CHILD GUIDANCE jr wake op i the night and cry. ' 5 7 , |WANTS MOM WITH HER Don't Run To The Child iniWhen, 1 go 0 tee whats 5 |wrong, she says she wants me \to sleep with her, She will ery| Whenever He Calls You tT dont en V "By day, chair-sitting is the : only punis "ve found suc- By GARRY C, MYERS, Ph.D.\it, then call me to dress t/only punishment 1 A few times in this column/4sain, I tell her I'm busy doing My reply: 1 think: you will I have entreated parents not to|something -- dishes, cooking--|-ot better results if you work go to the child when he calls/and can't always leave. harder at -discipling yourself commanding them to come) Then she will shout and yelllrather than disciplining the here" except in a suspected| until I go to see what she wants.|child, For example, when she emergency, but to train the|l tell her to come here. She| calls, demanding you come to child to come to them when he|shouts she can't. She JUS!\see something she has. done, wishes to show them something,/doesn't want to just don't go--no matter how ask a question or receive some) "She is yery commanding Iimuch she cries -- unless, of help, try to talk low'to her, She/course, you think there is an A mother: writes from Michi- won't listen -- she will makejemergency, Don't argue with gan about her child, five some noise so she can't hear her : "She will call me every few what I say Um glad you find chair-sitting minutes to come to see some-| "I have put her to bed forjeffective punishment. Be sure 0 thing she has colored or to/not. minding. Now she criesmake it for a definite time-- dress a doll, She will tndressiwhen she has to go to bed, Shejsay, 20 minutes. You. need then Seaneiermenrensnnnnemntnesennienantt ~-----"|to spank her only if she leaves the chair too soon, Please don't use a punishment what you ANN LANDERS want the child to like; |tore, you should not send her to bed to punish her, 50 Is Elder] NO TELEVISION y | Don't let her view TV for long periods; never any exciting pro- grams or programs of violence. To Youth 17 | Refuse to sleep with her or J let her sleep with you, no mat- . jter how much she cries, If you Dear Ann Landers: I am ajstead of gifts, This will appear|think she is lonely and afraid, 17-year-old boy with a perfec'iyjon the invitation, I was mortt-\turn the light on in the hall sensible question which no one fied when I heard it but ap-'with her door open or walk seems to be able to answer. So/parently it is the custom in Eu- nonchalantly back and forth in I am writing to you rope. My husband says to Keep the hall where she can hear Why do 50-year-old people te. My nose out of it. and to. let your voice and you can assure fer to themselves as 'middle. them do whatever they want. /her that you're there, aged?" How many people live I'm aid when our family Read a great deal to her| to be 100 anyway? My own idea and friends get the invitations/every day, Encourage her to is that middle age should b> they will be shocked, Please tell/draw, color, paint and make half of life expectancy, which'Me What to do-- M, M, things with her hands, Get her puts it at about 35 Dear M. M, M.: Take yous\to play with one or two other! . sad » in the 50 husband's advice, Since you will/children-of her age, Cuddle her} My own dardelged a se " Se provide the bride's mother with/often if she likes it | eligi Adele cont your guest list you'll be able to} - | . : "AaSe"'nhone or drop. each of your Are they trying to kid them+| sects a line ecplaining the Eu LADIES selves--or what? Please let me ropean custom, Let them know No baby sitter, no cor tore know what you think about this |jore is nothing obligator Mr. Bernard It's been bugging me for a long slvabe ee veers Ot Leading Toronto Salons 4 p Tr ¥ . Experienc r Si is! time--Speaker -of the Truth CONFIDENTIAL TO WON. ook parienced Halt Stilt Dear Speaker: When | DERING: Your mother is 725-6854 17, 1 thought middle age we right." : 3 ie ee -- remem Was about 30, When 1 got to be 30) I shoved middle age up about 10 for'15 years-- and I've been shoving it up ever since Why all this preoccupation with age, Buster? I've said. it before and I'll say it again it's only a number, Baby Dear Ann Landers: | hunted everywhere for the newspaper that carried your column about an ll-month preg- nancy. Will you please tell me} when and where this happened? My friend bet me $10 that no such item appeared. She claims! all pregnancies are about the same length of time and that people get confused for all-sorts of reasons. I know she is wrong because I was pregnant with my my second child for 114% months Please settle this us Thank you--J AND R Dear J and R: There was nothing In my column recently about an ll-month pregnancy.| What. you are probably re. ferring to is a letter from a woman who complained be. cause her friend could never get any place on time, She répeated the town joke--that Adelle was an 1l-month baby and has been late ever since The average full-term preg: nancy js about 280 days, which is approximately nine months This can vary several days one way or the other. But medical science has never recorded an 114 month pregnancy. Maybe it just seemed that long, Honey Dear Ann Landers: Our son Ron is going to marry a fine girl whom I will call Anna Marie. She was born and reared in another country and her par- ents speak very little English They are very foreign in their ways Please don't off and tell me I am a Our son is lucky to get this girl. 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