ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: Our. 12- year-old daughter Diane is an only child. Because of my hus- band's work we mist go out socially at least three evenings a week, Our neighbors have a 17-year- old son who is eager to earn some spending money. For the last several months we have had this boy sit with Diane,. It seemed like a perfectly splendid idea--until recently. : When my husband and I came, home Saturday night at ' |about midnight Diane was not B'NAI BRITH DONATION SUPPLIES MILK FOR YWCA DAY CAMP time for 158 children and 35 counsellors each* day. This year a generous donation from B'Nai B'rith is making this The annual day camp of the YWCA is open four days a week for three weeks. The YWCA supplies milk at lunch- possible, Two girls, Vicky Krout and Wanda Hulaj are seen as they have their cups filled by Senior Counsellor Carole Green. The vice-presi- dent of B'nai B'rith Lodge, Mr. Bernard Crozier, smiles approvingly in the back- ground, --Oshawa Times Photo Miss Maureen Comerford Honored By. Surprise Party Miss Claudette Marcoux, Mr,} David Edwards, Miss Margaret! McDiarmid, Mr. Robert Bishop, Miss Joan Elliott, Mr. Doug- A sunprise birthday dance' was| held recently at the Oshawa) Tennis Club in honor of Miss Maureen Comerford's 21st birth-| day. The dance was arranged|jey Comerford Jr., Miss by Miss Philomena Gangemijraine Harrison, Mr. John Love, assisted by Miss Joan Elliott}Mr. and Mrs. Edward (Ted) and Miss Marilyn Black. Elliott, Mr. and Mrs. Harvey A transistor" radio 'was pre-|Hicks. sented to Miss Comerford from| Miss Donna Reeves, Mr. Rob- the guests. A special guest was/ert Andor, Miss Joan Hodgson, the Reverend William Comer-|Mr. Michae] Lemieux, Miss ford, Quebec City, a brother of/Margaret McDonald, Mr. Dan- the honored guest. Father Com-|iel Wyrozob, Miss Judy Reeson, erford is holidaying in Oshawa|Mr. Philip Dudley, Miss Sally for two weeks prior to leaving|James, Mr. William Swan, Miss for Ottawa, where he will spend|Dianne Hergott, Mr. Jerry hg a couple of days before being|zerek, Miss Sandra McFeeters, posted to a new appointment, |Mr. Samuel Richardson, Miss unknown at the present time. |Jeanette Kelly, Mr. Jack Car- An enjoyable buffet supper |roll, Mr. and Mrs. Peter Cox, was served at midnight by Miss|Miss Philomena Gangemi, Mr. Comerford's parents, Mr, and-John Holowaty, Mr. and Mrs.| Mrs. Stanley Comerford. Stanley Comerford and Father Among the guests present| William Comerford. were Mr. Gerry McCarten, Miss) ------------=ti'"'a'"C;ctCt Gwen Hamilton, Mr. Jack Wet- DIETS FOR TRAVEL tick, Miss Judy Danks, Mr, Ken-- TUNBRIDGE WELLS, Eng- neth Graves, Miss Joan Elliott,)land (CP)--Mrs. Hilary John-| Mr. Ronald Ball, Miss Marilyn| son, 23-year-old Kent housewife, Black, Mr. Philip Clark, Mr./dieted for six months and shed | Mrs. las Bazinet, Mr. and Mrs, Stan-) 3 Lor-| © PLAN WEDDING The engagement has been announced of Margaret Anne, daughter of Dr. William Wes- ley Baldwin and Mrs. Bald- win, Brooklin, to Richard Bain Potter, son of Mr. and Francis Arthur Potter, Toronto. The bride-to-be is a graduate of Trinity College, University of Toronto and is on the teaching staff of Cen- ~ |to -his |how else to describe him except * |to say he tral High School of Com- merce, Toronto. Her pros- pective bridegroom is a grad- uate of University College in arts and is a third year law student at. the University of Toronto Law School, The wed- ding will take place in Brook- lin United Church, on Satur- day, July 18. --LeRoy Toll Photos | and Mrs, Howard (Dee) Fitch-|70 pounds to become a model. ett, Miss Mary Lou Patton, Mr.|}Her career lasted one week. Allen Andrews, Miss Marilyn|Her husband was transferred) Lanmer, Mr. Stewart Giles,|across country and Mrs. John- Miss Ruth Kell, Mr. Daniel]son said "I'm putting the fam- McCall. lily first." } Uncover Secret | Of Swim Suit Shape in her bed. She was in the bathroom with the door locked. We pounded on the door until she let us in, The poor girl had fallen asleep. She had taken her pillow and blanket ang made a bed for herself in the bathtub. We finally got an explanation out of her. Diane's bedroom door has no lock and she is afraid of the boy. She gave us her word that he had never done or said anyiiing wrong-- but she was "afraid he might." | We don't want to be unfair to the boy, Ann, What should we do? We believe Diane was tell- ing us the whole truth. Thank you.