. And by gang I mean their] As you lack mature self-confi- no rT phn Belmore the|dence in coping with her prob- youngsters with whom they go lems (problems rooted in fam- about; or the "crowd" to whichiily history) and tend to lean on they would like to belong; the her emotionally, I surmise that "set" they admire, for whatever her eagerness to marry is prob- |reason. pm in part a desire to escape If this gang influence is bad,|ffom you. the caventy' © stecipal hope of sore gery ge crash ony turning the tide towards safety weight of your unhapp! 5 Headstrong Girl Contemplates Making Unsuitable Marriage [coms nsmoing ne rome ie f"tnyciodeal_ samp ' from some source, and she tn thew ed pinctahey I am aes _ mage the bebo vironment. doesn't know what to do about separated from my husband and/thing with me, but she hasn't TTE S it. Also, she unconsciously eval- have a daughter, 17, who lives/replied. How can I persuade BE * FREED 4 i Can this be done for yourjuates her potential worth in With wae. one Uae & bey' telomt| Helen thet I Know 'beat? daughter? Are there responsible|terms of your sad showing and the same age. | I have wept and pleaded with) .ongenial relatives somewhere--|has no self esteem. Thus she is cat i a ho = ov to go with ee sg _ say, grandparents; or a comfor- grateful even for a no-account ptishe insults me to my face. "\tably situated uncle and aunt--|suitor. company until the last six)think your answers are fair and|.44.6 environment would auto-| It is from this valley of dis- months. I disapprove of him for|square and I will appreciate) matically provide her with|couragement that she should be several reasons. your advice. E.B. wholesome friends? If so, could|rescued--and not simply from a He has been in trouble several) : A ; a these relatives be persuaded to|threadbare romance--if she is to * times. He loafs at home while|/ NEED LEADERSHIP sigs p make the grade into fortunate ; | : sonsigive her a home for the next both his parents work. And he| Dear E.B.: | Young persons/five has cee aeabuere in reform|your daughter's age are, in the|few years? : womanhood. M.H. school, as his parents can't con-|"ature of things, trying to make| Is there a chance--with the trol their kids. the change-over from childhood|packing of relatives, or friends, : ne I've tried to make Helen see|'0 adulthood. In their passage|oy church or school advisers--of | To remove cranberry -- that he isn't the sort who would|through the teens, they are ihe lege? O jstretch the cloth over a bowl make a good husband; but she|Struggling (as indeed they sending her away to college? Or|ang pour boiling water over it, § THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursdey, December 28, 1961 MARY HAWORTH"S MAIL Karn Drugs DRUG & SUNDRY | CLOTH STAINS insists that she is going to|Should) to outgrow filial depen- to a church-financed school for|using bleach or lemon juice if marry him anyway. My health isn't good and I would like her to stay with me for a while and dency and emerge from paren- tal control, so as to become cap- tains of their own shif»and pro- girls on a scholarship? necessary. It seems to me she will have} to be saved--if she is to be| | look around for a better chance,|ceed on their own steam even-|saved from a crash--by this| JOHN A. OVENS tually. leadership method of opening) Oo tometrist } DOESN'T DENY RIGHT During this transitional phase,|doors to opportunity for her.| p HARE OPTICAL I don't deny ter the right of|they are almost irresistibly par-/ Dismal argument in unchanging} choice but I can see she is mak-/tial to the gang influence, as|circumstances can only swage! ing a bad mistake. I've written|versus the home influence, if|discord and quicken her rebel-|f 8 BOND ST. EAST RA 3-481} the boy's mother, asking her tolthere is a clash between thellious mood. | SAVE 15% SAVE 20% SAVE 25% SAVE 33" SAVE 50« TWO MODERN STORES Take a look at your linen closet .. . would you like to see those shelves filled with a spanking-fresh IN OSHAWA assortment without straining the family budget? Stock-up Now ot Zeller's Low White Sale Prices ! "CHARGE-IT"! NO DOWN PAYMENT! 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