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THE OSHAWA PSS | CHILD GUIDANCE Age Differences Cause Trouble With Children By GARRY MYERS, Ph.D. Normally, twins under 10 or \12 are better playmates of each 'other than. two children of the isame family several years apart in ages. The greater the lage difference in children, the |poorer mutual playmates they jare, as a rule. | A common problem, when the | youngest is from three to six iyears of age, is that he may |want the older brother or sis- iter to play with him, "Make \Judy play with me,' is what |his. mother may often hear. |Rarely will she hear a like ap- |peal from the older brother or |sister. Unfortunately, the mother 'may so command, But Judy) jmay have other things to do! jand may have planned to have fun with a playmate of: her own, lage. There is no better way than/ this. to induce dislike of the) younger by the older, and to in-| flame the jealousy which al-| ready exists. The older child, who is expected to amuse the 'younger at his beck and call, is hampered in her normal so- cial fun, The younger has less jurge to amuse himself or seek playmates of his own age. OLDER CHILD CAN HELP Of course, it's wonderful when the older child chooses some- times, of his own free will and accord, to have some fun with the younger--reading to him, showing him how to make things and do things for self- amusement, and to have fun with others of his age. Often the older child can give the younger some good tips on getting along with other chil- dren and on being a good play- mate with contemporaries. The older brother or sister also can teach the younger many kinds of games, though they hardly will be good con- testants long. Rarely will the youngster be able to win with the older half of the time. An older brother or sister, MARRIED RECENTLY --Aldsworth Photography Thompson-McFadyen Nuptials Solemnized In Christ Memorial Christ Memorial (Anglican)| centered with a cluster of happi- ness and pink sensation roses. - ene tne neting tx. 999) Her bridal attendants, Mrs. marriage recently of Margaret! john Finiey and Miss Diane Earle McFadyen, daughter of|Sturgis wore two-piece lace Mr. and Mrs. Norman S./lace sheath gowns featuring McFadyen to 'Ronald David)bateau necklines and short Thompson, son of Mr. and Mrs.|sleeves. Their picture hats were Roy Thompson, Toronto. lof matching lace. They carried The Venerable H. D. Cleven-/old fashioned arm bouquets with don officiated. garlands of pale pink and The bride, given in marriage)mauve asters and clusters of by her father, wore a sheath)wine red gladious florets and gown of embroidered Venetian|roses with accents of blue sum- lace and organza, fashioned with) mer statice. @ scoop neckline and lily-point| The best man was Mr. Den-| over five or six. may help a sleeves enhancing a detachable|nis Anderson, Toronto, and the younger one to be more self- organza train. Her headdress|ushers were Mr. Warren Clark,|-ejiant and do-more things for was a double crown of lace and/Oshawa,, and Mr. Garnet/nimself and to act his age. If, ee en tiae beaisich Penaess Mr. Stuart Isles, both to, example, the younger pe ulle illusion. | , eck id . carried a cascade bouquet with} The reception was held at tit dtheaiy king a an interrupted garland of pink) Adelaide House following the an older brother or sister might chiffon roses and ivy strands! wedding. 'lao tbe that anyboay else to ANN LANDERS am speech. my heart pounds and I get indi- gestion. Sometimes I have to go 'to the ladies room and loosen my clothing. Tell me please jhow to get confidence in my- iself. I'm losing weight and not \feeling well. -- INADEQUATE WIFE. Dear Wife: See a doctor and \get a complete physical check- up. If there is nothing organ- No -- Is Enough For Predatory Male Dear Landers: I am. 4\hq to do my. best to help him. ically' wrong with you, you Ann | 18, and I hope you. will not! : ix I'am bragging when I tell) 1m terrified when we meet 11:1 then accept that fact that you I am beautiful. If God had|new people. Arnie keeps telling) yoy have an emotional problem. | given me a little less beauty)me to relax, but I can't. I'm The discomfort you describe} and a few more brains I would'so afraid of saying