-- CONCERNED PARENTS Dear Parents: The boy may be perfectly fine in every re- spect, but it is apparent that Diane is not comfortable with him. Get a girl sitter--a big sister substitute. The boy, of course, need not be told the reason for the change. Dear Ann Landers: Ten years ago my husband took his older brother, Manny, into his busi- ness because his mother begged him to. Mariny ruined their father's business which was left to him and he then went through most of the money left mother. I don't know vis. one of these people who knows everything and has never 'been wrong in his life. My husband sold manny 25 Lull Sub-Teen's Fears With New Companion per cent of the business for $10,000. which he "borrowed" from his mother, To listen to him you'd think my husband was working for him. Last month Manny took his nitwit son (age 22) into the business and is calling him sales manager. He did this without consulting anybody. My husand is getting ulcers from all this. He feels guilty because brothers are supposed to love each other, Legally he can throw them both out but he is afraid it might harm the family relationships,-- SPLITTING HEAD Dear Head: The family re- lationships sound pretty shaky right now. What's to harm? I hope your husband will buy Manny's 25 per cent back even if he has to pay a lot more than he thinks he should. Don't feel guilty. Relatives who feed from a common trough frequently have hostile feelings toward one another al- though they present a beautiful picture of solidarity to out- siders. (If the boys get along well, their wives don't--etc.) Of course there are exceptions, but they are as rare as sand flies in Siberia. An, Honey: I read your col- umn every day and I hope you won't take seriously that letter from Sugar and Spice. He was the old meanie who criticized you for calling your readers Buster, Butter - Cup, Petunia, Lambie Pie and a few other cutesy wootsy names. TI am at least twice your age, Doll, and so far as I am con- cerned, your column is refresh- ingly down -to - earth. Please don't ever change. You can call me Buddy Boy anytime you want to and I hope it is real soon. -- LOUISVILLE SALT AND PEPPER Dear. Louisville: those kind words, Buddy Boy. long. | | The University Women's Club lof Oshawa and District held a | pot - luck supper recently at the home of Mrs, Z. T. Salmers, Glencairn Street, Oshawa. After the enjoyable Supper, a | short business meeting was con- ucted by the president, Mrs. G SOCIAL NOTICE id , A. Rundle. Mrs. Rundle thanked the hostess and the convener, | The swimsuit controversy has| ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd Miller, made headline news this sum-|Columbus, wish to announce the| ful social closing for the year. |mer and topless suits are ap-| engagement of their only daugh- parently the "new" trend. Most Canadian women will de-|rance William Reid, Oshawa,|in sending out |son of Mrs. Samuel Denney, To-| ter: Mrs. Rundi cline the new fashion for the | more conventional styles which|ronto, and the late Mr. Louis this summer includes blouson| - \or shift tops worn with separate| ; or joined maillot or little boy legged pants. | The relaxed top will help to |hide an over-abundant midriff, but this look requires an excel- jlent up-lift bras to give the suit shape. Many suits are styled with a built-in bras. But @ the cup size is not right for you, or if it} has not been set into the suit, a properly fitted one should be worn. Simply remove the straps Albert Reid. The wedding will take place on Saturday, August , 1964, at 2.30 p.m. in Colum- bus United Church. . LONG HOSE CROWTHORNE, England (CP) -- Berkshire -housewife Maud Justice received a Christ- mas present of a pair of stock- ings mailed to her 10 years be- fore from a mailbox half a mile from her home. The parce] was Mrs, Hayden MacDonald and her committee for their efforts |in making the evening a success- A presentation was made by Miss Ada Kelly to Miss Jean the monthly ros- le announced that jin September, there will be an | evening coffee party at the home lof Mrs. W. W. Baldwin. | Mrs. Lernard Lewis introduced |seven of the resolutions which _| will be presented to the Cana- |dian Federation of University |Women's Sixteenth Triennial Conference to be held at the Fort [Garry Hotel, Winnipeg, from University Women's Club Ends Season With Supper legal entity or as a provincial) branch and without forsaking the] : that those] ; national federation, needs, interests and jurisdic- tions, strictly provincial will not be overlooked. Without provin- cial representation, as such, our voice is not heard before the provincial governments with any orce. Other resolutions which will be voted on in Winnipeg are: 1. offering a prize comparable to the Governor - General's Award or the Pulitzer Prize, for an out- standing literary work by a |ter, Kathryn Joan, to Mr. Ter-| Laird, thanking her for her work|Canadian man or woman in each |triennial period. 