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ANN LANDERS Sandwiches Are Fine But Romance Is Out Dear Ann Landers: I have a;you have faith and confidence delicate problem a ot poor and that you know she will know where else to go for help.) I can't discuss this with our ae ashi we clergyman or our doctor as we! Brod BE cae on ta oe un- oe eee 2 the cone ooaye bachelor--object matri- on. Marhens 'would be furtous. w Gonai's mother lives in an-| here for a 10-day visit and Gor- don asked me if I would have her as my house guest. .I have plenty of room as well as a competent maid. I agreed, thinking it might boost my stock with Gordon. Well, I knocked myself out being a charming hostess. I took "Mother" everywhere and wore myself out seeing that she had a good time. NOW I'm in for it. Gordon said she is so fond of me and enjoyed my hos- pitality so much, she wants to return in July and stay for eight weeks. Gordon is a great golfer and likes to play cards with the Ings with us. I do not want his mother in my home for eight weeks but I'm afraid to say no because it may wreck my chances with him. Help. Please. --DESPERATE Dear Desperate: Say NO and don't worry about what it does to your chances. If Gordon wants to marry you he will. If he doesn't, you can wine and dine his mother for 10 years and it won't make any differ- ence. boys. While his mother was in We've been married 12 laren, | other state, She wanted to come| town he spent only three even- START EARLY Studies show that one-third of North Americans who become alcoholics have their initial drinking experience between the ages of 14 and 18. and have five lovely children.) I have part-time help, which is} all I want because I believe al mother should raise her own| children. My husband owns a small but | profitable business near our home. About a year ago he og la i | ity and if this story got out my Sharing Interests Key to Stability In Marriage If you are facing some trial in your marriage, you are not alone. A study by Dr. Ben Schlesinger, assistant professor at the University of Toronto's School of Social Work, reveals that all marriages share com- mon phases with generally com- . {mon problems. Dr. Schlesiger found the marriage cycle could be divided into six stages. While each fam- ily grew through the years in its own particular way, all fam- THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, June 53,1963 7 ilies passed through the same stages. The measure of their success or failure in marriage depended on how they managed to cope with the changes in this developing cycle. Decision - making and com- munication offered a good standard by which to assess the closeness of the marriage rela- tionship, Dr. Schlesinger said. The trend that emerged from his study showed a great deal of joint decision - making in the early stages of marriage, a low ebb for the family with teen- agers, and a renewal of joint consultation after the children had left home. In Dr. Schlesinger's opinion, the family likely. to have the best chance of continuing happi- ness was the one in which mem. bers shared each other's enthu- siasms. KNITS FOR INFANTS AJAX, Ont, (CP)--Mrs, Hugh Morrow has made 350 pairs of booties since the local hospital started making a present of a pair of booties to each newborn baby.' Mrs, Morrow, who is childless, is the hospital's main supplier. SAVE THIS AD SIN SAVE THIS AD MN SAVE THIS AD MMM SAVE THIS AD MN SAVE THIS AD at BARONS' it's BRIDE'S WEEK into the habit of "dropp 2) for lunch about twice a Denk | Now he's home for lunch five). times a week and it's driving me crazy. I don't mind fixing) him a sandwich and coffee, but) be he follows me around the kitchen with that come-hither | S# look in his eye and when his mind is made up, it's made up. I love him very much, but) 12:30 P.M. is no time for ro-} mance with three kids at home for lunch, the laundress in the basement, the doorbell ringing | and me trying to get to a 2: 00) p.m. church guild meeting. I want to be a good wife but I believe there is a time and|Q a place for everything. Please} tell me what 'to do. FRANTIC) AND EXHAUSTED Dear Frantic and Exhausted: Tell your husband you mar- ried him for better or for worse but you didn't marry him for! lunch. Dear Ann_ Landers: our ot daughter is 19, lovely, bright! and well-liked. She has had two) years of college and is chang-| ing, I'm afraid, from an un-} spoiled, fresh young lady to a| hard - boiled woman of the} world. | She told us last night that) she takes a few drinks at school because everyone else does and she sees nothing wrong in it. She doesn't smoke but all the girls|W around her do, and she sees nothing wrong in that either. > She works during the summer) to pay part of her tuition, but| a we still must make sacrifices to see her through. I told her that unless she would promise not to! " = e 6-Piece BEDROOM SEE THIS QUALITY 3-ROOM GROUP Everything You Need at One LOW PRICE SAVE 98.95 499 < BUY COMPLETE or PURCHASE ANY GROUP SEPARATELY- EASY TERMS PAY 7-Piece AS 5. DINETTE AS LITTLE 00 WEEKLY 9-Piece LIVING ROOM Whether your wedding is in the immediote future or several weeks from now, come in or mail coupon . . . select the grouping of your choice .. . we will store it ot no charge until wanted . . FREE WEDDING ALBUM, TOO! BARONS' HOME FURNISHINGS 00k Special . . 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