B THE OSHAWA TIMES, Fridoy, Februery 8, 1963 DARK-EYES This dark-eyed miss is Lisa Beverly, daughter of Mr, and Mrs. Roy A. Nesbitt, Park road south. She is the grand- daughter of Mr. 'and Mrs. William C. Kelly, Point Claire, Quebec and Mrs. Walter Nesbitt, Oshawa, and great- granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs, James D. Kelly, Mount Forest and Mrs. Albert Lade, Scarborough. Lisa was six months old at the time of this picture. --Aldsworth Photography SA HOME LEAGUE The meeting of The Salvation Army Home League was open- ed by Mrs. Major Fred Lewis, who announced the Valentine Tea, sponsored by the Cheerio group, will be held on February 15. Mrs. William James read the names of members celebrating birthdays. Minutes were read by Mrs. George Beard. Mrs. William Allison was in charge of the devotional period. Mrs. William Saunders lead the Sal- vation Army Founder's song after which Mrs. Maynard Nel- son lead the scripture reading. Mrs. William Allison took as her topic, the life of General Wil- liam Booth, describing it by flannelgraph. He was born on April 10, 1829 and died on Au- gust 20, 1912 at his home at Hadley Wood, Middlesex. Gen- eral Booth's motto was 'Others' which the Salvation Army has used throughout the years. Mrs. -- Allison closed meeting. Next week the meeting will be im the form of a Valentine Party led by Mrs. David Owen. Refreshments were served by the Stru Of Dr. Phillips H&S Meeting Family life chairman, Mrs. Barnard Lewis, introduced her husband, the executive director of Ontario County Children's Aid Society, who was the speak- er at the February meeting at Dr. S. J. Phillips, Home and School Association. Mr. Lewis pointed out that the family life has basically been unchanged for generations. It has become fashionable, ae cture of Family Life Topic won the room count. Mrs. R. F. Richardson announced that dur- ing this year the association is concentrating on the fathers of the association to participate in the program planning. Next month the Crown Attorney, Mr. Bruce Affleck, of the associa- tion, will speak on the handling of juvenile delinquents. Grade Mothers for the meet- ing were Mrs. D. A. Houlden and Mrs, Lloyd Weiderick of that agree and and) were "clear the air.' experience. The child who had grown up smooth friction- less home was not the child who would be able to cope with the in today's in a tranquil, problems of living conflicting society. "One of the best definitions of a "mature person" that I describes such a person as one with the capacity to tolerate differences. I suggest that this capacity is learned, in depth, in family liv- ing where conflict and differ- ences of opinion are recognized have come across and accepted," he said, Mr, Lewis presented a film which illus- trated several childless couples seeking a child through adop- tion. Mr. J. V. Saunders ex- pressed the appreciation of the members to Mr. Lewis for his "A Baby Named X"', informative discussion and pres- entation. Mrs; Malcolm Adam, presi- dent, conducted a short business meeting prior to the program. Mrs, R. S, Hayward, member- ship chairman, reported a mem- Geoffrey Andrews mentioned the success bership of 189. Mrs. of the family skating party. Miss Ivah Fox's Grade 3 room should not always that arguments and ry to * This also held|OT#4° 4. for the children where differ- ences and friction were an es- sential part of their growing up Miss Puckrin, Grade 2, and Mrs. D. R. Sinclair and Mrs. Arthur Wright for Mrs. Evans, THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA Strive to be truthful, though not hurtful, in dealing with oth- ers. It will pay off in the long run. Nobody likes to play the "sucker," and the. one who thinks he is beimg a "wise guy"' ends up on the bottom of the heap. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your virthday, your horoscope indicatesa highly satisfactory year ahead. Phases of your life most gen- erously influenced by fine plan- etary aspects are financial and romantic, | Good monetary periods will) occur for the next six months| and in November, late Decem- ber and the first month of 1964. All of these periods indicate fine returns through increased earn-| ing power, gains through sound] financial transactions. Romance will be highlighted in the current month; also in May and June. If you are sin- gle, there is a possibility of sudden marriage during these periods and, if you are already wed, marriage ties will be strengthened. Avoid fatigue and nervous) tension in September, however, WRAPPED ICE Much of the frost accumu- lated in refrigerator freezers is a result of evaporation of water To help overcome this» wrap trays in im- mediately after water freezes. You'll notice the reduction of frost on frozen food packs as well