the. wrong may well be symptoms of anxi-) be a lot better off. thing and hurting Arnie's ety. ; Since I was 15 I have been|chances that I sit like a dunce A professional can help you @ut-talked and out-manoeuvred|and don't talk at all. learn what you are afraid of by at least a half dozen smooth- Whenever we are in 4 group'and how to deal with your fear. I have the most delightful memory of our eldest son, while in high school and college, ex- 'plaining things to his brother, \nine-years younger. Later, I remember hearing jthem talk together for hours on iseientific and philosophical sub- jects after each had won ad- \vanced degrees. | Their David - and - Jonathan jcompanionship continued until jthe. younger son and his. wife |perished in an airplane tragedy. | There also grew up an ideal \relationship between the young- jest boy and his sister, seven lyears older. I don't recall a |single instance of her complaint about his table manners or of his being a nuisance when her own friends came to visit. | These happy memories stand out in contrast to the accounts I read of the teen-age sister who is constantly mortified over the habits of a younger brother or sister, and. of the jealousies} between them that often last a' lifetime. ; 1 Ian many a family, violent jealousies often arise in an older toward a much younger child. While these may be in- evitable, they don't always con- tinue. It is wonderful when they wane and disappear, or are dis-__ placed by fond companionship. Such often does happen. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. We usually prefer homes for young children surrounded| by wide - open spaces, ar hey' face fewer traffic hazards. May such places offer more) hazards from undesirable sex habits and experimenting? A. Yes -- especially in sum- mer, when children incline to wander off out of the view of adults. START CHAIN REACTION FAIRFA,X Va. (AP) -- Two buses collided in heavy traffic on a rain-slick highway Sunday night and started a chain reac-|to be severe. The acci | ¥ HAPPY FIRST BIRTHDAY This bright little girl cele- brating her first birthday is Kathryn Loni (Kathy) Kellar, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William A. Kellar, Sun Valley court. Her proud grand- WIFE PRESERVE Next time you make an apron, sew a terrycloth hand towel into the band, too, You'll never be without a towel for wiping hands or spills. dent in- tion series of crashes that sent|volved eight moving cars, 'two 39 persons to hospitals. Most of; parked autos and two Ohio Val-| the injuries were reported not'ley Bus Lines buses. CES A Sit DY YOU < The husband's propose! that he take two weeks off to go fishing with the 'boys' was getting little sympathy from his wife when he lamented: "All 1 do is work, work, work . . . like @ horse, | heven't hed a vacation in years." "And since when," replied his spouse, "does o horse take « vaca- tion?" All joking aside it wasn't too long age when women had to work like horses to keep their family's cloth- ing clean, But what a differen? story it is today with the modern dry cleaner on the scene. Now all the homemaker has to do is pick BOB EAKINS her phone to have garments ed up and made spotlessly in. Our own number is listed parents John Mrs. allo are' Mr. and Mrs. M. Black and Mr. and William Russell Kellar, { Oshawa, Her great - grandmother is Mrs. Clarence Gillard, Oshawa Ireland Studio RII GMI ARE corsage. Sub-Lieutenam and Mrs. Croft will reside in Halifax. Guests at the wedding in- eluded Mr. and Mrs. Stanley. wie Belfast, Ireland; Mrs. Patrica Payne, John Croft Wed In Christ Memorial Church it' 'eas ean ts The best man was Sub-Lieu-/Tigh, Birmingham, Michigan; tenant Michael Brett, Halifax, and many guests from Hamil- and the ushers were Dr. Andrew | '0 Simone and Mr. Arthur Croft, both of Toronto. For the reception held at the. Piccadilly Room, Hotel Genosha. | the bride's mother received, \wearing a beige silk shantung and lace sheath, matching ac- cessories and a corsage of yel- low roses, The. bridegroom's mother assisted, wearing a gown of pink chiffon, draped at the side, white accessories and a/ corsage of white roses. As the couple left for their honeymoon in the Gaspe Penin- | sula, the