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CHILD GUIDANCE a TO Ignazzitto-Stano Nuptials Solemnized In St. Gregory's PR Lee ies LIVE IN WHITBY By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. Yesterday we discussed the' nervous and emotional strain that the mother of two or more! young children must endure. We tried to prevail on this mother not to condemn: herself so often and so severely for failing always to be calm and serene with these children. We wished other adults might be more understanding of her ordeal and more patient with her. We wished that they and the mother herself might more often see her good side, and celebrate her successes as a mother. Then we considered how this mother, with her husband's co- operation, might find ways to enjoy periods of relaxation-- leaving undone some household chore; teaching the children to be more self-reliant and less dependent on her, physically and emotionally; getting away from the youngsters for brief periods; enjoying some. recre- ation alone or with her husband. (SHOUTING IS UPSETTING Today let us consider the bickering, quarrelling and fight- ing so usual among young chil- dren. Their shouting, crying and screaming surely zan be upsetting to their mother, espe- cially when the warfare con- tinues throughout the day, Many a young mother, com- --Mary's Studio jing to expect a _ reasonable among young children, learns to turn a deaf ear to it. there are times when the con- flict grows so violent as not to be endurable. amount of contention and strife) Children Need Toys Of Their Very Own blocks, each needs to have some toys of his very own. The parents need to teach each child to respect the special possessions of the other child or children, AMICABLE EXCHANGE Just to match their toys might not be best. But if one has a cartwand the other a wagon, they may discover ways of exchanging them amicably. Also they may be trained, grad- ually, to take turns--as with a hobby. horse or swing. When one child forcibly snatches a toy owned by an- other, there should be decisive restraint, A desirable goal is for each child to acquire the habit of getting permission from the owner to use his things. It also is desirable for parents to seek such permis- sion before using a_ child's A chronic source of quarrel- ling and fighting is jealousy. If one child, typically the older of proved and loved in the family as much as another child, he is pretty sure to grow quarrel- some. OUTSIDE PPLAYGROUNDS If there are more than one or two years difference in the ages of two children, each needs to cultivate some play- mates of his own age outside the home. The wider this age such playmates are. jsome ¢ |jobs should be definite jshould not overlap. and | | | | difference the more desirable! Caro] Ann. Elizabeth James!cummerbund 3 Bs became the bride of Murray train of matching embroidery. |jeft When each chiid reachés'the| john Foster recently in Byng\the other attendants were Mm: But|age when he can and should do| Avenue Pentecostal Church The| Ernest Hamilton' and Mrs. Wil- hores at home, assigned|pride is the daughter of Mrs.|\liam James, both of Oshawa. Westly James, Oshawa and the/They wore similar gowns of Nile late Mr. James and the bride- HONEYMOONING IN NEW YORK 'Byng Ave. Pentecostal Church | | Is Scene Of Foster- James Rites We tend to take on adipose, tissue in much the same pat- tern. The excess fat crowds the waist, pads 'the abdomen and upholsters the hips. The back of the upper arms is another fa- vorite parking spot. : - Isometric contraction cuts-ex- ercise time 'to a few minutes a day: The essence of the techni- que is the held position. Hold each contraction for six to eight seconds, Once pressure is ap- plied there should be no move- ment during the 'hold' period. For toning muscles, isometrics are sheer magic! First, get your posture on the beam, for posture shapes your figure. Position: Lie on back on