2, encouraging older women university gradu- area to resume their university studies and refurbish or aug- ment their existing qualifica- tions. 3. CFUW should establish travelling fellowships to allow Canadians from Eastern, West- ern and Central Caada, speaking the same language or speaking English and - or - French to ex- change their viewpoints, to know Thanks for) See--you didn't have to wait) © Mary Ann Fursey THE OSHAWA TIMES, Soturday, July 4, 1964 Feted At Showers Prior To Wedding Mrs. Dennis Brown, the for- mer Mary Ann Fursey, whose marriage took place on Friday, June 26, was honored at a num-' ber of showers prior to her wed- ding. At a supper shower tendered by the Engineering Department! of General Motors, the bride-to- be was presented with a floor polisher. : A linen shower was given by her bridesmaid, Miss Ardythe Greenfield, at her home. Miss Ann Parrot assisted the hostess and guests were former school friends of the bride-eleet. _ Mrs, Donald Smallwood held a kitchen and pantry shower at her home.on Marland avenue, where co-workers of Miss Fur- sey were the guests, Mrs. Alfred Fursey, gp ther of the future bride, enter- tained members of the family and a presentation of an elec- tric blanket and bedding was made. A miscellaneous shower was given by Mrs. George Oliffe, as- sisted by her mother, Mrs. Percy Sweet and Miss Gloria Sweet, Present were relatives and close friends of the prospec- tive bridegroom. Mrs. J, A. Brown, Whitby,| [ aunt of Mr, Dennis Brown, was hostess at a miscellaneous shower at her home on Welling- ton street. Co-workers of the future bride! presented her with a hand- fashioned glass centre-piere. Following the' rehearsal the wedding party was entertained at the home of Mr. and Mrs. and Mrs. Archie Brown, Ridge- Way avenue. and appreciate their respective culture and mentality in order to help with the formation of the true Canadian image. The discussions proved to be very stimulatin, August 16-21. | One of the resolutions on the agenda deals with the adminis- |trative regime of the CFUW. Al- though there are provincial dir- f TO NURSE IN B.C Suzanne Parkin, daughter of Mr. and Mrs, Charles Par- kin, Brampton, Ontario, for- merly of Oshawa, graduated recently from the Atkinson School of Nursing of the To- ronto Western Hospital. Suz- anne attended Oshawa Cen- tral Collegiate. Her future plans include a year in the town of Williams Lake, Brit- ish Columbia, Leroy Toll ¢ mary reports given by the group leaders were followed by voting so that the delegates would know the general feelings of the mem- bership on the different resolu- tions. The individual buzz ses- sions were conducted by Miss L. Moote, Migs A. Parker, Mrs. E. M. Culp, Mrs, R. H. Donald, Mrs, A. R. Garrett, Mrs. B. Lewis, Mrs, F. M. McKee, Mrs. 'Catholic Church was the setting last Saturday, for the marriage |.\of Dorothy Therese Lawless, to | |Robert James Amey, both of | |Oshawa. i' |daughter of Mr. Bernard F. Lawless and her bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Albert Amey. officiated and Mr. Jack Dris- coll played "Ave Maria" and "; |pure silk ottoman cord gown. i /The fitted bodice featured a | |jewelled neckline and lily-point sleeves trimmed with ; pearls. The bell shaped skirt ' \fell into a chapel train. Her | |petal headdress of tiny leaf- like pearls held her bouffant veil of tulle illusion, and she carried a bouquet of pink car- nations and stephanotis. Mrs. Donald Mastin and_ the other attendants were Mrs. Robert Wild and Miss Tudy |) Amey. The flower girl was): Miss Kathy Szekeres. All the)" attendants were gowned alike/: in seafoam green organza form-| als featuring scoop necklines, | elbow-length puff sleeves and| an empire bodice fashioned on) princess dresses were sea foam green with small white carnations interlaced with green. Maurice Tessier and the ushers were Mr. Donald Mastin, Osh- awa, and Mr, Bruce Amey, Don e Mills. é Knights of Columbus hall th bride's mother received, wear ing a three-piece white lace): suit with pink accessories and a ; fa Cc UTT. 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