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a ss oy » TO . THE OSHAWA TIMES, Fridey, Jonvery 11, 1963 2 « CROCHET CENTERPIECE Count on this centrepiece to the centre of attraction next time you entertain. 'Eighteen inches in diameter, this crocheted accessory is fashioned of delicate shells, with solid, double crochet forming the leaves. A piece so stunning, it's hard to be- lieve it's so simple to make. Instruction leaflet NO. PC-1614 may be obtained by sending your name and ad- dress on a stamped envelope, plus ten cents for handling, to the Needlework Depart- ment, The Oshawa Times, Oshawa, Ontario. Club Re-Convenes After Holidays The first business meeting of the new year was held recently by the Pilot Club of Oshawa at Simcoe Hall. Mrs. Jack Ed. wards, president, opened the meeting with prayer. The honor of being the first new member of the new year is to Mrs. Grant Pascoe. Mrs. fascoe will be installed in the near future. Members were reminded of| their driving duties by Miss Beverly Storie, chairman of community service. Schedules a very successful draw, the winner of which was Mr, Rene Niglis. Plans are now under way for the apron sale. Miss Mary McLean, co-ordin- ating chairman, requested all committee chairmen to be pre- pared for a progress meeting to be held at her home Thurs. day, January 24 at 7:30 p.m. The appointment of a chair- man for the fall council which will be held in Oshawa this year was an important item on the agenda, and Miss Lillian Beamish accepted this respon- sibility. The program meeting for Jan- uary will be held at Simcoe Hall Thursday, January 17th, with membership and publicity committees in charge. vovering duties at the Ontario Hospital Gift Shop at Whitby/ were also distributed, Finance committee reported} HOUSEHOLD HINT Make use of odd moments UNITS, GROUPS AUXILIARIES CALVARY BWF The Calvary Business Women's Fellowship held its first meeting of the year Mon- day evening, January 7, at the home of Mrs, Neta Hoagland. Miss Ferne Ledgett was in| charge of the meeting. After Scripture reading by Miss Viola Burt, and prayers by Mrs. Walter Zimmerman and Miss Nora Moen, each member of the new executive was called upon to express her hopes and aspir- ations for the new year. A Bible Study, with group participation, was conducted by Mrs. Neta Hoagland ... her theme being '"Onward-Go' 1963"'. Mottoes for 1963 were: 1. the children and the baby sit- CHILD GUIDANCE By GARY C. MYERS, Ph.D, You and your husband go out for the evening, leaving your three children, two, five an eight, with a baby sitter. When you return, she may tell you all sorts of things about the misbe- havior of these children--that they wouldn't mini her, that they ran and romped through the house breaking some things. Perhaps each of the older children blamed everything on|© the other or on the youngest who was asleep. Neither one told everying as the baby sitter told it. You and Dad asked a lot of questions getting different answers to each. SHOULD PUNISH OFFENDER You saw some of the precious things which were broken and you felt you had to find out which child had broken each thing and punish the offender. But you were puzzled that the answers to your questions were so different. You said to your- self, "Somebody is. lying and should be punished for doing ao"! It was a very unhappy home- coming for both of you parents, ter. You noticed that each child) was angry at the baby sitter) for telling on them, You won-|' dered how she would manage them and get along with them| next time you and Dad went out, WISER WAY You had been wiser, if, when| the baby sitter started to tell| you of the events, you had asked) her to say no more and had| merely greeted the children} warmly, Wiser still you had| been if, beforehand, you had} told the baby sitter not to re-| port anything unfavorable in the} children's presence. | However, it might have been useful information to you par-| ents if this baby sitter had/ made such report to you pri- vately. A desirable objective is to choose a baby sitter whom you can trust to manage the chil- dren well in your absence. Find- ing you have not chosen well, you should try to find a better! one for the future. Failing to do so you still can hardly hope to get desirable re- i ) \ \ \. \ SY Be Sure The Baby Sitter Can Control The Children And when you punish the chil- dren on the report of the baby sitter you fail, as » rule, to im- prove their behavior when left with her again. More likely they will warm up to her less and be less co-operative and obedi- ent, FULL AUTHORITY Choosing a _ baby sitter you and r ble, let her know, in the "pres: ence of the chiidren, that she has full authority over them i your absence. Of course, you will aim to show her how she might win their co-operation by reading to them, playing quiet games with them and guiding them in self- amusement, If you yourself have trained your children while with them to obey you or any other as- signed person in your presence, they should be well prepared to co-operate with and obey a baby! sitter. Fortunate if you have been successful at using chair-sitting when punishment is necessary. Then you may, with consider- able confidence, entrust the |baby sitter to use such punish- ment when she is sure restraint jis desirable, PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Suppose your child, old jenough to write a letter, keeps jneglecting to write a thank-you |note concerning a gift or favor received by him, A. After one or two remind- ers, I would name .a deadline and the penalty if it were not met, being sure the penalty would be forthcoming ff neces- |Sary. Eternal nagging makes all concerned miserable. Ancus-GRAYDON Fryar sage FO RUG & CHESTERFIELD CLEANING Our experts will clean your carpets in your ties 6b 5 So i Ey seth gt tb wer yodne: Proe ome Vey seers . ee BPE lee oe ie gog soue LAYS PEI coer oe French Provincials--6 on Display * Clearing of all floor models . . . no orders . + + just whot's on the floor FROM 188.88 TO 398.88. 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The next meeting will be held to get cleaning jobs done -- as, for instance, clean the bath. room or vacuum the living room while dinner cooks or the washer's running--and you may be surprised to find how easy LODGES AND Ph. - 728- 9191 SOCIETIES PYTHIAN SISTERS nr ee ee ee Salataatadh acuta dita eeeatotenettosotee in A meeting was held bor it is to keep the house order. January 21, at the home of Mrs. Keith Ross, 41 Thomas street. Jan. 8. Flags were p Sisters Lucille Clarke and ary Northey. Twenty-six members attended. Welcomed back was Sister Clara McKay from Ed- monton, Temple No. 1 New officers were installed by PGC Marie Lavender, as- eisted by Grand Manager PGC Jessie Goyne and Grand Senior PC Beatrice Hurst. Installed were PC Kay Large; MEC -- Holt; Senior, Alice Short un-| for, Lucille Clarke; Munsetr. Margaret Stevens; Secretary, Jean Fitches; treasurer, Chris- tine Aitchison; Protector, Edith ior; Guard, Mary Hurst. tary Nancy Murral and her committee served | ments. 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