floor, knees: flexed, soles of feet flat on floor, Have arms out at shoulder level, forearms back, to form a letter L each side. This squares your shoulders : |beautifully. ' Action: Pull up and in firmly + |with the girdle muscles, press- ing small of back to floor. H-o-l-d. Hold this muscle con- traction to a count of 10, or for) six to eight seconds. Hold shoul-| --Ireland Studio Position: Same a: | Action; Raise hips just an) inch of floor and tilt slightly) | to the right, then pull in forcibly) \with the side-front. abdominals. H-o-l-d to a count of 10 Return chapel to centre, tilt hips slightly te again pull in forcibly and above, + held a ders flat on floor, too. | : e z The second contraction tones 3 " 7 the side-front muscles, the obli- : 2 | ques. Isometric Exercises Tone Figure-Controlling Muscles. h-o-l-d. Relax there on the floor in this restful position. Then do an easy isometric exercise to strengthen the muscles which' support the bust, the | The direction is an in-push, as in the following: . : pectorals. For Convenient Home Delivery --Call- : ~ ARCULATION DEPT. 723-3474 ee he we % Aabwetes green. All wore matching wed- |}. In such instances the mother) When two youngsters, for ex-|sroom is the son of Mr. and/ding ring headdresses and.car- wisely separates the young war-|ample, are set to do the dishes|/Mrs. David Foster, Oshawa. ried bouquets of carnations riors for a definite period, with-|together, quarrelling is W ell! he Reverend George Carroll|SPrayed to match their gowns, out trying to place the blame. /nigh inevitable. A better Way) officiated and the soloist, the| The bridegroom's brother, Mr. Of course, she must make/!S for them to alternate, each| Reverend Donald lJohns, Camp-|Gary Foster was best man and sure that one child is not al-\40ing the job alone. _|bellford, sang 'A Wedding/the ushers were Mr. Ernest ways the aggressor and the On the positive side, any skill) prayer" and "O Perfect Love'|Hamilton 'and Mr. Leonard |we parents have in helping)accompanied by Miss Ruth/Foster, brother of the bride- A pretty wedding took place|roses and she carried a nosegay on Saturday, July 25, when|of white roses. The ring bearer Orsola, daughter of Mr. andjwas Master Gino Ignazzitto, Mrs. Joseph Stano, Oshawa, be-|Whitby, brother of the bride- came the bride of Joseph Ignaz-) groom. | gzitto, son of Mr. and Mrs.| The best man was Mr. Gio- Frank Ignazzitto, Whitby, in St.)vanni Lazzaro,Whitby and the WOOLWORTH'S © Super Bakery Specials : BAKED FRESH DAILY IN OUR OWN KITCHEN [1 Special This Week The full-bodied flavour of Gregory the Great Roman Cath-|ushers od Mr. Joseph Lo- ini wesc parents' beppece: sna TOURESIET? of the same family} Bombay, Oshawa, | groom. olic Church, Oshawa, with Mon-/magno, Oshawa; Mr. Samuel, cressor more often than not|' emoy life together naturally) Given in marriage by her| For the reception at the signor Paul Dwyer officiating. |Princiotta, Whitby, and Mr.|: A reduces quarrelling and fight-|) 9+, a1 ; : 2 ' Ni : lis the younger of two children.|. /brother, Mr. William (Bud))| Orange Hall, the bride's mother) Given in marriage by her|Nino Stano, Oshawa, brother of ' ' /in, James, the bride was wearing! F father, the bride was wearing a| the bride. Most quarrelling arises over) ------|3 white formal gown of taffets [received wearing a sheath of Delicious Home Style formal gown of bridal lace, en-| 4" informal reception was/disputed ownership of posses- he' pyeeh aiée + Cha filly|aqua silk organza over taffeta hanced by a scalloped sweei-\held at the Ukrainian Dniprojsions. Whereas young children|vegetable, a leafy green salad i spine thaw ae id = ae y ith qaatthing "overedirt, swhltel LEMON heart neckline, lily-point sleeves,|Hall, Oshawa. Mr. and Mrs. need to enjoy some playthings|and two or more fruits, plus a oyna etter AR ined thence with j awerans | JUMBO cae. sada aa ile tak Ignazzitto will live in Whitby. lin common, such as a