "At the same time, her home situation can put her in a po- sition where her frustration point is low," Dr, Stevens adds. "In this case, the depression is usually caused by five things: (1) lack of help; (2) lack of co- operation; (3) lack of money; (4) lack of clothes; (5) lack of time." "Since most of us face these things at times and have our spells of depression," we asked "how do we know when we need to seek help?" "When depression hits too fre- quently and too constantly," Dr. Stevens said, "and when your own reasoning powers fail." "And how -- in strictly lay- men's language--can a woman, who's normally able to cope with things, keep herself from getting into this serious and un- happy state?" we asked. "By stopping when she gets overtaxed and overtired," Dr. Stevens said, "and by not push- ing herself or letting herself be pushed beyond her limits. "As I said in the beginning, in a job or anywhere else, do the very best you can within your own limitations," SOCIAL NOTICES ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. Gene Bosley wish to announce the engage- ment of their P. Jean, to ate Bate dew, "gon of Mr. and Mrs. John Gow, all of Oshawa. The wedding is to take place on Saturday, Septem- ber 12, 1964, at 2.00 p.m., in Cedardale United Church. MARRIAGE The marriage is announced of Viola Marguerite Jennings, Sar- nia, to John Wilkins Sigsworcth, Oshawa. The wedding took place on Wednesday, August 5, 1964 at 1.00 p.m. in the parsonage of the Free Methodist Church, Sarnia, with the Reverend Crawford Cowherd officiating. INDELIBLY MARKED LONDON (CP)--The govern- If you are planning to spend a lot of time trudging around the New York World's Fair taking in the sights, here is a shoe that's ideal for those occasions, as CHIC AND COMFORTABLE it is both smart and easy on the feet. Golo designed the oxford which is made of soft plush suede and patent leath- er. It has a one eyelet tie and low, stacked leather heel. --By Tracy Adrian To Be A Court A few weeks ago we reported on women as court reporters and since that time many read- ers have asked, '"'How do I get my start?" To get the answer we went out and talked to court report- ers. And one reporter we inter- viewed was attractive, vibrant Frances Adler who operates her own firm of free lance court reporters in a renovated town house in Newark, N.J. "How did you get your start?" we asked, "Actually by accident," Miss Addler answered, "I began my working life as a secretary in a horticultural association, when I had to leave high school to work. Later I found myself do- ing publicity and public rela- tions chores. I might have con- tinued in that field, too, but an illness forced me to give it up. "Then when I recovered and was ready to take another job, a judge whom I knew called me and told me he needed a re- placement for a court reporter in a hurry. DID HER BEST "At the time, I knew I wasn't adequate for the task since my shorthand skill was far below the 200 words per minute re- quired to cope with court room testimony. But I did my best. And other assignments fol- lowed." With that accidental begin- ning, Miss Adler moved up as a free lance court reporter, "hiring out" for special assign- ments, From the first she enrolled in courses to improve her tech- nical skills. Then she picked up more background by associat- ing with other court reporters to learn what she could from them. . Shorthand Speed Must Be 200 Reporter Later, as her reputation grew, she began to get more report- ing than she could possibly han- die by herself, so she sought the help of another person. Then gradually she increased her help till she reached her pres- ent status--president and chief administrator of her own court reporters firm with a staff of 5. CLIENTS EXCEED 200 Her clients number more than 200; including lawyers, judges or anyone else requiring verba- tim records of testimony given in or out of court. "When I started out," Miss Adler says in summing up her career, "a woman court re- porter was a great rarity, But today a woman with good tech- nical skills who is smart and willing to work hard and long can have a brilliant career. "Tt has meant lots of hard work, of course," she said. "But being a court reporter brought me into contact with many inter- esting people and it has given me the means to live well. "And all the while I've felt that I was doing something im- portant and' making a vital con- tribution to our judicial pro- cesses." Electrolysis | Removes warts, moles and superfluous hair. Over 15 Yeors' Experience MARIE MURDUFF will be in Oshawa gt the Genosha Hotel, August 17, 18, 19 PHONE 723-4641 For appointment on these detes ment should make it more dif- ficult for teen-agers to be ta- tooed, says Dr. Brian Russell of the London Hospital. In an article in the British Medical Journal he says: "Too many teen-agers are tatooed on im- pulse and soon change their minds, so a cooling-off period should be compulsory before the tatoo is made." LADIES! No Baby Sitter, No Car Fare MR. BERNARD Of Leading Toronto Salons Ronald W. Bilsky, D.C. CHIROPRACTOR 1 Spinal Dise Injuries Hay Fever || 100 King St, E. 728-5156 Experienced Hair Stylist HOME APPOINTMENTS PHONE AFTER 9 P.M. 728-9317 DEMONSTRATION Thursday, August COUPON COUPON This coupon entitles the Good Only Thurs. 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