as freezer compartment. Aluminum foil is also a fine container for the extra ice cubes from ice cube trays. strong aluminum foil you need for a party. since they could affect neal adversely. A child born on this day vii dren. 24-HOUR SERVICE NO SERVICE CHARGE FOUR SEASONS TRAVEL UNITS, GROUPS AUXILIARIES CALVARY BWF The regular meeting of the Calvary Business Women's Fel- lowship was held on Monday, February 4, at the home of Miss Betty Leask, Park Lane Apartments, with Mrs. Robert Pritchard in charge. A talk on "Coins" was given by Mr. Robert Pritchard. A dis- play was shown of authentic Biblical coins dating as far back as 125 BC, and including such pieces as a denarius and a widow's mite. As the speaker commented on each coin Mrs, Pritchard read the appropriate Bible reference, A poem was read by Mrs, Thomas Moorcroft, and the meeting closed with prayer by Miss Viola Burton. On Monday, February 18, the group will go by chartered bus to Massey Hall, leaving at 5.45 p.m., to hear the famed Korean Orphan Choir. 10TH PARENT COMMITTEE The 10th Parent Committee of the Guides and Brownies, met in the Salvation Army Citadel, Wednesday, February 5, with the president Mrs, Jack C. MacDonald presiding. Mrs. Charles Langfield gave the report of the Local Associa- tion held previously at the Guide} House. The returns of the "Make Believe Tea" helped fi- ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: Perhaps the mother with the TV head- ache might like some specific suggestions. This is what worked for me: Sit down with your kids and admit you've been leaving too much decision - making up to them, Announce there are go- ing to be new rules and regu- lations and that they must stick to them regardless of the howls. The next step is a tough one because it requires some giving on mother's part. Keep the TV off for several days, even if it means missing some of your favorite programs -- or dad's, (You'll need his help with this.) Then sit down and read with your children, Play chess, take them bird - watching, put on some good records. Help them discover the world beyond the idiot-box. Allow them to resume their TV viewing with a fresh out- look--school work and chores completed -- and you decide what's worth watching. Don't expect success without plenty of sweating, mother, And don't try it at all unless you have guts.--JUDY W nancially. The Guide and Brownie ban-| quet was discussed, and each) parent will receive a notice. There is a shortage of lead- lers and help would be welcom- ed by the Brown Owl, Mrs. Pat- rick O'Connor. Mrs. Charles Langfield, vice- president, is acting as secre tary, pro tem. Mrs, Patrick O'Connor won Dear Judy: I heartily en- {dorse you plan for accentuating the positive. As you so wisely pointed out, it requires work, but the results are worth it. Dear Ann Landers: I'be been) reading your column since 1955 and think you hit the nail right on the noggin most of the time. But when you get hipped on a subject, dearie, you proceed to go right off the deep end, One the door prize. The next meeting will be Wed-| nesday» March 6 of your pet causes seems to be Psychiatry. m don't INTEREST TO WOMEN be good-natured, outgoing and| ay tne rc MS i chil A rumor has been circulating in Oshawa to the effect that a head of hair was seriously damaged. This head of hair was not done in our salon. Rosslynn Beauty Salon 60 Rossland Rd. W., Oshawa. TV Weaning Takes Time And Patience worthless, but I think it's vastly over-rated and in most cases, not worth the time, money and agony. Since you are such a strong proponent of the hocus pocus semi-science- will you answer just one question, please? Why are psychiatrist's children the nuttiest-ones in the crowd? -- THE DEVIL'S ADVOCATE Dear D.A.: The question as- sumes that I accept the pre- mise. I do not. Everyone somehow expects the dentist's children to have perfect teeth, the teacher's chil- dren to be brilliant, and, of course, the psychiatrist's chil- dren should be beautifully ad- justed. When the psychiatrist's children develop with behavior problems it is magnified' be- cause of who they are. A parent who is trained may well over-react to symptoms and become anxious, where the untrained parent would not no- tice. This could create a prob- lem. But by and large I don't fee] that psychiatrists' kids are any better or worse than the| plumber"s, Dea: Ann Landers: The other| 'ay my boy friend drove me home from school, We had an argument the day before and there was a lot of straightening for almost two hours. Please keep in mind it was broad day- light and the car was parked right in front of our home, walked in the house about 5:30 and my mother tore int» me as if I had just shot my grandmother. 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