set oficereal, bread, salad oil, and clusters of pearls and crystals}accessories and a corsage of | {margarine or butter. and had lily-point sleeves. The} white carnations. The bride-| panel of nylon net. A crown held| 8 i ; F her short veil of lace and she| - | At the Meat Counter: Choose| net overskirt was encircled with) sroom's mother assisted, wear-| ROLL 3 carried a cascade of white| Health And Slimness lbeef, lean portions; lamb and similar lace. Her headdress of|ing blue lace over taffeta, white| z Made with Flaky Pastry ' roses, | veal, lean cuts; lean ham; | Pearls, and se held her| accessories and a corsage of : j ts , ne: | elbow-length nylon net veil. She| pink carnations S ial ; 7 The bridegroom's. sister was| liver, any type; frankfurters acriea : she | p : cia Nein c , . sarried t of red roses / > : the 'matron of honor, in a Al On Sal A Mark |bologna, Canadian style bacon ¢ partis selysaye re i As the couple left for a:honey- fuschia sheath din oie as the| Way S e t et and luncheon meats; chicken/@"d white carnations. moon in New York and points his Week bridesmaids, who were Miss| 'oq i and turkey. The matron of honor was Mrs./north, the bride was wearing a : : 4 ay we have an unprece-|shopping after you have had a| yp Hi sats Robert Spitz, Ti sister of} s or sui i Lina Ignazzitto, Whitby; Miss} : 4) From the Fish List: Cod,/ ter' opiz, oronto, sister of) summer suit of pink, white hat, ' . Josephine Bonta and Miss Anna|oented abundance of good food good meal, An empty stomach haddock, halibut, flounder or the bride. She wore a formaljand accessories, with a corsage Two or three tier wedding cakes -- Order One Week Ahead Perna, both of. Oshawa. They\ne year around, plus _conven-jhas no calorie conscience. It's) oie sea trout perch, and tuna Sow" of baby pink organza overjof pink roses and white carna- were gowned elike in peacock|nce foods with built-in maidjhunger that leads to impulse|rsn' water packed. Sea foods: | taffeta with scoop neckline andtions. Mr. and Mrs. Foster will BAKERY ORDERS. PNONE 725-3421 jservice. From the miaute we) buying. te ae teaniggr «| short sleeves. An embroidered live in Oshawe ' . blue semi-formal sheaths of ; crabmeat, lobster, shrimp, oys- An embroidered live in Oshawa. peau de -sole with scoop neck- approach the electronic eye| Plan balanced meals make|torc ang clams. De lines, sleeveless and accented that automatically opens thejout your grocery list and limit) y,cctanle and Fruit. Group: with "lace peplums at the waist- door of the supermarket, we|your shopping to this list. | All n station thea ri lines. Th wore rhinestone|#?e confronted with a vast; You know how to s th vee ms spears ie ; ey rhinestone # tavititie foods. of all u kn spare the/avoiding those frozen in rich tiaras and carried nosegays of|@™@y Of inviting foods of alicalories in meal planning. So sauces; fresh frui it juic jeties. With everything pack-|bui 1 aud ces; fresh fruits, fruit juices, yellow roses with the matron of varie' rything p |build each meal on a high gradeland canned fruits avoiding honor carrying a similar nose-|28ed, canned, ready-mixed, or/protein food--lean meat, fish or|frui i clogs | 1 . C , fruits canned in heavy syrup. gay of pink roses. frozen, food preparation is noth-|chicken, cheese or cottage| Milk Group: Skim milk or'| 'The flower, girl was the bride's|i"& like the work it used to be.\cheese, plus two cups of milk,|buttermilk for drinking, whole| sister, Miss Tina Stano, Oshawa,|%et these foods furnish just asiskim milk or buttermilk for the|milk for cereals. Cheese and| | wearing a white lace frock with/Many ealories as in the daysiday. Include only one starchy|cottage cheese gph ice gor | Peter Pan collar, puff sleeves\When we started all recipes!food at a meal--a potato, bread,|from part skim milk; dry skim and a full gathered skirt, Her|from scratch. corn or rice. 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