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Vw 6 ey eee ar i ee WORK GOES ON him drop. 'After the age of 60, the intel- ligent candidate for a full happy life accommodates himself to a different pattern of experi- ence. As a very wise woman of 80 once said: "These are the fragmentary years," in which one tries out new roles, of minor importance, perhaps, as com- joy. "Oh, divine master, grant that)any food as may not so much seek to be \ consoled as to console; to be un-|be in a dither. derstood as to understand; to be loved as to love. For it is in giv- ing that we receive. It is in par- doning that we are pardoned.|most to the breaking point. And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life." M.H. sets before him, or as much of | writes: |and one three sirable, attractive food. Don't once. He may go a long time she thinks he should, the whole family may For example, an Ohio mother "We have two boys, one five "We've 'tried letting him eat what he wants, which is very little. We're given him very mall amounts, never loading Occasionally a mother says ie dish full. If I tell him he the problem is straining the| has to clean his plate off, he father - mother relationship al-| gags and forces himself to vomit. At the first mention of eating,.he always vomits. time again for that. Now, we "We've paddled him time and/ | | tell him to eat it but let him/without choosing to eat. any- know that unless he chooses to) thing. Let that be his privilege. do so he will have nothing more|If he should hold out for two or to eat at that meal and nothing| three meals, better consult your before the next regular meal-| physician. time, no matter how much he cries or complains. If he does choose to eat thei lution, may be had by sending (My bulletin, Eating Prob- lems: Their Prevention and So- (CP)--A truck driver travelling BERLIN (AP)--Despite the. along a main highway in Che-| Communist wall through Berlin, | shire didn't have to stop for his} west Berlin's industrial prodyce / tea-break. His load was 90 cases) tion increased by 5,3 per cent im~~ of tea pots, which one by one/|the third quarter of 1961. slipped off the back leaving a|blockade is intended to prevent - six - mile stream of shattered|East Germans working in West. handles and spouts, Berlin. This le part of the pitch of and trimming details change|¥ growing old gracefully. The other part includes cultivating philosophic inwardness -- or with the season, but careful fit- ting is essential, whatever the doctor time and again. He's thin é r and high-strung. Last winter he)ies, which he hasn't refused. had the flu every month, and won't eat, I've offered him cook- "Does he have us completely ence oufbluffed? Everything I pre-;small portion, give him a tiny' THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, December 27, 1961 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL a _-- . CHILD GUIDANCE pare is homemade, yet he'll| portion some other food. i 9 : 3 cate fe | the table and growl and ying < - food Ea ame a self-addressed stamped enve . HELP OTHER! complain," yf be begs for a any , . a 1 Every really mature - minded Mother Asks How To Deal My seeiy, th vats food, be very stingy. Give him| Pe t me in care of this news- NEWS IN BRIEF ea ers n ers an g older person should Lge at Don't tell him he must eat|ly @ very, very tiny portion. paper.) , w 5 mes soemewiet to ea in ine : *1 3! : anything. Say nothing about his| TTY to have a quiet mealtime,| PARENTS' QUESTIONS ISLAND ARTIST Ot Growing Old Gracefully fac'esevresess| With Child's Eating Problems |:iims: int. tine ei et aot ac tty at taate h a cINCSTON a Ca MO me all punishment, Keep all sweet| slat, Tt, would oe eam el Att Uist four hake aaa see ena ; , j i sal "Tor _| By G. CLEVELAND MYERS he's starting this winter to have|and other foods, exe " painter to be made a Fellow of. helped 5 'to ae piel ge ord lite He ise living owen pny peck Where there| I still receive a good many|it again. fruit juices, from pope py ig bag aor once + oe, more hye Bin! the Royal Society of Arts," column, Now let me hel , oulit In effect he is saying: '"Iflis hatred, let me sow love, etters about the youngster) 'Our doctor prescribed an iron og a. Rog mm We help him enjoy making things had we to help him become a plans to attend the New Yorke: with the problem submitted' by| 'can't be young, enjoying or|Where there is injury, pardon. oe ee Pale i Angee acerige spe ego dy> soshn sa po ' with his hands, that would help| better dra py he y tolled Va: - icipati i is doubt, faith. c ah $s 2 meal] \ the wile wha asks wha odo frlaiiiating, the dviends of Where here is doubt fakh|tat ger 'at mealtime. Beis appetite, 'After tha, cogplace before him a very very| tan ogg, Ne eM YO? versity College of the West Iam now despondent at 65. "| Sttorts of life. I give up." So life|Where there is darkness, light,|cause he doesn't choose to eat/ liver oil. Nothing has worked, pa eo, wt more than) yo. won't ai a has SIX-MILE TEA BREAK dies. I am ptesently reading Dr,|takes him at his word and lets|And where there is sadness, the desiragle foods his mother! i wing CHOOSE a teaspo of just one de- HOLMES CHAPEL, England Jeanne G. Gilbert's book Under-| standing Old Age, published by) the Ronald Press. Dr. Gilbert, trained in clinical) psychology, is a member of the| American Board of Examiners) in professional psychology, and) a. lecturer in psychology at the) graduate schools of both Ford- ham and Long Island universi- ties. red to ambitious sustained ex- HOUSEHOLD*HINT send him to his room. Rather) FULFIL NEEDS (ions of earlier times. But| Fit is the foremost considera- al omy yin od F ace fhe than eat one little piece of meat! gl boned ma tg the rea-lone's mind is open, one's spirit/tion when buying gloves. Fash-|is a "bedlam.' He's been like|or vegetable, he prefers to 80) people. Why this. depression? 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