bride was wearing an | aqua linen sheath with match- ing coat, wide brimmed hat, white accessories and a white A Touch of Paris i in our Bridal Gowns @ Bridesmaids Gowns @ '| Head Pieces @ Veils @ Crinolines @ ) | |, Lodies' Formals and Semi-Formals @ j Mink Stoles @- Mink Shrugs Sargeants Rentals 463 Ritson Rd. S. _ 725-3338 ei , "sy | Christ Memorial Church was jthe setting recently for the |marriage of' Patricia Florence 'Payne, Oshawa, to Sub-Lieuten- jant John Edmund Croft, Halifax. |The bride is the daughter of Mr. cia Mrs. William J. Payne, Osh- 'awa, and the bridegroom 1s ac | 'son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur 'Croft, Toronto, | The Venerable H. D. Clever- idon officiated and Mrs. Ronald |Scott played the wedding music. | Given in marriage by her jfather, the. bride wore a formal |white peau de faille gown made lon semi-sheath lines with back \interest provided by deep double |pleats caught at the waist with two self roses. Her Cleopatra 'style headdress of crystallized 'orange blossoms and seed pearls \held her elbow-length veil of silk illusion and she carried a cas- cade of white shasta chrysan- themums and yellow roses. ae Mrs. Richard McKenzie, Bur-| |lington, was the matron of honor) and the bridesmaids were Miss | 7% Lyn Murison, Pickering, and |Miss Phyllis Hamilton, Toronto. They were gowned alike in pale yellow chiffon over taffeta sheaths with detachable chiffon' over-skirts, Their headdresses were yellow coronets of orange blossoms and seed pearls hold- ing circular silk illusion veils and they carried cascades of white and yellow shasta chry- santhemums | ITZ @ SPECIALLY PROCESSED IN OUR OWN PLANT @ 2 Locetions: OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE 728-1111 For The Finest North American and |) European Style | Meats and Pastries DOWNTOWN 12 SIMCOE ST. N. 728.5487 WU) YV0000 WYYVN0000° ¥,9,7.9. 0). x DODOOOOOOOO000 avy WUOLRO00G e,. 20 YHOO OD FABRICS 3000 COLORS TO CHOOSE FROM! SUPPLIES (Oshawa Ltd.) Oshawa Shopping Centre 725-3012 0000000000000 OOQOIOOIOIIG By The Yard At HARLEIGH WROVUUUNUNUYUN YR YOR RUN UY YUU DODODODOOO OOOO OO BOGOO0 00002 JEWELLERS LTD. -- are going somewhere MOVING SOON TO 20 SIMCOE NORTH All Present Stock CLEARING UP TO OFF @ Shop Today @ | ies. I am truly ashamed of my-| _ self. | My first serious boy friend) was captain of the debating| team and I didn't stand a) chance. He was so persuasive, | I couldn't think of a single argument for my side. The second fellow was a sci-| ence major who kept arguing that in this age of nuclear fis- sion I might be blown to bits before I had a chance to live. You can see, Ann, how this sort of talk could make a girl figure, oh well. Please give me some good arguments, I am tired of being the loser--NO MATCH FOR THEM Dear No Match: Where did you get the idea that you must win a debate in order to hang on to what belongs to you in the first place? A girl needn't be a trial law- yer or an atomic scientist to say "Look, Buster, I'm not a plaything, The answer is no so save your breath to cool your soup. Dear Ann Landers: Will you please print this letter to help out all kids whose fathers work in banks? I am 14 years old and my father is the vice-president of a bank. I'd like to make it plain that my dad doesn't own the bank--he only works there. The kids at school have the idea that just because my dad works in a bank I am a rich kid. The way they talk you'd think my dad can go into the; bank and help himself to money any time he feels like it. Last week a bunch of us were planning a picnic to pay back the girls who took us to a thea- tre party in May. We were short of money and one of the kids said, "Cariton can get it from his old man's bank." , Please, Ann Landers, tell peo- ple that bank officers are ona salary just like truck drivers, and sometimes the salary isn't as big as they think, -- NOT RICH Dear Not Rich: For all you kids who think people who work in banks can take home sam- ples I'd like to tell you this: If they ever tried it they'd have _to answer to the bank exam-) iners who check 'periodically to) make sure bank employees don't get to thinking like the, kids at school. 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